Porn to wake up the prostate?? 🤔

I was hanging out in the Aneros official chat and getting some tips from people, and one guy suggested that the reason I can’t get my prostate to wake up is because I’m using it a setting so far removed from where the vast majority of my sexual activity has been in the past, which is, y’know, in front of a computer screen, sitting in a computer chair. 😓 Nearly all my aneros sessions have been lying down, eyes closed.

I guess the idea is to use your old sexual habits to build a “bridge” of sorts and arouse the prostate. Once the prostate starts finally making some noise, you burn the bridge and do the kinds of sessions you originally wanted to.

I’m trying to quit porn but I relapsed to give this a go. I’d really like my aneros to do fucking *anything* lol. 😅 But yeah it didn’t work for me on my first go, which isn’t saying much, since nothing does. Might work for you!

I’ll probably give it one more shot then it’s back to the drawing board again.

That’s it. Just thought I’d post this here incase anyone else is struggling and wants to try a different approach.

Weekend sessions = Progress!

Tried various different positions to maximize movement and it’s seemed to have helped. Keeping my feet up against a wall seems to be the best, or having my feet resting on a box off the bed works as well (someone had also posted about having their feet over the couch as well, haven’t tried that). A few things to note:

– I think I’ve actually “located” my prostate, it’s taken some time to figure out the spot to hit. Now it feels like I can ride that for much longer
– Breathing is key as it provides that “come here” motion
– Mini-O happened I think? It definitely felt like I climaxed but without ejaculating. No involuntary shakes but felt damn good
– Porn with more audio and “more vanilla” is much more stimulating
– Still trying to find the best spot for the p-tab, suggestions?
– THC does wonders but I wish that I could smoke it mid session vs before (since the recent reports of vape pens, I’ve gone back to regular bud)

My session on Saturday was probably the peak, and today I feel like I can still feel that buzzing.

Avoiding the dick or edging before a session?

I’ve been playing with my Aneros (Helix Trident) for7-8 months now, every now and then, and I never achieve a hands free orgasm. I will try new postures and maybe I’ll buy an Eupho, but I’d like to know if I should try a different strategy.

So far, what I do is refraining for masturbating for 3-4 days, sometimes even more than a week, and without never touching my dick, get very aroused with porn and go with it, playing with my Helix Trident. I never get to the point, never. Sometimes I’m more relaxed, sometimes I’m less, sometimes I get more pleasure, sometimes less… And lately, sometimes I barely feel pleasure. It depends on the day, but I never get to any kind of resolution or great pleasure. I can notice when I get more aroused, rarely my prostate swells, and I feel more pleasure. But no orgasms of any kind.

So now I was thinking… What if I watch good porn and jerk off for a while until reaching the edge… and then rest for a bit and get into the prostate play with my Aneros? Would that be more effective than avoiding my dick? Or it could be cheating in order to get a penile-induced orgasm more easily?

I’d like to hear your thoughts or if anyone has tried this approach instead of the total deprivation of penile stimulation.

Thank you.

Trying the Maximus Trident tonight

So I have the Progasm and Helix Syn. Maximus Trident arrived a few days ago and tonight will be my first session.

Do you guys have any tips and tricks to try out? Any position that did the trick for you? A lot of lube or a small amount. Porn or no porn? I know some like to listen to ambient sounds, links would be appreciated.

Basically I’m looking for what made you go over the edge and achieve the much coveted super o.

Kind regards

Huge orgasm using Progasm Ice, was it an anal/prostate orgasm or regular from grinding?

Ok so I just had an incredible orgasm. I basically popped in my Progasm Ice and started watching porn. I was wearing some tights and a leotard over it as that’s my fetish. I had it in for upwards of an hour doing the contractions and not feeling too much, but I noticed after a while that sort of air humping / moving my crotch up and down felt nice.

I continued this until I decided to go on my front, at which point I found that grinding my crotch against the bed and clenching my butt felt really quite good. Eventually I end up seeing this girl in the porn I was watching masturbating, she was incredible, and then as I started grinding more I started to get the feeling I would normally if I were close to orgasm.

Eventually it peaked and I came really hard, the whole thing was completely handsfree. The clincher for me is that I have never ever had a handsfree orgasm. I was most likely getting a bit of penile stimulation from grinding against the bed but was certainly getting good anal feelings too.

Was this an prostate orgasm? At least I’m heading in the right direction. What should I try next?

Need some advice

I am quite familiar with anal play, and have been doing so 2-3 times most of the weeks during the last 6 or so years.

I have been able to get (what i believe is) anal orgasms with manual stimulation. Yes they are good, but not mindblowing. It feels like you are pushing out with your entire body. It was not long ago i got my first.

