4 years and still no dice

It’s been four years since I got my Helix Syn. During that time I’ve also bought the Progasm.

On this journey there have been ups and downs. During a bad session I get nothing. During a good session I’ll leak precum and get some moderately good sensations. I mostly lie on my back with a pillow under my hips. Although I have tried most other positions as well.

I have tried using a lot of lube (coconut oil + water based) and I’ve tried using little. I’ve tried abstaining from orgasm a few days before and I’ve tried the day after an orgasm.

I usually start by doing nothing for a while and then clenching softly. Holding the clench and breathing. I usually play with my nipples during sessions.

Do you guys have any suggestions for me? I see a lot of guys recommending weed as an aid but that’s out of the question for me. I’ve never felt this disheartened about the Aneros, there was always hope but now I feel I’m loosing that hope.

Please help me.

Need some advice on the “do nothing” method

So, hiya everyone. I’ve been chasing the aneros dream for a couple weeks now, and whilst I’ve definitely had some nice feelings, I’ve never truly had anything above a small p-wave.

After reading through here the “do nothing” method has been mentioned a lot and I figured I should try it. But even though I’ve read so much about it I just cant warp my head around it. Like, does do nothing mean not doing manual contractions at all? Literally just lying there and relaxing your anal muscles completely? During my sessions I’m manually contracting constantly and making the aneros “pound” into me, which I’m starting to realise maybe I shouldn’t do.

I’d love to hear your methods for achieving these dry and super-o’s, because am willing to try anything at this point!

Unable to get Involuntary contractions with toy?

I got my Aneros Classic back in August, and have tried the Peridise as well as Trident Maximus since then, and with any of the three toys, I have tried Relaxing and doing nothing, Light constant contractions, medium constant contractions, and heavy constant contractions, as well as contracting for a few minutes then relaxing, but using any of these, I get no involuntary contractions.

Recently I have been getting something that I think might be similar to them however, but they never occur when a toy is in, they occur when I am trying to go to sleep, and are like a twitching/vibrating of the anus.

Is there anything I can try to get these contractions to happen with a toy?

not a super o but pretty good ones

after a month or so from my last go, i had a bit of time to try again. I had abut 45 min or so. Once inserted, it only took a few minutes to start… – i have been in chastity on and off since last Friday. I was nn my bed, just doing nothing, breathing and feeling the sensations on my P spot. Slow movements started and flexing trying to find the right area.. and i a had an O. Not a major one, but pretty good. And for some reason i got out of bed and laid on the floor. Knees up and feet against the wall. that felt good.. i could feel it building again , and i laid on my side.. yep… here we go.. it happened again.. i bit stronger, and lasted longer. i was dripping precum pretty good. But i did not ejac. I do know i was out of breath. and it happened. I was a bit tired after.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

From Aneros and an ‘Optimal’ mind state?
Hi guys,
I was recently asked by a member [quote]…about how to get into the right state of mind to encourage a prostate orgasm to happen…[/quote]That’s a good question which deserves some thoughtful responses from our members. First off, let’s dispense with the word “right” and it’s implied antonym “wrong”, the semantics of which imply too much moral judgment attached to their use. I prefer to use the term “optimal” in lieu of “right”. Second, we need to identify what constitutes this “optimal” state of mind. I think I have a pretty good idea about this but it is just my opinion. Third, we need to identify those practices which will help us get into that “optimal” state of mind. Some of this was alluded to in the thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/7967-identifying-facilitators-to-progress”]Identifying Facilitators to Progress[/URL][/U] so this post could be considered an addendum to that thread. This also ties into [USER=”7188″]rook[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/5228-whole-body-whole-mind-the-mental-side”]Whole Body/Whole Mind – the mental side[/URL][/U] & [USER=”7244″]SteelColdiron[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/6775-aneros-the-essential-mind-state”]Aneros: The Essential Mind State[/URL][/U]

Too Much Bladder Pressure?

Started out with usual routine prep time, with a little extra bit of flex training to try and tire out the muscles beforehand. They were definitely a bit fatigued when starting up with the Peridise. It went in smoothly up to the last nub again, which rested half in and half out, like previous times. Once I had stopped conscious contractions of my anal muscles, there were a few bouts of involuntary ones, and some interesting movements.

