What the hell is an “involuntary”, and what’s a “p-wave”?

On the “involuntary” thing, what are we talking about here? Is it when you tire our your PC muscle till it trembles, thereby causing the Aneros to sort of wiggle and flutter? Is it like when you sneeze or cough, or have a traditional orgasm with the aneros in, and your PC muscle just does a sharp squeeze on its own that makes you gasp?

And what’s a “p wave”? I sometimes get these moments where, out of nowhere, my heartbeat speeds up, I get all warm, and it feels like something amazing is about to happen….then it fades and I don’t know where it went. Is that what everyone’s talking about?

I mean, if the “involuntary” thing is just tiring out the muscle till it shakes, I find that feels good, but it’s annoying to get to and it goes nowhere because I can’t keep it up for very long. And how do I make what I described as a “p wave” happen more?! It feels amazing when it does, but it’s only happened a couple times, and then out of absolutely nowhere.

Newbie looking for advice

So recently I’ve decided to take the plunge. I got my aneros syn trident a week ago and have made good progress so far. After my 6th session I noticed I’ve got a problem on my hands. I’m often getting distracted by a building erection whenever my involuntaries go from prodding my prostate, to a small build up of pleasure. I feel like whenever I’m getting close to a p wave or any thing close to pleasure, my dick seems to ruin things for me.

I’m wondering if there’s any tips and tricks to getting around this issue.

My incredible journey

I’m finally here after years of surfing these forums but never interacting, to tell my tale. I, like many of you stumbled upon these little plastic pieces of voodoo while browsing some adult content. I was immediately intrigued when I saw men seizing up with pleasure. I knew I had to do it. I sat on the idea for a year or two until I moved out from my folks house. Then I made my move. They were available at the local adult store. I picked myself up a helix syn. Seemed to be the go to choice for beginners. I remember those early sessions. Sitting with the thing inside me wondering when I was supposed to be launched into this magical euphoria. Nothing ever came. I sat on the toy (no pun intended) for a couple of months and put it away in a drawer.

This is where it gets good. I’ll never forget the first sensations. Suddenly feeling something deep inside my coming alive at the toys will. My roomies had left for the day and I was alone to explore myself. I got close to what I thought were P waves and from there I was hooked. Those first sensations were almost 4 years ago now. And I’m proud to say to you all, that I’ve become a fully re-wired man. The forums don’t lie to you. When you notice patterns in the advice you’re receiving online, follow it. I remember my first super orgasm. I had graduated to the program from my helix syn. I found that it slid into me easier and started working faster and stronger than the other one. The super orgasm I acquired was thanks in part to the amount of videos I’d seen of men bringing themselves to that point. But it blew me away, and only furthered my addiction to my own pleasure. Not long after the super o’s, did I start to experience the Aless.


Fairly new to exploring with prostate stimulation. I bought a trident about a year ago, I enjoy it, but never have had any real pleasure from it. 6 months ago, I bought the giddi Thor (good girth, rotating, and vibrating) and I finally started to see progress, slowly but surely. Not every time I’d get anything out of it (or I’d get too impatient and finish the job myself) but I would get a p wave here and there. Finally last night, I got 3 good p waves, and I think I finally had a full on pgasm. It was by far the most intense, fully body clenching and shaking feeling I’ve ever had. I know I still have a long ways to go, but I love what I’ve discovered. Any tips or advice would be great. I would love to be able to do the same with the trident, but it seems like I have to have the help from the toy.

Newbie – 4th session P waves

Hi thanks guys for a very informative group.Just got my Helix Syn V. First impression was “is this going to fit okay”. Not a problem. First two sessions short then a long 3 hour session after mindgasm lesson still just a few tiny good feelings. Then tonight went thru the motions and after a while decided to do it in the doggy position got into a rythm of 30 slow thrusts and a 30 second hold and release. Felt like bubbles forming in my anus and then a great feeling and its subsides. Same routine same result Happened about 14 times, had vibrate on low setting. During session had plenty of legs and hands shaking uncontrollably and after the session (Is this a good sign ?). As soon as I thought about my swimsuit fetish the perineum tab woke up and gave me a tingling feeling starting another wave .Any idea if this is a good indicator and any tips on going beyond the good feelings .Pc muscles are still very weak but excercising 3 x a day. both muscles. With good feelings and waves do i just relax or should I thrust and hold to retain the good vibes.

