Am I close?

So I had a session yesterday and it was extremely pleasurable. I was moving my Aneros Progasm with my anal sphyncter for about an hour and it made me feel like I was about to ejaculate (don’t know if this is how it’s supposed to feel). I was really aroused, but I wasn’t relaxed. The point is that the more aroused, the less relaxed I become. However, I didn’t ejaculate (which is not my goal) neither had an orgasm. Have any of you had an orgasm without being relaxed? I always go to a peak and then go down again with no sucess. I can’t go beyond that point. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.

Soreness from Helix

I’ve been using the regular helix for about the past 9 months or so. I’ve had about two or three sessions with really good success. About a month ago I had the best session yet and I’ve been chasing the feeling ever since. There was about a 10 day period where I’d try a session in bed before falling asleep. I typically use silicone lube.

During that 10 day stretch I noticed some soreness/slight tingliness/stingy sensation near my sphincter area. I assumed it was from over using so I took a break for a week.

Next session I got the same sensation. It almost feels like it’s a struggle for the aneros to glide up and down my rectum despite always using plenty of lube. The sensation goes away when I take the aneros out.

At this point it’s almost distracting and I feel like takes away from my concentration.

I’m wondering if a) i need to try a different model, and b) if my rectum is just absorbing the lube too fast? I typically reapply lube at least once in the middle of the session. Also I’m wondering if I’m contracting TOO hard.

How to get support from aneros website?

I bought a toy from the aneros website two month ago, and I haven’t heard from them since. They just run away with a 100$ of mine.

Did anyone had the experience of talking with aneros support? I send then email and opened tickets on their website, and they ignored all of them.

I would buy from Amazon which I trust but they didn’t ship it internationally. So I went to buy directly from the scammers..

Now I just feel cheated out of my money by this scammy website, and got no one to get help from.

So here I decided to try Reddit.

Any advice for this situation will be appreciated!

Erections ruining big O

There are people who try out aneros and don’t feel anything and there are others who easily get big Os on the first try. I would guess most people fall in between these two extreme examples. I think I’m someone who doesn’t have any difficulty on feeling pleasure.
A little background about me… I bought an aneros helix some years ago, like, 7 years ago. I tried it and right from the first time, I felt a lot of pleasure from it. To be honest, the pleasure starts right when I let got the aneros and it touchs my prostate when it accomates by itself.
I have a lot of P waves, a lot of what I think people call mini Os. I can control my sphincter and my kegel muscles easily. If I want, I can successively contract those muscles, which lead to a normal but very pleasurable orgasm with ejaculation. I can even get an orgasm without having the aneros inserted and without using my hands, only contracting those muscles (it takes me some minutes to do it).
But the truth is that I never had a big O.
If i didn’t feel anything while using the aneros, I would think “well, I must be doing something wrong”. But I feel a lot of stuff, so, that’s not the case. I even think that maybe there were times when I was really close of getting one but never got it.
So, I stopped using aneros for no particular reason.
Some days ago, out of nowhere, I remembered to go get my aneros. Again, I started having pleasure almost instantly after the insertion. I had a great session. So great that I did it again some days after the first one.
And for the first time, I think I started having a big O. But as the pleasure intensified, only after some seconds I got an erection and it led to an amazing orgasm with ejaculation, but it ended that starting big O.
When I think about it, during a session, each time I have pleasure, I get an erection. I am a person who gets an erection quite easily. But on those videos with people having a big O, they don’t seem to be having an erection and they maintain the focus on their prostate.

Did I reach it?

Last night I thought fuck it, I haven’t had any progress with this in like a year, I’ll try it again. I smoked a bit of weed and stuck the aneros helix syn in, stuck an hour long porn video on and just had a go. 5 minutes in and all of a sudden my body started to twitch and I got strong tingly sensations all through my body, it felt so odd but really amazing. It last for a good 30 seconds to a minute. Was this a super-o or close?

I so want to just have another go already and try reach it again. What’s the time you’d recommend between each session? I did jerk to finish off last night which I’m not sure affects anything.

Is this lube safe to use?

I just went to the store and picked up a cheap water based lube called “SLiquid” as far as I know aneros toys are supposed to specifically NOT be used with silicon based lubes. Should this SLiquid water based lube be good to use? It even says it uses natural ingredients or whatever because it’s some vegan based lube or something, and I didn’t see the word silicon on the bottle anywhere at all.

My First Aneros Right Now

Okay so I get the trident syn after work, race home and get in the shower, clean up, start prepping,

I’ve been working kegels about a week and done some fingering around in the past. I’ve read every story on here I could.

I get it in, frustrated about everything, my girlfriend, job, depression, everything. I can’t concentrate so I get up go have a toke, come back in after a walk, and now I’m taking selfies. I’m self conscious and a big boi, but I have a nice butt so I’m here now trying to get all the decent angles of my ass without hiding the rest of me too much (not something I’d normally ever do) singing a completely random song, and my p is on fire all of a sudden. It’s been about 2 hours so far.

I’m having to stop moving a round so I can type this. Every move is a shock in my body rn. And definitely the prostate. If you’re ever unsure just be patient it will show itself.

I’m only about a [3] right now high wise so I’m hoping the thc isn’t too responsible for this. Pleasure level is a [5] as well.

I don’t expect anything more tonight, but it’s a bonus. I found the biggest turn on was reading all of your guys’ stories. It really got my penis out of the scenario and focused on the prostate.