My experience so far…

So, I jumped on the prostate bandwagon a few months ago and started with the Helix Syn. Had a few good sessions with it but wasn’t getting anywhere close to what I was reading about. Turns out…I was too impatient.

I ordered the Helix Trident Syn last week and I have had a few sessions with it. I like it SO much better than the Syn. That extra strength in the P-tab really helps.

The other night I was having a session and I had my first hands-free ejaculation. Not a Super-O or even a dry orgasm, but hands-free nonetheless. That was a pretty big step. I had the Trident in and I had used extra lube. I was lying on my back with my knees bent and my feet flat on the bed. I had my dick tucked between my legs and my legs were squeezed closed. This goes against the “relax and it will come to you” but it felt so good.

I also had quite a few large muscle shakes. The feelings grew and grew and then I came. It was pretty intense but not my ultimate goal. Still, I had managed to do something I’d never done before so that was a good session.

Today, I put on my chastity cage and sat around doing some work. I started feeling horny and just paid attention to my prostate. I have found that I can get some great feelings without the Aneros if I concentrate enough so I tried doing that.

“It Just Feels Better With A Cup!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his continuing support of wearing cups in bed and during Aneros sessions]

Went to sleep wearing only PJs and didn’t even think about the NPTs that would be coming during the night. Sure enough, I awoke about 3 AM with an arousing erection and firm balls. I am currently in Day 8 of semen retention and I have felt that “boost” in T-level for sure! I am not ready to ejaculate yet. What to do?

I quickly decided to put-on my Mueller cup because of the way it feels. And once I did, that ‘comfortable’ feeling just got me thinking…

Forget Chastity
What I realized is that, throwing-out all I know about male chastity, putting-on that cup just felt better! Need more synonyms? How about improved, exceptional, superior, desirable, more useful? Take everything I have written about male chastity and just put-it-aside for now. Concentrate on the comfort and the relief that the cup provides. It just ‘feels better’!

Once back in bed and feeling more comfort from the cup, I began to think about other ways that guys feel ‘better’ while wearing their cups. And a few examples quickly came to mind….
• Baseball players wear their cups for sure to protect their ‘equipment’ from errant balls and field-play. No fan would question their choice of protection; the ‘bulge’ in their pants attests to their commitment.
• Some male police officers wear bulletproof cups (groin guards for females) particularly for SWAT teams. I don’t think anyone would deny a police officer’s choice to wear a bulletproof vest, so why not groin protection while on duty?
• Male and female wrestlers and kick-boxers routinely wear groin guards to protect their vital organs during matches. Fans would expect no less.
• Can you imagine an ice-hockey player not wearing a cup? I can’t either.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

From Aneros and an ‘Optimal’ mind state?
Hi guys,
I was recently asked by a member [quote]…about how to get into the right state of mind to encourage a prostate orgasm to happen…[/quote]That’s a good question which deserves some thoughtful responses from our members. First off, let’s dispense with the word “right” and it’s implied antonym “wrong”, the semantics of which imply too much moral judgment attached to their use. I prefer to use the term “optimal” in lieu of “right”. Second, we need to identify what constitutes this “optimal” state of mind. I think I have a pretty good idea about this but it is just my opinion. Third, we need to identify those practices which will help us get into that “optimal” state of mind. Some of this was alluded to in the thread [U][URL=””]Identifying Facilitators to Progress[/URL][/U] so this post could be considered an addendum to that thread. This also ties into [USER=”7188″]rook[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=””]Whole Body/Whole Mind – the mental side[/URL][/U] & [USER=”7244″]SteelColdiron[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=””]Aneros: The Essential Mind State[/URL][/U]

Experiments & Hypotheses

Turned the heat up higher than usual, kept the bedroom nice and warm so that I wouldn’t have to worry about clothes, covers, or chills. Did some yoga breathing, then added gentle flexing and relaxing of anal muscles with them. No precum yet, but my body was relaxed and ready – been looking forward to this since the last session.

Used the same amount of lube and massaged some in, then put a layer on the device. My body was eager to take it in; it pulled it in to the first bulb with little resistance. With some gentle muscle movements, eventually it slid in just on the cusp of the last bulb, which stayed half inside and half outside of my outer sphincter. Started out on my back again, with legs bent, and small movements and contractions felt good. Squatted for a while again, which had a similar effect as last time, kind of encouraging my anus, inner sphincter, and rectum to wake up. Tried lying with my legs up at a right angle, resting on a cushion (a forum user really likes this position with the Peridise), but after a while of trying it out, it really wasn’t doing much for me.

Aless and My Sexual Thermocouple

Thermocouple: a device for measuring temperature, consisting of a length of wire of different metals connected at two points terminating in a bulbous tip, the voltage being developed in the junction will be in proportion to the temperature difference.

By Spring of 2007 my Aneros journey made me feel like a 17th Century Explorer from Spain or Italy of Portugal only instead of the New World I was seeking the New Orgasm. I was in control of my ship, its equipment and the humanity that drove it and most importantly I had confidence in myself. I alsowas aware I was headed somewhere but I wasn’t totally sure what was out there.

I was having a 90% success rate with Super O’s each session. I knew how to make sure I had them but I wasn’t always consistent in the results. Some sessions were deep and intense producing toe curling agonizing ecstasy while other were just meager and ok. Each one was as different as a finger print. I learned that Super O’s were very nuanced and that depending on how you guided them, they could tumble you like a wave on the shore and abandon you or they could caress your brain and transport you to nirvana. I learned that I could get good advice from others on what worked for them but that experimentation of what worked in my own body was essential, even if it went against what others did. I also learned from Senior members here about A Lesses.

