Just got the progasm ice

Ok after a lot of reading on this forum and elsewhere online, i decided that the progasm ice looked like it was going to be the one for me so last week i ordered one online. The day it arrived i wasnt that horny so i didnt know if i should give it a go but i got too excited, so later that night i decided to try it. First impressions were good, it looks good, the hard plastic is good and the shape and size looked perfect (ive got a few toys already so decided that the larger one would be appropriate). After preparing myself properly, i put some silicone lube on it and put it in, and it felt awesome straight away. It slid straight in and both the tabs rested perfectly where they are meant to. I ended up doing a heap of relaxation kinda stuff and figured on my back with my knees up, feet flat on the floor was the way to go. I mostly tried the do nothing method to not much avail, and kegals seemed ok, i ended up getting some shooting pangs of pleasure rarely but i ended up jerking off and going to bed, pretty happy with how my first time had gone.

A question about sensitivity and abstinence

Hi, I’ve been following this subreddit and using my aneros. I had a quick question about the process for all the experienced guys here.

Here’s my progress:

I use the aneros syn, I recently took the advice to stop masturbating and porn and I’ve seen a rise in general pleasure in my aneros sessions.

So my question is, relating to saving cum to increase sensitivity.

a) Does the body only need to save cum (as in dont ejaculate) before an aneros session to build sensitivity over time?

OR

b) Does the body need to save cum, AND abstain from nightly aneros sessions to build sensitivity?

I ask because I’ve stopped touching my dick at all, I dont cum, but I have an aneros session every day or every other day now and I’m wondering if I’m shooting myself in the foot here or if it’s okay to do regular aneros sessions to build practice and sensations AS I build up cum storage (i.e. more sensitivity).

Do regular (daily or almost every other day) sessions dull the sensations? Or does the practice help the journey to create more sensitivity?

HOURS of ecstasy, the rumors are true

Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy shit.

Long post. Reading some of the user posts here helped me, so maybe this will help someone. It’s also a way to process the experience for me.

I’ve been reading about the benefits of prostate play for about a month now and, truth be told, I took everything I read with a grain of salt. I assumed some men might achieve these waves of pleasure and super-Os, but most would need years of practice and even then, maybe not experience as amazing as some made it sound. Well after some time on Sunday, I can say I’m a true believer.

As a way of background, I’m 31, gay male, in a long term relationship. Ass play is not something i’m a total stranger to, but it’s never been my cup of tea. I’ve bottomed plenty of times and found the experience to be enjoyable, but topping was always better. (My partner and I are more “sides” and anal sex is kind of rare. I’ve had plenty of anal sex with prior partners to know what i’m missing.) Over the years I’ve bought a couple of dildos and prostate massagers and played with them on and off, but to me they were never better than recieving anal, and the toys would be used a couple times then forgotten about and thrown away.

How to find deeper arousal?

So I’ve noticed the only sessions where I feel strong P-waves are those that I start feeling aroused even before I insert the Aneros. It feels like my prostate is craving the stimulation.

However I’ve found I don’t get to that highly aroused state very frequently. More often than not I insert the toy and feel relaxed but not very horny, and so not much happens. Porn doesn’t really arouse me as much as I’d like (maybe I’m desensitized?) and I’ve also tried abstaining from masturbation for several days and haven’t had much success with it.

On the other hand there’s been times when this prostate arousal comes up in a totally natural and effortless way (usually a day or two after my last session, even if the session itself was mild). Sadly it almost always happens during the day when I can’t take 30-60 minutes for an impromptu session. By the time I have some time to myself, the prostate arousal is long gone.

I guess my question is how I can access this deeper arousal within me when I *do* have time to play. (I think I got the relaxation down pat, I have some experience with meditation). Thanks for any advice!

The biggest orgasm of my life, and how I got there

I’m floored. I’m lucky to have had pretty good luck with the aneros from the beginning. Though, I did have some experience with prostate stimulation before I ever tried the aneros.

This all started for me maybe 8 or 9 yrs ago, in my mid 20s, when an older woman (late 40s) who I was fooling around with talked me into letting her slip a finger inside me while she was edging/blowing me. I reluctantly agreed, but a huge part of our dynamic was her teaching me new things with her mostly focused on me. She loved exploring my body and I miss the fuck out of those edging sessions, and even more so the forced orgasms (she would legit make me cum 3-5 times over an hour or two). Anyway, she made me really comfortable before sliding her finger into me, and just left it there while she continued to play with me. After a while, she started giving me a light prostate massage (at the time, I had no idea what this was) and 20 minutes later I’m shaking and moaning like the most over dramatic female porn star as I cum buckets down her throat. I’ll never forget squeezing this woman’s body with my shaking legs as I opened my eyes gasping for air when I came back to reality. It was extremely intense.

Just had my first session. Pleasurable but not sure I felt the right sensations or not. Am I on the right track?

