Looking for some help

Hello all, first I would like to thank this community. There is so much support and encouragement no matter what point of the journey you are on. I feel like I’ve read every post, tip, trick, and story out there. I am jealous but hopeful that I will eventually get to the fable super O.

This whole thing has opened me up to a world of new feeling that I never thought possible. My main problem is that I get more out of an Aless session then one using a toy. I just don’t seem to feel the direct feedback from the aneros on my prostate.

Straight male but I am no stranger to butt play. and as long as I have been jerking off I have been putting things in my ass. I get excited by the thought of anal play.

2 years ago I ordered a helix trident and started out with mindgasm lessons, and that really helped me to identify and target the muscles and have a strong control over them. I have been doing kegels for many years and consider my pelvic floor to be strong.

Aless – Sitting vs On Back

I’m practicing Aless. Any experiences of sitting vs being on your back? For some reason, it feels natural when I cross my legs sitting to just get sensations. But when I’m on my back struggle a little bit. I’m sitting on a stool and crossing my legs, just flexing the PC (I think) is giving me sensations.

However, in the past, my stronger orgasms came from being on my back. I feel like it’s because it’s easier to relax lying down than sitting. Not sure if I’m doing something different?

Plenty Body Shaking Without Aneros, None With Toy In My Ass

When i contract my PC muscles without a prostate massager in my ass, i instantly get heaps of body shaking trembles without any pleasure or arousal

It’s the opposite with an aneros in my ass, where i get zero feeling, shaking or pleasure. Sometimes i might get a flurry of involuntary contractions that are temporary for like 20mins.

How should i proceed with rewiring my prostate? A-less?

I’ve been trying for years and have heaps of anal toys which i love.

How to feel aroused

My drive has been fairly low, i’m 20 and i have abstained for a week now. I thought it would be fairly difficult but i havent had any urge to masturbate at all. I know being aroused and relaxed are the main components of aless. I can get fairly relaxed but I just cant get aroused enough. How do I focus on my arousal and how can i increase it. Im practicing my kegels and trying the mindgasm files. I cant seem to take the involuntaries to the next level. I get some flutters here and there but it doesnt lead to the muscles moving all by themselves.

WTF! WTF! WTF did I do

So first time poster. Long time no enthusiast. Well I have some questions that I wish someone could help me with.
1. Can someone explain what “p-waves” feel like?
2. How do I stop them? This is explained in the long post below.
3. What does a dry orgasm feel like and what’s the difference between them and pwaves? I had and incredible experience yesterday and not sure exactly what I was feeling?
4. What is an Aless orgasm?

I have been experimenting for years with prostate massage and never managed to have anything really happen until a few months ago. I was playing around and had my first HFWO which sent me searching for that feeling aLong story short. The other day I was reading through a bunch of post and saw a lot of post about Mindgasm and aneros. So I thought what the hell could it hurt. So down loaded the app and started listening and fallowing along. Now this is with out any device because i was at work. As I progressed through I started feeling the butterfly’s in and around my p spot and I started leaking precum like crazy. So much so I soaked through my jeans. I can’t explain the pleasure. That evening I would periodically work my pc muscle and I kept kept feeling these waves of pleasure that would resonate from my prostate through my body like a bell being struck. Which I thoroughly enjoyed. So far everything was amazing until I tried to go to bed. I could not sleep these waves of pleasure took over and I couldn’t stop them. I was leaking like a faucet again and thought what the hell did I do? Can I turn this off? Do I even want to turn it off? So I went to where I could be more discreet and figured I’d see where this would go. And let me tell you. It went. I had wave after wave of bliss fallowed my moments of peacefulness. Might I add this is all without a device. Just relaxing breathing and working the pc. After 2 hours of this I couldn’t take it anymore. The feelings were so strong I thought if I kept going I would wake up the hole house. So I finish my self off in the traditional handed approach and I exploded like never before. I can’t explain how cum there was.
What did I do to myself?

