I am married and have kids so finding time to use the aneros is difficult. I had the house to myself for a few hours so immediately got naked and inserted the aneros.
I was expecting immediate results after my amazing session 2 days before.
It didn't happen. I lay there for an hour, got close but couldn't go over into an orgasm. I was disappointed and tried to push it and gave up after an hour feeling very disappointed and frustrated. Every time I had any feelings I think that I just expected it to transform into an orgasm, it had seemed so easy the other night. The more I tried the harder it got and the harder I pushed the less likely it was to work.
I had a rest but had to try again. After another hour I was ready to give up again, the family were due back in half an hour anyway, but decided to have one last try. It was worth it and at last I was rewarded with an orgasm lasting about 20 minutes. I was looking at the clock all the way through thinking I'm going to have to end this soon, which made it a bit subdued compared to my last orgasms but it was definitely a full orgasm.
In my first few orgasms I just rode it, and didn't really notice individual orgasms, this time the waves came and went, and I managed to have 2 orgasms that felt like a normal ejaculatory orgasm by using strong anal contractions to push the aneros up hard against my prostate but these were way more intense and longer lasting.
I think I am addicted.
I went to bed 'early'. Family at home. I thought why don't I just try to do it without the aneros? so just lay on my back and concentrated on allowing the feelings to build again. Within 5 minutes I was orgasming without the aneros!! It was almost as good if not the same. I had to stay quiet and was aware of my breathing and my legs jumping and didn't want anyone to her me. It lasted a good 10 minutes.
My wife then came to bed, went to sleep, and I tried again and had another one very quickly. Don't think she noticed I really tried to keep my legs still.
I am definitely addicted.
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My 21 (actually 23) Day Challenge
My 21 Day Challenge
I was encouraged by one of my Aneros friends to take up the 21 Day Challenge. It is a challenge to refrain from ejaculation for 21 Days. There are benefits, so I thought I’d give it a whirl.
During the time I was on the challenge (which ended up to be 23 days), I learned and experienced a great deal of things.
– I do have the discipline to pleasure myself and keep from cumming.
– There are many ways to enjoy my penis; it was fun finding new ways.
– I have a big capacity to be orgasmic.
– Arousal and the ensuing pleasure needs to be savored.
– I found out that I can have penile orgasms without cumming. And it’s amazing.
– Ejaculation is a terrific thing.
– Edging is more about enjoying the pleasure than refraining from going too far.
I waited to “graduate” until the right time worked out.
I was comfortable, warm, alone, and ready. I edged for about 20 minutes, first. The whole time looking forward to what was to come. There was a sense of relief knowing that I no longer had to control things, but just let it flow. I was A-lessing the whole time too. My whole body was involved in the orgasms, prostate and penile.
Super O and Ejaculation
Today in Chat a few of us compared the sensation of wet ejaculation orgasm and dry Super O’s. I personally am a convert. Super O orgasms are infinitely more pleasurable than an ejaculation is to me. However there are some common feelings that erect my penis by just thinking and writing about them here.
There is a difference in the hunger I experience to have an MMO orgasm. When I crave a prostate orgasm the desire manifests itself deep in my anus. It is a twitching tingling sensation in me, left un sated it will slowly grow to become an insistent throb. I have gotten to the point now that I recognize the sensation of my prostate erecting; the throb I feel is my prostate hardening and filling with blood. With a cock arousal I feel a heaviness tugging on my rigid erected shaft . It seems to dwell deep in my cock root, throbbing and aching in frustration.
To launch A Less MMO’s I need to be fully nude. There is something about nudity and exposure that inspires my arousal and rapid launch. Oftentimes when I travel and I am staying in a hotel and there is an opportunity to leave curtains open so someone might see me on the bed writhing naked in ecstasy, my arousal will elevate and push the MMO to great heights. I have been watched a few times by men and women. To trigger the MMO to start I need to be erect; most of the time I will be erect and ready to launch but if I am not a nice juicy fantasy or a tug or two on my cockhead will get me there.
