Peridise – I finally get it.

Like, *fuck.* I have no issues with having prostate orgasms with my other aneros toys. I’ve even had a couple with no toys, but I definitely prefer to have the toys. But, I digress.

I was bored, surfing porn on Reddit on my couch. I don’t like toys while sitting, but decided to get the peridise because it doesn’t have the tabs. Popped it in, sat back down and went back to porn.

After about 15 minutes, my body started auto-fucking me with the toy. Felt *really* good. I was surprised! I’ve never had much success with it before. Another 10 minutes or so, and I decide it’s time to go lie down and play this proper.

So I get relaxed, on my side, and the auto-fucking doubles down on me. I feel like someone is jerking off my entire spinal cord. Like, *fuck*, you guys. I love my aneros sessions, but this was so alien to me. Similar, but also so different. My cock started throbbing through the auto-fucking, my calves quivering, and I swear it was steady going for like, 12 minutes solid.

It wasn’t like a prostate orgasm, where they can layer over each other, weave in and out and do fancy tricks. This was one thing, long, and fairly linear. I don’t honestly know if this can layer, how this works.

But holy fuck, I cannot *wait* to explore this even deeper.

“Oh, Jock!”

Introduction
I have recently ‘rediscovered’ my regular jockstrap collection which consists mostly of swimmer’s jocks. I used to wear them all the time while swimming daily. It wasn’t so much to control my erections, but rather to remain ‘modest’ if I were to get one while in the pool. About a year ago, I decided to forgo the jocks and just wear my jammers. But some of these jammers will not hide nor hold an erection all too well. I am tempted then to start wearing a jock under my jammers again!

I am currently at Day 3 of SR and Day 88 of NoFap ® PMO. I will discount the recent ‘edging’ session/fantasy I experienced as a relapse since I believe that I had exited my ‘flatline’ and that activity was just a manifestation of my body’s returning back to a more normal libido. That feeling persists today; let me explain…..

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While I still enjoy wearing my jockstraps with cups, I find that wearing my regular jockstraps give me the opportunity to ‘test’ my erection through visual cues of my package and through light, delicate touches on the pouch to see what effect they can elicit. While doing this, I can’t help but fall-into a fantasy that it is actually a lover’s hand doing the exploring! Those light touches, even from my hand, can trigger an erection. This is an opposite, albeit more normal, sexual response than relying on porn or (in my case) binaural beats* for that erection. It is almost as if my cock is on a ‘hair-trigger’ for an erection now and that is the way it should work! After all, when a guy is in a situation where he ‘needs to perform’ with an erection, he does not want to think about whether he will get one or not, it should just be automatic! Any thoughts of ED should be put far-away out of his mind.

My first big anal orgasm, helped by my Progasm Ice, but still having trouble using the toy by itself to get an orgasm

So I just had what I perceived to be an unbelievably huge anal orgasm. I’ve been an Aneros user for over a year now, and I know this is probably sacrilegious but mainly just using my Helix Syn as a buttplug. I adore my Helix Syn but it never quite did the trick in terms of hitting my p-spot, but it feels great to have in and I love using it when having sex with my girlfriend.

Since investing in a Helix Syn I’ve become more accustomed to anal play in general, using vibrating butt plugs of various sizes and even some dildos. So far as anal play goes the furthest to a prostate/anal orgasm I’ve found has been using a silicone dildo (around 6 inches long and 4.5 around). I’ve found by basically coating it in good lube and pushing it in and out works a treat, great internal sensations and I can hit my prostate well. I’ve had what I thought was close to an anal orgasm using this fairly standard method before but nothing mind blowing, until this evening.

Have I *Hacked* My Prostate?

After a couple years of on-again-off-again aneros toying, I’ve finally felt good about being consistent in using it.

About once or twice a week I’ve been “pop it in and relax routine” with some fun results. I can consistently get p-waves and the occasional rush of pleasure people speak of. After relaxing, I sit upright in my comfy computer chair and watch some porn with some nipple play. Lately, maybe a half hour of nipple play and aneros flexing has me TO-ing like crazy.

For the first time tonight I tried the same routine without the aneros: no dick touching, some nipple play, and some flexing while watching porn… 15 minutes later I blew a load.

TL;DR: Consistent use has me hands-free orgasming without the aneros

Has anyone else been able to initiate aneros-esque prostate pleasure without using it?

“Who Are We? Just Play The Game!”

[This blog was inspired by an Aneros member]

Introduction
While listening to some erotic chillout this morning, I began to dwell on this topic. And the more I thought about it, it made perfect sense to me. So I’d like to share it…..

We as men share a unique role in this world. We are the sex who (for lack of better words) penetrates, thrusts and ejaculates. It really it that simple! But along the way, we have developed many other ways, other ‘tools’ if you will, to cultivate and ‘grow’ our manhood, our ‘maleness’, our sexuality. Among these are ways well-known to Aneros members such as myself. I am referring to the practices of semen retention (SR), NoFap ® and Aneros prostate massage. Of course, there are others and one which I endorse and promote is the use of ‘chastity cups’.

Now what do all of these have in common? It really is quite simple, IMO. All of these activities are designed to enhance our sexual pleasure, not only for ourselves but in the general scheme of things, our male ‘vision’ of the world. (Our female counterparts share their own ‘vision’ that is (thank goodness!) completely different from our own). Together, we can make a new world (literally).

