First HFO! (27y/o)

Well, it’s been about 6 months using my aneros, and today I finally got my first hands free orgasm! (Of course the day after I spend $150 on the aneros website because of Black Friday to try out other products, haha) Didn’t cum, but there was enough precum to completely soak through my sweats, and it felt so great! I was starting to think it was all just make-believe.

I only made it to one orgasm, then a couple more close calls before I just jerked off. Overall the whole session was about 45 minutes. I just have the attention span of a squirrel, and got so excited after the first one I couldn’t relax.

I’m not typically a nipple person, but I was rubbing my nipple and watching a Himeros porn (a website that has more sensual gay porn, which to me helped keep me turned on much more). I was wearing sweat pants and a sweatshirt, which is abnormal for me, and lying on my stomach. I think this just helped me to not think of my dick so much while I was watching the porn, and focus on my feelings.

I welcome any other tips if you’ve got them!

How do I start feeling new sensations?

I’m pretty new to Aneros, just got the Helix Syn Trident and have been using it for about a month, but I have felt nothing different than a piece of plastic inside me. I have always had trouble getting pleasure from my prostate (something tells me that it’s just impossible due to my genetics or something) and was hoping to turn things around when I bought the Aneros.

I have tried everything, porn consumption, positions, the do-nothing method, different
kegel intensities. I have read every success story and tip regarding prostate play that you can imagine, but whenever I use my own, it just feels like somethings inside me. It’s not really a “foreign” feeling, it’s just something in there that’s not bad- or good-feeling. And I know it’s touching my prostate because when I masturbate normally, it feels much better. Is there any way to make sure that the proper movement is being created on the prostate from my contractions?

I’m not sure what to do now, I want to keep trying but every session has been a dud. Does anyone have any tips to make this experience more like it should? To make at least SOME feelings occur instead of just existing?

Thanks guys

Estim prostate orgasm and Traditional aneros orgasms

Hey there guys, I was curious about one thing. I’ve just ordered and estim plug out of curiosity (had to choose between nipple/cock/prostate estim and decided to go with the plug because I try to abstain from porn and traditional masturbation) and I was just wondering if anyone here tried them both.

What are the differences and similarities? I believe an estim plug kinda does the job for you and the orgasm (if you even reach it) may be more facile than the prize you get from working your way to it, but I don’t want to jump to any conclusions without having experienced neither of those.

Would an estim plug affect my progress and make me lazy in practicing without this kind of aid? What are your experiences?

tl;dr

Differences between estim prostate orgasms and traditional aneros orgasms

Does anyone else watch porn while using the aneros?

I have seen a bunch of people say not to watch porn during your session. However my mind seems to wander a lot especially after a while of using my aneros. I found that keeping a video going on my phone and looking at it to get to close to what I think is a prostate orgasm and as I see feel myself drifting off to be helpful. Does anyone else do this? I have only tried once and it seemed to be helpful but I am not sure if I will be hitting a wall that allows for prostate orgasms but not a super o. Although if I continued I feel like I might have had a super o.

This session was the first in a while that I even watched porn before, normally I just get aroused with breathing and nipple play.

How do I increase my arousal enough to use the Aneros, rather than vice versa?

I know this is a strange question, but I’ve gotten a lot of advice saying I need to be moderately aroused before inserting the Aneros inside me.

Problem is, I think I am so focused on achieving pleasure and proving to myself that I can get there with a prostate toy, that it’s more like a “mission” to experience pleasure, rather than just enjoying the moment. So this leads to me beginning every session without any real arousal, just watching porn to increase it during. This, instead of being aroused already, and masturbating for the release instead of simply the boredom or pleasure.

So is there any way to escape this mindset and make myself aroused enough to masturbate, instead of vice versa? Do I abstain for a few days, watch more porn?

Thanks guys

Finally getting somewhere very good.. Helix Syn

After trying on and off for several years with a progasm ice I purchased a Helix Syn (thought it would be a bit small in comparison) after lurking here and reading a good bit about rewiring relaxation and not expecting too much (not difficult given prior lack of success)… I can now say my prostate is both rewired and very much awake.. 50yrs old and can’t believe I’ve had my first set of prostate orgasms today.. about 13+ of them in 90mins.. holy mother of god.. I can still feel my prostate and perineum twitching gently… Making a habit of allocating 30+ min per day over the last 2 weeks and just trying what felt good while listening to some relaxing music (no porn – I found it distracting and made me want to focus on my penis) seemed to work for me initially lying face down legs apart, but by the end of todays session I was coming lying on my side on my back and still when I stood up at the end.. this is very addictive…
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Pardon my formatting (it’s poor) but if you are struggling keep going and you’ll find the way to push that button for you.. I’ve still to reach the mystical super O but if I can bag orgasms like this morning again I’ll die a happy man (all dry rolling sparking twitching joyous spasms)… Thanks to all the helpful posters on this forum who provided insight and experiences.
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Last thing – for me gently tightening the muscles used to stop piss and then very gently doing anal contractions connected the Aneros to my prostate perfectly. Your mileage may vary, but too aggressive contractions seemed to feel good but not get me there….

