Real headway: hold it steady

Hey all, first time commenting, but I’ve been lurking for a while. I hit a new level this evening.

My wife was talking with a relative on the phone so I figured I’d have a good hour or so I disturbed, so I put in my helix syn trident. I’ve been trying various things, but tonight I think I finally figured out the key. While in the past I focused a great deal on intentional contractions, tonight 90% of my focus was just upon maintaining the position of the device. Once I felt the tingles begin in my prostate and I could tell I was hitting the spot, I focused entirely on keeping it there. If it shifted, I immediately shifted to put it back (and I think it’s beginning to become muscle memory).

While holding in place, I tried to very lightly contract my outer sphincter—like the lightest I could. Again, keeping the device in position was my focus. But then everything involuntary started happening: many small contractions, legs shaking, harder contractions, tingling everywhere, eyes rolling back in my head and twitching, feeling my pulse throughout my body which also seemed to help the sensations, and, I just tried to hold it there and ride the waves.

Eventually I became aware that my dick was leaking, got the need to pee sensation, and it kept going. Eventually I had to let it go simply to get a moment of rest.

Used my new Aneros last night, first time.

After much reading and researching, I ordered my Aneros. I came in the mail yesterday, and I used it last night.

I used many of the techniques I had researched, by clenching my sphincter and my PC muscles and releasing and deep breathing techniques.

Eventually after much time, waves of pleasure kept coming and taking me for a ride. I enjoyed it, and it felt amazing. Did not have a wet orgasm, not sure if it was even a Super-O. But it felt great.

I laid on my back with my knees up, was the position I used. My wife laid in bed watching me quietly and she fingered her pussy while I played with the Aneros.

After a long time with the Aneros in, I didn’t think any more convulsions were coming, and I felt the need to cum.

I had my wife get a dildo, and use it on me (not pegging with a strap on, but just using the toy on my ass). The toy is much longer than the Helix Syn, and I felt the dildo hit my prostate better, so maybe I need a longer Aneros or something.

But overall, it was enjoyable and I want to do it again. It felt great and I highly recommend Aneros.

The biggest orgasm of my life, and how I got there

I’m floored. I’m lucky to have had pretty good luck with the aneros from the beginning. Though, I did have some experience with prostate stimulation before I ever tried the aneros.

This all started for me maybe 8 or 9 yrs ago, in my mid 20s, when an older woman (late 40s) who I was fooling around with talked me into letting her slip a finger inside me while she was edging/blowing me. I reluctantly agreed, but a huge part of our dynamic was her teaching me new things with her mostly focused on me. She loved exploring my body and I miss the fuck out of those edging sessions, and even more so the forced orgasms (she would legit make me cum 3-5 times over an hour or two). Anyway, she made me really comfortable before sliding her finger into me, and just left it there while she continued to play with me. After a while, she started giving me a light prostate massage (at the time, I had no idea what this was) and 20 minutes later I’m shaking and moaning like the most over dramatic female porn star as I cum buckets down her throat. I’ll never forget squeezing this woman’s body with my shaking legs as I opened my eyes gasping for air when I came back to reality. It was extremely intense.

Any Aless tips?

I was just wondering if anyone had any luck with aneros-less POs?

I gave it a go last night when I couldn’t sleep, and had more interesting sensations than many of the Aneros sessions I’ve had. I only stopped because I was worried I’d wake my wife 🙂

I’m definitely going to spend a bit more time with this to see where it goes…

For those that are wondering what I’m talking about this is just using muscle manipulation and breathing to get sensations.

Had multiple orgasms with wife. Five back to back.

I had the most AMAZING sex with my wife yesterday. She was on a work phone call so I put in my aneros progasm about an hour before her call ended and just relaxed that hour and enjoyed the feeling. When she was done with her call, she came in the bedroom, stripped, and got into bed with me. We were them just rubbing each other and I started fingering her. After a few minutes I entered her missionary for a little while, not really thrusting but just slowly moving. I then rolled over and she got on top. She sat on me with my dick inside her but not moving. I could feel the prostate massager doing its job and I was really building up. I was working my PC muscles to move the aneros and then it happened. I have FIVE orgasms back to back. They felt like prostate orgasms. I must have cum for two minutes straight; first time I have done anything like that. It was amazing. After the five orgasms, I rolled her over and came again doggie. I came six times in about 20 minutes. I was completely exhausted and can’t wait to try it again.