Austin's great aneros adventure
After reading about Aneros and the idea of reaching a Super-O, I purchased both a Maximus and Progasm Ice. Both of them arrived yesterday, and I could not wait to try them both out this morning. The Maximus seemed less intimidating, so after lubing it up with KY, I laid on my side and very nervously touched my hole with the head of the Maximus. Slowly it slid in and as it went in, almost immediately pre-cum started to ooze out of my penis. Once the head of the Maximus hit my prostate, more pre-cum oozed, but I did not get hard. After about ten minutes, I started getting used to the sensation of having the Maximus in me. The feelings were great, but nothing like what others have mentioned here. I have to say I like the "handle" on the Maximus, and after gyrating my hips around and up and down, the handle helped put pressure on my prostate. I then thought maybe I would be ready for the Ice, and after removing the Maximus and lubing up the Ice, it slid in very easy, and the fullness felt great. I did a several Kegels for the next half hour or so, and did feel a few minor sensations of like a dry orgasm starting, but nothing near the Super-O everyone speaks of. All in all I think it was a good first session. I fought off the temptation to jack off to gay porn, which usually makes me incredibly horny, in hopes that tomorrow's session will be better. There is some soreness from the size of the Ice, but it was a good soreness, I think… Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Frottage
Def: “Frottage is a physical act that takes place between two people of either the opposite or the same sex involving the contact of genitals against genitals. The genitals of the two participants are interlocked as they rub against each other with the intent of arousing sexual desire. The genital stimulation produces increasingly pleasurable sensations; if it is done for significant enough time and the partners are sufficiently aroused, orgasm will result.”
J and I began our relationship doing vagina – penis frottage many years ago. I used to call it “buttering her muffin”. Sorry, what can I say …… I was 22 years old. I would lie on my back and she world straddle my hips and nestle my shaft lengthwise against her vagina so that my cockhead would rub on her clit. She became very adept at rubbing her clit on my shaft, eventually moving her clit to my cockhead when she was just about ready to cum. She loved to see me ejaculating thick streams of my cum on her erect clit. She was a master at timing our orgasms.
Weak week, strong end
Things work well for me on Sundays. Other days, not so much.
During sessions on post-work weekday evenings, after an initial jolt and a fast spazzy run-up to a pale, weak, anemic orgasm, I didn't get much going. Any waves that came around felt like two or three dissonant notes that warbled around but never quite synced into one pure tone. When I got that far, I either couldn't relax well, or I relaxed too well and fell asleep.
That's not entirely bad. A quick early evening nap is pretty satisfying in its own way.
I don't completely understand what my problem was on this Saturday, or previous Saturdays. Figure it should have been a good time for recreational activity, especially one like this that is, so to speak, open-ended. Perhaps because I see Saturday as my day to finish the previous five days of neglected tasks, that's carrying over into areas where it's not useful.
But Sunday was delightful. I get three sessions in, starting almost as soon as I awoke, and none of them was a real dud. Each session on its own feels good enough to make me come back for more. I can't yet achieve waves consistently, but even my inconsistently occurring and short-lived ones are astounding.
Crossing the finish line
Well, it finally happened. Session before last I had my first Super-O. I know I've speculated that I might have reached that before, but there has always been some doubt in my mind. This time, there is no doubt at all. It felt exactly like I've read on the forums and wiki. And it is as wonderful as I could have imagined. I actually ended up having three Super-Os that session, and two more the following session. Now that I know how to achieve one, I am hopeful that this will be a regular occurance. I am also excited to see what else lies in store for me and the Aneros.
-Since I've been using regular )non-rechargeable( batteries, I have been making more use of the 'light-steady' setting on the vibrator, as it's now plenty strong enough to achieve orgasms )including one of the Super-Os mentioned above(. I suspect part of that has to do with my prostate being more sensitive as well. But now that all three vibrations strengths are effective, it's making my sessions more enjoyable….and a bit longer.
