I’ve owned a syn for multiple years that I bought as a curiosity. I never dedicated much time to learning it and seldom used it. I’d try once every couple of months and just shove it back in the drawer.
I read some recent posts for tips, and it really changed my session tonight. It peaked after about 10 minutes where I was shaking involuntarily, was hard, and had difficulty breathing. It still wasn’t a super o as I felt there was more to build to, but it was one of the most intense sexual experiences I’ve ever had. I got distracted from my prostate and forgot to keep breathing. I’m excited to try again as I’m definitely going to be picking it up to play with most evenings!
What definitely helped was a number of things:
1. I put a few pillows under my hips and it made it more comfy
2. I smoked a little weed which definitely helped me get in tune with myself and be more relaxed. I think I might have an edible next time for a longer session.
3. Clenching and breathing. I breathed deeply while flexing my pelvic floor 10-20% power. I played around a lot to found what worked for me.
4. I focused on the warm feeling behind my stomach that just felt really good and just relaxed into it. Don’t rush it.
I just had my best session ever.
I started by listening to binaural beats and relaxing, then started doing contractions. For the first hour, I was just getting nice feelings (which of course, are good), then I began to get the sensation of my body being asleep. This has happened before, and is usually followed by some more amazing feelings. However, this time, it grew into something stronger than ever before. The toy kept on hitting the spot, and I was moaning and gasping without control. This lasted for about two minutes. It was just AMAZING.
I then went on for another hour, getting to that point two more times, albeit with a bit less pleasure (though the third time was better than the second time). Also during those times, my butt pushed out the toy, but still felt great. I would reinsert it and keep on going.
When I decided to finish, I rubbed my cock and came, and that orgasm felt SO short. I take that as a good thing, because comparing it to the pleasure I experienced before hand, it was much lesser.
Like the title says. I’ve been at this for like 10 years and only have had hands free wet orgasms that end the session.
I’ve used various aneros toys, the Njoy pure wand, dildos, plugs, and various other objects. So im well versed. Seems odd to say if I think back to shaking with anticipation and wonder the first time i used an anal toy.
Im straight so I took a bit getting past the stupid certain stigmas as a young adult. Im comfortable with my exploration now and respect everyone’s choices, so things have been a lot better since my mind is free and clear. Pot helps.
I’ve always been chasing a feeling I had when I first learned what my penis does. I didn’t cum. I was humping a stuffed animal straddling it (like I’d seen in adult movies on cinemax). I got really strong butterflies and warmth in my belly, pelvis, and anus. The feelings grew into tingling in my crotch and buttcheeks and before I knew it my chode, anus, and my buttcheeks started shuddering with pleasure. It was so good my muscles would give for fractions of seconds, and my whole body was warm and tingling. Rock hard erection but didn’t cum.
I’ve only got close to that ONCE since. I was just relaxing, breathing, and lightly playing with the rim of my ass. The same feelings started but I got distracted when someone came home. Read more »
Back in August, I had my first super O. The feelings were unlike anything I can describe. I haven’t played with my aneros in about a month, so I popped it in the other day out of curiosity. I did what I did the time I orgasmed, like rubbing my nipples. I felt the pressure build up, but instead of going crazy like last time, I just got the most blissful feeling run through me. I felt so relaxed and floaty. I was super hard like before, and the pre cum leakage was crazy, but I never had spasms or anything. I moaned and laughed uncontrollably. Anyone say this was a super O?
I’m practicing (try) for a long time ,many years ,but I don’t understand how to get what you want
i tried different models,tried different lubricants, water and oil,i tried different poses,i tried different techniques : breathe belly,squeeze the anus (and at the same time legs) ,I have tried retract (with a relaxed anus) ,I have tried at the same time strain or relax the penis, i tried to work out nipples (3-4 months “the effect is not bad but weak), I tried in the end to just be relaxed and insert and do nothing but the result is very small,what can you advise or suggest
(sorry for mistakes and shortcomings Gtranslate)
TLDR: used the progasm for the first time and it absolutely ROCKED my world.
