Erections ruining big O

There are people who try out aneros and don’t feel anything and there are others who easily get big Os on the first try. I would guess most people fall in between these two extreme examples. I think I’m someone who doesn’t have any difficulty on feeling pleasure.
A little background about me… I bought an aneros helix some years ago, like, 7 years ago. I tried it and right from the first time, I felt a lot of pleasure from it. To be honest, the pleasure starts right when I let got the aneros and it touchs my prostate when it accomates by itself.
I have a lot of P waves, a lot of what I think people call mini Os. I can control my sphincter and my kegel muscles easily. If I want, I can successively contract those muscles, which lead to a normal but very pleasurable orgasm with ejaculation. I can even get an orgasm without having the aneros inserted and without using my hands, only contracting those muscles (it takes me some minutes to do it).
But the truth is that I never had a big O.
If i didn’t feel anything while using the aneros, I would think “well, I must be doing something wrong”. But I feel a lot of stuff, so, that’s not the case. I even think that maybe there were times when I was really close of getting one but never got it.
So, I stopped using aneros for no particular reason.
Some days ago, out of nowhere, I remembered to go get my aneros. Again, I started having pleasure almost instantly after the insertion. I had a great session. So great that I did it again some days after the first one.
And for the first time, I think I started having a big O. But as the pleasure intensified, only after some seconds I got an erection and it led to an amazing orgasm with ejaculation, but it ended that starting big O.
When I think about it, during a session, each time I have pleasure, I get an erection. I am a person who gets an erection quite easily. But on those videos with people having a big O, they don’t seem to be having an erection and they maintain the focus on their prostate.

Found it, then lost it! Has this ever happened to you?

Last month, I arrived at my first prostate orgasms ever, after a month or two of really working at it. It was amazing, 10 in a row and all dry. The day after I didn’t have to even try to find the spot, my body just knew what to do. I was even having dry orgasms during sex, it was incredible!

Since that time though it’s like I lost it. Had mild success here and there but I’ve had to fight it. Now I went on vacation for Christmas and returned to find that I couldn’t find the spot at all! I don’t seem to be responding like I did, not feeling p-waves and I’m trying to retrace my steps. Earlier on I could even feel p-waves just during the day while a-less, and I’m currently struggling to feel anything at all.

Could I just be out of practice, that I forgot the common signals? I know it wasn’t a fluke, and I know I’m capable now, but I’m admittedly a little frustrated. I have noticed that I haven’t felt my arousal connect properly, and I have to wonder if that’s part of the equation. But how to become physically horny, and not just mentally horny? I’m not sure. I can get excited from penile stimulation obviously, but it’s difficult at the moment to get excited just by thought.

Wisdom and feedback are welcome. Help me reach that peak again!

The Quick and Dirty Path to the Super-O

Taken from the Aneros forum, from user CaveOfMystery… With all the problems inherent to their forums, I thought this should exist outside the forum, lest it should disappear one day… Enjoy and good luck:

The purpose of this post is hopefully to help a few people who are not getting the results they hoped for with their Aneros. By no means will these techniques necessarily guarantee you a Super-O, but they may help you on your journey.

I bought my Aneros models a couple of years ago (Eupho and Helix) and during that time they were a point of curiosity but nothing more. I didn’t do a whole lot with them, and I didn’t really do deep reading on either device. The few times I used them, they provided some interesting sensations, Super-Ts, and the like, but nothing close to a Super-O. In fact I pretty much thought a Super-O was a Super-T. I did do some reading in the forums, but when I read the accounts of the Super-Os, I thought they were impossible exaggerations designed to hype an overpriced piece of plastic. Boy was I WRONG.

Recently I’ve revisited these devices with incredible results. This time I went through and read everything, the Wiki, forum posts, etc. I took note of the advice and set off to see if I could get these doohickeys to fulfill their ultimate purpose… The Super-O.

Does p-waves count as prostate orgasm?

