Experience after sex with wife

So I just got the helix last week and I am completely new to this prostate massage business. I had a couple decent sessions this week, the second one I think I might have reached prostate orgasm, although I’m not sure if I can distinguish it correctly (it felt really damn good). Anyway tonight I told my wife about this and then we had sex while I had the Aneros in my ass. Once I knew she was satisfied I let myself cum and had a fantastic regular orgasm which absolutely drained me! My wife went to the shower as I just relaxed on the bed, so I thought I would do some Kegels for the sport of it, not expecting anything. Within a minute or two I was already trembling. By the time my wife got back from her shower I was going wild and I told her to get over and hold me tight! She didn’t know what the hell was happening but we shared the experience. I was feeling this full body tingling sensation for probably ten minutes or more and it was incredible. Can anyone tell me if this is the actual Super-O I keep hearing about or am I getting close or what stage am I at? Anyway, for those of you learning this like I am, maybe this is helpful.

Thanks for listening, I don’t know who else to tell!

Almost there … aaand it’s gone.

I am a bit frustrated. User of an Helix once every 1-2 weeks since.. 2 years? All tridents. Note I am quite a thin person (136 lbs) per 5 foot 8. I usually need to do something like 2h of session. My best position seems to be on my back, with a pillow below, On the side i loose track soon.

Here’s what I usually do: I get there, empty out, wait, relax, get aroused and pull the helix syn in. Start breathing deep, after a few minutes, also with my stomach. I tend to feel the pressure as need to pee. After a few minutes when I exhale i can feel something happening, like a bit when you did something wrong as a kid and you got something sinking in your stomach, but pleasurable.

After a while, I would get to a point where it starts feeling quite good very few seconds. Those sensation come and go. Some precum.. Then my dick would get hard and things starts to go south, as i usually don’t get contact with my prostate anymore. I move position and i manage to get it again.

At this point (say, 30 mins in) I usually need to start some contractions (I am trying to Kegel these days) but in general i try the Tug of War technique. Nothing, would change from the above scheme. I can go slow, I can go fast i still get some of those erections, some of those good feelings but then things die out.

Using a back massager to relax lead me to the Super O – IF YOU SIT IN A CHAIR ALL DAY READ THIS

If you sit all day and don’t have an active stretching or exercise routine (pretty much most of us in COVID) chances are you have some soreness or tightness around the pelvic region. Whether its’s your hips, glutes, or even lower back, tension in these areas can make it very difficult to relax.

After 5 years of trying (from 2014 onward) with only a few minor successes, a few weeks after regularly using a pressure point massager (the one I used is linked below but they all pretty much do the same thing) to loosen and work those areas I starting having consistent P-waves, leading up to my first SuperO a few days later. This was autumn of 2019. Now I am able to reach SuperO with some consistency, and recently had my first A-less SuperO.

Once I put two and two together I was absolutely astounded. It seems so obvious now that I think about it in hind sight.

Currently, my routine consists of inserting Aneros and spending at least 10-15min loosening up my hips while I get use to the toy. Personally, I find it most effective to stretch and actively move the point I am massaging. If you are especially sore this might hurt, so please be gentle.

I hope you are able to find this useful, please feel free to comment / reach out with questions and I will be happy to respond.

Massager I Use: [https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW](https://www.amazon.com/Thera-Cane-MAX-Trigger-Massager/dp/B00IRM2KJW)

Advice needed to help attempting the Super O.

So it feels like I’m literally going no where with my aneros helux syn trident. Been going at it since around late may this year. I stopped chasing after about 2 months.
I’m aware from what I’ve read that some achieve it easily and others take years. I dont do weed or poppers which from what I’ve read helps alot of guys. I go into every session expecting nothing but just enjoy what I feel, and its getting me no where. As I said I enjoy what I feel but its same sensations everytime.

I do get great sensations. I practice both “relax & do nothing” and tug of war, well i try to practice them.

What are some of the techniques that guys have used that gets them over that line??

And how important is breathing, Ive read heavy and fast, deep and slow. I know everyone is different because I’ve read around.

I also practise kegals at least everyday to every second day.

My newest toy

I posted the other day about my new toy, the D Thang silicone dildo from Blush Novelties, and how my first few sessions were so amazing.

[https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/lZ0AAOSwHrlcAV~o/s-l600.jpg](https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/lZ0AAOSwHrlcAV~o/s-l600.jpg)

I wanted to expand on that post, because I’ve had a couple more awesome sessions since. Here’s how the last sessions went down…

I start off by setting up the dildo for action. I like to be in doggie position when riding the dildo, so I use a small plastic cooler to position the dildo away from the wall so that my legs can go to either side and the dildo is at anus height. The suction cup sticks to the plastic surface like its welded on. I put a cushion just in front of the cooler for my knees, then place a laundry basket upside down in front of the cushion, with a pillow on top. This allows me to rest my torso on top of the laundry basket/pillow while riding the dildo in perfect comfort. I lubed up the shaft of the dildo with coconut oil and then sat down in my recliner to warm up with a couple of Aneros toys.

