Tenth session and I feel so close! Advice?

Hey guys, I’m looking for some advice to hit that next level.

I’m at the point now where I can get involuntaries of the muscles that move the toy, but they don’t dominate the session, just appear now and then. I’m also consistently getting some very nice pleasure in my session at times.

The session kind of goes like this (I’ll try to make this not sound like fap material 😆) – I watch porn with my toy in and I’ll generally contract the muscles, it’s kind of voluntary, kind of not, I just follow what my body does and sometimes that can set off the true involuntaries. The pleasure that I get kind of comes in ‘waves’, by which I mean that after the toy has stimulated my prostate sufficiently, it begins to feel very nice. Usually at this point my dick gets hard and it’s like my body is trying to cum and I’m at the edge, then it dials back. It can feel very, very nice. The pleasure subsides for a little while, then another wave will come and often it can be stronger. Are these what pleasure waves are?

The toy brushing against my prostate begins to feel amazing and as the pleasure builds and it lifts off my prostate, that’s where the respite comes to feel that wave of pleasure.

I DIDN’T BREAK IT! (+A-Less)

Hey guys!

So, quick recap: first PGasm about 2 weeks ago. went at it hard for several (mind-blowing) days and then lost the mojo (thanks to all of you who talked me off the ledge…LOL)

For the past several days i have been focusing on Aless sensations so that i wasn’t putting any external pressure on my prostate. The sessions were great and i was getting some awesome involuntaries, PWaves and the occasional Mini-O. Was also working on the mindset of letting go and releasing my body to whatever wanted to come.

Anywho…I was chatting with another bud from this sub last night and when i finished (with the full intention of going to sleep) i felt an involuntary flutter of the P Spot so i thought, why not. a quick session whilst i’m all dopy and half asleep. From the outset though, i was trying to keep everything in my lower body totally loose and relaxed and just focused on the tingle and let that build. Every time i noticed any slight tension i let it go and brought attention back to the tingle and nurtured that mentally.

Really soon into the session (about 20 minutes?) i felt the familiar buildup of energy as the tingle increased and got stronger. again i was gently mindful of not becoming tense in any way.

Long story short, this all built up into a full PGasm! prostate contracting, cock-bouncing, precum leaking PGasm.

Last nights attempt

Ok where to start? Bit of history been doing this for over 15 years only had little snippets of pleasure, enough to know I must keep chasing. I tried big toys last one Njoy which is very good but still come back aneros.
Last night had couple of hours so started to relax. Watching tv thought I will have a quick go. Was on my side as I push aneros in straight away pleasure and per cum. I used on side for a bit very small wave of pleasure. Went on back moved around a bit till felt like the right place.
Normally I have just a bit of small waves of pleasure but this time I was determined to just carry on where normally I stop. I concentrated more on the feeling every time grip as it moved down then relax pushed it back over prostate. The first one was different than normal it felt like is came from my testicles getting warmer and deeper I could hold the pleasure for 10-20 seconds then go to the background. I built up again and again I must had had 5 easily. The last one I just couldn’t release but was so powerful small amount of cum just leaked out. I lost track of time was 2hrs of pleasure. Breathing helped deep breathing not hold and forcing it to happen. I know that big one is there last night proved it can happen. I was thinking I am one the guy that just can’t.

A mental trick?

Hey brothers!

I’ve responded and commented a couple of times to others about how the journey to prostate orgasms and discovery of prostate pleasure in general can seem difficult at the start because we, as men, are not taught about this as we grow up. In those posts i compare it to regular masturbation, an experience that we all pretty much had no problem at all figuring out.

Stick with me here…

We all know what to do with our dicks. We figured out at (most likely) an early age that it feels REALLY good when we touch, tug on, stroke and caress our dicks and when you do that enough you get to the really good bit and cum!

We do this for years and we build up our arsenal of various techniques and know what we need to do to get the job done quick or done slow. We are probably soooo familiar with this that we can mentally recall ALL of the sensations from our various techniques.

Stick with me…

With prostate play and prostate orgasms we are learning how to masturbate a totally new sex organ. For me i think i have just realized that it helps to think of the PWaves generated by kegels like you would think of stroking your dick when jacking off. This seems especially helpful at the start when things are more consciously controlled (until the involuntaries start). For the last few days i have just been working on ALess sessions to hone in on the sensations and i found that i could really amp up my arousal by really, literally, thinking of it as masturbating my prostate with my PC just as i would focus on my helmet and shaft if jacking off.

Just had my first P-Waves tonight, was this normal?

It might have been because I was trying a new position, might have been because I was listening to some erotic audio, might have been I just got lucky and it happened tonight, but I’m pretty sure I had my first P-Wave tonight. To me it felt like a shiver/shudder, felt really similar to when you’re cold and have a shiver only it was pleasurable and very brief. The strange part of it though, it wasn’t when I was focusing on the audio or the minor pleasure I was feeling, but when my mind started to drift and think about other random stuff that a wave would come out of nowhere. Is this normal exactly? Since it’s my first time I have no clue how I should really go forward to try and get the same or better results.

Progress, and question regarding frequency of practice and sex in general

I’ve been an Aneros user on and off for a while now. Recently got back into practicing with my helix syn. I have a Progasm ice which imo feels better but isn’t nearly as manoeuvrable.

