Has anybody here used an Aneros while getting a bj or hj from their wife/partner?
Sorry if this is a long post but I wanted to share my experience and would welcome any advice…
I’d had occasional pleasant feelings but nothing close to some of the experiences described in this forum. I didn’t bother trying for several years but then read through some of the details and tips provided in this forum recently and decided to try again. Some of the key changes that I’ve tried over the last few weeks..
1. Remove any expectation of an orgasm and just enjoy any good feelings
2. Breathing deeply when you inhale and exhale and using your whole body to do it
3. Big contractions aren’t good – either do nothing or do very gentle contractions
4. Use lots of lube (I’ve been trying boy butter recently and it feels much better and I don’t dry up as quickly).
5. Doing pelvic floor exercises through the day
I’ve had a lot more pleasurable feelings since doing this but last night was quite something else – although I didn’t have what would be described as a Pgasm or Super-O.
My wife and I went to bed and I was feeling a bit horny. She fell asleep so I decided to put the Maximus in and just have a light session and see what happened.
A week ago I had my second ever HFDO. It was mostly in my body and was borderline impossible to explain. I just felt electrical surges coursing through my body. Toes to head and back. My ass and prostate were involved but not nearly as much as I expected. Either way I can’t wait to try again. Since then I have had some unexpected side effects.
I’m way hornier. I can’t stop touching my wife, looking at porn, thinking about sex/turn ons.
My penis is definitely less pleasurable. I have a very hard time coming through traditional masturbation. Sex is still amazing and I still love stroking it and watching porn but something’s just different.
My prostate start’s pulsing a lot easier, especially when seated. I can’t wait for my next session.
Any explanations, advice or suggestions are all welcome.
Aneros user of about 10 years. Warning: long post ahead. Unfortunately no TL:DR. Tips and tricks section after the wall of text 🙂
While penis-centered sexuality as I learnt it as a teenager is more of a mechanical approach the joy your prostatate can give you requires a more holistic process. For me set and setting are important. Nowadays I rarely have time to use my aneros (job,kids,friends, sports … ) but when the opportunity arises the foreplay / preperation is an important part of the experience.
Throughout the day (s before) I do some PC muscle squeezes which already activate my prostate because it knows whats to come. I like to take a bath or a nice hot shower, do some hair removal around my penis, the balls and the perineum/anus (Sugaring ftw!) so everything is smooth and hairless, give myself a pedicure (soft feet feel amazing 😉 and eventually put on a jockstrap (it feels sexy and keeps the penis out of the way while the anus is accessible) and douche just for the ease of mind. Ill then go about some chores, gardenwork, go for a walk or do some yoga, sometimes with a buttplug in, sometimes without – all in the sexy anticipation of whats to come.
So Sunday, my probro came over for some fun while his wife and kids were out at the Metropark hiking. He brought his pitbull mix over, which I’m cool with, because he felt like she needed out of the house. We put our costumes on and started watching Andor, and after a few mins ProBro felt a little rowdy and we started making out. One thing leads to another and we decide to start inserting, I put his in and he puts mine in, and it was almost instant. Full body waves hits me and I almost knock my helmet off, and he’s in pure bliss writhing on the couch next to me. Suddenly, as a spasm hits, I tense up and my progasm hits the floor. In no time, the dog grabbed it and started gnawing at it. She effectively destroyed immediately. I didn’t want to bother probro in the middle of his O to tell him that his dog ate my massager. After he came down I told him what happened and he scolded his dog. We cleaned each other up and made out some more before we had sex. By that time he had to get back home to his family. But he said he’d pay for my new progasm. He hasn’t talked to me since it happened though. He won’t return my calls or texts. Should I just go buy another?
I first bought a progasm about 2 years ago. I used it for a while but stopped mostly out of feeling embarrassed and insecure.
Recently I’ve been doing this for 2 and a half weeks almost daily. It’s not a long time but it’s been eye opening on an emotional level. I think I’m now understanding why I wanted to abruptly end my exploration a couple years ago. Shame.
