Does getting fucked and getting your prostate massage differ in sensation?

I’ve been using the aneros for quite a long time now and I want to try and explore something else because aneros got boring, so I bought a dildo and I enjoyed it. In my opinion massaging your prostate is better than fucking yourself with a dildo. What is the difference of getting fucked in the back and getting your prostate massaged? Is it the same? Or it’s just me?

Progressing beyond p waves.

Hi there I’ve been using aneros products for over half a year now and I’m wondering if anyone can give me some advice. Frequently in my sessions I reached a point where I would increase rapidly and arousal and this would build and build and completely involuntary contractions would take over but this would not result in pleasureable waves or any kind of notable building pleasure. It would be more like a massive increase building of arousal. Normally (based off the reccomendations online) I would allow the toy to do its thing without any muscle input from myself.

Now recently the same thing has been happening but now I’ve been able to notice pleasureable feelings down there from what I think and assume is my prostate and this pleasure has built in the same way with involuntary contractions building as well and ends up with me being washed over with gentle pleasureable waves for about 30 seconds. This is very similar to the building of arousal and involuntaries but now it sometimes comes with waves of slight pleasure. These sessions sometimes take me 2 hours of a mixture of doing nothing with the toy inserted or light waves of contractions with the pc and anal muscles.

I’m looking for advice on how to either, increase the speed or frequency at which I can reach these states. Or why sometimes I feel pleasure from this buildup and other times it doesn’t come with any pleasure at all and just an increase in arousal. Has anyone else experienced a similar situation to this? Can anyone give me advice on how to progress.

What do involuntaries feel like?

I’ve been at this off/on for a few years and I’m trying to understand what I’m looking for. In general, the idea is to squeeze your sphincter/PC muscle together and then slowly let off the PC until you start to feel it.

If I’m trying to hold both at 50% do involuntaries feel like a sudden 100%? Just a flutter around 10%? Is it just the PC muscle or do both contract?

Just ordered a progasm! Any advice on how to use it?

Im not new to prostate play, been using a helix syn for over a year now so im not a total beginner or anything, so I decided to buy a progasm based on some posts here and the thought that my prostate isnt getting hit entirely by the syn. Its set to arrive in a couple weeks unless theres some issue delivering to a PO box, so can anyone give any tips for someone who is switching from a syn to progasm? I heard the progasm is a lot more direct where the syn is more subtle and builds up.

Looking for some clarification on what I’m feeling. Be nice to me…I’m new 😊

I’ve read so much about prostate orgasm for *years* just got my first toy.

Ngl…I ordered a toy thinking it was a vibrating toy (I swear I was reading up for hours; I must’ve been too excited!) and when it came, I realized it was not. A prograsm.

I got kinda disappointed, until I realized how good this specific toy could feel. Based on reviews I read and my own, very limited experience.

Though I’m still…confused? Mini-O’s. Super-O’s. P-waves. Involuntaries. Ebbs and flows. Peaks. Dry and wet. My mind swirls! 😧😖

I have definitely not had an orgasm yet; though I thought I was getting there in the moment. I know this because the sensations felt good…but not as good as a penile orgasm.

I have been at this for only 3 nights. The first night, I was a bit overzealous, looking back on it. I ended up on my floor, grinding hard because it was feeling amazing. I was sweating profusely LOL. At that point, I thought I needed really exaggerated movements to feel good. I realized the next night that just lying on my stomach and contracting my PC muscles over and over again was the actual key.

I think I’ve felt “P-waves” now that I read about them. My ass pulsates and I almost feel these deep vibrations in my groin. It’s frustrating because I keep feeling like it’s finally gonna happen, but I just end up hanging there.

Which model should I get?

I have the helix trident and progasm. I haven’t had much success over 6 months of practice (let’s say 1.2 sessions per week avg.) I am thinking of taking the plunge and getting a new model, since there is a sale going on. I was thinking about getting the eupho or eupho syn. I don’t know how the silicone would impact the toy specifically so any input on that would be appreciated. Would it dull the sensations too much to what I hear is already a more subtle model? Input on other models is good, too, though I am not interested in the vice.

Which toy, if you can point it out, awoke your prostate? The first to give you p-waves? First to orgasm? The models are built differently, so maybe there is a vague consensus on which aneros models are more prone to doing this. This question is geared towards people who awoke their prostates through aneros. Any other experiences are welcome,too

Achieving the flutter

Hello guys, I have now spent quite some time along the journey.

I do not have much success sadly and I’ve tried a lot.

Different positions, different lubes, porn, no porn, audio porn, do nothing, flex….

While I usually get involuntaries started, they just feel… like nothing really. I can feel the muscles flex and I feeld the aneros move, but there is absolutely no feeling.

However, a few months ago, I had one session, that was really exciting, it was one of my first sessions aswell. While doing nothing and laying on my back, knees apart, the involuntaries became a flutter that was really pleasurable and started to increase in intensity. It was really feeling like an orgasm was building and I was really quite sure that at the end of that flutter, true bliss was waiting. However, the feeling died down eventually, without sending me over the edge, maybe I overthought it.

The aftermath of this session was my prostate tingling/buzzing for a few dadys and I’m pretty sure that was my best session so far.

However I have never been able to recreate this flutter. I will occasionally get some singulare flutters, but they are only ever a single twitch without being sustained.

Do you have similar experiences? How do you create and sustain the flutter? I’m starting to get frustrated and could need some encouragement.