Aneros is probably the most well known and used brand around and it’s commonly touted as the gold standard, but is it really that special? I have used some lelo prostate massagers, the njoy pure wand, and some other assorted toys. While it has been very enjoyable, I still haven’t gotten that elusive finish. So, is the aneros toy line worth getting into? While they aren’t super expensive, it’s costly for a non-vibrating toy and I don’t really see how it would do anything for me that those other toys haven’t done based on the design in pictures. Thoughts?
Looking for advice/explanation
Hi everyone! I’ve been toying around with prostate massagers for little over a year now and have really enjoyed my experience so far. While my sessions generally don’t produce involuntary contractions or p-waves, they’re still very pleasurable and a good way to relax.
In two sessions, about 6 months apart, I’ve managed to get these p-waves (i think). During those sessions (first with a leluv nero knock off toy, another with progasm) I felt the pleasure build up (as it usually does), but then suddenly the pleasure grew and began creeping up my body untill my whole body was “tingling” and feeling all around very pleasurable. There were no muscles clenching, I kept on doing what I thought felt good and the “wave” of pleasure passed after 10 second on the first time and after approx. 1 minute on the second.
The first session I did manual contractions until it got to the point where I tried to keep relaxed, but the contractions sort of were automatic. After a while this resulted in the first wave of pleasure.
The second session I tried breathing deeply in and out of my belly, and after a while the wave came and passed.
Since these two sessions have been so pleasurable, my question stands: is there a way to “cheat” yourself into feeling these sensations on a regular basis?
First week using aneros
Hello! Today marks one week since I got the Aneros and I am in love. Previously, I had no experience with anal pleasure at all, but now I feel like when I first discovered masturbation. I can’t resist the temptation to play with it at least twice a day. The thing is, as nice as it feels, I feel like I’m on a kind of plateau.
The first two days were nice, with feelings of tingling in the prostate, but no pleasure.
On the third day, I had the first involuntary movements and signs of pleasure.
The fourth and fifth days were really fun, with much more intense sensations that lasted for minutes, my breathing and pulse accelerated, and my dick got hard from the feeling. Now, the sensations start within minutes of inserting the Aneros, and when I’m not using it, I feel an urge to use it soon. It’s really nice and awkward at the same time.
The sixth day was very much like the ones before, but now my dick got rock hard, and at some point, I had involuntary hip thrusts. It felt like I was about to cum (high pleasure), but then the feeling subsided and started again, with no real “finale” like when you cum from traditional masturbation.
No success without weed
So I’ve been experimenting on and off with prostate play for about 5 years now but without any real success until I started experimenting with Mindgasm in January. Even then I just felt like I was on the right track rather than actually having outright success. Weed isn’t something I would usually use but I decided to make up some cookies (smoking makes me nauseous) and instantly my sessions were transformed. Still no actual climax but I was getting some real pleasure and lots of moments of feeling like I was on the edge of some kind of climax. Anyway, I’ve now run out of cookies and would rather not use weed long term (I have problems with addiction so need to steer clear really) but my sessions since are pretty much void of any pleasure – maybe some very mild pleasant sensations but nothing much. I try not to end any of my sessions with traditional masturbation but I find it hard to go more than a couple of days without penis stimulation. The only thing I can think to try is a longer time abstaining from traditional masturbation to help with rewiring. Any thoughts from others? Especially from people who are having success without the support of THC?
Hfwo without any pleasure
I’ve been practicing prostate play sporadically for over 10 years, mainly with Aneros products. I’ve had some success, but nothing close to a super-o or the intensity of a traditional penile orgasm.
I’ve tried every technique you can think of, but every session seems to have the same results – little to no pleasure for the entire session, but still always end with an ejaculation.
Just before the ejaculation however, my heart often starts to race and I feel some sort of buildup, always in the penis, for just a couple of seconds before the release. It doesn’t matter if I am totally relaxed, holding a contraction or pushing out. The ejaculation seems inevitable.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I leak quite a lot of precum and I’m always very horny during the sessions. I think I’m in the right mindset, just trying to focus on the sensations and not forcing anything, without any expectations and enjoying every session for what it is. But now my motivation to continue starts to fail.
Does anyone have the same problem? What am I doing wrong?
My prostate doesn’t feel good when it’s massaged
So it doesn’t matter if I touch it with my finger or use my Aneros with or without vibration. My prostate doesn’t feel good or bad when it’s massaged, it feels about the same as using your index finger to massage your knee.
I get myself completely aroused and can feel the massager but no real feeling if that makes sense, it’s just there.
My Aneros only feels good when in full power vibration mode, and it’s not my prostate that feels good, it’s the surrounding area. I’m doing the wave thing with my muscles to make it move and massage in there, it just doesn’t have that good feeling I hear everyone speak of.
Should I try to relax my urethral muscle during a session?
Based on my understanding so far, it is easier to stimulate the prostate if I could relax my urethral sphincter, while it just always contracts irregularly.
Should I focus on relaxing the urethral muscle during a session? Or should I just let my body go like many ppl say?
Can You Prostate Orgasm After Ejaculation?
I’m holding my fapping urge to do sessions, now I have 1st session without much progress. And now I want to fap so badly, can I still resume my prostate session after ejaculating?
My Progasm session
Last nite I got to bed early with a planned session.
The Progasm was my prostate buddy for this.
Lubed up on my side….and slowly inserted the Progasm.
This needs some patience because of the shape.
This toy is not my most used one..i have to be in a ‘I need to be fucked modus’
With some breath control and pc muscle control my prostate welcomed the partner in crime.
In a few minutes my body was in motion and orgasm after orgasm took over….some more intense with precum drippin out.
I had an agreement with myself for a 2 hour session…because of a lack of sleep.
Other thing is the fact that the Progasm totally worn me out with a lill irritated/pain-ish rectum.
Still totally satisfied.
I hipecyall don’t mind – I am going to use this account to document my aneros/prostate play journey. I will post mostly to my profile but when I have a break thru or questions, I will go ahead and put in r/aneros.
A little about me: 47 years old, married for 17. I am a complete newb to solo prostate play. My wife has tried to stimulate my prostate with a finger and a toy before, but I’ve never felt anything but uncomfortable. The last time she tried, I googled why I’m not getting anything good, and eventually found Aneros and that’s why I’m here.
I purchased the Helix Syn Trident and finally had the opportunity to try it last night. I asked my wife for some “alone time” where I wouldn’t be disturbed. I took a quick shower to clean up and then a nice, long, hot bath to relax. I hopped in bed, lubed up, and worked the Aneros in…slowly. when it inserted, it felt completely fine…not uncomfortable at all, but I knew it was there.
I put on my headphones and listened to mindgasm – the first lesson. It went great! I definitely had involuntary contractions as I flexed my base – like my hip and thigh muscles were pulsing, in addition to my PC muscles. I enjoyed it so much I went to the second. lesson two was about vibrating the sweet spot -I was able to do that once but could not repeat it.