Peridise arrives tomorrow! any tips?

So exited to use this toy, I love my helix. This is my second aneros toy i’m getting. I know it’s not for prostate stimuli but i can get pretty good pleasure from just focusing aless with no stimulation, so i hope this toy can work along side that.

Is there any tips or things you wish you knew before using this toy?

Woke up this morning to an a-less dry orgasm

I’ve been having very regular sessions recently, generally every 2 days if not more. Yesterday I had a 3 hour session in the morning and a 6 hour session in the evening ending at about midnight. At 4am I woke up suddenly with a fast heart beat and that sort of tingling/buzzing feeling in my pelvis and abdomen and noticed I was getting erect. Ripped off my clothes, played with my nipples and wow. Dry orgasm. It felt so amazing to do it without a device inserted and to have a dry orgasm whilst very erect too.

I carried on deep breathing and had some more p-waves and fairly intense pleasure that I couldn’t even pin point. Had the hardest erection I’ve ever had and couldn’t resist some edging which triggered p-waves and some really nice feelings in my legs. Went to sleep soon after 🙂

I’ve been having a lot of a-less feelings outside sessions recently that seem to come on randomly but mainly when I’m tired or falling asleep. I might try actively encouraging them in future. Tip’s appreciated

Great Aless today

Decided to have a rare for me Tuesday session today and since I have to work tomorrow I used CBD instead of THC. The CBD that I have is exceptionally effective at relaxing me so helps, not as good as THC, but helps. Took a couple of turns with various Aneros devices, Edge 2, and my newest dildos (7.5 and 8.5 insertable.) Got some decent P-waves but nothing exceptionally pleasurable. Finished my session and sat in my recliner for a nap and felt my sphincter returning to normal after a good pounding with the larger dildo. The feeling very subtly moved towards pleasure and I relaxed into it while maintaining a very light steady contraction. The pleasure soon blossomed into full body euphoria, a calm seas orgasm! I rode these waves for a good half hour, profoundly thankful for the extended pleasure.

Float tank aless edition

Had an hour in the float tank today. I took a good amount of CBD beforehand so was really chill going in. Inserted a non-syn Eupho and got into the relaxation. I’ve used devices in the tank before and they never really do anything and this time was no different. What happened after though was crazy! After the float I usually use the free 10 minutes at the oxygen bar. I got comfortable in the chair and was still really relaxed from the float. I was going to my wife’s cousin’s house afterward to repair some equipment. She’s not overly hot but I’ve always had a thing for her. I started fantasizing about her and went right into the most powerful aless I’ve ever had outside of a session! I really had to restrain myself from going full orgasm since there were people there. Damn it was good aless!

Sorry this isn’t as coherent and sexy as I want it to be. I’m still loopy from the session!

Having aless pwaves/pgasms and cannot sleep

TL;DR I am currently on my second night of no sleep. Send help.

I’ve been at this whole prostate pleasure thing for many years now. Have a Helix Syn and love it to death; this sub was very useful for figuring out the techniques <3

About a year ago, I finally had a super O and also was able to experience Aless pleasure. Having spent years to get to the top of the proverbial mountain, I felt incredibly satisfied with myself.

Fast forward to two or three days ago. I hadn’t done any prostate play in a long time, and had reverted to jerking off. I think I overdid it though, because my prostate kinda stung sometimes.

Anyways, I had smoked some bud and was feeling pretty good but not at all in a mood for an Aneros sesh (had shit to do in the morning lol) when I was suddenly overcome by a massive Aless super O that came out of nowhere and blindsided me. When it happened, I was pleasantly surprised, but the thing is.. it was only the beginning.

It seems the progressive relaxation techniques are a double edged sword..

Now, whenever I’m trying to sleep, I get intense pwaves and I literally can’t sleep. It’s the second night of no sleep. I feel like absolute shit but God, it feels so damn good too.. fuck

Send help.