Not quite sure what happened..hips rotating (21 male gay)

I have had my aneros (a Progasm) for a few months now, but kind of went off it as I found that when I used it my sessions wouldn’t really go anywhere. However, lately I decided to give it another try, as I had been craving the feeling of it inside me, the point of lying in bed at night and performing random voluntary contractions to remind me of the stimulation of it.

I lubed it up with Boy Butter and inserted it slowly, after teasing my hole with the end of it for a few minutes. Now in general, I would say that I had a good session, but there weren’t any dry orgasms or hfwo. There was a distinct moment where I was watching this gay porno, getting so turned on, that felt like I needed to contract really hard on it, and moving my hips in a circulator motion. There was excitement and definitely some precum, but it wasn’t amounting to anything concret like a dry orgasm or a super orgasm. My main goal is not actually to have a super orgasm, but dry orgasms. There’s a great porn hub video of a guy achieving 36 orgasms and moaning in ecstasy, while he is on all fours and in various different positions. I want the aneros to consume my hole and rewire my brain into craving a new form of sexual ecstasy. I stayed relaxed in the session and focused on thoughts of sex and the videos I was watching, as well as imagining the device inside me – that seemed to be quite a turn on. But I didn’t get anything concrete. I even touched my nipples. It was a good session but I’d love some advice as to how I could maybe have gone further. Also, as a rule, do you avoid taking it out and then putting it back in again? And, lastly, the position of knelling by the bed and arching my body over it appeared to work quite well but I was worried about the device falling out, and my head was not comfortable – I wasn’t sure where to put it essentially. Are there any tips for that position/people who do it that way?

I think im very close to having a super-O

In todays session I think I had two dry orgasms or mild super-O’s. The first one was very intense, it was pretty late to my session and I just was scrolling some porn and doing some light contractions on my aneros and then something happened and my whole body startet shakin and waves of pleasure from my prostate. It lasted couple of minutes. What do you guys do to end the session? In a wet orgasm? How do you even have a wet orgasm with aneros? 🙂

How to transition from wet to dry?

Can anyone give some advice one how to transition from having HFWO to dry?

I am finally at the point where It seems like I can reliably have a wet orgasm in less than an hour. (30mins is the fastest so far!)

What works for me is inserting the toy, put on porn and play with my nipples. As I start to get an erection the pleasure builds up and feels great. Once I have a full erection the feelings progress as i start to do some light contractions but eventually the feelings sort of die off. At this point I take a short break (1 or 2mins) to find a different video and repeat the cycle with each time feeling better than the last until a HFWO.

Will this ever get me to a dry O or should I start looking elsewhere?

And help or previous post for reference would be greatly appreciated

Hiatus and Arousal (Re-Posted)

I think I have reached a hiatus and can’t seem to derive a lot of pleasure from my Aneros recently. It feels dull if I’ve masturbated or had sex recently, or I get extremely overexcited without masturbation and sex, so I often end up masturbating instead, which loops back around.

If I try and hold back to not ejaculate for several days, I know the sessions can still be mind-blowing. But I get so aroused I am unable to work or study and end up watching porn and masturbating. There’s nothing else I can think about all day, except teasing myself and I cannot find enough time to have a lengthy Aneros session. I also have to think of ways to avoid ejaculating during sex.
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If I ejaculate through sex with my partner or masturbation, I cannot reach the same level of satisfaction through prostate play for several days, even if I find time for it. I am either not interested or the sessions are dull.

It is also difficult to learn to combine my solo sessions with regular sex with my partner, and that does not always go well. He is simply not interested in trying any toys (including Aneros) himself, and does not understand my desire to have solo sessions independently. I should be happy about that as in he only wants me when we have sex, but I have always been a more sexual person, and I am fascinated by Aneros and prostate play. What was your journey in learning to combine sex or masturbation and Aneros Use? And how do you deal with the refractory period that follows after ejaculating when it comes to prostate play? I suppose it is a learning experience to get to a place where I can rewire and combine both, or enjoy both without affecting the other. This is just one of those things that I haven’t yet mastered.

7 years and counting

So, I’ve been on the journey for around 7 years now. I started with the Helix Syn. Then I got the Progasm Ice and finally the Helix Trident.

Alll three have given me different sensations but none have pushed me over the edge. I probably like the Helix Trident best and he’s definitely my go to. I haven’t really used the Helix Syn for some time as the material seemed to cause me a little bit of discomfort.

Now as I said. All three have given me good sensations. I’ve tried pretty much everything with all of them. Doing nothing, doing something. Holding at a low pressure, doing straight up Kegels and/or Reverse Kegels.

Laying on my side, my back and my stomach. Standing up, kneeling. Hard surface, soft surface. Watching porn, not watching porn. Listening to binaural sounds. Abstaining and not abstaining.

I tend to leak pre cum quite freely during sessions, and I go from soft to hard and back again a few times.

Don’t get me wrong, I love the Aneros, and I tend to reach for it whenever I get a private moment. But I will admit that I am starting to lose the sheer excitement I had for the first 3-4 years.