I’ll do a session and during a session and after I start to appreciate my sphincter, my pelvis, my prostate, my breathing. I feel sexual and delicate. I think I am fearful or anxious about this. I have anxieties about my sexuality and traditional beliefs about body parts that were never healthy. When I place an object into my anus I feel embarrassed and ashamed. The irony is that those feelings also turn me on too. I think I need to process this more and really identify areas of shame about my body instead of running away or over eroticizing those feelings. I need to deal with my attitudes and beliefs about my body, my sexual fantasies and hopefully love myself at the end of dealing with it.
I’ve also found a new energy with my sex life with my wife. It’s only been 2.5 weeks but I’m really interested in being more communicative with her. Im also more interested in having sex with her. I’ve been married with her for 23 years and it’s not as easy to be into it all the time. Im really into it now.
Hi all, I’m sure this has been asked a thousand times but I’m getting myself lost and struggling to make a decision!
I am looking to buy my first prostate massager, I’m not new to anal play and I’m lucky that my wife pegs me and I use a selection of dildos and plugs, but prostate massage is new to me!
There are several that seem to fall within what I’m looking to spend and all have very positive but also negative reviews, I also appreciate this will be down to personal preference. It seems my choices are…
Would love some help and guidance! Thanks in advance for your prostate wisdom!
About 2 months ago, I purchased my first Aneros product. I was able to have what to this day I would still classify as a Super-O. .. since then, I have tried numerous different versions from Aneros and the last one (Eupho Syn) it my “go to”.
So here’s the deal. My wife knows i have two Aneros devices. But she never really knew I had any success at all… and I didn’t think I would be able to do a session with her around – so I didn’t really tell her.
The other day she found the Aneros in the bathroom and commented on it. I kinda “disregarded ” and said.. yeah, another failed attempt… nothing really happened.
Two days later (last night) she lubes up her finger and slips it in. INSTANT arousal. INSTANT involuntaries. Within 30 seconds I have hfdo. Except that she was able to keep her finger on the prostate no matter if I was having a power contraction or super reverse kagel… and just fukkin kept tapping ever so slightly. I think i had about 2 hours of almost non stop hfdo and by the end of it the wife was so wet she soaked completely through her panties. ..
She went to work this morning and has been telling me all day to get ready for “as long as I can take it” tonight when she gets home.
I’ve been leaking all day in anticipation.
We’ve both been working and traveling a lot so we had sex about a week ago and because I’ve been busy, that was the last time that I ejaculated. The build up was starting to feel pretty intense and I tried to see if she’d be down for pegging, which she enjoys but she needs to feel 100% into it and she was too tired.
Me wanting that and her telling me it’s a lot of work is always a bit contentious because I usually do all the work for PIV sex, but in the past I told her that we should try putting in an Aneros and just having her touch me (but not my penis), so I showered and put on underwear after inserting the Aneros.
She finished working late and came into the bedroom where I was already getting warmed up by relaxing and tensing and laying on the bed.
She started touching me and running her hands on my body and I eventually had two medium squirming prostate orgasms. Then we switched and I rubbed her body while she pushed her ass into me and grinded against me and I had a super hard hip bucking prostate orgasm and had to take a break for a bit.
So… here is the story. I’ve played around with traditional dildo type toys… have gotten some “sensations” but I was usually pretty disappointed in any kind of results.
Last week – I finally pulled the trigger and ordered a Helix trident syn (I think… the black non vibrating one) and while i was waiting for that to arrive – i ordered the progasm. I actually received the progasm first.. and was excited to try it out. I inserted – and was surprised to find that it did NOT readily slip out. – I used it for about 90 minutes – but nothing really.. a couple “ooh.. what was that? ” then gone away.
A couple days later my Helix arrives. I find myself with a rare “day by myself” and I figure I’m gonna try this out.
I inserting the Helix. Nothing special. I lay on my back.. slowly doing some contractions. It feels ok… but I feel that I’m just not relaxed enough.
I flip over to lay on my stomach. Flacid- pushed downward where my pelvis is against the bed. I seperate my legs a little- but angle my legs like I’m kinda pigeon toed – opening up my ass a little.
I quickly find out that if I pull the helix into my core – and hold it – it will eventually lose “its grip” and like a worn out fatigued muscle – it kinda “flutters” back to relaxed. This starts some sensations