Yesterday and today I had two different sessions, both where finally was able to let go and I had full body tremors like the ones I’ve seen in videos. I had two shaking incidents the first round and one the second round the next day. They felt amazing, but since I’m not sure, was this a super-o? Or did I need to give myself a little more time?
I post this in equal parts to pay it forward, hoping that my account might help someone else who’s still trying to figure this stuff out as I’ve been helped by so many posts here, and to assure myself that it actually happened.
I started my adventure in August this year with the purchase of Helix Syn. I was a complete newbie with no prior experience but for a few years I’d had the itch to try Aneros. Eventually I had to pull the trigger on it because it became apparent that it wasn’t something that would go away if I ignored it.
My first session wasn’t anything to speak of. I did feel something but I wasn’t sure what and if I hadn’t imagined it. To put it short, I was flying blind. Frustration began to mount and on a whim I ordered the Progasm. I was looking for anything that would give me direction. And boy, did it ever.
Its prodigious size was astoundingly helpful. Whereas with the Helix I was fumbling around, unsure what I should be doing, with the Progasm it was basically impossible to “miss”. Any muscle contraction would result in my prostate getting worked which pointed me to the exact sensations I should look for and showed me what movements were required.
I took the plunge. I bought it. I been in this Aneros journey since 2014. I have the Helix Trident, Helix Syn Trident, Progasm and Progasm Jr. Now I added the Helix Syn V to my collection. I’ve had light pleasure waves that built up to a dry orgasm. Nothing too crazy but pleasureable none the less. This happened a couple months ago with the Progasm and smoking weed. Weed helps a lot. I will use this in a couple days when I reach 5 days of abstaining from orgasm. I will smoke weed, have poppers handy and use the Helix Syn V. I hope this takes me to the promise land of the Super O. I will report back on Monday.
I’ve owned a syn for multiple years that I bought as a curiosity. I never dedicated much time to learning it and seldom used it. I’d try once every couple of months and just shove it back in the drawer.
I read some recent posts for tips, and it really changed my session tonight. It peaked after about 10 minutes where I was shaking involuntarily, was hard, and had difficulty breathing. It still wasn’t a super o as I felt there was more to build to, but it was one of the most intense sexual experiences I’ve ever had. I got distracted from my prostate and forgot to keep breathing. I’m excited to try again as I’m definitely going to be picking it up to play with most evenings!
What definitely helped was a number of things:
1. I put a few pillows under my hips and it made it more comfy
2. I smoked a little weed which definitely helped me get in tune with myself and be more relaxed. I think I might have an edible next time for a longer session.
3. Clenching and breathing. I breathed deeply while flexing my pelvic floor 10-20% power. I played around a lot to found what worked for me.
4. I focused on the warm feeling behind my stomach that just felt really good and just relaxed into it. Don’t rush it.
I’m new to sex toys, I had anal sex before tho,so I think I can handle any type of shape size and form, I hear a lot of people talking about Trident and Eupho, can somebody link me to some info about that ?😅, the most effective toy to archive a super O as a begginer? I don’t know where to start there. Thanks
Back in August, I had my first super O. The feelings were unlike anything I can describe. I haven’t played with my aneros in about a month, so I popped it in the other day out of curiosity. I did what I did the time I orgasmed, like rubbing my nipples. I felt the pressure build up, but instead of going crazy like last time, I just got the most blissful feeling run through me. I felt so relaxed and floaty. I was super hard like before, and the pre cum leakage was crazy, but I never had spasms or anything. I moaned and laughed uncontrollably. Anyone say this was a super O?
This was only my second Super O after 4 months since the first one. Took me about 45 minutes. I usually get a lot of involuntaries that turn into mini O’s. This time I was concentrating on not giving in to the involuntaries so that the pleasure would build up and turn into a Super O. Well it worked and at least 3 times with a short resting period in between. I was shaking like a leaf after the third one.
I was moving the toy with my pc muscles and the Progasm was hitting on exactly the right spot until I reached orgasm. I got rock hard each time which I don’t usually get from p play and they were all dry.
I’ve been having more sessions than usual this week, maybe this has something to do with it.
Although I was having sort of a dry spell the last four months I never felt frustrated and just enjoyed the mini O’s I was getting and it was well worth the wait. I think that there’s no guarantee of reaching a Super O every session and that it’s important to enjoy whatever you get in a given session.
TLDR: used the progasm for the first time and it absolutely ROCKED my world.
In terms of prostate play I would still consider myself a rookie but I am proud to say I’ve been slowly gaining progress. I initially started off with the helix syn (very popular choice in here), this helped my body better understand the difference between the muscles used in prostate play. After 6 months, I felt like it was time to step it up to the next level so I decided to treat myself to the progasm. Few days pass and I get a notification saying my progasm has arrived. I wanted to wait until the night since my body tends to react better but the anticipation and excitement was driving me CRAZY! After I lubed myself and relaxed the moment had finally come (no pun intended). I slipped in the program and WOW immediately my body started to tremble. I literally had to catch my breath and relax again since I was going out of control!! After probably about 2 minutes I was leaking out of control, probably the MOST I’ve ever leaked in my life. However, here’s the climax, literally after a few contractions my body couldn’t take it anymore and I exploded EVERYWHERE. Never in my life did I think a piece of plastic would drive me this insane! I don’t think I’ve experienced something so powerful ever in my life!!
Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.
If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.
When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O.