Aless and My Sexual Thermocouple

Thermocouple: a device for measuring temperature, consisting of a length of wire of different metals connected at two points terminating in a bulbous tip, the voltage being developed in the junction will be in proportion to the temperature difference.

By Spring of 2007 my Aneros journey made me feel like a 17th Century Explorer from Spain or Italy of Portugal only instead of the New World I was seeking the New Orgasm. I was in control of my ship, its equipment and the humanity that drove it and most importantly I had confidence in myself. I alsowas aware I was headed somewhere but I wasn’t totally sure what was out there.

I was having a 90% success rate with Super O’s each session. I knew how to make sure I had them but I wasn’t always consistent in the results. Some sessions were deep and intense producing toe curling agonizing ecstasy while other were just meager and ok. Each one was as different as a finger print. I learned that Super O’s were very nuanced and that depending on how you guided them, they could tumble you like a wave on the shore and abandon you or they could caress your brain and transport you to nirvana. I learned that I could get good advice from others on what worked for them but that experimentation of what worked in my own body was essential, even if it went against what others did. I also learned from Senior members here about A Lesses.

Session 3

I had my second Aneros session this morning. Let me preface my recounting of it with a few admissions of guilt:
– It was a very long session. I went against the advice of more experienced users who recommended sticking closer to 30 minutes. All told, I had my Aneros in for 3.5 hours.
– It was not actually my second time using the Aneros. I slipped it in one other time between this session and the first as a way of increasing arousal during sex with my spouse. But I don’t really count that as a “session” because I wasn’t focused on the specific sensations the Aneros may have been generating. I wasn’t practicing Aneros.
– Which leads to my third and final confession: After having done that, I was advised by someone to keep Aneros sessions and sex with someone else (or masturbation) separate until I had more experience. I think this advice makes sense and I will follow it in the future, but I didn’t follow it this morning.

They say confession is good for the soul. I don’t know about that, really, but I do know that I want this blog to be as truthful and accurate as possible. Maybe others will learn from my experiences. I hope that I will also learn, both by putting the experiences into words, which forces me to think more deeply about them, and by looking back at the mistakes and successes I have along the way. So yes, at the risk of shame and public recrimination, I will freely admit when I do something that may be unwise or counterproductive.

Am I two timing my Aneros devices?

Well I couldn’t resist another “flirtation” as per my previous blog. Almost identical results, although not quite as much fluid produced. What I began to think about and what prompted this follow up is that an Aneros session for me tends to follow the same ritual. It will take place at the end of the day as I settle down for the night when the house is quiet. Once settled down with my chosen device I lie and relax and concentrate on the sensations as they come and go. But with these last two experiences I have been distracted whilst busy showering etc, but still the stimulation was building without the need to focus, concentrate or relax. Although the results were not as strong as with my Progasm Jr or Eupho Trident it was still enough to leave me buzzing for hours afterwards. I came out of the shower feeling totally energised and ready for the day, a nice hot shower alone is invigorating in itself as I am sure you will agree, but the added buzz that followed that short time of pleasure was fabulous. Makes me think my prostate is a bit of a slut and doesn’t care who he sleeps with or when.

A quest!

Hey!
It’s been a while since my last entry but rest assured I have been keeping tabs on all you guys for inspiration, thanks. I’ve still been enjoying some wonderful sessions but I have noticed some subtle changes in my responses. I am also trying to train myself not to follow the same old routine for every session which seems to be paying off. For instance, my usual position for a session has been on my back, slightly propped up with a pillow or two, with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. I found this led to me tensing up my stomach muscles too much when things got going. Of course this impeded my breathing when I felt I should have been more relaxed. So now I adopt a more flat position which lets me release the tension in my abdomen, that immediately felt better. I follow the “do nothing” approach and just let things happen. Using my new position I became aware that when orgasms started I was really clenching hard on the Aneros, fair enough it’s difficult not to, but as the orgasm faded I was still holding it in quite strongly although I thought I had relaxed my “grip” on it. I was quite surprised how much more tension I could release and allow the Aneros some freedom to begin its work again. I am really concentrating hard on this as I find I can bring on the autofxxk response quite well. Also noticeable is that during a session I can go through many phases of different pleasurable sensations. A few times I have had the feeling of an ejaculation building as I approached climax, I could definitely feel the same pumping feeling that I get during ejaculation from traditional masturbation and ejaculation. So far nothing has occurred but it feels so close. I admit that on one occasion after a session I reallly felt the need to cum, I didn’t want to use my hands, I just wanted to somehow get as close as I could to the PONR and let my prostate take over. I found that if I positioned the edge of my duvet over my frenulum while laying flat on my back, any movement at all just kept things on the boil and eventually I felt that incredible sensation when a load is on its way. The resulting ejaculation came from deep within and was intense, and more productive than a normal one, it was strong with many pumps from my prostate. Although it wasn’t truly a HFWO, it has wet my appetite to experience a genuine one. As I am now about 10 days into SR and enjoying all the feelings that come with it, I am trying an experiment. Several times a day for the past two days I have been taking myself as close as I can to the PONR. It has been a torture of sorts but at the same time, so, so arousing, My thoughts are that by the time I settle in for my next Aneros session I will be bursting to cum, hopefully in a hands free manner. Whether I will be lucky enough for it to happen I don’t know, but in any case I will have had some fun trying. My arousal levels are so high just now that my prostate is demanding attention almost as much as my cock. I feel electrified and I’m buzzing with sexual energy.