Wearing aneros out in public and sleeping with it in

Hi Everyone.

I have used aneros products off and on the last 8 years probably but haven’t in the last 2. Ever since I got married I stopped using it because my wife doesn’t know about how much I like playing with my prostate (she has weird hangups about anal sex in general).

Anyways, I plan on buying one tonight at the local sex store and wearing it after my wife falls asleep. I know that may prevent me from relaxing all the way and letting go, but I want to have something in there at night. Are there any complications from wearing it while you sleep? I know having enough lube is an important thing so it doesn’t dry out. But will I wake up in the middle of the night shaking and groaning from the aneros doing it’s thing?

Also, what is the stance on wearing it out in public? I know it will stay in there, but could it cause any problems and/or embarrassment?

I can’t fucking wait to start using this again!

Pull out or keep it pushed in to the max?

Hi guys,

I’ve had pretty decent success with a little bit of hand assisted motion. Regardless of the toy, I adjust.

My goal is to have the super O or ejaculate release beyond the series of mini-orgasms. I feel like I’m hitting a wall.

My question is this: When the pressure builds to a crescendo, I feel amazing! And the toy gets stuck and no movement is possible.. or at least slightly. But if I take a deep breath … it slips away. What should I do here?

I also play around with pulling the toy out at the top of the mini-orgasm. That gets me flowing and it is a different pleasure – but doesn’t seem to sustain. I thought it might because my wife gets the same pressure build up as she tries to squeeze my dick out. When it finally gets forced out by the power of her vagina, blam, she’s a squirting/cumming machine.

So it would seem to me that maybe pulling out and the sudden release of pressure is a good tactic?

Sorry! Confused!

The journey starts

My journey started last night, and I’m going to document it here in hopes the Aneros community will comment and help my discovery. Here goes….

Background on me….42M, pretty fit as I do yoga and CrossFit 6x a week. I have dabbled in anal before, but I didn’t even know prostate massage was a thing. My sex drive is way higher than my wife’s, and to satisfy those urges I jerk off…a LOT actually. I’m also dabbling in erotic Hypno with good results, I HFWO regularly.

Last month I stumbled across the Aneros forum and it spoke to me. I had to try it and ordered the helix syn trident, and spent the next week waiting for delivery and reading everything I could find about technique and what to expect.

I was practically shaking with anticipation, and I know I shouldn’t have expectations, but deep down I thought I’d be a natural because of my yoga and hypno training…that had to shorten the learning curve, right? Honestly, I was a bit scared. How intense was this going to be? My wife sleeps in another room because I snore, and doesn’t know I’m doing this (that woman can have multiple O’s on demand…this is about me!!).

P-waves and Big O without Progasm inserted?

I (61 M) am new to prostate play. In fact I did not know it was a thing until a couple of months ago. I’ve done some anal play with dildos and butt plugs in the past .
.and my wife and I tried pegging. We only did it a couple of times because she wasn’t fond of doing it.

I got a Progasm about 3 week ago. I’ve been using it a couple of hours a night about 4-5 times a week.

I started getting P-waves after the first few days and I think I am getting close to the big O. The last few times my abdomen and legs started contracting on their own and I felt like I was just about to go over the edge. I ended up breathing hard and my heart was racing at the end.

Last night I didn’t insert it but did some contractions anyway. I started getting P-waves and started up the rollercoaster but didn’t get to the top, as before. This went on for 30 minutes. I’m going to try again tonight with the Progasm in place.

Do others experience the Big O without extrinsic stimulation?

A-less Dry orgasm?

Well last night was a lot of fun. Smoked some weed with my wife and went to bed. Feel like I woke up a few hours later with the strong buzzing so I decided to ride it out and really get to know those sensations. This whole thing probably went for three hours with a lot of peaks and valleys, could feel the shortening of breathing and how a breath in/out affects the sensations. Also realized how those kegel exercises help out with this, I thought of it similar to a wind up toy (when the buzzing was subsiding, I’d do some quick squeezes to start it all up again). Also the various fantasies/memories of all the sexy kinky encounters had such an amazing impact on the session. Then at the peak, I felt like I came but was for sure dry, I didn’t feel any dampness but it felt like a normal release. This is a huge milestone for me! Made more progress without the aneros than the past few sessions I’ve had.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?