Brand new user milestone ?

I am brand new to the world of anal play as a whole but have been curious and researching it over the last few years. About 2 weeks ago I decided to finally purchase a Helix Trident and have had 5 or 6 sessions. I am having a good experience so far, and just wanted to compare the path my progress is taking to the average, and maybe get some tips or method critiques. I had been practicing mindfulness meditation and targeting specific muscle groups to relax already so a lot of the principles were familiar to me. It’s taken some getting used to having something up there but I feel like im adjusting well. I feel that “need to pee” and do nothing for a while as I relax my muscles entirely and breathe steadily and deeply. I can envision it sitting there and feel the pressure it provides. In today’s session I decided to slowly, with as little force as possible, flex to a certain point

And today’s session, for the first time, yielded involuntary contractions! It was an interesting feeling but pleasurable, they were rapid and steady instead of “bursty” like i was expecting from what I had read, and if I flexed to a specific strength and held it like that I could keep it going. It was exciting, I have read that that is a sign of progress! Should I be striving for that and to keep it going for as long as possible, or just stay mindful and let it do its thing, relax after a little while, then do it again etc?

Three firsts for me

Had another great session today during which three different things happened:

1. I had a calm seas during urination. I occasionally like urine play and I usually have a absorbent bed pad laid down. I had to urinate and did not want to make a trip to the bathroom. It’s sort of hard to disregard the training and wet the bed and that keeps a very pleasant tension as you try to start the flow. I relaxed into it and let the stream go. During this I was suspended in a very pleasant calm seas orgasm. The pulsation after the flow stopped pushed me just a bit further. I cleaned up from that and continued my session leading to the second happening.

2. I had a Super-O while fantasizing about a Trans person at work. I’ve considered myself hetero my whole life but something happened last week that made me ponder. This person is Asian and I’m not sure if they are male to female or female to male. They (their preferred pronoun) have breasts and a very soft gentle face but also some male characteristics, male figure and legs. They came up last week and asked us what we were doing. We were preparing a section of conveyor belt. When they approached I was overcome with butterflies! I wanted to fuck and be fucked by them. I used that fantasy during this session and it propelled me into a brutally pleasant Super-O.

Orgasms changed mid sessions

So I was having a session last night and something interesting happened. My orgasms took on a totally different form than they normally do. Usually I get the intense sensation of being about to cum and then orgasm accompanied by an intense, prolonged contraction of the PC and anal muscles. They don’t pulse like they do with traditional orgasm, they just hold tight without letting up at all. The pleasure is focused entirely around my crotch and can come from different areas as the orgasm rolls into multiples, but it’s all centered around my crotch.

Then, last night I decided that I would try to fight against the contractions and try to keep the muscles unclenched because I’ve heard people say to relax into the orgasm. This is nearly impossible and I can only keep it up for a few moments before the sensations become too much and my body clenches up. When I fight to stay unclenched I’ll usually get a crazy vibration through my body and vision that isnt pleasurable, just a crazy intense sensation. But I kept at it and tried more and more to keep the muscles as unclenched as possible (I won’t say “relaxed” because there’s nothing relaxing about this, it’s hard as hell to keep my body from writhing and clenching). A few times the sensations built and faded away which was a little disappointing because I felt like I was missing out on some orgasms. But then something changed and I started having orgasms again, but this time there was no central focal point. My crotch was no longer the focus of the orgasm and instead it was like my whole body was orgasming. It was really strange honestly. Not having an area of focus was weird and I didn’t know what to think. Like, I can’t tell if the orgasms were as good or better or worse than the others I normally get. It was just very strange and interesting. I was still writhing around and shaking like a man possessed, but the orgasms had a totally different feel to them since the pleasure was hardly in my crotch at all.

Not quite sure what happened..hips rotating (21 male gay)

I have had my aneros (a Progasm) for a few months now, but kind of went off it as I found that when I used it my sessions wouldn’t really go anywhere. However, lately I decided to give it another try, as I had been craving the feeling of it inside me, the point of lying in bed at night and performing random voluntary contractions to remind me of the stimulation of it.

I lubed it up with Boy Butter and inserted it slowly, after teasing my hole with the end of it for a few minutes. Now in general, I would say that I had a good session, but there weren’t any dry orgasms or hfwo. There was a distinct moment where I was watching this gay porno, getting so turned on, that felt like I needed to contract really hard on it, and moving my hips in a circulator motion. There was excitement and definitely some precum, but it wasn’t amounting to anything concret like a dry orgasm or a super orgasm. My main goal is not actually to have a super orgasm, but dry orgasms. There’s a great porn hub video of a guy achieving 36 orgasms and moaning in ecstasy, while he is on all fours and in various different positions. I want the aneros to consume my hole and rewire my brain into craving a new form of sexual ecstasy. I stayed relaxed in the session and focused on thoughts of sex and the videos I was watching, as well as imagining the device inside me – that seemed to be quite a turn on. But I didn’t get anything concrete. I even touched my nipples. It was a good session but I’d love some advice as to how I could maybe have gone further. Also, as a rule, do you avoid taking it out and then putting it back in again? And, lastly, the position of knelling by the bed and arching my body over it appeared to work quite well but I was worried about the device falling out, and my head was not comfortable – I wasn’t sure where to put it essentially. Are there any tips for that position/people who do it that way?