I’ve been a user for two years. These days I can feel series of p-waves, pleasurable like the orgasmic feeling before ejaculation… about 70% though they are very short followed by mild orgasmic feelings…. I stay like this for two hours or so…

However I don’t feel that very strong strong orgasmic feeling yet…. how can I achieve super o ? And did I achieve prostate orgasm yet ?

Huuuuuge Progress… but not quite there yet…

I just had the best session I’ve ever had in my two years with the Aneros. I don’t know, I was just having a session and playing with it. Doing soft contractions, then letting go and letting the toy rub and press on my prostate. It felt really good, and I was playing with my nipples (They’ve slowly become more sensitive and make my prostate tingle). While I was just enjoying myself, relaxing, suddenly something happened. Something clicked and everything just became to quiet, my prostate became extremely sensitive (just thinking about it is making me horny). It felt like my toy had grew larger inside me. I could hear my heart, and it felt like I was on the verge of a really strong orgasm (from my ass). I felt the p-waves coming from my prostate. It felt sooo good, it was almost frightening. I did my best to relax, and not contract or anything. Just letting my body do it’s thing and enjoy it. So many times it felt like I was just right there, but couldn’t quite get myself over the edge in to bliss. Eventually the moment passed and I was felt so good. I was still squeezing down involuntarily and my prostate was buzzing (Even now as I type this it’s still tingling).

Is that what it’s like when you’re gonna get a super o? Does anyone have any advice on what I could do in that moment that can help send me over the edge? Any help is appreciated, I’m truly excited for the next time I have the time for a session. Sheeesh… that was amazing!

Finally, some great progress!!

So I’ve had a helix syn trident for about a year. I sorta felt some good stuff, like a couple waves of pleasure and like a feeling like an electric shock running up my dick when I flex and it’s been in for an hour or so. I wasn’t quite ready to give up yet because what I had felt up to this point was nice. So, I order a eupho trident. Well, holy shit. It’s like a whole new world of possibilities. Those sorta nice feelings I felt over the first year with the helix all hit at once within the first five minutes with the eupho in. I’m honestly just really excited lol. I didn’t have a hands free wet orgasm, but I think I might have had my first dry ones. It felt so nice and I’m just really looking forward to learning what my body can do with the eupho. I guess my body is just build for this one!

Should I totally abstain from ejaculating?

Some background: I just got my first Aneros toy over the weekend (Aneros Helix Trident) and used it twice with minimal results, though my lower body began to shake uncontrollably the first time, so I’m taking that as a good start.

I already have some prior experience with prostate stimulation. I’ve had some really intense pleasure waves just from fingering myself. They were way more intense than regular orgasms, and longer lasting. However my fingering sessions are very hit or miss. Around 70% to 80% of the time nothing happens and I give up after 30-ish minutes. Hence why I decided to get an Aneros.

So as I begin my Aneros journey, my theory is that if I lay off from touching my dick for the foreseeable future and only receive stimulation exclusively from my prostate, it’ll do a better job at “rewiring” me so that my odds go up from my current hit-or-miss situation. That means not jacking off during, after, or even in between sessions on off days– at least for a week or two.

Am I overthinking this? Should I masturbate like usual in between Aneros sessions? I’m currently planning on doing 2-3 times a week as suggested. Thanks for the feedback.

I rather suck at this.

After that one warmish maybe-P-wave incident, nothing much has happened since then. That was about 7 sessions ago give-or-take.

I just lie there, relaxed, breathing diaphragmatically, trying to keep my mind clear, and listening for any sensation down there. Nada. Not a peep of involuntary movement. By the time my 60 minute timer is up I’m usually starting to doze off. 😑

I tried to do as described in [this thread](https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/9641-the-truth-behind-how-to-rewire) from the Aneros forums, but the only part of my body that responds is my balls now, so that’s no use.

I gotta change something up. I’ve gone over the Wiki a fair bit but I find it’s a bit scant on what you should do at what level, and I’m clearly still a newbie.