Anyhow, i have been playing with the aneros for about a year, maybe more. It is always my foreplay to anal sessions nowadays. I have had some p-waves every now and then, where i do feel good, and feel a pressure in my stomach (a bit higher than the prostate, i believe).

I have been trying different teqhniques for a prostate orgasm, but no luck. I dont seem to get a lot of contractions going on. Neither with manual or static stimulation. Fast strokes, slow strokes, shallow, deep. My prostate/asshole just wont start the unvolentaries. Binaural beats, porn, no porn, instructionals and so on.

And yes, i am trying my absolute best to relax. I also believe i do manage to do this.

Any pointers for a guy who have plateued after trying anything i can think off and more? It would be much appreciated.

Wait … so can my prostate massager (not aneros, nor shaped like them) help me achieve these Super Os??

So I’ve been playing with a vibrating prostate massager — looks like [this](https://www.amazon.com/Rechargeable-Electronic-Relaxation-Massaging-Waterproof/dp/B07QD6YR41/ref=sr_1_4?keywords=prostate+massager&qid=1561702108&s=gateway&sr=8-4). I usually watch porn, sitting on a towel over my chair, turn on the vibration, insert and jack off. Definitely a great feeling when I bust my nut.

BUT you guys are talking about a **whole** **different** **experience** — more relaxed experience, hands free, usually with a thinner, non-vibrating device — that slowly builds up to a non-ejaculating orgasm that potential comes in waves. And this requiring practice and patience.

I definitely want to try this but before I buy one of these Aneros models or Peridise, I wonder if I can just use my existing toy but in the recommended manner of lying down, focusing on sensation, and turning off the vibration.

I figure both are designed to hit the p spot, right? I know the Aneros devices are meant to work on their own with only the aid of your anal muscles. But is there a reason that my toy can’t do that same thing or is there a specific design element to the Aneros toys that makes it different.

Thanks!

Peridise – I finally get it.

Like, *fuck.* I have no issues with having prostate orgasms with my other aneros toys. I’ve even had a couple with no toys, but I definitely prefer to have the toys. But, I digress.

I was bored, surfing porn on Reddit on my couch. I don’t like toys while sitting, but decided to get the peridise because it doesn’t have the tabs. Popped it in, sat back down and went back to porn.

After about 15 minutes, my body started auto-fucking me with the toy. Felt *really* good. I was surprised! I’ve never had much success with it before. Another 10 minutes or so, and I decide it’s time to go lie down and play this proper.

So I get relaxed, on my side, and the auto-fucking doubles down on me. I feel like someone is jerking off my entire spinal cord. Like, *fuck*, you guys. I love my aneros sessions, but this was so alien to me. Similar, but also so different. My cock started throbbing through the auto-fucking, my calves quivering, and I swear it was steady going for like, 12 minutes solid.

It wasn’t like a prostate orgasm, where they can layer over each other, weave in and out and do fancy tricks. This was one thing, long, and fairly linear. I don’t honestly know if this can layer, how this works.

But holy fuck, I cannot *wait* to explore this even deeper.

“Oh, Jock!”

Introduction
I have recently ‘rediscovered’ my regular jockstrap collection which consists mostly of swimmer’s jocks. I used to wear them all the time while swimming daily. It wasn’t so much to control my erections, but rather to remain ‘modest’ if I were to get one while in the pool. About a year ago, I decided to forgo the jocks and just wear my jammers. But some of these jammers will not hide nor hold an erection all too well. I am tempted then to start wearing a jock under my jammers again!

I am currently at Day 3 of SR and Day 88 of NoFap ® PMO. I will discount the recent ‘edging’ session/fantasy I experienced as a relapse since I believe that I had exited my ‘flatline’ and that activity was just a manifestation of my body’s returning back to a more normal libido. That feeling persists today; let me explain…..

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While I still enjoy wearing my jockstraps with cups, I find that wearing my regular jockstraps give me the opportunity to ‘test’ my erection through visual cues of my package and through light, delicate touches on the pouch to see what effect they can elicit. While doing this, I can’t help but fall-into a fantasy that it is actually a lover’s hand doing the exploring! Those light touches, even from my hand, can trigger an erection. This is an opposite, albeit more normal, sexual response than relying on porn or (in my case) binaural beats* for that erection. It is almost as if my cock is on a ‘hair-trigger’ for an erection now and that is the way it should work! After all, when a guy is in a situation where he ‘needs to perform’ with an erection, he does not want to think about whether he will get one or not, it should just be automatic! Any thoughts of ED should be put far-away out of his mind.