Session 3

I had my second Aneros session this morning. Let me preface my recounting of it with a few admissions of guilt:
– It was a very long session. I went against the advice of more experienced users who recommended sticking closer to 30 minutes. All told, I had my Aneros in for 3.5 hours.
– It was not actually my second time using the Aneros. I slipped it in one other time between this session and the first as a way of increasing arousal during sex with my spouse. But I don’t really count that as a “session” because I wasn’t focused on the specific sensations the Aneros may have been generating. I wasn’t practicing Aneros.
– Which leads to my third and final confession: After having done that, I was advised by someone to keep Aneros sessions and sex with someone else (or masturbation) separate until I had more experience. I think this advice makes sense and I will follow it in the future, but I didn’t follow it this morning.

They say confession is good for the soul. I don’t know about that, really, but I do know that I want this blog to be as truthful and accurate as possible. Maybe others will learn from my experiences. I hope that I will also learn, both by putting the experiences into words, which forces me to think more deeply about them, and by looking back at the mistakes and successes I have along the way. So yes, at the risk of shame and public recrimination, I will freely admit when I do something that may be unwise or counterproductive.

Am I two timing my Aneros devices?

Well I couldn’t resist another “flirtation” as per my previous blog. Almost identical results, although not quite as much fluid produced. What I began to think about and what prompted this follow up is that an Aneros session for me tends to follow the same ritual. It will take place at the end of the day as I settle down for the night when the house is quiet. Once settled down with my chosen device I lie and relax and concentrate on the sensations as they come and go. But with these last two experiences I have been distracted whilst busy showering etc, but still the stimulation was building without the need to focus, concentrate or relax. Although the results were not as strong as with my Progasm Jr or Eupho Trident it was still enough to leave me buzzing for hours afterwards. I came out of the shower feeling totally energised and ready for the day, a nice hot shower alone is invigorating in itself as I am sure you will agree, but the added buzz that followed that short time of pleasure was fabulous. Makes me think my prostate is a bit of a slut and doesn’t care who he sleeps with or when.

A quest!

It’s been a while since my last entry but rest assured I have been keeping tabs on all you guys for inspiration, thanks. I’ve still been enjoying some wonderful sessions but I have noticed some subtle changes in my responses. I am also trying to train myself not to follow the same old routine for every session which seems to be paying off. For instance, my usual position for a session has been on my back, slightly propped up with a pillow or two, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. I found this led to me tensing up my stomach muscles too much when things got going. Of course this impeded my breathing when I felt I should have been more relaxed. So now I adopt a more flat position which lets me release the tension in my abdomen, that immediately felt better. I follow the “do nothing” approach and just let things happen. Using my new position I became aware that when orgasms started I was really clenching hard on the Aneros, fair enough it’s difficult not to, but as the orgasm faded I was still holding it in quite strongly although I thought I had relaxed my “grip” on it. I was quite surprised how much more tension I could release and allow the Aneros some freedom to begin its work again. I am really concentrating hard on this as I find I can bring on the autofxxk response quite well. Also noticeable is that during a session I can go through many phases of different pleasurable sensations. A few times I have had the feeling of an ejaculation building as I approached climax, I could definitely feel the same pumping feeling that I get during ejaculation from traditional masturbation and ejaculation. So far nothing has occurred but it feels so close. I admit that on one occasion after a session I reallly felt the need to cum, I didn’t want to use my hands, I just wanted to somehow get as close as I could to the PONR and let my prostate take over. I found that if I positioned the edge of my duvet over my frenulum while laying flat on my back, any movement at all just kept things on the boil and eventually I felt that incredible sensation when a load is on its way. The resulting ejaculation came from deep within and was intense, and more productive than a normal one, it was strong with many pumps from my prostate. Although it wasn’t truly a HFWO, it has wet my appetite to experience a genuine one. As I am now about 10 days into SR and enjoying all the feelings that come with it, I am trying an experiment. Several times a day for the past two days I have been taking myself as close as I can to the PONR. It has been a torture of sorts but at the same time, so, so arousing, My thoughts are that by the time I settle in for my next Aneros session I will be bursting to cum, hopefully in a hands free manner. Whether I will be lucky enough for it to happen I don’t know, but in any case I will have had some fun trying. My arousal levels are so high just now that my prostate is demanding attention almost as much as my cock. I feel electrified and I’m buzzing with sexual energy.

Some questions after the first session

Yesterday i had my first ever session with my new Helix Trident. I liked my session but i have some questions.

1. When my toy was in i noticed that it slipped down a bit. It wasn’t fully in. Is that normal?
2. How often should i concentrate my PC muscle? should i just pop it in and let its do its own thing or should i concentrate the muscle a couple of times?
3. Should you be erected while the toy is in? I rubbed my nipples in order to stay erected, but i think that this distracts me of the feelings of my prostate.
4. Can i masturbate “normally” after a session without my toy in?

Is there a clear boundary beween the orgasmic/non-orgasmuc state?

I have been practicing my aneros use for about a year now, and I usually experience a lot of pleasure each session. However, I am still unsure if I’ve actually experienced a prostate orgasm yet. At my most pleasurable moments I feel like I just want to cry out of frustration because it feels so good and I feel like I’m so close to SOMETHING, but I don’t know what, and I’m craving some sense of release. During these times I usually experience some precum leakage as well, and my penis will get so hard that it actually hurts. The pleasure build-up is very slow, but I don’t feel like I’m crossing some kind of “point of no return”, like with traditional masturbation. And if I lose concentration all the pleasure dissapear. Thus, I’m wondering if what I have experienced is actually an orgasm or if I’ve not yet pushed myself over the edge. Do you feel like there is a clear boundary between the orgasmic/non-orgasmic state? Or can you feel when you are about to orgasm?