Newbie questions about use outside of arousal.

Context: I’m a mid 20’s hetero male with a very open mind. I do enjoy anal, but never reached more than leaking on occasions (and orgasms via penis stimulation) with dildos/vibrator. Got the Helix Syn two or three weeks ago on a whim after finding a video on the progasm ice in use (you know the one). I read up on most information available on the wiki, forum, and here before starting my journey. This helped a LOT. I love it! Decided to stop my almost daily penile masturbation. I think I’m at “Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions” going by the listed Milestones.


I understand this is not a butt plug, but would it be counter productive to have it inside when not actively concentrating on being aroused? As stated before I have pleasure and “cravings” for it outside of sessions (while at computer, video games, and watching TV. ie relaxing moments)

Is it bad if I fall asleep with it in?

What would be some expected discomforts to look out for?

Exciting afternoon

Apologies in advance for the lengthy first time post – I’ve been reading other’s experiences for some time and would like to share my own.

I’ve owned a helix for about 5 years and have enjoyed occasional solo sessions, although never feeling like I was progressing to anything like involuntary movement. These sessions always end after an hour or so with me having a very pleasurable orgasm by stimulating my penis. I suppose I’d never really found the time to dedicate trying to develop the techniques suggested by other users.

I also use the helix with my (female) partner. She enjoys watching the pleasure I get from inserting it, and we find it tends to give me a harder erection. It certainly excites me to wear it and know that she knows I’m being stimulated by it. Cumming inside her always feels great with the helix in and it’s enhanced by the feeling of the helix moving while my muscles contract during orgasm.

Lockdown over the past four months has put pay to the solo sessions (everyone at home all day), so I thought I’d dedicate the time to focusing on my pelvic muscles and understanding the feelings in my anus and prostate.Also been following the threads on here and enjoying reading about other’s experiences. Very exciting to read knowing I had to wait to get my helix back inside.I’ve been practicing clenching, holding and releasing my pelvic muscles while lying in bed, sometimes last thing at night, sometimes in the morning, experimenting with different positions. I feel I’ve come to be able to control them a lot more than before, and hold varying levels of clench. I’ve had some very good feelings after 45 minutes or so of playing around where my muscles seem to twitch and I get a warm feeling around my anus/prostate/base of my penis. This has all made me really excited to get the helix back inside.

Am I going right?

Im having trouble with my aneros session. I dont know if Im doing right so I want some advices. Sorry for my english since Im not from english speaking country.

Anyways perhaps like other guys in this forum I stuck my mgx in my ass with plenty of lubes first. Then stay relaxed until I get comfortable with my toy. After that I squeeze my pc muscle at up to 70% of my limit with concentration. The concentration on the toy and the prostate. I maintain the squeeze until I shiver. I feel some.. some kind of wave like Im burning and thats all. Thats it. Nothing happens after that.

I also tried the do nothing method. Sometimes I feel the same feeling like I mentioned before. But most of the time I feel nothing. Well umm the forums in my country they say dont have any expectation for reaching any orgasms so I struggle really hard not to expect good feelings.

The question is I dont know if Im following the right path. And want to know whether guys who reached dry orgasm state had same trouble like Im struggling now or not. Thx for reading.

p.s Weed sounds interesting but its illegal at here.

Home Office cumming

After an amazing progasm session last night where I had one continuous 30min orgasm I was so horny when I started work today.

I grabbed my MGX and slid it in this morning. My ass was still lubed from the night before and it was sucked right in. I put my underwear and shorts back on and retreated to my home office. I had an hour conference call and was feeling good tickling And pleasure

Then all of the sudden this thing started autofucking me. I lost all concentration on work. I started panting and I had an amazing dry orgasm that lasted about 2mins. Minutes later I got hit with another orgasm and another.

I’m about to cancel all my meetings and just keep feeding this monster. My prostate won’t stop today!!

Helix Syn Trident advice

I’ve been periodically into prostate play for about 15 years. Up until recently, I thought the key was a good vibrating toy. However, I learned the reason I never went over the edge is due to the intensity and practically numbing the area. I’ve used toys before like the Helix Syn Trident, but not as high of quality.

