First time using, felt nothing but a lump of plastic in my butt

Ordered a Progasm last week and have been beyond excited to get this thing up my ass. I’ve been aware of these Aneros toys for some time and recent experimentation with a curved vibrator convinced me that I needed to try something actually made for hitting my p-spot since I felt like I was getting close but it was difficult to know for sure if I was hitting the spot and found myself twisted into more and more uncomfortable positions in pursuit of the spot. All the reading I did to learn how to hit my prostate suggested that I’d know it when I hit it but no amount of digging around in there (I kid, I was gentle and procedural) hit anything that really stood out to me as OMG RAPTUROUS PLEASURE!!! So the Progasm arrived today and wasn’t out of the box fifteen minutes before I had all my clothes off, the toy lubed and popped comfortably up the back door. As promised, it sits comfortably inside me, and I can definitely feel it up against the spots I was working with the vibrator but still, it simply feels like it’s up there and… well… that’s it. I did some breathing exercises, taking in a deep belly-breath, relaxing, and I could feel the toy slip further upward, which was not an unpleasant sensation, but again, not, ya know, good. I’m trying (and obviously failing miserably) to come at this without expectation, but an expectation of at least *some* sort of sensation isn’t too much to ask, I think.

How do you boost your arousal during a session?

For me, the best results I’ve had is when I’ve been really horny.

I find porn too distracting though, and simply abstaining doesn’t really do a lot to raise my horniness.

My wife has headed out for the evening and left the knickers that she wore today on my pillow for my session – hopefully smelling them will boost me into the zone.

Anyone else tried this?

Mini dry orgasms?

I’ve had more success that I wanted to share. Typical 3 days without ejaculating and 1 hour before the season I took a 10mg edible.

This time I did use porn as I was very horny. After about 30mins of really nice feelings I tried switching back to just some audio which took a bit of time but really brought on great feelings that had me think I was going to orgasm. After about 10mins of this I decided to take a break and get a drink of water.

This is when it got interesting. I went back to porn and this time I got myself into a sort of trance and brought on a strange type of orgasm. It felt really nice, like the warm glow you feel when a traditional orgasm starts. This time it just stayed and with each contraction came what I would described as micro orgasms..almost like “spikes” of pleasure which peaked and retracted with each relaxation.

Since I didn’t know what would come next I just tried to let it happen and not change anything. Unfortunately this faded after about 1minute.

I called this a win for the night and decided to end with a traditional orgasm which was amazing.

One thing I can share that i have learned is that there does not seem to be any short cuts or earth shattering advice that will get you to where you want to be. There is something to this “rewiring” term as I just continue to practice and my sessions get better and better with little surprises along the way.

Thoughts after first few session with Aneros.

Hello, I wrote a post on r/prostateplay describing my background. I want to preface by saying that even though I am excited and relieved I was able to have this HFWO, I had to break a couple of my rules to achieve it (weed and pornography), so it’s a little bittersweet.

I have been interested in prostate orgasms for a couple of weeks now. I’ve been struggling to quit masturbating to pornography and came across mindgasm as an alternative. I started practicing mindgasm in Earnest two weeks ago and started with a njoy wand about a week ago; I received my Helix Syn today. Over these two weeks, I have had some lovely sensations and generated precum, but not reached a full orgasm. I have been researching techniques and digesting the philosophy somewhat obsessively on the forums. Compared to the Njoy wand, the Aneros is much more subtle; it revealed that most of my time with the wand was spent hitting the bladder. With the Aneros, I found it hard to even notice at first. I like how it takes the guesswork out of the equation, and you just insert it and let it find the prostate on it’s own. I feel like I would have been poking around in the wrong places for a while with the njoy just to generate intense stimulation, that was almost painful. I’m so glad that is not necessary in this game.

Semen Retention + Aneros = Why Haven’t I Done This Earlier?!

Hello! Just want to share my recent experiences after finding this place is back. I actually stuck to my 2021 new year’s resolution and lost hella weight, continuing to do so now. Personal health and obligations stopped all prostate play over the pandemic and the year prior, so i decided to get back into it this January by rewarding myself w/ a eupho syn trident and progasm jr. Feels good to HFO again!

I think I’ve always “knew” where my prostate is, and I’ve been sliding a finger or two in there since discovering porn. Unfortunately, my arm-to-torso ratio is what really fucked me out of experiencing a true dry p-gasm until HS and discovering edging because of how uncomfortable my positioning had (and still has!) to be to reach back there. Can confirm, edging does the trick to help separate orgasm from ejaculation…and make one desperately horny enough to finally hit a dry p-gasm while all contorted.

