Made a great progress last night – I believe there are 2 important factors to this

I bought aneros eupho couple of months ago and played around. Had some pleasurable feeling but nothing major. Last night I had what I believe a clear pathway to a super O, so I thought I’d share what I learned and what worked well. There are 2 factors which helped me.

First – lately I realized I could separate muscle groups while doing kegel exercises. There are 2 major groups – muscles near the anus and muscles surounding base of the penis. That’s the one I started focusing on. I learned to only activate that part of muscles. It feels like pulling muscles down (direction from penis base to anus) while activating anus muscles feels like you pull in. I lay on my back, pillow under the butt and legs bent and feet close to the butt.

Second – I didn’t ejaculate for 5 days. I always felt my progress was stalled because I was always ejaculating and was not horny enough. I think going longer without ejaculation helps to feel sexual energy and easier to recognize good sensations.

So last night I wasn’t particularly horny but I thought I’d still do a session. I laid on my back and started doing exercise I mentioned above. Very quickly I felt gradual pleasure in prostate region and it became very good after a while. Made me breathe more actively. Then it subsided a bit and for the first time involuntaries started which felt like beginnings of orgasm. The whole session was the best I ever had and I think I am very close to a super O.

Feel the exquisite pleasure (The intimate nipple diddling Kegeling experience) Plus athletic cups

[This blog is directed to @goldenboy and other interested guys]

Hi guys,

It is an early Sunday morning here in DC. The weather is warm and muggy outdoors a couple hours before dawn. My AC is running on low. I am seated at my PC typing this blog entry. I am buck naked wearing my favorite BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no.85 men’s medium.

An hour ago I woke up from a curious dream feeling refreshed. I went to bed just after 9:30 p.m. Saturday night, my usual hour after a day of intellectual activities. I needed my rest. I wore nothing but a pair of Jockey pouch briefs.

After I woke up earlier this morning in the 3 o’clock hour and processed my curious dream, I touched myself sexually. Sexual touch for me, a 70 yo man is several light flicks across my nipples. This sexual touch is at the heart of my nipple diddling activities. Nipple diddling is an outgrowth of my Super-O and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016. Like I said now when I touch my nipples sexually, I am off to the races in sexual awareness and activities.

The Nipple Diddling Kegeling Connection

Hi guys,

[I posted this entry on Aneros Forum a few days ago. Since it has not has any responses, it may be slightly off topic. So I post it here as a blog entry]

With cold weather far back in the distance and summer weather now upon us in DC, I find myself sleep many nights mostly buck naked on top my bed wearing many nights a jock and cup. A jock and cup, at least for me, holds my junk comfortably in the still of the night. During the colder months however (September to April or May), I’ll sleep underneath my blankets and wearing sweats to keep myself warm. Sleeping buck naked and wearing a jock and cup gives me the freedom as an aging naked man. It makes me feel young again!

I have been an avid nipple diddler certainly after I had my major Aneros breakthroughs in mid September 2016 with attainment of Super-O and MMO capability. What impresses me most about my Aneros journey is now being able to just relax and just the Super-O’s and MMO’s come to me.

Finally getting somewhere

Had a session tonight and idk what I did differently but I did my usual routine with aneros, I just put it in, on my back knees bent and put on some porn. After a bit of kegels to get movement going I started to feel the feeling like I was going to cum hands free but it never came and I kind of stopped chasing after it if you will and just enjoyed it. It just kept building and building when finally my legs started feeling tingly and warm and it spread down my arms all while I was having this intense feeling like I reached orgasm but with more pleasure.

After maybe 20 seconds it went away and yet I could still feel that pleasure waiting to build up again this time though it was a dud and nothing happened. It didn’t feel like a jaw dropping body convulsing orgasm like people say in here but it felt like a stronger regular penile orgasm. Not sure if that was it or it was just a p-wave or whatever it’s called but I can’t wait to try again tomorrow

“No Aneros? … No Problem!”

Introduction
Yes, I’m referring to Aless. That concept whereby a guy gets all the pleasure of a prostate massage, but without the massager! How is this possible? Let me explain…..

Technique
There is really not much to learn here. All that is required (IMO) is a willingness to activate and stimulate the prostate by some simple anal/PC contractions (also known as kegels). It takes just a little bit of practice but once learned, the technique is almost automatic. The intervals of those contractions can be far apart or closely spaced. The idea here is to begin to feel it just a little in the prostate. The rest will be accomplished by your body’s own response. The important thing (I find) is not to stop too quickly! When I start to feel that unmistakable “flutter down-under” I know I am on the right path!

Since I wear ‘chastity cups’ regularly, I find that while wearing one is the perfect opportunity to practice my kegels. Especially while sitting down at a computer, It doesn’t take any preparation and I can start and stop at any time.

