So I’ve been playing seriously now for a few months with reasonable success. What I believe to be dry orgasms, p-waves and the like. My dry orgasms seem to be this pressure that starts in my prostate and then just snaps to these really strong abdominal spasms.
I haven’t had sex for a few weeks and have been really run down of late so haven’t been playing much. I woke up this morning with a naughty urge and thought some special cuddles might be worth a shot. I was surprised when my wife took a rain check until after she showered but gave me a blow job instead. I was even more surprised when I started having the same abdominal spasms when I was coming from the blow job!
She was asking what was happening but didn’t have the guts to tell her the truth.
Would like some feedback from people that have first hand experience. Not new to p massage, but not had good experiences yet.
I want one that is comfortable to leave in while I’m doing other stuff, shopping, dinner with the wife, etc. would like a vibrating and non vibrating option. Which one would be comfortable for sitting clothed?
Sorry if this has been answered before, but looking through post history didn’t give me what I need. And price is no object.
I know the prostate isn’t a magic button but by god it felt like one this morning. I must have been having some wicked dreams and got myself pretty aroused overnight.
I woke to find my wife not in bed which means I’ve been snoring during the night and she’s relocated. It not unusual.
Sensing an opportunity I jumped up squirted some lube in and quickly popped my helix in. It sucked into me like a magnet and I felt it slam into my prostate like a hammer. I swear I was starting to dry orgasm before I got back into bed. I continued this way for 40 minutes before I had to get up.
What a great way to start the day.
This is my first blog ever. I had nerve sparing radical prostatectomy about 2.5 years ago. A great deal of time is spent talking about erections, but I was at a loss when it came to information on pleasure and orgasm. The only results I got from Cialis or Viagra was partial erections while urinating while sitting down, for a few days following. I also tried pumps but was not a big fan. Through it all my wife has been supportive, but I was left feeling that she was more on the sidelines waiting for me to figure it out leaving me frustrated and unjustifiably angry with her. The stress on our marriage has been extreme. I was given very little support from my doctor other than erection pills, penis injections or surgery to put a pump in my testicle sac to pump up an erection. Nothing addressed sexual pleasure other than being told the only kind of orgasm I could have would be a dry orgasm. “WTF” does that even mean.
After 2 years of trying, failing, and doing my own research to address the fact that there seemed to be some correlation between my erections and stimulation of the internal nerves that were spared during the surgery. I researched prostate massagers to if any might stimulate the spared nerves even though the prostate was removed. I discussed the possibility of benefit with my doctor’s office and had a very difficult discussion with my wife. I was so relieved when she responded that she loved me and would work with me to figure it out. I settled on the Helix Syn V and Progasm. I found the Progasm comfortable enough to wear while slept. Within a week or so of leaving it in all night every night I started getting erections while peeing sitting down even though I hadn’t taken any erection medication.
I have been able to give my wife orgasms without having an erection, but I was denied any form of physical pleasure myself. One night lying in bed on my stomach facing away from my wife, my legs spread and the Progasm inside me, I asked her to roll over and put her leg over mine. When she did I my body responded and did it ever. Every muscle in my body was contracting, my toes curled, I started panting and maybe even whimpering. This built up for several minutes until I was able to catch my breath and relax, but not for long before I started to blast off again. I not sure but I think this rolling orgasm lasted more than 30 minutes. We were traveling the next day and that night it happened again. So much of my frustration and anger was feeling that sexual pleasure was something that I would never experience again. I can honestly say that I have never had an orgasm as intense or satisfying. Any more my wife can roll over and rub my ankle and get me fired up. I feel the sensations when on my own but never to the extent as I do when my wife is with me.
At this point I’m looking for some counseling. I’m still frustrated with the medical community for their lack of help finding quality of life solutions for their patients. I shouldn’t have had to spend the amount of time I did in pornography to find medical information that the medical community is to squeamish to talk about. Grow up already!
So I just got my Aneros this week. I am one of the lucky people where first use was mind blowing. Like life changing experience because I didn’t know I could feel something that intense. I used it by myself the first time and with my wife the second. I have taken one day off, but I can’t stop thinking about using it. Any issues with frequency other than overstimulation to where it desensitizes your prostate?
Looking for a new Aneros for use during sex with my wife. I have used the helix classic but I’m looking for something larger. I’m between Maximus and Progasm. Suggestions?
After chasing the elusive prostate orgasm with mediocre results and only one partial orgasm I finally placed my order. I did weeks of research trying to find the perfect massager, I literally looked at virtually every one out there and read reviews but was constantly lead back to the Aneros line. The hardest part then was choosing a model. I finally narrowed it down to the Maximus trident or the Progasm Black Ice. My wife then made the decision for me and picked the Maximus because she felt it would be easier to get moving. I’m super excited to receive it and start learning.
In my quest for a better way to strengthen my pelvic floor ie. kegel exercises, a few weeks ago, I stumbled across an article about the Levator Prostatae Muscle. In males it’s the most medial fibers of the levator ani (pubococcygeus) muscle. It extends from the pubis into the fascia of the prostate. Yes!
With a little practice and attention to the sensation, have learned how to isolate this muscle and contract it while relaxing all other muscles in my pelvic aria.
Levator Prostatae Muscle Contractions, LPMC as I’m calling it, is when this muscle is repetitively contracted or “pulled”, my pelvis rotates ever so slightly and I can feel my prostate being lifted just a bit. Along with proper breathing, the feeling I get is like a pair of small, silk gloved hands caressing the sides of my prostate. Oh, Yes! And with this imagery in mind, the white gloves, after a while, I “come” to an incredibly sweet and trembling orgasm. Possibly the best ever. And then comes the wave of dopamine that completely washes over my body. Oh, yees! And now I need a nap.
The beauty of this is that it’s hands free, no ejaculation, no clean up, no cover up and no refractory period. All the fun, no baggage. My only draw back, at this point, is like any other muscle, it gets exhausted after a while and I need a little rest. However, I’ve been able to orgasm seven times in a three day period, so… Read more »
Hello all, as the title says complete beginner here. I’m looking for something to stimulate the prostate primarily during partnered intercourse with my wife. Having never experimented with anything more than a finger in and around the anus should I look into an Aneros trident, peridise, or a small plug (b-vibe, or Maude cone)? I’m concerned a trident or other aneros products would hinder positions and mobility during intercourse. Thanks in advance.
I decided to pregame while waiting for the wife. Got myself super horny, lubed up, inserted and relaxed. Got the the blood flowing, face got flush. Then comes in the wife in lace. I have my seamless PA ring in, normally she makes me take out the jewelry.
Took care of her so she’ll take care of me. All with my aneros in, start pounding, and good god my climax was mind blowing. Lasted well over a minute, aneros shot out, I was in too much heaven to control or care.
If you haven’t tried it. Put it in the bucket list.