My path to Super-O

TL;DR:

1. Avoid jerking off watching porn
2. Let go of control
3. Size of toy may not matter that much

Hi there, since a few weeks I got the point I can reliably summon Super-Os. So I thought it is a good idea to share what worked and what did not for me.

Like many of us, I read tons of guides, some of which were contradicting others and kept me confused. Moreover many guides are written by experts who already achieved Super-O and are somewhat harder to interpret by people who are in the beginning of the journey. I hope this will be useful.

2019:

### Jan

Received Lelo Bruno. Manual toys are oldschool and cool kids should get battery powered toys, right?

### Feb

Had around 5 sessions with Bruno while watching regular porn in front of the PC. No luck. Jerking off with vibrator in did somewhat improve orgasm but nothing to write home about. Realized I needed to research more and there is not going to be a delayed gratification thing, again.

### March

Got MGX trident. Tried steps from the wiki (breathing, contractions, CaveOfMystery method, donothing). Absolutely no pleasant sensations whatsoever. I did notice sometimes during exhale combined with some very specific PC contraction there was a “feeling”. It was not pleasurable but not unpleasant either. Motivated by some progress, decided to help my prostate awake by ordering another gadget. We all know ordering stuff online is the way for the win.

Did I reach it?

Last night I thought fuck it, I haven’t had any progress with this in like a year, I’ll try it again. I smoked a bit of weed and stuck the aneros helix syn in, stuck an hour long porn video on and just had a go. 5 minutes in and all of a sudden my body started to twitch and I got strong tingly sensations all through my body, it felt so odd but really amazing. It last for a good 30 seconds to a minute. Was this a super-o or close?

I so want to just have another go already and try reach it again. What’s the time you’d recommend between each session? I did jerk to finish off last night which I’m not sure affects anything.

Question: Just bought my first aneros.

Like the title says, I bought the helix syn today (or whatever the red and black one is called) and should be getting it in the mail eventually. I had experimented with prostate play before but could never get *anything* to happen at all. Now that I’ve finally bought it, what are some things you guys think I should know for a beginner? I’m ready to dive into this head first now that I’ll have a proper toy that can do stuff. Should I be watching porn? Should I listen to some erotic audio while watching porn? How long should I hold off on masturbating before using the toy? Should I edge before using it, if so for how long? I just want to be sure I don’t mess up my first experience with it or anything as I will only get the chance to use it very rarely.

Routine

How many guys follow a specific routine leading up to aneros sessions? Lately for me it’s been to insert an nJoy large plug at least an hour before I start and continue to go about business letting the plug warm me up. It also helps me evacuate any lingering bowels for some reason. I then take it out and typically will hit a THC pen, take a hot shower and edge for a bit in the shower, followed up with some casual porn viewing and maybe more edging. At this point I’ll insert the aneros and watch a little tv while I let it settle, then watch more porn but not touch myself at all. I’ll start to get involuntaries about 30 min in at most and at that point I’ll turn porn off and put in some wireless ear buds and listen to some binaural beats. I’ve been doing this for the past couple sessions with some moderate success. Oddly enough the best time has been when I was laying in bed next to my wife.

What have you found works and doesn’t work in terms of routine?

Thank you Helix Syn

Bought an Aneros Helix a few days ago and (after escaping family) finally had a chance to play (I had a 4 day load built up). I’ve never had much luck in past attempts at a prostate orgasm, but the aneros seems to hit my spot exactly. Played for 25 mins or so (porn, nipple play, and poppers helped), then I felt the feeling build. This is about as close as I’ve gotten in the past, but tonight I kept working. Suddenly, BAM! My cock erupted on it’s own, and I felt no loss in my horniness. I rested a minute then kept going. The next waves came quicker. In all, I had about 4 great orgasms before I tapped out. Absolutely amaxing! Going to try for more than 4 next time!

Porn to wake up the prostate?? 🤔

I was hanging out in the Aneros official chat and getting some tips from people, and one guy suggested that the reason I can’t get my prostate to wake up is because I’m using it a setting so far removed from where the vast majority of my sexual activity has been in the past, which is, y’know, in front of a computer screen, sitting in a computer chair. 😓 Nearly all my aneros sessions have been lying down, eyes closed.

I guess the idea is to use your old sexual habits to build a “bridge” of sorts and arouse the prostate. Once the prostate starts finally making some noise, you burn the bridge and do the kinds of sessions you originally wanted to.

I’m trying to quit porn but I relapsed to give this a go. I’d really like my aneros to do fucking *anything* lol. 😅 But yeah it didn’t work for me on my first go, which isn’t saying much, since nothing does. Might work for you!

I’ll probably give it one more shot then it’s back to the drawing board again.

That’s it. Just thought I’d post this here incase anyone else is struggling and wants to try a different approach.

Weekend sessions = Progress!

Tried various different positions to maximize movement and it’s seemed to have helped. Keeping my feet up against a wall seems to be the best, or having my feet resting on a box off the bed works as well (someone had also posted about having their feet over the couch as well, haven’t tried that). A few things to note:

– I think I’ve actually “located” my prostate, it’s taken some time to figure out the spot to hit. Now it feels like I can ride that for much longer
– Breathing is key as it provides that “come here” motion
– Mini-O happened I think? It definitely felt like I climaxed but without ejaculating. No involuntary shakes but felt damn good
– Porn with more audio and “more vanilla” is much more stimulating
– Still trying to find the best spot for the p-tab, suggestions?
– THC does wonders but I wish that I could smoke it mid session vs before (since the recent reports of vape pens, I’ve gone back to regular bud)

My session on Saturday was probably the peak, and today I feel like I can still feel that buzzing.

Avoiding the dick or edging before a session?

I’ve been playing with my Aneros (Helix Trident) for7-8 months now, every now and then, and I never achieve a hands free orgasm. I will try new postures and maybe I’ll buy an Eupho, but I’d like to know if I should try a different strategy.

So far, what I do is refraining for masturbating for 3-4 days, sometimes even more than a week, and without never touching my dick, get very aroused with porn and go with it, playing with my Helix Trident. I never get to the point, never. Sometimes I’m more relaxed, sometimes I’m less, sometimes I get more pleasure, sometimes less… And lately, sometimes I barely feel pleasure. It depends on the day, but I never get to any kind of resolution or great pleasure. I can notice when I get more aroused, rarely my prostate swells, and I feel more pleasure. But no orgasms of any kind.

So now I was thinking… What if I watch good porn and jerk off for a while until reaching the edge… and then rest for a bit and get into the prostate play with my Aneros? Would that be more effective than avoiding my dick? Or it could be cheating in order to get a penile-induced orgasm more easily?

I’d like to hear your thoughts or if anyone has tried this approach instead of the total deprivation of penile stimulation.

Thank you.

Trying the Maximus Trident tonight

So I have the Progasm and Helix Syn. Maximus Trident arrived a few days ago and tonight will be my first session.

Do you guys have any tips and tricks to try out? Any position that did the trick for you? A lot of lube or a small amount. Porn or no porn? I know some like to listen to ambient sounds, links would be appreciated.

Basically I’m looking for what made you go over the edge and achieve the much coveted super o.

Kind regards