Progression? Just wanted to get some input from more experienced folk.

Hey there,

I had a really interesting session with my Aneros toy on Sunday and I wanted to post about it and see how it compares with others.

**Bit of background** I’ve been interested in this kind of prostate play for a good decade now, though it was only a couple years back that I bought an actual Aneros Helix Syn (rather than a cheaper alternative)—though I’ve been bad previously at keeping up use over time. I’ve been using it more recently having come off of antidepressants and found I can be horny again! I’ve used my toy 3 times over the past week.

**So on Sunday** I had quite a long session admitedly because I hadn’t… umm… *prepared properly*. So I had to take a break after an hour to clean properly after which I went another hour and a half. It was a pleasant, though not necessarily intense, session. I usually lay on my side but I’ve been trying to lay on my back recently (I’ve heard it makes life easier.

In general, by *doing nothing* I find it’s very pleasurable at first but it fades away within 20 minutes. I think because I’m excited when the toy goes in, and I feel my heart beat very strongly and it almost as though I feel my pulse with the toy but that excitement fades. So what I do after is use my rectal and PC muscles to nudge the toy gently. I actually worry I might be being *too* gentle with it, I can imagine a slight circular motion with the toy but the feeling is *very* slight.

Need of feedback

I take any advices and I will take them as a grain of salt so please feel free and ask me whatever you have on your mind

I bought the MGX Syn trident the small version. 2 days ago it arrived and it was my first time to insert anything behind the back door so it was scary but now I am used to it I highly recommend coconut oil because it also mitigates the odor.

Until the point of insertion I was abstaining from ejaculation for 2 weeks as I have been told that one should abstain from ejaculation minimum 3 days in order to make progress

When it was inside I have felt nothing and I was watching some porn to get my arousal going but still I have felt nothing

Furthermore I felt in despair because I was contracting my muscles up to the point where my D was twitching and try to maintain it but still I felt nothing

I will take some weed end of the month and try it again but before that I really want to try with my normal perception so please help me by asking questions or giving me instructions with reasoning behind it please

Frustrated – tell me I just need to be patient

Hey, all!

I’ve been experimenting on and off with Aneros for a number of years, but have really been trying to consistently practice a couple of times per week for the past several months. I’m trying to assimilate everything that I read here and on the prostate play sub. I have an MGX classic, a Progasm Ice and recently got an NJoy wand which I was hoping was going to be a game-changer, but not so much. I use coconut oil as lube, and try to set aside 1-2 hours for sessions. After inserting, sometimes I will scroll through Reddit (often this sub), look at porn (less often past few months), listen to some binaural beats or just relax.

I try to start out with the do-nothing method, but after 30-60 minutes will start with some contractions, usually light, alternating PC with sphincter. I’ve done the free Mindgasm lessons, but don’t find them to be particularly enlightening.

I’m pretty sure that I get involuntaries, but most often occur Aless, in the shower and while driving – they feel like kind of a squirmy sensation just past the inner sphincter? They’re interesting, but not necessarily pleasurable. They feel kind of slow and rhythmic – maybe intervals of 15-20 seconds- nothing that would seem to stroke very quickly. Maybe I will occasionally get what I think is a subtle P-wave, particularly with a device inserted, but not often associated with an involuntary. More like, did I imagine myself into feeling that? In general, I seem to have a hard time getting involuntaries – if that’s what those squirmy things are – with a device inserted.

Best pleasure of my life last night

And I haven’t even had an orgasm yet, besides traditional of course.

I hadn’t played for almost a month. But the last two nights, something came over me. I felt so horny. People say that all the time, and I feel like we don’t truly bask in it when we say it. You know what I mean? I was so horny I was smiling because I knew I was about to have fun. I knew I wanted to put my Progasm in my ass.

I was starting to tremble all over my body. My butt was squeezing involuntarily. I was burying my face in a pillow. I kept going like this for about an hour.

I flipped over onto my back and laid there listening to porn. It was this really long video that I knew I wouldn’t have to restart, where she was moaning continuously. But it was so real, not like you hear in the rest of porn. And I just kept imagining I was her, getting opened up by a cock. And then…something happened. Has this happened to any of you?…

Rolling p-waves and blurting out my secrets

In the last couple of weeks I’ve had several break throughs and come further than I thought possible.

In my last post, I shared how I started with my Aneros Eupho before my wife joined me with her dildo and proceeded to fuck the cum out out of me.

Yesterday, was in some ways even more amazing.

I headed to bed early again with my Eupho, and was soon rolling with p-waves. I took some advice from r/aneros about how a p-wave itself *is* the prostate orgasm, just that it’s a mild form, and to just lt them keep building.

So after about an hour, my wife came up to bed. By this point I was a hot mess – moaning gently, shaking, and giving her needy looks.

She lay next to me and just started kissing me – gently exploring my mouth with her tongue. I know kissing is big turn on for her, and for the first time I could actually feel why.

Some more waves came and went, and she sat next to me in bed just watching – such a turn on!

She asked what she could do, so I just said to play with herself and passed her the dildo that she fucked me with last time.

All good so far – but this is when a dam seemed to break in me, as I gently moaned. I felt so much love radiating from being gently kneeded inside. I just decided to go for it and share some kinks and secrets that I’ve held back from telling her.

Frequency and amount of time

I have had an Aneros for a year or so and used it both solo and with my partner. I masturbate most days and previously have always used it whilst masturbating traditionally. I am reading this sub and it is clear that isn’t the way you can get the most out of this so should you be doing this every day with no porn consistently or once a week or what?

Also for my first time trying the just relax method most of you talk about, how long should it be in? Hours of just laying there seems like a long time?

Made some progress!

So i decided to try a different toy for a session. Its an inflatable butt plug from amazon. Inserted it and waited a good 10 minutes. Didnt watch porn or smoke.

Did some kegels and rested periodically. Had the toy pumped up 2 times. Deflated it until it was comfy. Did some more kegels. Then it got interesting.

Instead of feeling the tiring sensation of kegeling. It felt really pleasurable. Lasted about 5 seconds then i dropped my base contraction to try and ride it. Sensation went away and couldnt reproduce the same effect the rest of the night.

Ive been on this journey for over 3 years with the aneros (multiple toys) and various other toys. Nothing quite like that happened before.

Anyone know what to do from here?
About to try another session here soon.

New user struggling with patience/focus

Hi! I got my Helix Syn V about a month ago and have done a handful of sessions. However they have all gone like this:

I start watching some porn until I’ve been aroused for several minutes. I insert the aneros, lie back, and focus on my breathing and sensations for about 10 minutes, then begin to play with contractions.

If I turn the porn off at this point, I just get sleepy and find it impossible to focus.

If I leave the porn on, I get dick-horny and run out of willpower within half an hour, finishing myself off with a traditional orgasm.

Did any of you experienced users struggle with this starting out? What did you change going forward to help with it? TIA

How do you not fall asleep with the aneros in?

So I had a session tonight and it was going really well, getting good feelings down below and might have made some good progress. I ran into a problem however when I realized I was almost falling asleep in the middle of my session. It’s pretty late at night, about at hour after I normally start to go to sleep, and I also did something different where I didn’t listen to any audio or look at any porn, just layer there with the aneros in. I nearly fell asleep, and because I’m in a busy house there’s few times I can have an aneros session except when it’s late at night like this. Any advice on how to stay awake with the aneros in without looking at anything stimulating like porn?