Can anyone recommend some changes I can implement that might make things move along a bit more, or at least make them more interesting? So little is happening I can’t shake the feeling that there’s something very wrong with how I’m approaching using my Aneros.

I know you’re not supposed to expect anything, but let’s be real, before you start you should at least make sure the way you intend to practice is conducive to something *possibly* happening.

thank

[PS: My sole Aneros is a Helix Syn Trident]

In what point (milestones in the text) you are on your journey with Aneros?

And what model(s) you have? And how much time you’ve been on this journey?

I have the Helix Trident and the Progasm and I’ve been on this journey for around a year. I would say I’m at the point of Definite pleasure produced by contracting, but not always.

First insertion
No P-tab discomfort when relaxed
No internal discomfort when relaxed
No P-tab discomfort when contracted
No internal discomfort when contracted
Generally comfortable when inserted and relaxed
Observation of slight good feelings
Slight sense of leaking
Slight sense of needing to urinate (contact with prostate)
Identifiable contact with prostate
Doing a set of contractions comfortably
Holding light sphincter contractions
Integrating deep breathing
Definite leaking produced by contracting
Definite pleasure produced by contracting
Definite feeling of contact on prostate
Identification of “sweet spot”
Pleasure at “sweet spot”
No longer believing that “…this model doesn’t fit me…”
Arousal amplification by vocalization, breathing, manual stim of secondary erogenous zones or held contractions.
Observation of slight involuntary contractions
General pleasure throughout session
P-wave
Successive P-waves
Rock hard erection
Twitching
Pleasure at voluntary pelvic thrusting
Integrating pelvic thrusting and contracting
Large muscle quaking (no pleasure)
Continuous internal pleasure
Definite sense of ongoing subtle involuntary contraction
Sense of pleasure caused by blood pulse internally
Significant large muscle quaking with pleasure
Real excitement at thought of next session
Sustained pleasure during sessions
Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions
Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions
Ability to leak outside of sessions
Sense that the Aneros is satisfying a special prostate “itch”
Very significant pleasure during sessions
Moaning during sessions
Sense of arousal moving toward something
Surprise attack of very serious pleasure
Involuntary clamping, without sense of climax
Involuntary clamping with hint of climax
Involuntary clamping with definite feeling of light orgasm (Mini-O)
Ability to maneuver the Aneros to control placement of pleasure internally
Intensely pleasurable involuntary clamping that is clearly a Dry-O
Chain reaction Dry-Os (O-zone)
Disbelief that this can actually be for real
Very deep orgasm distinctly centered in rectum: anal orgasm
Extremely intense prostate orgasm
Dry orgasm without Aneros (chair orgasm)
Aneros moving distinctly on its own, creating unexpected pleasure
Aneros moving in long strokes (auto-f***), creating intense pleasure
Unexpected extremely strong orgasm that knocks the reality out of you: Super-O
Continuous Super-Os directed at different parts of the body
Full body Super-O
Multiple, sequential full body Super-Os
Ability to have Super-Os on demand

Three entirely different experiences in a week? How do you guys get in the mood?

So I’ve been playing with the aneros helix syn trident for about a week now, and

Session 1

Wow, what an introduction. I was nervous but excited. The toy was probably the smallest thing I’ve put in my ass besides my fingers, so it slid right in. I laid down on my side and just gently breathed in and out, doing weak kegels with the toy inside.

It felt…interesting, but I started to shake. I shook HARD. I started to get pretty emotional, and I just shook a lot. It was a weird feeling because I wasn’t feeling definite pleasure, but I was shaking and I did feel a rush of warm emotions and stuff. It’s like I felt an orgasm without the pleasure, if that makes any sense at all.

I went at it again, and again until my body gave out. I started to slow down and contract my muscles. I started to shake less, and instead I started to feel a bit of pleasure mixed with the urge to pee. I did this until I calmed down and washed up.

I still liked it, and I’m like…VERY excited to experience what a real orgasm is like. It only made my desire stronger.

Session 2