One thing that can be a little problematic is when I start to do some contractions in a public place. I have to be careful that I don’t get my prostate stimulated too much. Otherwise, I may react with a slight moan due to a euphoric, orgasmic feeling! But usually, I have enough self-control to the point that only I know what is going-on down there!

Couch time

Been enjoying these experiences for 18 months. No Super O yet but some fantastic feelings. This time I spent the first 15 minutes laying on the couch on my right side with the Trident inserted and did no Kegels. I focused on just relaxing and enjoying every little movement started to occur without making strong contractions. The trident begin sliding across my prostate. My prostate started convulsing ever so slightly. I just rode the waves of pleasure. I started to feel like I was leaking pre cum from my cock. I have a hypospadias cock so the wetness was sliding down my shaft underneath. Always enjoy tasting my pre cum. After a few minutes it felt like I had to pee. I really had to go. It seems like this was a mix of urine an prostatic fluid. Once I settled back onto the couch it took a few minutes to reactivate the same sensations. 20 minutes later I had the strong sensation of needing to pee again. I did not cum but enjoyed the experience.

subtleties of prostate stimulation

New tools teaching me the intricacies and subtleties.

In my last blog post I mentioned getting some new pleasure tools. I have been having lots of fun with the Njoy large plug. this thing just sits on my prostate giving me the pressure I require without interaction since I’m a do nothing guy (but that is now changing because of these new tools) inducing some wonderful feeling orgasms. These ‘o’s are different but also the same from the ones I experienced from using an aneros product. I also love the fact that I can join in the am and go about my day feeling a constant stimulation of my anal canal and lower prostate area, gets me and keeps me aroused almost the entire time I’m moving.

I think the biggest take back is since these new tools are so unforgiving on the body if used to aggressively, I am really starting to become more mindful of the subtlety of prostate massage. When using any of my lovers and doing clenching (kegels or some type of muscular interaction) I would get overzealous without even knowing it thus chasing away the pleasure I was seeking because I had no feed back if you will, I couldn’t feel it moving inside me until an orgasm had started. Using the new tools force me to pay more attention to what and when I actively do something since I got overzealous one time using the Pfun and became fairly sore. The large seems to return a light feed back to me letting me learn the light touch required.

Sweet, timeless memories about jocks and cups (inspired by goldenboy)

Hi guys,

Many of who have read my Aneros blog over the years have heard my stories about jocks and cups dating from my puberty and the glory days of adolescence up to my old age. This fascination represents a lifetime of experience and gives me even now the thrill of wearing these quintessentially male items which men and boys wear for athletics and even daily, leisurely wear.

I was eleven or twelve when I encountered my dad’s jockstrap for the first time. Mom had laundered in February or March 1962 and hanged it on a hanger to dry above the bathtub at home. Dad was going to wear it under his Little League navy blue umpire uniform pants when Little League began in late April or May that year. I decided to try it on when it was dry. I was baffled in how to wear it correctly, but I figured its mesh pouch was to contain my privates, but I was mystified that its leg straps gave that “bare ass” feel, so unlike the briefs I wore as my own underwear. However the “bare ass” feel of a jockstrap provides needed ventilation to a guy’s sweaty buttocks on the athletic field. This also applies to a guy wearing a cup jock.

new toys

New toys in my box.

I’ve been finding my sessions in the last few weeks to be lacking something. I’m unsure if it is related to the fact that I have a new job or the fact that I’m now working 2nd shift. On the flip side of this I now have a few hours of “ME TIME” that doesn’t involve just being in the shower.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve not had just duds, although there has been some, but for the most part my sessions have been just lack luster. Perhaps it’s the fact that since I now have me time time I’m pushing myself to reach the previously acquired pinical levels, or the fact that I’m not used to having me time and I’m unable to let go?, or maybe my body is still getting used to a new normal.

Lately during my sessions I’ve been spending more time being active performing clenching (kegels) trying to increase sensations even though it never got me very far in the beginning, thus I adopted the do nothing approach that has given me several super o’s. So in review of these findings I feel that I need more pressure on my prostate but still retain the do nothing approach. So I purchased the NJOY Pfun Plug. I have used this a hand full of times. What a wonderful piece of kit this is. So smooth and shiny, and incredibly heavy. The first time I went to join with this I was concerned I would have problems getting it in as it is larger than the progasm jr, but because of the shape it slid in so easily. I absolutely adore the cold of the steel at room temp once fully inserted. But all this comes at a price. Because the shaft is not a rapid taper and the fact that it is 3/4# in weight, this thing is almost impossible to keep in when standing. Now to the meaty part.