After the dildo was ready, I smoked a little weed, and loaded a good dose of poppers into my sippy-cup delivery system. Last session began with my MGXTrident, then the Progasm Ice. I relaxed with the MGX until the first couple p-waves happen, then gave it a little assist with a hit of poppers. This led to some nice mini-Os, and I knew I was ready for the dildo. BTW, during this warm-up, looking over at the 6″ dildo glistening in wait really builds the arousal.

What was that!

Long story short been at it for a about 3 months on and off. Not really felt anything until a week ago.

Basically I was using the condom technique (2nd time trying it) as my lube keeps drying up with the helix trident and I noticed as I was doing light kegals what felt like an itch real deep in the rectum of what felt like the end of the condom just tickling very faintly(not sure if that’s the case or if it was actually the aneros but that’s what it felt like). So I was just enjoying this new feeling and then about 5 minutes or so out of nowhere the tickling turned into waves of sexual energy erupting. My breathing got faster, toes started to curl and started getting hard, pleasure building on every kegel to levels of pleasure I never even thought possible!

Then my penis scraped my tummy as it got hard and then all of a sudden as quick as it came on it disappeared completely. The itch was gone now and I relaxed and tried various methods over the course of 30 minutes or so to no avail.

Just wondering if anyone else just focuses on an itch deep inside or if that was maybe luck that the condom was waving around. I don’t recall anyone ever having an experience like this before and I’ve not felt it in subsequent sessions either?

My first Super O!!!

Needless to say it took me almost two years but it finally arrived last night! OMG!!!!!!

I was bored at home and decided to insert the Aneros to see if something would happen (yes, I had no motivation to keep playing with it due to the long time being). Laid down on my couch, some porn, weed and poppers.

Funny thing is, after over 6 hours of play, all I was able to achieve was to cum touching myself twice.

Alright, get ready for bedtime but then I noticed my insides continued to shake uncontrollably…. and I was like OK this has to be a sign! Got my Aneros inside again and laid down with some binaural sounds and gently nipple touching…. then boy… oh boy…. I felt something building up, and up, and up… at that point I knew it was coming 100%. So I got my poppers and sniffed it for about 7 seconds. Relax. RELAX. And then BOOOOOOM. My legs were up, my whole body was shaking and the feeling inside was something I had never, never experienced before! It feels like you’re in the middle of a choppy ocean and by every water move your insides resonate and continue to follow the waves. CRAZY! I have to say, I moaned like a little b*tch for about a minute. Super crazily intense stuff!

Now I’m wondering if it will be easier to achieve more super O? Or do I have to continue practicing for another 2 years? LMAO

Body is shaking but no feeling?

Hello, I need some advice on what happened yesterday.

I got my aneros helix syn years ago and i’ve been experimenting with the help available on reddit. Yesterday was the furthest i’ve gotten I think and my biggest milestone.

Roughly one hour in my whole body was heavily shaking involuntarily as described by many guys as part of the super O, however I had no pleasureable feelings when this occurred. It looked like I was possessed by some evil spirit lol, my legs was spazzing all over the place and my hips were trusting up and down.

I do feel super relaxed and warm, like im in a deep meditation, but mostly I don’t feel much. Will this grow in time or am I forgetting something?

First Hands Free Wet Orgasm

Just had my first hands free orgasm tonight and holy shit it was incredible! Easily one of the best orgasms of my life! I was laying there for like a good 10-15 minutes post nut, just trying to gather my thoughts of what just happened. I guess what tripped me out was the fact that I have only used the aneros less than 5 times, and I already achieved a handsfree wet orgasm. So I am by no means a pro at this, but here are a few tips that I follow that helped me achieve this….

1.) Warm up your ass and get yourself in the mood.
(I try and work up to 2 fingers before I slide the toy inside.)

2.) Take a nice hot bath/shower to relax yourself.

3.) Get rid of all expectations. Just go in with the mindset of imma relax and if anything happens, well than that’s a plus. (It’s all about mindset!!!)

4.) BREATHE!!! Make sure you take nice big breaths to help you stay relaxed and focused. (Even during P Waves and Dry Orgasms)

5.) Don’t over do it with the Kegels. This is completely subjective and it works for me, but I personally just let the toy do all the work. I will however, do some light Kegels to get things going but after that, I let the aneros do what it does. Basically, don’t be doing non stop Kegels and wonder why you’re not feeling anything. Let the toy do its thing.