How To Play The Game
As I continued to meditate, it became clear to me that all of these sexual activities are entirely and always under our direct control. Here are some examples….

Finally getting somewhere

Had a session tonight and idk what I did differently but I did my usual routine with aneros, I just put it in, on my back knees bent and put on some porn. After a bit of kegels to get movement going I started to feel the feeling like I was going to cum hands free but it never came and I kind of stopped chasing after it if you will and just enjoyed it. It just kept building and building when finally my legs started feeling tingly and warm and it spread down my arms all while I was having this intense feeling like I reached orgasm but with more pleasure.

After maybe 20 seconds it went away and yet I could still feel that pleasure waiting to build up again this time though it was a dud and nothing happened. It didn’t feel like a jaw dropping body convulsing orgasm like people say in here but it felt like a stronger regular penile orgasm. Not sure if that was it or it was just a p-wave or whatever it’s called but I can’t wait to try again tomorrow

“I Just Put-On A Hard-Cup Jockstrap: What Next?”

Background
Since its invention in 1927 in Canada, the hard-cup supporter is a vital piece of men’s protective gear for sports like baseball and hockey. The male groin protection the cup offers is invaluable in preventing groin injuries which not only can be painful, but physically and sexually incapacitating for the male. So, baseball and hockey players, among others, regularly put-on their ‘cups’ as part of their uniform. There is not a second thought why. Just look at some videos of guys not wearing cups getting hit by a hard projectile. Not a pretty sight.

Is there another use for a hard-cup jockstrap? Most certainly, I say. Let me explain…..

Use In Chastity
The hard-cup jockstrap can become an instant aid in preventing masturbation for a male. The protective hard-cup becomes a barrier between a man’s penis, testicles and his hands. While wearing a hard-cup and jockstrap, a man is incapable of pleasuring himself to an ejaculation.

I subscribe to NoFap ® PMO, which means that I abstain from porn, masturbation and orgasm (ejaculation). I make an exception due to my tendency to develop ‘blue-balls’ while practicing extended semen retention (SR). But for the most part, I comply with the ‘rules of the game’.

A side-benefit of wearing a hard-cup is owed to the very design of the cup. The cup is anatomically-designed to cradle a man’s penis and testicles and the newer ‘banana cups’ also wrap under the perineum, thereby protecting that area from an inadvertent impact from a baseball, a hockey puck or a kick.

“After All, It’s Just For Prostate Therapy!”

Background
I am only at Day 2 of SR but at Day 80 of NoFap ® PMO. Last night, before retiring for bed, I had a strong urge to “sleep” in one of my ‘chastity cups’. So I selected my XO ProCup and nestled-in; so relaxing and comforting! During the night, as I expected, I felt the distinct pressure of the NPT erections against the cup. But I remained in chastity and slept comfortably through the night.

Earlier this morning, I awoke and upon visiting the lavatory, I had a symptom or two of BPH: start & stop stream and a somewhat weak stream. I think I ‘visited’ about three times quickly in succession. I checked and it had been 5 days since my last ‘therapeutic’ prostate massage session, so I knew it was time.

Session
I selected my HelixTrident for this session and lubed-up with SSG. I went to lie-down on my side and just relax. I knew the Helix was contacting my prostate right from the start and I began to experience some involuntary contractions. I did a couple of strong anal/PC contractions and could definitely feel its effect. At one point, my entire body reacted with a strong, explosive contraction. I honestly didn’t feel any erections building, but I knew that this ‘therapy’ was going to be effective.

First time

Had an amazing first time. I’d read lots of the blog entries, and thank you all for the guidance. Started with an enema and a shower. Lubed up with Marksman and Swiss Navy waterbased lube. Was alone in the house after a long, long drive. Still wired, but tired. After the shower, got on top of bed after watching and listening to porn. Put the Helix in with no trouble at all and concentrated on deep breathing. Got very very relaxed and must have fallen asleep for a few. When I woke up, I started contacting and wave after wave after wave washed over me. I convulsed and moaned for about 20 or so minutes. All in all, a phenomenal time.

“Flatlines and Cravings”

Introduction
I am currently in Day 7 of SR and Day 71 of NoFap ® PMO. I still feel like I’m in a ‘flatline’ period but just the other night, I experienced an intense craving for sex (or at least an ejaculation). I have night-time erections every night but this one was different. At the time, I believe I was wearing a ‘cup’ and the unusual thing about this erection was not only with the physical reality but the mental state I seemed to be in at the time. Let me explain….

Extreme Craving
The steel-hard erection was accompanied by a mental state that I can only describe as an unsatisfied need for sex. Yes, I mean penetrative sex with ejaculation. It was a strong feeling and one which I have not felt in a long time. I have read that these cravings are entirely normal while in NoFap ® and the best way to cope is to focus on something else! Thank goodness I was wearing a cup!

More Spontaneous Erections
I have noticed recently that I am experiencing more erections (or at least half-ones) not by looking at porn but a pretty woman or a great, sexy body! I suppose this is an entirely normal reaction. It means that I am being turned-on sexually the right way! This is almost an automatic response from me. It can, however, be somewhat embarrassing if the erection comes-on at an inappropriate time such as on the beach or in the pool. But a guy has to cope the best way he can.