-In addition to my Super-O breakthrough above, I also have my first a-less orgasm. I was driving in my car on the way to a night out during the week when it happened. It was small, so not terribly distracting, but still enjoyable. But I had to adjust the way I was sitting, because I really didn't want it to become too much of a distraction while driving. I've been feeling my prostate quite a bit while sitting in both my office and home computer chairs, though nothing beyond that.
Edging both with Aneros and also in Aless
Hi guys,
Most young males when they discover masturbation or are shown it by a buddy encounter one of the most thrilling experiences of their lives. The very first orgasm with ejaculation of semen is a profound experience which happens to most guys in their adolescence, although quite few young males experience dry orgasms even earlier! Masturbation is autoeroticism at its best because masturbation gets a male in touch with his genitals and his body in a most profound way.
However, most adolescent males live at home with their parents and siblings where there is little privacy. So they have "quickies," masturbation episodes in as short a time as possible. That sets them up for premature ejaculation later in life which may impair conjugational relations with the woman they may marry.
However, more experienced masturbators will prolong their sessions as long as possible in order to maximize the pleasure derived from stimulation of their genitals. They learn in many cases a technique called "edging." A guy will ride the edge or threshold of ejaculatory inevitability in order to achieve a bigger "bang" in his orgasmic and ejaculatory pleasure. He will cum big. At the same time, he develops a powerful technique to pleasure his wife first, before actually cumming himself.
With summer approaching here, dawn arrives earlier. This morning, I rose early and got some groceries from my neighborhood 7-Eleven arriving back at 6:15 a.m. Then I prepared my favorite Aneros models for my session which I began around 6:45 a.m.
A fight worth losing
Monday May 4 and Tuesday May 5 closely followed the pattern of Sunday's session: a series of rapid-onset small orgasms, an abrupt calmness that introduced a slow buildup to not-quite-orgasm, and a gradual decompression to the end. The only notable change was that the good tingles got cooking within only a couple minutes of starting.
I believed I was getting the hang of this thing. Tuesday through Saturday cured me of that notion. I just couldn't get anything going. I'd have a small blast of intense pleasure after a couple minutes, and that was it. Sessions ended when I either fell asleep or got bored.
That was frustrating at the time, but I think each session was still a useful experience. I gained a sense of when things aren't working out, and I learned that bailing out of a dud session isn't the same as failure.
Sunday May 10 was wonderful. I burned up half the day in three remarkable sessions.
On that day, I acquired a surprising tendency to vocalize. Previously, except for a pained grunt at climax, I've never made much noise at all during sex. Now I'm making so much noise it might start affecting where I can live.
During one of Saturday's sessions, I was attacked by a gang of five or six orgasms, and they gave me no recovery time between beatings.
“Wha? Another one?”
“Still not done!”
“Here we go again!”
“Fffffuuuuu!”
Rolling Dry O's?
Wore the Helix for like 3 hours last evening while doing yard work. Had to stifle desires to moan out loud while walking around the yard!
This morning when I woke up in bed, I figured I'd get a little prostate massage time in before I got up. I'd been massaging my testicles every couple days for over a year to bump up my testosterone )diagnosed with a very low normal level(, but it's NEVER felt so good as since I've discovered my prostate!!!
Started with massaging my testicals and feather touching my right nipple, and the fun started right away. Pleasure waves. Then the desire to thrust, pre–cum. Played around with that for 15 min. Once the prostate started getting aroused, it felt so good to rotate and move my hips around. It's as though I could feel the inside of my rectum rubbing the prostate, like if the Helix was inside, but it wasn't. Enjoyed that and just moving, thrusting hips for a while.
Then I remembered that I could shake my scrotum )like you see on some of the videos while the guy is having a super–o(. So I started doing that and rubbing my nipple, and things jumped to a higher level.
Really started having the desire to thrust just like during ejaculation, but no semen. Just maybe 5 drops of pre–cum. Dick went from rock hard initially to flaccid. I originally felt like I was building to an ejaculation, but just to be sure, rolled on my side so my dick wasn't touching anything. Shook the scrotum for maybe another 15 minutes on and off.