“Disappointing” HFWO during second session


So I (M25) bought an Aneros (Helix Trident) and received it yesterday. While I was waiting for its arrival, I checked a lot of the posts here on reddit to understand what it could do and how to “correctly” use it.

My first time was yesterday, and I think it was a decent first time. Got some satisfying “tingles” within my ass, feeling like pleasing sparkles, don’t really know how to describe it. Also got a lot of erections, as the new sensations of that unexplored territory were turning me on (+ i didn’t jerk off for like 10 days). Not much but I wasn’t expecting some major breakthroughs for session 1.
I tried again tonight. At first I was annoyed by the sporadic erections because they were distracting me. At some point I just decided to “accept” them and i could enter a better relaxation. At this time, tingles/sparkles appeared again. Then, I could feel a pleasing spot (in the ass) that I definitely know gave me sexual pleasure in the past and that i already tried to trigger before I knew all the prostate massagers’ benefits. As my penis was a bit “pumping” on its own, i let the feeling of the pleasing spot getting stronger and stronger and then … I came. Like a regular orgasm but with my feelings focused on the spot (i’m pretty sure it’s the prostate) and not the penis. Since I was not expecting that, I was like “wtf, this is it ?” and checked the towel underneath that was definitely wet.

Helix syn vs Euphro for beginner

I’m a guy who struggle as a bottom (mostly stress and bad experiences which now cause panic and a feel of pain during the penetration).
After talking to many people I’ve decided to work on myself with a prostate massager, and I’ve heard that aneros are the best in the market.

The thing is, I’m not sure what to get. The website suggests the helix syn for beginners but someone in another subreddit told me that the Euphro might be better because it’s more slender and the beginning.

What do you think and recommend?

Thanks in advance 🙂

Keep going (motivation if you’re still chasing an O)

Hi guys,

Ive had an aneros helix syn for about 9 months and used it probably about 9 times or so. Used a cheaper prostate massager before with no results.

I’ll be honest I have had mixed results. Sometimes it feels great and responsive, other times ive not felt much at all. I’ve also got a small 6 inch dildo which I have had some great results with and naturally I thought maybe my prostate is located ‘deeper’ inside me that the aneros can’t reach.

Last weekend, I had a bath, relaxed, smoked a bit of weed and put on [this](https://soundgasm.net/u/kinkyshibby/F4M-Super-O-SLUT-HypnosisProstate-PlayHFOAnerosFdomSpankingStereoBinauralsTrainingConditioningLong). I lubed myself up, prepared myself and just went with it. About 50 mins in I started feeling something building within. My heart rate increased, my legs started cramping and I began bucking my hips (and moaning like a bitch). I was quite high and, the closest I can think of is it felt like I was having a panic attack but the best possible version. I was completely out of control and couldn’t believe my body was reacting this way.

I tried to breathe through and ride it out but it came and went. Over the course of 70 mins I had another few waves of this but never felt like I was going to have a dry O (but got very close).

I ended up riding my dildo and cumming from traditional masturbation but it felt fucking incredible.

Full bladder hits prostate better than Aneros or any other toy I’ve tried, is there something I’m missing?

I’ve tried

* Prostate wands
* Prostate vibrators
* Prostate massagers (moving/stroking model $$$)
* Prostate plugs (EG Aneros)

The longest orgasm I ever achieved was using a full bladder, some soft gentle weight resting above the bladder to rock it, and an Estim pad to lock the kegel exercise muscles.

Cost way less than all the backdoor toys I’ve tried to date.

Is my prostate just too high/low/far from the intestinal wall or something? I know it can vary between guys.

Need some advice.

Hi I am fairly new to butt play. So far I’ve used the B Vibe Snug Plug 2 which is 1.2″ and the Ubberime Splendid Medium dildo 1.5″. I am looking for a prostate massager specifically so I can have both hands free. Someone suggested the Njoy Pfun massager. They said they got a super O from only that toy. I’m still interested in Aneros just because they are so well known. I’m really having trouble making my mind up. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks

Aneros Alternatives?

So I first started getting into prostate play about 6 months ago and got a vibrating prostate massager soon after that. I dont like the massager because of the noise from vibrating and how it numbs my prostate. I’ve been thinking about getting an aneros but the cheapest option I can find is $50. I was wondering if there are any aneros alternatives that are cheaper and are still relatively good quality

Rotating Prostate Massagers?

I have been using aneros (various models) for 8 years.

I never had super O but had some dry os although they’re super rare for me. I suspect my low sex drive is the reason why most of the time nothing happens to me (I use the do nothing method almost every time).

I have hfwos occasionally when things get intense (paradoxically intense many times doesn’t necessarily mean pleasurable). I have premature ejaculation and I think even with the penis not being touched it may have an impact here.

I also have the njoy pure wand and I don’t get much from it, I feel the contact with the prostate but it’s not very pleasurable. I had a lot more success with aneros (I don’t know why).

So I’ve been thinking that maybe a more proactive (but relaxing) toy could help, something like those rotating head’s prostate massagers. I don’t think they will be successful than the aneros but I think I’ll try.

My question is if any of you uses / used this rotating toys what kind of orgasms do you get from it? (Dry or Wet)

And if you tried different models what is your favourite?

I am looking to get dry os more frequently but if it is mainly to get wet orgasms then it doesn’t interest me much (despite the pleasure of wet prostate stimulation orgasms).

Do taller people have their prostate up higher?

Hi there I’m kinda curious because I myself am pretty tall at 205cm (6,9 F) and have recently bought a aneros progasm.
And I really like the feeling of walking with it, but it does not seem to hit my prostate in any position (standing or laying down), but I am able to hit my prostate with bigger dildo’s for example. So I know what I’m supposed to feel but the progasm doesnt do much for me while using it.

Could it be that I’m to tall for the progasm? And if so are there any bigger or longer prostate massagers on the market?

Is too much lube a problem for anyone else?

I have a Progasm. It was my first prostate massager.

Every post I have ever read on any anal play always starts with something to the effect “Apply plenty of lube early and often.”

I find if I use very much lube I can’t keep the Progasm in position. When I exert very much pressure it tries to squirt out. Even when it stays inside it isn’t in the correct position and there doesn’t seem to have enough friction against the prostate.

If I take it out and wipe off most of the lube it works much better.

Would a different style of Aneros be better? Maybe the Maximus Trident which has a narrower neck?

Is it possible my prostate is too far away to feel anything?

Hey. I’m 6′ tall and I have the Helix Classic. All white plastic one. I’ve had this thing for years, but I often go months without using it. I mostly use it when I need help going to the bathroom. Anyway, I bought it for sexual purposes and I just can’t get it going. I know the advice always says to relax, but when I sit with my knees bent, I can’t feel anything. I can manually “suck” it in and make it feel contact with my prostate, but then I’m just 100% flexing and that gets tiring very fast.

That being said, when I have tried things with manual effort I did think ONCE I got very close to orgasm but then I lost it because it was an active mental process. I think I woke myself out of the trance thinking about cumming. Anyway, I know I CAN feel SOMETHING, I just can’t feel much when it’s in. I do feel more when its in and I’m standing though, but then I’m standing.

It’s supposed to rub against me on it’s own isnt’ it? My butt doesn’t “automatically move it around and pull it in” as I’ve seen comments say. I have also had versions of somewhat sitting on it so it presses against me, but that just feels like extra pressure as well. I would like an anal orgasm first and foremost, whether it be from a prostate massager or other anal toy. The issue is my hole is very small. So I’m sure there are longer ones that are ALSO wider, but are there any toys that are small but longer? I’m open to buying another. I just have not managed to get it to work.