Any good experiencies in the shower?

I usually have success in a bath tub but have never thought of under a shower, but have been considering. My goal is to insert Aneros and micro dose some weed, then have a relaxing hot long shower and see what happens next

Haircut Mini-O

I’ve been amped up with arousal for a week and today I went in for a haircut at a place that washes hair while in a massage chair. The woman cutting my hair was slender with nice blond hair and a great ass. I was kind of buzzing with sexual energy throughout the haircut but when she reached forward to remove the drape her hair went across my shoulders and women’s hair really turns me on. I visualized for and instant that she was back there preparing to peg me! We went to the wash stations in the back and I sat in the chair which has a vibrating seat, reclined and relaxed. Hot towel on my face, luxurious scalp massage, the vibrating chair, the thought of the hair stylist pegging my ass all converged into a Mini-O. Legs shaking and penis pulsating in time with my PC contractions. I kind of had to fight to keep from flipping over into a full blown Super-O. The wash over, I walked back to the styling chair with a stupid grin. Luckily the pre-cum soaking my underwear had not made an appearance through my shorts.

Recent Super-O

My Eupho Trident nestles serenely in my tight slick anus. I relax into it and feel it’s gentle probing, the tip perfectly nuzzled against my eager gland. I visualize my cock surrounded by the beautiful glistening inner labia of a stunningly sexy Latina that I work with. Hot, slick, fantastically beautiful pussy lips envelope my shaft as I slowly glide in and out of her. I hold a reverse kegel for a few moments and I am overwhelmed with a thrashing, moaning Super-O the likes of which I have never experienced before, the Aneros auto-fucking my pulsating hole. What a fantastic experience!

If you are stuck maybe take a break for a couple of weeks

After not having a lot of progress over the last half year or so I was getting a bit tired of my Aneros collection. It got to the point where I prepared myself a couple of times but as soon as I layed down I decided that sleeping was the better option.

I used a Lovense Edge sometimes which was nice but not much to write home about. Other times I jerked it normally, maybe with some perineum massage. I didn’t totally stop prostate play but I certainly did it way less frequently.

Well, after like a month of doing this the urge to try a massager again got me. My first session with the Eupho was decent but nothing new.

A couple days later though my prostate started to tingle during the day. I was looking forward to trying again. I used the Helix that night and it was the first session where I could continuously feel the Aneros rubbing my prostate. As normal I finished by stimulating my penis but this was easily one of my best sessions.

I think taking a break helped me to get rid of old patterns. Generally I was much more relaxed than previously and didn’t buck my hips up and down when things got going. Also I wasn’t contracting as strongly as before. I would contract only lightly and wait a couple of seconds to feel the pressure from the helix. Then I fully released and started again.

Other Orgasm Techniques (Re-Posted)

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have also liked to combine my sessions with a a variety of different things I was curious about in solo play to achieve multiple orgasms. I always also wished to pursue a HFWO orgasm which kept getting away from me. Despite achieving a SuperO with Aneros, I still wanted to try all options of sexual pleasure, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both) away from your partner. Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I can never satisfy my curiosity. If you haven any others, post a comment or send a message. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

BDSM: eStim or Sounding 4/10 – not for me. I have invested serious cash into the set up and finally had a hwfo with eStim, using a plug, pads and rings and a quality machine. Quality matters, but to me the orgasm was dulled out by the electricity (or by pain!). Sounding was fun but always felt too invasive. Maybe I need an expert to tie me up and show me the real deal. I would like to try rope play, sensory deprivation and several other things.

Anal Orgasms… 10 Years On.

Welcome back to my blog! Several of my original entries were deleted due to website issues this year, so I decided to repost them. I do not have the original comments to most of the posts, so feel free to comment again! Thank you and I hope you enjoy reading about my Aneros journey.

I typically use Aneros when there’s plenty of time, I am alone and I can relax to enjoy it. My partner used to travel a lot for work, but doesn’t do it so much anymore. We also share a large house with his family member, so I am rarely here by myself. I still enjoy sex with my partner and it is amazing both when I top and when I bottom, but I never cum handsfree. was always envious of those that can find a way to do so and particularly have a HFWO which I have never had. Never ever. I have tried riding my partner every which way, every form of toy and spent a lot of money buying and throwing things out like fucking machines or supplements and even shrooms that simply didn’t work or change anything. In the end, I simply considered myself to be one of those people for whom it will never happen. I own an nJoy wand but only use it sometimes to milk myself after an Aneros session, never deriving substantial sexual pleasure or orgasming from it.