Going on my second week w/o cumming…super turned up, pretty much all the time at this point. My wife and I usually have great sex about once a week with teasing and play inbetween (she knows about my pgasms and how to bring me to them with external petting and stimulation), but we had family in town and I knew this past weekend was a no go. Nipple play and aless sessions are CRAZY intense right now. I’m usually good for about 5-7 days and then I’m just out of my mind and end up cumming. This is usually a pretty good formula and timeframe for a great sex life. I occasionally have the chance to make it last longer, that time of the month, family visits, travel, etc…
My question for the pros is…does this intensity keep ratcheting up the longer you go w/o ejaculating or does you body adjust and it sort of plateaus or goes in the opposite direction? I’ve heard of abstaining leading to wet dreams and hfwo, just wondering where to go from here.
Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.
If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.
When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O. Read more »
My anal orgasms were fluttering and melting away in pleasant gentle pulsing spasms as I trembled in quiet arousal. As they faded, I remained on my back on the rumpled bed savoring the sweet anguish of orgasmic after glow. The Tempo was still inside me pressing gently on my prostate; it was passively provoking my prostate sending lingering sexy chills up my spine. He had lain down next to me, his skin was warm on mine. I put my arm around him and drew him to me; as I did I looked down at his penis which was fully erect.
Mine was laying on my belly semi erect pointing due north as was his. The experience of looking at two erect cocks laying side by side was unusual for me to say the least. He had one of the most beautiful cocks I had ever been given the chance to gaze at; it was mesmerizing. I love cocks. I love cock heads, I love how an erect penis looks and feels and I love to watch them ejaculate. Most of all though I love to suck and taunt cock heads with my tongue as the tip of my tongue parts the delicate slit at the tip, toying with it. I love to trace the rigid crown that defines a well sculpted corona with my tongue until it swells and erupts his ejaculate. Read more »
In my first hookup with a man two years earlier we were both nervous. At that time I was not really at ease with my morphing sexuality. However, two years had passed between my first tryst and this one. During that time, I grew to be more comfortable with who I was becoming sexually. I was getting more at ease with my changing desires and my anal orgasmic response; as I relaxed into my rewired “new sexuality”, a desire for male intimacy infiltrated my psyche. The desire to kiss a male sex partner became an expression of my libido and a must do in my menu of sex acts with any man and this one that evening in particular. Kissing had always been a cornerstone in my foreplay with women and that night it would be no different.
The key that opened the door to this new world that night was that I had cast aside my shame, and given into my limbic desire. My own admission to myself was feeding my libido. Revealing it openly and unabashedly to an attractive and very desirable male sex partner was feeding his libido in equal measure; his cock was stone hard. It was profoundly arousing. The excitement and lack of shame I felt kissing a hot naked man in foreplay was flying in the face of the social taboo that had governed me in my past; that excitement was forging my cock to iron. Kissing him on the lips was a big deal; however kissing him in bed in foreplay was beyond a big deal. All of this was having a profound impact on me. Read more »
I glued the tab back on and had has held for a couple of PIV sessions with the wife, but i don’t expect that to last long term.
I had been looking for an additional aneros toy, something thinner, as the progasm messes with my hard-on quite a bit.
If you were to recommend an aneros toy, which one and why? Maybe stock with another progasm?
As an FYI, aneros is offering 20% off right now…
In the last couple of weeks I’ve had several break throughs and come further than I thought possible.
In my last post, I shared how I started with my Aneros Eupho before my wife joined me with her dildo and proceeded to fuck the cum out out of me.
Yesterday, was in some ways even more amazing.
I headed to bed early again with my Eupho, and was soon rolling with p-waves. I took some advice from r/aneros about how a p-wave itself *is* the prostate orgasm, just that it’s a mild form, and to just lt them keep building.
So after about an hour, my wife came up to bed. By this point I was a hot mess – moaning gently, shaking, and giving her needy looks.
She lay next to me and just started kissing me – gently exploring my mouth with her tongue. I know kissing is big turn on for her, and for the first time I could actually feel why.
Some more waves came and went, and she sat next to me in bed just watching – such a turn on!
She asked what she could do, so I just said to play with herself and passed her the dildo that she fucked me with last time.
All good so far – but this is when a dam seemed to break in me, as I gently moaned. I felt so much love radiating from being gently kneeded inside. I just decided to go for it and share some kinks and secrets that I’ve held back from telling her. Read more »