I bought a Helix Trident and used it for the first time tonight. It’s the first time I’ve ever done any sort of anal or prostate play. I just had the urge, and I’m glad I splurged a bit. But considering I’m new, I wanted to see if I’m on the right track. I tried my best to follow the tips I’ve seen online.

I started by taking a warm shower to try and relax a bit. Once I was all clean, I laid down in bed and did some breathing exercises. I then watched some porn for 15 minutes or so and stroked myself a bit to get extra turned on while still focusing on breathing and making sure I’m relaxed.

After 15 minutes or so, I lubed up the Aneros as well as my asshole. I gently rubbed my asshole and fingered it slightly before slowly inserting the toy. It was a brand new feeling for me but I tried to breathe and just focus on the sensation. Once it was in, my asshole began to contract involuntarily, maybe once every 10-15 seconds or so, like I was flexing my PC or sphincter muscles or whatever. It was a nice feeling, though I didn’t get the urge to pee right away like some people say.

Did i get a wet pgasm? Am i doing it “correct”?

I bought the aneros helix over a year ago and used it so far about once a week. I get great feelings down there when I use it and I also noticed that when im getting excited I feel it in my prostate which is a good thing I guess. At the end of last year I had a first outcome and ejaculated while using the toy. It feelt like a normal orgasm but a little bit weaker. After that i didnt feel excited anymore and stopped. Was this a wet pgasm? After that they were more frequent but sadly non of them were dry and stronger than a normal orgasm. Will I get there if I dont change my massaging style? Normally I get in the shower, clean myself with an enema and start the session by browsing some porn/nude subreddits on reddit while the toy is inside of me, flexing my pc muscle and touching my nipples and balls. Often i get good feelings after a couple of minutes which get stronger troughout the session and sometimes resulting into what I think is in a wet HFO. Am I flexing the pc muscle too often? Is it even “correct” that I am flexing it? Should I instead just let it sit and do nothing?

Im very thankfull for any helpfull information 🙂

Trans porn

I don’t know where else to ask this question. I’ve been doing prostate play for almost 2 years now. Since then I’ve added pegging to list of bedroom activities, and have entertained the thought of bottoming in an MMF threesome. I can’t really get off to pegging or gay porn, not because I have anything against it, just doesn’t do anything for me. But last night I watched some trans porn and realized it’s kind of like the perfect porn for me. I love giving anal and receiving. And I love women. And trans porn has all that wrapped into one. I just masturbated traditionally while watching but my god what an explosive orgasm it gave me.

Anyone else?

I had a super-o last night, and I’m still buzzing

Crossposted from r/prostateplay

Had an incredible session last night. My fiancee went to bed early, so I decided to grab my Progasm and get to business. I started by eating a pot brownie I had been saving in the freezer for a while. It usually takes ~30 or 40 minutes for edibles to kick in for me, so in the mean time, I lubed up and got comfy on the couch.

Once I was all situated, I got on PornHub and started searching through some porn music videos. I find that these work extremely well for me. Something about the quick cuts, and the driving beats really get me going. Anyway, I started getting some p-waves pretty quickly and decided to start some light contractions. I must have timed it perfectly, because the brownie I ate felt like it was beginning to kick in just as the pleasure was beginning to mount.

This is when I decided to take it a little further. I grabbed my vape pen and took one big hit off it. This sent me to the moon. I had a bit of a coughing fit for about thirty seconds, but as soon as that calmed down, it was back to the porn. I decided to use PornHub’s wonderful cast feature, and send that video to my 65′ TV. I repositioned myself for a better viewing angle and started to rub my nipples. Good god was that a good idea. Before I knew it my hips were gyrating and my Progasm was pumping away. It felt so fucking incredible.

My experience with the Super-O and Prostate Orgasms

Alright, this will probably turn into a longer post but this afternoon I can definitively say I had a Super-O for the first time, and it was 100% worth it!! 😍Probably started playing with the helix syn about a year ago on and off, with most regular use recently due to covid and having a lot of free time on my hands. Spent a lot of time reading people’s experiences and the different methods to try and replicate what works and doesn’t, but now I feel I have enough experience that it’s worth sharing my thoughts.

A. Ymmv. As had been said before everyone is different and will experience it differently. Your journey might be very different from mine and that’s ok. Few key thoughts: goal is to just play and feel around, and stay relaxed. Arousal is in it of itself arousing. It is this low-level arousal that builds into a pgasm and Super-O. Fantasies and porn are great to kick start the process and get aroused but you need to let your body become aroused.

B. To begin to gain experience I used a combination of the do-nothing and kegel/reverse kegel methods. Doing one or the other yield different results and will feel different, at least at first. I would say explore one, explore the other, explore a combination. Do what works best for you. And to tone your muscles stronger voluntary contractions can be helpful but it will be the lighter (and barely fluttering/twitching) contractions that build into orgasms.