Aneros Super o’s with or without a cage.

Do people find it easier with a cage on or off?

Does the sight of your erect penis become a distraction or a turn or.

Or does being locked up help you concentrate on what you’re feeling or does it hinder you as your cant get hard?

I ask because I’m slowly working to getting handsfree orgasms with an aneros. Currently just small sensation with bit of a build up. But I currently do that while locked up and wanted to see if people find it easier being locked up or free.

Fuck Water Lubricant Review

Every one of us that plays with our prostate needs lube. Lube can be a slippery subject literally and figuratively. What matters for lube is that is slippery, stays where it’s meant to be and is safe. This is where Fuck Water comes in. It’s a water based hybrid, meaning it contains a small concentration of silicone. Meaning it’s safe of silicone toys. The disclaimer by the manufacturer says it’s safe just be sure to test it on a small area to be sure. My wife and I have used this on silicone toys and not had any issues.
I really have to give my wife credit as she bought this stuff. But we both like it and were impressed by it.
Here is what we like. It’s not a full blown gel lube but it definitely has more consistency than a lot of lubes so it stays put on where you need it. This stuff is seriously slippery, and it only takes a little. Especially when using the aneros toys. It doesn’t dry out or get sticky. It comes in a variety of sizes as well.
We have used this lube for quite a bit of bedroom activity. Vaginal sex, no irritation or discomfort for either one of us. We did anal the other night, and the same thing. I will say it made anal more comfortable for her and took only a small amount. We have used It on toys solo and together. But here what impresses me about it. We used it for pegging, meaning I was receiving a fake dick in the ass. It’s so slippery it made it a breeze for insertion and thrusting. Almost no friction build up left me comfortable while doing so. This stuff is to good not to try.

introduction, my journey so far –

Greetings aneros community. I’ve been wanting to tell ‘someone’ about the revolution I’m experiencing. I’m a mid 60’s hetero dude who’s been enjoying the most amazing adventure for the past few months.

I’m PO/MMO experienced & enjoy great muscle control so I’m now getting MMO’s and SO’s most every session. I’ve reached point that I was looking for an ‘advanced’ forum. This looks like the closest way available to communicate with like minded/experienced aneros users.

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for a couple of years, starting with a nexus revo. I was able to enjoy a few sessions in which I reached a few dry orgasms (lots of prostatic fluid but no semen) after many hours of experimenting. Constantly reaching for ‘more’, I’ve experimented with _numerous_ devices for prostate massage. I always thought the aneros stuff I read was overblown & just couldn’t really be true, until ~2 months ago. Out of sheer curiosity, I bought a helix classic — *WOW*.

Due to my experience, the helix introduced me to serious MMOs with numerous dry orgasms the FIRST session. I officially fell deeply in lust with her (the helix), expressing my love for her during the afterglow of that session while she was still teasing… I learned “hmmm – this stuff is real!”. This began the revolution in my life. The eupho is just another step in my journey and latest addition to my now rapidly growing collection.

Nipple Play; helpful or not?

In the last 18 months or so, I have been very successful in developing my nipple play to the point of generating instant and extremely rewarding sensation in my genital and prostate areas.  I seldom have an Aneros or Aless session without diddling my nipples.  The pleasures from such diddling is beyond belief even if I never achieved the Super-O level.

Now, I’m seriously thinking that this great success of mine could also be my downfall.  I’m at the point where almost nothing happens unless I diddle my nipples.  It’s easy to feel my prostate pulse but with no escalation of great pleasures unless I kick in nipple play.

What am I really feeling in my sessions?  Is it prostate pleasure waves or pelvic muscles related feelings?

I need to let go all diddling action untill I can rekindle direct prostate sensations without nipple influence.  I know nipples will always be there to add further sensations in the future, once my prostate responds to breathing and concentration.

During this time, I’ve also been working on massaging my perineum with great success.  Whether I use my finger tips or tennis balls, I can always count on great feelings in the area.  For the moment, I will continue this practice but I might get to the point where I will abandon this practice for a while.

More to follow.

“After All, It’s Just For Prostate Therapy!”

Background
I am only at Day 2 of SR but at Day 80 of NoFap ® PMO. Last night, before retiring for bed, I had a strong urge to “sleep” in one of my ‘chastity cups’. So I selected my XO ProCup and nestled-in; so relaxing and comforting! During the night, as I expected, I felt the distinct pressure of the NPT erections against the cup. But I remained in chastity and slept comfortably through the night.

Earlier this morning, I awoke and upon visiting the lavatory, I had a symptom or two of BPH: start & stop stream and a somewhat weak stream. I think I ‘visited’ about three times quickly in succession. I checked and it had been 5 days since my last ‘therapeutic’ prostate massage session, so I knew it was time.

Session
I selected my HelixTrident for this session and lubed-up with SSG. I went to lie-down on my side and just relax. I knew the Helix was contacting my prostate right from the start and I began to experience some involuntary contractions. I did a couple of strong anal/PC contractions and could definitely feel its effect. At one point, my entire body reacted with a strong, explosive contraction. I honestly didn’t feel any erections building, but I knew that this ‘therapy’ was going to be effective.

“No Aneros? … No Problem!”

Introduction
Yes, I’m referring to Aless. That concept whereby a guy gets all the pleasure of a prostate massage, but without the massager! How is this possible? Let me explain…..