However, in this round of “do nothing,” I was interesting in trying to figure out if I needed to have the device in deeper for it to have its full effect. So with a gentle nudge, it went into my anus up to the hilt, with the tabs nuzzled against my outer anus. A few contractions to make sure it stayed there, then I went back to doing nothing, for the most part. For the first half hour, I could feel increased blood flow / my heartbeat in my anus and behind my testicles. There wasn’t really much else going on, aside from the occasional involuntary movement of the device inside me. After about 40 minutes, a gradual feeling of needing to urinate started. Over the next 10 minutes, it got to the point where I really felt like I needed to urinate, even though I did so before starting the session. I tried to breathe through it, but it eventually got to the point where the hour was up, and I had to pee. Walking with the device in was interesting, as was trying to pee with it inside me.

New to Aneros, not sure what type of orgasm

I am new to Aneros, but as a gay (mostly) bottom (also into spanking), I’ve been fucked hundreds and hundreds of times so the progasm is nothing to put in/take out. But wow, it’s definitely the best prostate stimulator toy I’ve ever encountered. I’m not too sure of the “Aneros Cult” terminology you see on here, but what I’ve already experienced is like this. If I just put it in and do nothing, nothing happens; even a little nudging the contractions doesn’t do much. But external movement of the aneros back and forth eventually produces a strong response, with “wavelike” qualities I see people talking about. Although my dick doesn’t get that hard, the orgasm is penile; there is come, although not that much. Not sure what type of prostate-orgasm to call that.

Slow and Steady

Started out with warm, relax, flex, lube as usual. My anus was really enjoying my finger being in there for lubing purposes, so the Peridise went in smoothly. Stayed on my back a little while, doing deep breathing techniques and some gentle anal flexing to get the device into place. Again, it got up to the last bulb, half in and half out of my anus. Decided to keep it there, but did a few more extra gentle contractions while on my back to see if it would go in any further. The movement of the device inside my anus felt good, but it remained in the same position. Was tempted to stay on my back, but rolled onto my right side, as I’ve been having luck with that position lately.

This time with the “do nothing” approach, some slight movements stimulated my scrotum into pulling my testicles much closer to my body, which felt good. Worked on some half-contractions to try and tire my anal muscles out; a poster on the forums mentioned doing this to exhaust the muscles and tricking them into involuntaries. Although I never reached the exhaustion point, the conscious movements felt sweet moving around inside my anus, and there were occasional involuntary spasms that sent shivers through my groin area. These were few and far between, but when they happened, they were nice. Precum was steadily leaking out of the tip of my penis, and the pressure on my prostate wasn’t the same as last session, but it was a little more gradual of a build. Will try to get the Peridise all the way in to the hilt next time, to see if this makes a difference in how it works inside me.

been a bit

Been a bit since last entry.

So a few weeks ago I had a strange session where I got super bad heart burn, long of the short is ended up ‘pushing the energy down’ (see post “first time for everything”) once I did that the heart burn went away like it didn’t exist but along with it any sensations in every session after. So I put things away for a bit and went back old school. Without getting into great details I started to feel intermittent unasked for sensations again, beginnings to a-less orgasm starting to ignite. It was like my prostate was asking “what about me? HELLO! I thought we were friends, where’d you go?” I gave it a few more days to make sure it wasn’t just my mind playing tricks on me, and each day I had the slow quiet ignition. That weekend I joined w/ JR while in the shower. I also happened to do something I don’t normally do, I slowly edged feeling JR rubbing and tickling, staying fully relaxed, enjoying all he offered me. I just let this go and started to ooze cum, felt so relaxing. JR was taking care of me so gently, working over my prostate so slowly, I literally got a hand full of cum (I don’t know why I caught it but I did) and I had ejaculated 2 days before and got next to nothing. I finished my shower but instead of dismounting I decided to stay joined w/ JR (I have masturbated when joined w/ Miss MGX on purpose 2 times before but always dismounted after). He gave me several lovely orgasms during that session, that’s all I can say, I should have wrote it down.