Just out of raw curiosity and experimentation, I’ve been practicing semen retention this past month…only practicing because baby steps. I’ll be honest, idgaf about any of the claims; for all i know, they can be 100% bullshit. I must say, it has greatly improved the quality of my p-gasms and i can finally be satisfied without ejaculating now! It’s not the end-all-be-all for me, but it was the final puzzle piece.

I’m guaranteed doing No Nut November, so I’ll be off all social media then. However, I’ll peep this sub in the meantime.

Do I need to give up using porn during sessions?

Even if I’ve abstained for several days, the initial arousal kind of runs out and so does the sensitivity. If I start to watch something arousing in the second half of the session, that reignites the arousal/sensitivity and often I have the more intense feelings during the second half when I’m using porn. That said, I’m yet to have an O, so I’m sure my sessions can be improved. Maybe audio could be the way to go?

Published
Categorized as reddit Tagged

movement

Hi All,

I tried searching the community but i didn’t find anything.

So where am I now? I bought the helix syn and played with it, mostly while watching porn and doing mindgasms. I also do kegels during the day. I also do them at night just to feel the sensation. This is my 4th week playing. In my second week i had an evening where i had 2 nice glowing feelings in my bladder region that emanated further. At that point i felt my pelvic region clench. After that i had similar feelings but much lighter if i do not use the toy and just clench at 30%. Using the toy i now seem to lose any succes. Very weird. I also started using a douche before play and i use coconut oil as lube. Nipple play doesn’t seem to do anything but hearing porn does. What i also did was stop masturbating and that is quite nice to be honest. I just have sex with my wife and anal play the other times. The periods in between the sex are now more fun as i get hornier the longer it takes and that helps the anal play. And if the periods are shorter, we have more sex 😀 win win. Also never did anal things before this and I do not use cannabis, poppers etc etc. Just want to be able to do it without.

So what are my questions.

Close to orgasm?

I think I get right on the edge of have a P-gasm but it never happens. Usually, I lay on my side with my feet resting on the bed not on each other. I have my head relaxed facing my laptop watching porn. The best way is light and slow contractions for me. I start to feel sensitive, and it feels so good just relaxing there. I am usually semi hard. I am leaking precum at this point. Then get a super hard erection and starts twitching like crazy. My heart starts to race, and I am having involuntary contractions. Nothing else ever happens. My heart rate eventually drops back. My erection and all the contractions go back to normal. I then do this again and again with in every 10-15 minutes. Nothing happens though. I mean nothing that fills explosive like an orgasm.

I read on aneros forums some people claim the same issues but other guys are saying THAT is the orgasm. And they just get better over time.

Have I really reached an orgasm and just need to continue to get the best feeling? What am I doing wrong? I try not to chase it but idk what to do. Just keep going and just enjoy it for what it is? I never tried to abstain from regular masturbation. Maybe I’ll try that. I am also worried maybe my muscles are not strong enough to orgasm or something.

Intermediate Aneros-er

Hey guys, I’d call myself as an intermediate as the title says, I haven’t had pgasms yet in over a year of trying and I’m looking for some insight if that’s ok.

My average session usually starts with me not letting my body clamp down too much, so the toy kind of tickles my prostate and the sensitivity builds up. That’s leads to good places usually, I’ve felt build up feelings where my heart starts to race and my prostate gets quite sensitive. I also get this feeling of hardness/pressure under my belly button later in sessions, I feel like that grows. I’m not sure if this is my prostate growing, a potentially orgasmic feeling, or if I’m simply pressing my bladder.

I tried a session with weed for the first time last night. Not sure if it helped or hindered, I do get a bit anxious with bud so I’m not sure it helps me with arousal. I didn’t seem to have the body awareness to let the session build up slowly and my body clamped down a lot, the sensitivity did build up eventually though. I had a lot of precum for the first time in a session but I’m not sure if that was because I was basically milking myself with the heavy pressure.

After the first hour, I have to confess to briefly touching my dick a bit to make myself aroused again, this would bring back the good feelings to my prostate but I don’t know if it was a good idea overall.

Major Progress on edibles

Recently had what I consider a breakthrough on my quest for dry orgasms.

I have read so much about how sensitive edibles make you and I can now attest to this!

About one hour before I planned a session I took what was roughly 10mg of a Sativa gummy. Once I started to play it was like nothing I’ve ever experienced!

It felt like to toy had a mind of its own fucking me with my own contractions. I was so sensitive that I started grinding the toy against the bed while laying on my back and I couldn’t understand how I didn’t orgasm from that. This is typically something that would give me very little sensation in a sober session.

As part of my routine I also use an oculus 2 to watch porn and at various times I wanted to try and change videos but I felt almost trapped/stuck twitching and writhing unable to bring my hand to grab the controller.

Unfortunately I did not plan enough ahead to abstain for more than a day before hand which is why I somehow was not able to wet or dry orgasm.

I am planning on trying very soon with 2-3 days in hopes of finally making it happen!