Do you guys have a pro tip I should try to maybe reach the next step? Pretty much willing to try anything. I’ve seen a lot of guys make great progress using weed and/or gummies but that’s out of the question for me.

I’ve unlocked amazing pleasure

I’ve been on a quest to unlock receiving pleasure from prostate play as well as aless for a while now. Every now and then I would have an enjoyable session with my aneros but I never had patience to rewire correctly.

I finally decided that this was an important goal of mine after reading success stories and other posts from those who have learned how.

Well, I decided that traditional “jerking off” was off limits. With that, I also stopped watching porn constantly. I told myself that from now on, I only want to receive sexual pleasure from anal / prostate play.

I also decided that I was going to start practicing nipple play and meditative breathing.

It’s been about a week and a half and I have been more horny than I have ever been in my entire life! The feeling is off the charts crazy good!

I’ve been away on vacation so I haven’t any privacy nor do I have any toys with me. However, every time I am in the bathroom and even just lightly touch my nipples, I instantly get ROCK hard and start leaking precum. I can literally feel my prostate swelling up and start throbbing.

Every time I take off my boxers there is literally a stream of precum that I have to wipe off with a tissue. Lol.

my journey + looking for someone for aneros sessions

So long story “short”: I’ve known aneros for 3 years now, bought my helix syn trident in 2019 and it’s one of the best sex toys I’ve ever bought. So here’s how it went

may 2019:
I buy my helix syn trident online after reading about prostate orgasm and full body orgasm. I try it, don’t feel much, but it’s still pleasurable, a feeling of “warmth” in my ass, but I always end up sleeping. So i use it very rarely and usually masturbate with the aneros in.

november 2019:
seeing videos of guy fucking themselves with dildos, I buy one and have huge 100% hands free orgasms and sensations I never ever experienced before.

may 2021: the past year and a half I literally never used my aneros, and occasionally rode my dildo. It is by far wayy more pleasurable but also requires a lot of time, lube and it can be pretty tiring! so bc I’m lazy I often just wanked.

I was taking my finals at college (4 days with exams from 8 am to 4 pm) and needed something to relax a bit. At this point I had almost totally forgotten about aneros, I thought that dildos were way better. But searching for old stuff in my bedroom I find my helix syn trident and decide to give it a try.

A glimpse into the abyss?

Let me start by saying last night was my best session so far. I’m not sure if it was my uninterrupted night at home, my new shower gel, my newly found audio to listen to, my 4 days of abstinence, or my freshly minted Brazilian but I was hot to trot last night. Showered, relaxed and crawled into bed. Watched one porn clip which really got me going. Headphones on, lights out and within minutes my involuntary contractions were pumping me. Deep breathing and focusing on not clenching kept the waves going and then whack! the hfdo’s started. Rolled through about 6-10 of those and was starting to notice some weird sensations, like someone was sitting on my chest and then involuntary clenching of my eyes! I started to notice that the eye thing was possibly linked to the audio, which was super weird, like I was being controlled by the music. Whole session lasted about an hour and I was done. Magical night (and morning actually, I backed it up again this morning).

I get what people say about super o’s now. I think I caught a glimpse of it last night. Hopefully I can build on it next time (aka tonight!)

https://youtu.be/ULls1aPcAgk this is the audio I was listening to.

Helix Trident Classic.

No drugs.

Re-wiring question

So a little bit about me, I’m 26 and have been using my aneros for years now. I’ve come really close to experiencing what I imagine being a super o. I’ve had amazing full body sensations and have been at the point of breathing heavy and heart racing. I’ve deff made really good progress over the years. However I know there is more to come and I feel as if I can’t get past a certain point.

Tbh, even an amazing session, I tend to crave an orgasm and up until now, have always ended my session with porn and jerking off. From what I’ve read and experienced, porn doesn’t help as it puts you into “overdrive” and jerking off can hinder, if not stop the re-wiring process.

My question is for those that have been able to cross the bridge in to super-o land…Did you cut out porn and masturbation completely along your journey? And if so, did it make a big difference?

help!!!!!!!

Like many people here, I’ve been struggling to hit the elusive hfo for about a year. Here is some info:

1. I use the helix syn trident mostly, but I also have the pure wand and a dildo (both of which don’t do too much). Im trying to use what I have instead of buying more toys. Budget conscious to a point
2. I’ve read multiple posts and the faq over and over as well as other research on other subreddits and forums
3. I’m not rushing the process, but trying to enjoy it (which I do)
4. I give at least a week between sessions with no release between
5. I do enjoy the process, but would like to take it to the next step
6. I must admit many times I finish a session “manually” because I feel like I need a release to end
7. I know many people here get hfo within days, others after years
8. Poppers and other similar options are not possible at this time
9. I’ve used mindgasm and other tools
10. Not watching porn during sessions, etc.

Are these my only options:
1. Buy other toys (looking at progasm or eupho trident, but I’ve read other posts where buying a ton of toys may not necessarily help)
2. Just keep trying until it happens?

Admittedly i get frustrated but trying to keep an open mind and just “let it happen”. I also know there isn’t 1 golden solution that works for everyone but any additional tips?