I’ve tried it several times now for varying lengths of time….I can barely feel anything. I have to really concentrate and do a ton of kegels before I even begin to feel something pleasurable. What am I doing wrong? Is there another aneros that I should be using instead?

Any help is greatly appreciated!

I just had one of my best sessions – but my aneros wasn’t even in…

So last night I smoked a joint and got super high. To combat the paranoia I laid in bed and meditated. Then I thought of something arousing and felt some involuntaries. Then I started contracting my sphincter and PC muscles. Instead of focusing on the arousing thoughts I focused on the feelings they produced. This turned into a cascade of good feelings that just took my breath away. I played with the balance of my contractions to try and hold in that sweet spot and that produced more good feelings.

I’ve posted here before about my helix being a little but painful/uncomfortable in my sphincter area maybe due to the fact that I tend to contract real hard. But this time since there was no aneros, I felt no pain/discomfort so I was able to concentrate fully on the good feelings instead of being distracted by the bad.

Even now as I sit here drinking my morning coffee I can get some nice sensations from contracting.

Can someone enlighten me as to what’s happening here?

Trying To Put It All Together: Where To From Here?

Months ago I brute-forced my way into my first prostate orgasm by using a vibrator externally along with my Helix Syn inserted, which then turned into my first full session of multiple orgasms. It was amazing. Next day I was even able to have prostate orgasms during PIV. Since then though, I went back to basics in order to try and learn how to get there *without* being so rough. I feel like I’m making progress but I can’t seem to put everything together. I have a bunch of notes that I’ve been keeping and hopefully it will help when pointing me in the right direction.

**Sensations I’m Feeling:**
*Shaking/Shivering*: Happens often, much in the lower body and sometimes in my torso. Sometimes feel like something is going to happen, but it just can’t quite get there.
*Involuntaries*: I’ll get a few seconds of feeling something like a pulse inside. Other times I get a sudden PANG that feels really nice.
*P-wave*: If I relax enough, I can get that pang of pleasure to stick around for a few seconds before it dissipates.
*Certain Contact*: Definitely have times where I feel like the Helix is sitting right where it needs to.
*A-less*: Usually I’ll leave the toy in overnight. When I wake up in the morning I’ll take it out, and typically I can get small yet nice sensations for an hour or two afterwards. Pretty consistent.

All said and done, I just can’t get everything together before I lose concentration/relaxation!


Ok so iv ben using the aneros syn and the aneros eupho trident models for the past four weeks and not getting much result. Last night i tried a different approach and decided i would try and meditate while using the eupho. As i was concentrating i did notice that what i was feeling was subtle but good. In that deep relaxed state i was in i suddenly got the sense i was floating on a cloud and didn’t feel like i was grounded. And that’s when the spinning sensation started. It was very violent feeling and kinda scary. It felt lile my body was rapidly spinning backwards through the air changing directions and constantly falling. I thought i was gonna have a brain anurysm or something and stopped feeling a little nausiated. I was wondering if anyone else has had this experience? Is this a normal to exoerience on the journey?

Wet Hands Free Orgasm

I’m well into my prostate play journey, I achieve what I believe to be DHFO on a fairly regular basis when I play, not sure if I’ve hit the super O just yet but I’m sure it will come.
One thing if noticed is that most of the time when I’m playing, I’m not hard. Everyone now and again however when I play, I’ll get a building feeling, my heart will start to race and I get hard very very quickly, it feels like an orgasm is building in the more traditional way and that if I were to orgasm, I would ‘cum’, is this typical for a wet HFO?
I think I end up losing concentration when it happens as it usually ends up fading away. Does anyone have any tips in achieving wet HFO?

Just had a hands free dry O in my van at work!

I was reading some posts on here trying to get inspiration, I’ve had success in the past with my syn achieving dry O’s. I felt the odd throb and decided to do some kegels, I concentrated on the circular rhythm and it built and I got there. No toys or porn just concentration all in the space of about 10mins. I’m still chasing that wet hands free orgasm which I crave and of course the super O but thought I’d share.