In terms of prostate play I would still consider myself a rookie but I am proud to say I’ve been slowly gaining progress. I initially started off with the helix syn (very popular choice in here), this helped my body better understand the difference between the muscles used in prostate play. After 6 months, I felt like it was time to step it up to the next level so I decided to treat myself to the progasm. Few days pass and I get a notification saying my progasm has arrived. I wanted to wait until the night since my body tends to react better but the anticipation and excitement was driving me CRAZY! After I lubed myself and relaxed the moment had finally come (no pun intended). I slipped in the program and WOW immediately my body started to tremble. I literally had to catch my breath and relax again since I was going out of control!! After probably about 2 minutes I was leaking out of control, probably the MOST I’ve ever leaked in my life. However, here’s the climax, literally after a few contractions my body couldn’t take it anymore and I exploded EVERYWHERE. Never in my life did I think a piece of plastic would drive me this insane! I don’t think I’ve experienced something so powerful ever in my life!! Read more »
Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.
If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.
When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O. Read more »
My anal orgasms were fluttering and melting away in pleasant gentle pulsing spasms as I trembled in quiet arousal. As they faded, I remained on my back on the rumpled bed savoring the sweet anguish of orgasmic after glow. The Tempo was still inside me pressing gently on my prostate; it was passively provoking my prostate sending lingering sexy chills up my spine. He had lain down next to me, his skin was warm on mine. I put my arm around him and drew him to me; as I did I looked down at his penis which was fully erect.
Mine was laying on my belly semi erect pointing due north as was his. The experience of looking at two erect cocks laying side by side was unusual for me to say the least. He had one of the most beautiful cocks I had ever been given the chance to gaze at; it was mesmerizing. I love cocks. I love cock heads, I love how an erect penis looks and feels and I love to watch them ejaculate. Most of all though I love to suck and taunt cock heads with my tongue as the tip of my tongue parts the delicate slit at the tip, toying with it. I love to trace the rigid crown that defines a well sculpted corona with my tongue until it swells and erupts his ejaculate. Read more »
In my first hookup with a man two years earlier we were both nervous. At that time I was not really at ease with my morphing sexuality. However, two years had passed between my first tryst and this one. During that time, I grew to be more comfortable with who I was becoming sexually. I was getting more at ease with my changing desires and my anal orgasmic response; as I relaxed into my rewired “new sexuality”, a desire for male intimacy infiltrated my psyche. The desire to kiss a male sex partner became an expression of my libido and a must do in my menu of sex acts with any man and this one that evening in particular. Kissing had always been a cornerstone in my foreplay with women and that night it would be no different.
The key that opened the door to this new world that night was that I had cast aside my shame, and given into my limbic desire. My own admission to myself was feeding my libido. Revealing it openly and unabashedly to an attractive and very desirable male sex partner was feeding his libido in equal measure; his cock was stone hard. It was profoundly arousing. The excitement and lack of shame I felt kissing a hot naked man in foreplay was flying in the face of the social taboo that had governed me in my past; that excitement was forging my cock to iron. Kissing him on the lips was a big deal; however kissing him in bed in foreplay was beyond a big deal. All of this was having a profound impact on me. Read more »
have already experencied handsfree wet orgasms by prostate play, but I’m looking for dry prostate ones..
After reading a lot I decided to do the basics: abstain from cum several days before a session, relax my whole body, forget about my dick, try the do nothing method + some slight pc and anal contractions.. and I had the best session so far! Very pleasurable, horny as*, and after a while I felt things getting very intense to a point where I called a “climax”, when I felt a very subtle contraction centered in the prostate, but that was all.. this repeated for 3 more times (and were getting even more intense), but I couldnt manage to feel a full on orgasm.
Here are my questions:
1- do dry orgasms usually start like this for begginers? Very subtle “peak” feelings. If so, they get stronger with time and practice?
2- do you feel strong pelvic contractions when you have a dry orgasm? Like in a regular penile wet one. I ask this because I have yet to find dry orgasm videos with regular perineum throbbing..
Thanks a lot!