Some questions after the first session

Yesterday i had my first ever session with my new Helix Trident. I liked my session but i have some questions.

1. When my toy was in i noticed that it slipped down a bit. It wasn’t fully in. Is that normal?
2. How often should i concentrate my PC muscle? should i just pop it in and let its do its own thing or should i concentrate the muscle a couple of times?
3. Should you be erected while the toy is in? I rubbed my nipples in order to stay erected, but i think that this distracts me of the feelings of my prostate.
4. Can i masturbate “normally” after a session without my toy in?

Is there a clear boundary beween the orgasmic/non-orgasmuc state?

I have been practicing my aneros use for about a year now, and I usually experience a lot of pleasure each session. However, I am still unsure if I’ve actually experienced a prostate orgasm yet. At my most pleasurable moments I feel like I just want to cry out of frustration because it feels so good and I feel like I’m so close to SOMETHING, but I don’t know what, and I’m craving some sense of release. During these times I usually experience some precum leakage as well, and my penis will get so hard that it actually hurts. The pleasure build-up is very slow, but I don’t feel like I’m crossing some kind of “point of no return”, like with traditional masturbation. And if I lose concentration all the pleasure dissapear. Thus, I’m wondering if what I have experienced is actually an orgasm or if I’ve not yet pushed myself over the edge. Do you feel like there is a clear boundary between the orgasmic/non-orgasmic state? Or can you feel when you are about to orgasm?

” A Night Full of Surprises”

Background
I could not have seen this night coming! It was full of surprises. Let me explain…..

I am now in Day 5 of SR and feel my T building-up. I went to sleep wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” and a short pair of PJs. I had not yet fallen asleep yet; it was only about 10:30 PM. Although not aroused in the least, I got an urge to have a session. I am now doing more frequent sessions to relieve BPH symptoms and they appear to be working. I selected the SGX (which I had not ridden in a while), lubed it up and it felt so good upon insertion. I could not have predicted the outcome of this session.

Session with SGX
Within the first 20 seconds of insertion, although I was completely flaccid going in to the session, I developed a hard erection beneath the chastity cup and it stayed hard for the rest of the session. And almost from the start, I began to softly moan. Not because I wanted to, but almost as if I had to. This moaning was quite unusual for me; I felt something in my anus that was caused by the ribbed stem of the SGX. I concentrated on my anal canal, not concentrating on anything that could be happening with my prostate. And the moans just kept going unabated. The moans actually lasted the entire 35-minute session! When the session ended and I went to remove the SGX, I noticed that I was still erect beneath my Mueller cup.

Different Approach!

Last night, I had my third session in as many days and this time, my body suggested the MGX for the occasion.  My mind originally wanted the Eupho Syn but I’ve learned a long time ago that the best results are usually attained when the prostate kisses and rubs with the tool choice it whispers to me.  Last night was no exception to the rule.

For whatever reason, once in my session, I did not concentrate on the prostate, I was not looking for twitches or faint sensations to grow but rather all the focus was on my anal canal and anus.  I only realize this further in the session as things seemed and felt different than in my usual sessions.

The MGX was doing exactly what it was designed to do and my back end was rewarded with sensations I never experienced before.  It was easy to fantasize being penetrated and retuning the favor.  Not a wink of attention was dedicated to the front end equipment nor to the prostate.  What a difference!  It was like discovering yet another source of pleasure and extacy totally foreign to me.

