Am I close?

So I had a session yesterday and it was extremely pleasurable. I was moving my Aneros Progasm with my anal sphyncter for about an hour and it made me feel like I was about to ejaculate (don’t know if this is how it’s supposed to feel). I was really aroused, but I wasn’t relaxed. The point is that the more aroused, the less relaxed I become. However, I didn’t ejaculate (which is not my goal) neither had an orgasm. Have any of you had an orgasm without being relaxed? I always go to a peak and then go down again with no sucess. I can’t go beyond that point. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.

Multimode Super O

Try this:

Lube up a Helix and send it in. Lie down and relax. Widen your ass hole. Let the Helix roam free.

Cue up this audio track and poke in your earbuds


Bring this video full screen


Diddle your nipples.

If this doesn’t bring you to bliss, you are trying to hard.

Sleepiness, Boredom, and Arousal

Hello everyone,

I’ve been using my Helix Syn for the past 5 months with some decent results.

Relaxation and arousal are often cited as key elements to success. However, I have been having two issues with this. First, I can easily relax, but this causes me to quickly fall asleep in the middle of my sessions, which is not exactly conducive to making progress.

Second, if I instead concentrate heavily on maintaining arousal and focusing on sensations, I become mentally exhausted rather quickly.

Many users report that they require 2-3 hour sessions to make progress, especially at the beginning of the journey. I can barely last an hour without either falling asleep, becoming bored, or becoming mentally exhausted and distracted.

Any tips on how to overcome this challenge would be greatly appreciated. Thanks !

The Quick and Dirty Path to the Super-O

Taken from the Aneros forum, from user CaveOfMystery… With all the problems inherent to their forums, I thought this should exist outside the forum, lest it should disappear one day… Enjoy and good luck:

The purpose of this post is hopefully to help a few people who are not getting the results they hoped for with their Aneros. By no means will these techniques necessarily guarantee you a Super-O, but they may help you on your journey.

I bought my Aneros models a couple of years ago (Eupho and Helix) and during that time they were a point of curiosity but nothing more. I didn’t do a whole lot with them, and I didn’t really do deep reading on either device. The few times I used them, they provided some interesting sensations, Super-Ts, and the like, but nothing close to a Super-O. In fact I pretty much thought a Super-O was a Super-T. I did do some reading in the forums, but when I read the accounts of the Super-Os, I thought they were impossible exaggerations designed to hype an overpriced piece of plastic. Boy was I WRONG.

Recently I’ve revisited these devices with incredible results. This time I went through and read everything, the Wiki, forum posts, etc. I took note of the advice and set off to see if I could get these doohickeys to fulfill their ultimate purpose… The Super-O.

Huuuuuge Progress… but not quite there yet…

I just had the best session I’ve ever had in my two years with the Aneros. I don’t know, I was just having a session and playing with it. Doing soft contractions, then letting go and letting the toy rub and press on my prostate. It felt really good, and I was playing with my nipples (They’ve slowly become more sensitive and make my prostate tingle). While I was just enjoying myself, relaxing, suddenly something happened. Something clicked and everything just became to quiet, my prostate became extremely sensitive (just thinking about it is making me horny). It felt like my toy had grew larger inside me. I could hear my heart, and it felt like I was on the verge of a really strong orgasm (from my ass). I felt the p-waves coming from my prostate. It felt sooo good, it was almost frightening. I did my best to relax, and not contract or anything. Just letting my body do it’s thing and enjoy it. So many times it felt like I was just right there, but couldn’t quite get myself over the edge in to bliss. Eventually the moment passed and I was felt so good. I was still squeezing down involuntarily and my prostate was buzzing (Even now as I type this it’s still tingling).

Is that what it’s like when you’re gonna get a super o? Does anyone have any advice on what I could do in that moment that can help send me over the edge? Any help is appreciated, I’m truly excited for the next time I have the time for a session. Sheeesh… that was amazing!

I rather suck at this.

After that one warmish maybe-P-wave incident, nothing much has happened since then. That was about 7 sessions ago give-or-take.

I just lie there, relaxed, breathing diaphragmatically, trying to keep my mind clear, and listening for any sensation down there. Nada. Not a peep of involuntary movement. By the time my 60 minute timer is up I’m usually starting to doze off. 😑

I tried to do as described in [this thread]( from the Aneros forums, but the only part of my body that responds is my balls now, so that’s no use.

I gotta change something up. I’ve gone over the Wiki a fair bit but I find it’s a bit scant on what you should do at what level, and I’m clearly still a newbie.

Can anyone recommend some changes I can implement that might make things move along a bit more, or at least make them more interesting? So little is happening I can’t shake the feeling that there’s something very wrong with how I’m approaching using my Aneros.

I know you’re not supposed to expect anything, but let’s be real, before you start you should at least make sure the way you intend to practice is conducive to something *possibly* happening.


[PS: My sole Aneros is a Helix Syn Trident]

Just had a full body orgasm – several infact – here are concrete steps that worked for me

Ok, so I’m not gonna go into backstory or yadda yadda, this will just be a step-by-step of what happened to me and maybe what might happen to you. I’ll go into some grody details, but I think they’re necessary, read at your leisure:

**So, step one**: Make sure you eat food that won’t gove you the “runs”. Stay away from prunes and beans and stuff like that. I ate cereal for dinner – because that’s how I roll – and a rye sourdough bread sandwich. (Grody details ahead) I went to the bathroom right before going to bed and I felt like I didn’t get all of it out, but it felt solid, plus it actually kind of already pushed on my prostate (Grody details over).

**Step two:** Get a LOT of Lube and insert your toy of choice. I used an Aneros Helix Syn Trident, but use what you have, or get the toy I used.

**Step three:** Relax. And I know you’re thinking “yeah I’ve tried that, it doesn’t work”. No no no, you need to RELAX.
Personally I have a Really hard time to just “stop thinking about things, but I relaxed my body, and then – because I’ve been watching Sexplenations on youtube – I decided to use a trick Dr. Doe is telling women: Distract yourself – read a book or something. I actually found that it helped me relax More counterintuitively enough.
I think it’s like when you’re trying to remember a dream; if you think about the dream, you’re pushing the dream away. Instead if you try to think of basically **Anything else**, the dream might return to you.
Personally I thought about a story I’m thinking about writing; I thought about the characters, their relationships, their height, what kind of pet they would have, what the city they live in is like. Think about something pleasant that makes you feel good and content.

Something just clicked

I was planning on making a post today about this problem I’ve had just about all year. During Aneros sessions I could vaguely feel the toy touching my prostate, but not that beautiful butt buzz I used to always get. Curiously, I could feel many of the secondary effects of the Aneros, but not the direct contact with the prostate that I love so much. I have been able to have occasional full bodied orgasms of varying intensity, but my prostate was never tingling, it was always more of a dull feeling that, while I could identify it, wasn’t as overwhelmingly pleasurable as I have experienced in the past.

Last night I had an amazing session. I had a difricult time relaxing at first, but once I did my butt started to tingle and buzz. I felt my anal canal *deeply* relax. I reached many dry orgasms and had one or two wonderful full bodied orgasms where I could feel warm pleasure radiating out from my prostate all across my body. I felt very contented and complete. It’s like I’ve been missing something for a long time and now I’m finally whole again.

It’s crazy how things can all of a sudden “click”! My butt has been buzzing all day which hasn’t happened in a really long time.