Have been prescribed viagra but have not used it yet will be keen to see if it enhances my journey.

Your thoughts would be appreciated

Nipple p-waves?

I had my 2nd session today and didn’t feel much. Then jsut now watching Netflix and my t-shirt brushed my nipples and bam! Instant bolt of pleasure overcame me and no Everytime I touch them I shiver with pleasure coming from my prostate. What is this?

Aneros session amplified w D8 and poppers and other quibbles

Based on my ride today, pretty clear that D8 and poppers always get me to p-waves and p-orgasms. No supper O yet. Today I didn’t take any D8 and just used poppers. Tried a variety of aneros models – Maximus and then eupho. I started at 11 am today and ended at 3. Needless to say I over did it on poppers. Couldn’t help it as each huff I was looking for a new high and sensation. Now, blue lips and a pounding headache! My next will be to try just D8 and no poppers. Ultimately I need to get rid of one of them.

Now the quibble, I bought a new wevibe vector. Started w that this morning. I was hoping to get a super o or at least a p-gasm. But nothing. I found that the vibrations disrupt what I would feel if I was just riding/do nothing. I’ve tried the various vibration modes but finally gave up and used the Maximus. I’ve read so many great reviews on this vine and pretty disappointed. Anyone else experience this?

Great experience

Sorry for the long post, but I need to get this out.

Had such an excellent experience last night, culminating in first HFWO.
Started off with a delta-8 edible, when that started to hit I lubed up, inserted my Helix, and listened to some ASMR erotica.
Within probably 5 minutes of laying there “doing nothing” my asshole started spasms and making the Aneros dance and tickle my prostate. Then I felt my world start spinning.
I mean like someone turned off the gravity and I was free floating, it was wild, but I didn’t fight it and just let it go on. My heart was racing, breathing was increased, and I felt warm pulses through my body.
Then my arms/hands starting quivering and that led into full on convulsions of my wrists and hands! It was nuts! But I tried to let it go and not fight. The spasms and twitches worked into my pelvis a little bit and I felt some nice warm tingles in my perineal area, (Are these p-waves??) at this point I hadn’t done any voluntary pelvic contractions. Eventually this subsided and I stammered to the bathroom for a drink of water (cotton mouth).
Slid back into bed for another go round. Popped the headphones back in, relaxed for a minute and then started doing light contractions of my PC muscle. Within a minute or two I was convulsing again, and pumping out precum with a massive erection.
This time every major muscle in my body started started, it was wild, but I let the ASMR voice guide me. Felt like I was falling down a well, which was great!
Now is when it got crazy- I got deep into a trance like state, I was moaning so loud, and my whole body was violently shaking and my cock was flopping all around, to the point I was somewhat concerned for a split second but quickly pushed those thoughts out. This felt incredible and new and different. I’ve approached this point before and always slightly “fought it” so it always died off. But this time I literally tried to disassociate my mind from my body and let my body do whatever it wanted.
It actually worked and the next thing I knew I was cumming like crazy but totally flaccid.
At this point I stopped, which I’m regretting now, do you think it’s possible I could’ve continued it? Also is this a “benchmark” on the journey to super-o and multiple HFDO?

Feel teased

Hi! I recently bought an Helix Syn Trident, and when i use it when sufficiently horny i can get some really great feeling (not sure if actually a p-wave though), but it also really feels like i’m being teased by my prostate and that there’s this one spot somewhere inside my ass that if i were to touch it with the Aneros would be absolute bliss. Problem is, i can’t manage to reach it no matter what i do. It always feels like it’s *just* out of reach.

Can anyone relate? Does the spot actually exist, or is it a part of the rewiring process? If it’s real, how do i reach it?