I haven’t felt any pleasure from my Aneros

I have a Helix Syn Trident. I can assure you I have been trying, but I haven’t felt any pleasure. Yes, I have experienced involuntary contractions, but those yield nothing. I have read every guide, tried every type of audio, porn, binaural beat, position, lube and level of contraction, and I have felt nothing. I’m kind of disappointed that I spent so much money without anything to show for it.

However, such may be a virtue or a weakness, I really don’t want to give up. Nonetheless, I have no idea what to do. What can I do? Is there anything I can focus on, anything to practice with contractions or kegels or anything to get the desired effect? I’m not even looking for an orgasm at this point, I just want some proof that this is all real and it’s something I can achieve.

Progasm Ice: success on the first try!

Hey everyone!

I decided yesterday to buy the progasm to try something different, since I had little success with the Helix Syn. I thought that maybe a bigger and harder toy could do the try but I was a little apprehensive as the toy is labeled for experienced users. Well, I’m glad I didn’t stopped because of that.

So, yesterday night I thought I could at least try it to feel the difference with the helix syn. I was not expecting much to be honest: the toy seems to be less movable than the helix, I had a penile orgasm while having sex with my partner the day before and I wasn’t aroused at all. But being impatient, I decided to stick it in and went vaping some weed while sitting in my sofa. At first I was surprised how smooth and comfortable the progasm is even though it’s made of hard plastic (the size didn’t bothered me as I was wearing a quite bigger toy for a few hours before putting the progasm). But as soon as I sitted, I felt one of the tab pressing quite hard on the skin. While I was vaping I couldn’t stop feeling a bit of pain from that tab, something I was not quite a fan of. After that, I decided to start a binaural beat videos, lie down on my sofa and get a warm blanket on me like I do usually when I try to play with the helix syn (with an emphasis on *trying* as I’m still learning the technique to get these Os coming). At first I didn’t felt much difference from the helix but after 20minutes, I decided I would trust my lower body a little while contracting my base muscle and I started rubbing my nipples through my clothes, something I’m trying to combine with the aneros. I tried concentrating at first on my prostate but I thought I could try something else as it never worked for me. I placed my attention instead on the little pleasure I had from my nipples and I resisted stopping, something I tend to do when I play with them since it feels more like tickling than anything else…

My recent discoveries leading to HFDO, and the surprising results of am “upgrade” to a Progasm

Tldr, recently finally figured out some Aneros secrets and upgraded to a larger model that rocked me, but I still wouldn’t necessarily replace the smaller one, it wasn’t necessarily better, but a good difference.

The following was a lot voice to text trying to explain what I was feeling so I could use it as a guide later on, but when editing to make sense of it, I realized it was journalistic and informative, so I thought I would share.

A quick about me, I bought the Aneros Trident (MGX) many years ago after seeing a post on Reddit about the male gspot, and it seemed legit, so I ordered one. I enjoyed using it, bought a slew of different toys, found one kind of U shaped silicone toy that worked one time for a cum spurting, black out and wake up after, crazy prostate orgasm many years ago and my journey since then has been some good jerking off or sex sessions with some anal attention, and have not been able to find that magic again. It was a lot of intense rubbing, and after that all my attempts left me feeling like I had been pushing too hard, or not getting there and feeling like I was no longer interested and stopping.

My wife and I occasionally indulge in some pegging, and that’s kind of where my revitalized Aneros journey began anew.

I think I’ve awakened my prostate and now I’m scared

I’ve bought my first aneros about 6 months ago (helix trident) and have played with it since.

I use to smoke weed on a daily basis, but a month ago I switched to vaping, and since then my aneros sessions became much more intense.

Yesterday I’ve had my most intense aneros session by far, I stared off very aroused, I’ve experienced moaning and full body arousal in a way I’ve never felt before. It felt like the prostate stimulation would build arousal without releasing it, and after an hour or so I could not take it anymore, so I watched porn and jerked off (with my fleshlight).

after I came I had the most intense aless sensations, so intense I felt like I could lose myself in the feeling (I was too scared to let go tho). Those sensations became stronger as I went to bed and I had to put on a podcast to be able to fall asleep.

I woke up the next day feeling normal, but with a tingle in my prostate.

During the day the tingle continues, gets stronger, and I can get really aroused by doing nothing. Its hard to focus, and all I want to do is masturbate, and I’m scared it will not stop.

I have to say I’ve vaped a little weed today, but before that the sensations and the arousal was already there.

I’m little scared I’ve done something irreversible and possibly bad, but I’m hoping I’m overreacting.