Technique
There is really not much to learn here. All that is required (IMO) is a willingness to activate and stimulate the prostate by some simple anal/PC contractions (also known as kegels). It takes just a little bit of practice but once learned, the technique is almost automatic. The intervals of those contractions can be far apart or closely spaced. The idea here is to begin to feel it just a little in the prostate. The rest will be accomplished by your body’s own response. The important thing (I find) is not to stop too quickly! When I start to feel that unmistakable “flutter down-under” I know I am on the right path!

Since I wear ‘chastity cups’ regularly, I find that while wearing one is the perfect opportunity to practice my kegels. Especially while sitting down at a computer, It doesn’t take any preparation and I can start and stop at any time.

One thing that can be a little problematic is when I start to do some contractions in a public place. I have to be careful that I don’t get my prostate stimulated too much. Otherwise, I may react with a slight moan due to a euphoric, orgasmic feeling! But usually, I have enough self-control to the point that only I know what is going-on down there!

I’ve been trying for a few years and I’m still hardly getting any pleasure out of it.

Technically it would be more accurate to say it’s off and on for a few years. I tend to give up on it for a while or not be able to for a long time for one reason or another.

I’m using the “do nothing” or the “try not to orgasm” approach. Try not to orgasm is a nice one because then if pleasure stops I’m less likely to get frustrated. I’ve tried intentionally moving the aneros inside me but it never works more than a tiny bit. Any attempt to directly control the movement of the aneros or the feeling of pleasure itself leaves me worse off than I started. Fine. I just won’t do that.

I’m still at the stage where the sensations are mild and never last more than a few seconds. A couple times I’ve gotten better than that but I haven’t gotten back there in about a year. As soon as I want it to feel better than it does in the moment, all pleasure stops, which is extremely frustrating.

I’m not focusing entirely on the possibility of the super O. I’ll be satisfied once I get to the point where it feels better than regular masturbation. I can’t explain why but I have a feeling that once I get to that point I’ll advance pretty quickly. Even if it doesn’t, I can be patient about how good it feels as long as it satisfies my need for it. I don’t think I’ll be bored once I get the fundamentals down.

What do you think about during a session?

I’ve been using the Progasm for a while and getting some pleasurable sensations, but I find that it’s kind of difficult to stay “aroused” and in the mood for an extended period of time, especially if the session drags on for a while.

I’m just wondering what other people think about during an Aneros session… do you think about something erotic? Do you imagine you’re in the act? Or do you treat it more like a massage and just concentrate on the pleasurable sensations?

As a gay man, it’s always tempting to think about anal sex, but there’s only so long I can keep myself “turned on” for if that makes sense…

My experience so far…

So, I jumped on the prostate bandwagon a few months ago and started with the Helix Syn. Had a few good sessions with it but wasn’t getting anywhere close to what I was reading about. Turns out…I was too impatient.

I ordered the Helix Trident Syn last week and I have had a few sessions with it. I like it SO much better than the Syn. That extra strength in the P-tab really helps.

The other night I was having a session and I had my first hands-free ejaculation. Not a Super-O or even a dry orgasm, but hands-free nonetheless. That was a pretty big step. I had the Trident in and I had used extra lube. I was lying on my back with my knees bent and my feet flat on the bed. I had my dick tucked between my legs and my legs were squeezed closed. This goes against the “relax and it will come to you” but it felt so good.

I also had quite a few large muscle shakes. The feelings grew and grew and then I came. It was pretty intense but not my ultimate goal. Still, I had managed to do something I’d never done before so that was a good session.

Today, I put on my chastity cage and sat around doing some work. I started feeling horny and just paid attention to my prostate. I have found that I can get some great feelings without the Aneros if I concentrate enough so I tried doing that.

“It Just Feels Better With A Cup!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his continuing support of wearing cups in bed and during Aneros sessions]

Intro
Went to sleep wearing only PJs and didn’t even think about the NPTs that would be coming during the night. Sure enough, I awoke about 3 AM with an arousing erection and firm balls. I am currently in Day 8 of semen retention and I have felt that “boost” in T-level for sure! I am not ready to ejaculate yet. What to do?

Solution
I quickly decided to put-on my Mueller cup because of the way it feels. And once I did, that ‘comfortable’ feeling just got me thinking…

Forget Chastity
What I realized is that, throwing-out all I know about male chastity, putting-on that cup just felt better! Need more synonyms? How about improved, exceptional, superior, desirable, more useful? Take everything I have written about male chastity and just put-it-aside for now. Concentrate on the comfort and the relief that the cup provides. It just ‘feels better’!

Scenarios
Once back in bed and feeling more comfort from the cup, I began to think about other ways that guys feel ‘better’ while wearing their cups. And a few examples quickly came to mind….
• Baseball players wear their cups for sure to protect their ‘equipment’ from errant balls and field-play. No fan would question their choice of protection; the ‘bulge’ in their pants attests to their commitment.
• Some male police officers wear bulletproof cups (groin guards for females) particularly for SWAT teams. I don’t think anyone would deny a police officer’s choice to wear a bulletproof vest, so why not groin protection while on duty?
• Male and female wrestlers and kick-boxers routinely wear groin guards to protect their vital organs during matches. Fans would expect no less.
• Can you imagine an ice-hockey player not wearing a cup? I can’t either.