The results are absolutely amazing when we actually let the body completely take over from the point of tool selection to the actual performance of it once inserted.

My next ride will be tonight and so far, my E-Syn is trotting in my head but who knows!

Are We Over-Analyzing Our Aneros Sessions’ Experiences?

No session last night. I am only in SR Day 2 but slept in my XO ProCup overnight. What a feeling! This morning, before I got up for the day, I began to think about the “chastity cups” that I wear. They really only consist of 4 “pieces”: waistband, leg straps, pouch and hard cup. But the way they all come together around the male anatomy is nothing short of amazing! That combination seems to go straight to the center of the male libido. While lying in bed, I am again thwarted from fondling or even touching my male package! I can touch all-around the hard plastic “cup” but I can’t do anything else! So frustrating!

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A little later-on, I am reading some recent forum posts and, pardon me, but it seems that we Aneros gents are “over-analyzing” our prostates! I am probably just as guilty as the next guy. But hey, after all, what are we doing to our prostates? We have this anatomically-correct piece of plastic that we are inserting you-know-where (lubed, of course) and the rest is up to us. Our bodies’ response is going to happen or it isn’t. And if it doesn’t, well, there is always another time and place.

One session a week. What’s that like?

Now I’m not complaining, far from it. Don’t get me wrong, enjoying almost constant sexual energy and rampant levels of arousal are just the ticket and I can’t believe my luck. But I do find it just ever so slightly distracting. I am carrying out my daily routine of prescribed exercise for an annoying sciatic problem and find myself unable to continue when a series of mini O’s launch themselves upon me until I end up laughing at the absurdity of it. I am seated at the dining table having lunch or suchlike, the chairs are quite hard I admit, sudden waves of pleasure surge through my nether regions, my facial expression must surely betray me. Nobody notices. I find myself watching the weather girls on tv, I have no idea at all what the forecast is. All I know is, they look pretty hot to me, and from a certain angle I am sure I can glimpse a nipple. I limp out of the room, surely the bulge in my shorts must betray me. Nobody notices. I made a decision to give myself a “cooling down” period and take a weeks break from all Aneros activity which usually consists of three sessions per week. From there I was going to try a weekly Aneros session and ejaculate as and when necessary. A week of chastity was not difficult for me, I have twice completed the 21 day challenge and made it beyond that one time. But how might I cope with no Aneros sessions and semen retention, I was already at day 5 when I began? After about 3 days things were ok, no strong Aless to distract me and I felt a bit more grounded. By day 5 I found I was yearning for the end of the week to come, 10 days of SR and no Aneros for days were beginning to tell. Although my horniness was ramping up by the day I found it was not quite as all consuming. Day 7 duly arrived, I was definitely needing my fix and I couldn’t wait to get started. For the session I chose my Eupho Trident, it performs wonderfully and has never disappointed me so far. The Eupho wasn’t so much inserted, more like swallowed hungrily. Within a few minutes I was in rapture, it felt ever so good to be back. The Eupho is the only model I own that seems to invite penis to the party, and on this occasion penis was only too happy to accept the invitation. Well he had been in solitary confinement for 10 days! Some wonderful dry O’s ensued while my cock was pulsing and throbbing in accompaniment. It was too much to bear and I couldn’t resist stroking and rubbing my engorged member, usually I forgo stimulation during a session, but this time it felt just right. I would stroke for a while and then stop and concentrate on the waves of pleasure from my prostate, then back on the cock for a while and so on. Inevitably I felt an ejaculation building and stopped short a few times but was edging ever closer. Then I knew I had gone too far and readied myself for the impending ejaculation. But it didn’t quite go as I expected. I knew I was going to cum, I could feel it making its way but, instead of spurting out, and apologies if this is just too much information, I witnessed the largest amount of semen I have produced in years simply flow out like it would never stop. What a sight. But still no orgasm, gently I teased my glans until I felt my prostate thumping and I had the most wonderful penile orgasm with more cum. Having barely gotten over that my Eupho seemed determined to have the final word as a wave of pleasure surged outward from my prostate. I felt well and truly drained, literally. Such a session I have never experienced. I think the reason for such a successful session might just have been that all of the pieces were there to enable it and they just fell into place on the night. Mainly though, I was well and truly ready for my Aneros session and seemed to build up the anticipation as I counted down the days, it felt the same as attempting SR. Interesting, I’m going to try it again.