So each day this week I’ve been slipping in the helix and relaxing for around an hour at a time (sometimes longer) to see if I can make some progress toward p waves etc. I’ve avoided masturbating all week while I do this in an effort to build up my prostate as other allude to.

I seem to get the involuntaries by flexing/contracting my PC muscles (kegels?) to around 50-70%. Any less and there’s no effect, any more and the effect subsides and it’s hard to maintain. First question is, do I basically just need to stick at it by holding that position? I sometimes feel like I get flecks of pleasure, although I often wonder whether I am convincing myself of this as some kind of placebo. What can I do to step on from this? It feels ok but after a while my kegels get tired or I lose interest. I know that ‘chasing’ things is counter intuitive!

Secondly, back to frequency of masturbation / sex etc. I have a gf, she knows I practice with the aneros, she’s very accepting of all that luckily. We normally have sex at least once sometimes twice a week on average, I’d typically masturbate another two or three times in between. Does ejaculating, or indeed penile stimulation set back progress? Does it become more difficult to acquire P waves the next day or even two days after ejaculation?

Multi-HFO Via Nipple Stimulation! How to have 10,20, 30, 40 or more orgasms:

Ok

So many out there usually most likely use dildos or vibrators inside the anus, or something like an Aneros to trigger Hands Free Orgasms, some may use Erotic ASMR hypno audios to trigger HFO dry orgasms.One method is as powerful those (and doesn’t require an enema), is self done Nipple stimulation! One can achieve 20, 30, 40 shuddering body orgasms with no ejaculation. I average 20~45 orgasms myself, they are sooo good, jacking off just doesn’t compare IMO!

To begin to ‘rewire’ one’s brain to get sensitive nipple that induce pleasure wave and dry orgasms, is via relaxation.Laying on your back with legs somewhat bent at the knee feet on resting on the bed is the best position for this!

5 MINUTE PGasm!!

My most intense sensations have come from A-Less so this was by far my most successful ride with an actual toy inserted and my god it was good.

I pre lubed and put my MGX Classic in, gave myself 5 minutes or so to “warm up”, laid on my front in my usual sleeping position. Lights off, phone off, blind fold on, ear plugs in. I focus purely on relaxation and internal sensation when I ride instead of getting “horny” as it seems easier.

My rides usually consist of tingles, p waves, getting “close to something big”, autofucking, my heart starting to POUND fast as if it’s *just about to happen*, and then things fading out without much more happening for an hour or so which means I usually end the session with slight dissatisfaction but hope for the next one. I know you’re not supposed to have expectations, and that you should be happy with anything, because yes it all feels good, but those orgasms are TOO good for me to not be slightly disappointed when they don’t happen haha.

But this time, I felt so inspired after my A-Less Super O on Sunday because now I know it can happen. I KNOW that it’s not a one off, or a coincidence, or a hoax now, I KNOW it’s all real, everything you guys write about. It’s finally happening to me, more and more.

So, this was new!

Since i experienced my first PGasm a couple weeks ago (EDIT: make that a week ago, man, i have totally lost my sense of time) i had been having sessions in some form or another every night (yeah yeah, i know! Too much, but can you blame me???). Anyway, last night i gave myself the night off to give my poor love button a night of rest and recovery and me a decent nights sleep.

That was my intention.

I went to bed at 10 and turned the lights out and laid on my front to drift off and that when i felt it.

I was just laying there, really, totally 100% NOT thinking about PGasms and my butt started twitching. The twitching continued and became rolling contractions that were getting stronger and began kicking off PWaves.

My heart rate crept up and so did the pace of the contractions.

“What the fuck! Uh oh!” I thought as a lil’ mini-O came my way and that was it but seriously, WHAT THE FUCK! I wasn’t doing a thing, not a thing! Usually i have to be on my back and engaging my nips for things to build.

Now, admittedly, most of my sessions have been at night before sleep so my body could be holding onto this routine perhaps? or maybe my prostate was just a little bit peckish? Who knows?

I Super-O-ed HARD today!

I Super-O-ed HARD for the first time this morning. And it was completely A-Less!

I was edging all night and I was so horny but on the verge of falling asleep, I started to feel the most subtle tingling in my prostate and out of half instinct, half curiosity I pushed, and out of nowhere it built and built and built to the most intense vibration I’ve ever experienced. I pushed again and BANG! It was like a fucking supernova.

Such an ENORMOUS sensation that engulfed my entire body. I was lying completely still, in silence, too overwhelmed to even open my eyes, but I could SWEAR I was writhing and convulsing and screaming at the top of my lungs. It felt like a mix of the most intense sexual, orgasmic “just-about-to-ejaculate” feeling, mixed with the most intense butterflies, mixed with the most intense shaking, like when you see a wine glass resonate and warp and vibrate with a high pitch frequency. I truly felt like my body was resonating with the universe or something. I’ve never felt anything like it. My hands were the most prominent sensation I remember, almost numb from tingling, my ears went deaf with the sound of the blood rushing to my face, my hands and feet had tingles like you wouldn’t believe. But my tummy… oh my GOD! Instead of “releasing” outward, I was imploding with pleasure, it was so infinitely internal it was jarring. It was the most pleasurable, orgasmic sensation I’ve ever experienced in my life! The only thing I could focus on in order to maintain my connection with my body was the slight throbbing/pumping/contracting that came every now and then from my rectum/prostate.