Do nothing or do light contractions?

Been using the helix syn a few times now with little progress, and it seems the more I ask the more confused I get. People have told me to do light contractions about halfway and hold, though I will do that for 20 minutes and barely feel anything. Others tell me to simply do nothing and let the aneros work its magic, though I’m not sure if that can happen if I do nothing right from the start, and as far as I know the only involuntary contractions I have had only lasted for a few seconds when I started to feel a sort of tingling feeling coming from my prostate (whatever you want to call that). It then subsides and nothing happens. I also noticed if I push the aneros closer towards my stomach when I breath in I get a sort of warm fulling feeling in my stomach, but it’s only very minor and brief because I have to hold my breath and concentrate hard for that to happen. I think I might try the do nothing approach from the start, I just need some relaxing audio or something perhaps. Can anyone give me some tips for someone who is confused as to what I should be doing to make progress?

Recognizing a prostate orgasm?

I’ve had an Aneros — one of the basic models — for years now, but I’ve generally only used it when I’m doing things with my wife. I finally decided “What the hell” and tried giving the HFO a shot.

Until last night, I’ve not had much luck. I’ve been practicing my muscle control but it’s still very difficult for me to clench in a gradual and controlled fashion. It feels nice, but it doesn’t do much beyond that. Plus, for some reason it’s sometimes difficult for me to remain hard when I’m being penetrated: I have to be *very* turned on for that, and concentrating on the aneros makes it difficult to maintain that level of arousal.

But last night, I put it in early and left it in place for an hour or two ahead of time. We had some pot last night, and I was feeling nice and relaxed, and was in just the right mind space to keep myself good and hard. And then something happened. I was convulsing a little, making noises that I don’t normally make, but it didn’t feel…orgasmic. It felt really good, but not nearly at the level of a full-blown orgasm. Nor was it as satisfying as a regular orgasm, not by a long shot.

So, not sure. Am I on the right track, do you think? And what can I do to achieve something better?

14 month Journey… but tonight was the first Hands Free Super O

It’s been one hell of a journey. I didn’t think I would ever get there and at times have been on the brink of throwing it away and giving up! I likely tried a minimum of 2 to 5 times a month each month for that long! I had some weed tonight though…. not the first time with weed to at least try to achieve, but on weed just the same. I can’t describe what happened except to say that my whole body lost control, and the waves of pleasure just about put me through the roof. Largest spasms of my life, and dry like they say…. I didn’t think it was possible.

It was like I was just in a whole other world…. I relaxed more and more and more in my recliner gently girating my hips and flexing around the toy. All of a sudden I was slowly shaking…. and I couldn’t control it. Then it was like my whole body exploded as I was shaking violently. I spent the session strongly concentrating on the feeling of my Helix Syn rubbing on my prostate…. and I mean strongly concentrating on just feeling the rubbing only without thinking about having a wet orgasm…. all I can say is OMG. I ended the evening with three Super O’s tonight…. I just kept having more after the first one. Shit I’m getting horny just typing this out right now. I might have to go start all over again!

Body gets cold during session?

Does anyone randomly get cold during a session? Cold and shivering. Sometimes I get randomly cold after my body gets so sensitive during a otherwise good session. I get some p waves, involuntary contractions, and then they calm down a bit and I start getting cold, and I start to shiver to the point it ruins all my concentration. Anyone else get that?

Soreness from Helix

I’ve been using the regular helix for about the past 9 months or so. I’ve had about two or three sessions with really good success. About a month ago I had the best session yet and I’ve been chasing the feeling ever since. There was about a 10 day period where I’d try a session in bed before falling asleep. I typically use silicone lube.

During that 10 day stretch I noticed some soreness/slight tingliness/stingy sensation near my sphincter area. I assumed it was from over using so I took a break for a week.

Next session I got the same sensation. It almost feels like it’s a struggle for the aneros to glide up and down my rectum despite always using plenty of lube. The sensation goes away when I take the aneros out.

At this point it’s almost distracting and I feel like takes away from my concentration.

I’m wondering if a) i need to try a different model, and b) if my rectum is just absorbing the lube too fast? I typically reapply lube at least once in the middle of the session. Also I’m wondering if I’m contracting TOO hard.

My First Aneros Right Now

Okay so I get the trident syn after work, race home and get in the shower, clean up, start prepping,

I’ve been working kegels about a week and done some fingering around in the past. I’ve read every story on here I could.

I get it in, frustrated about everything, my girlfriend, job, depression, everything. I can’t concentrate so I get up go have a toke, come back in after a walk, and now I’m taking selfies. I’m self conscious and a big boi, but I have a nice butt so I’m here now trying to get all the decent angles of my ass without hiding the rest of me too much (not something I’d normally ever do) singing a completely random song, and my p is on fire all of a sudden. It’s been about 2 hours so far.

I’m having to stop moving a round so I can type this. Every move is a shock in my body rn. And definitely the prostate. If you’re ever unsure just be patient it will show itself.

I’m only about a [3] right now high wise so I’m hoping the thc isn’t too responsible for this. Pleasure level is a [5] as well.

I don’t expect anything more tonight, but it’s a bonus. I found the biggest turn on was reading all of your guys’ stories. It really got my penis out of the scenario and focused on the prostate.

Sleepiness, Boredom, and Arousal

Hello everyone,

I’ve been using my Helix Syn for the past 5 months with some decent results.

Relaxation and arousal are often cited as key elements to success. However, I have been having two issues with this. First, I can easily relax, but this causes me to quickly fall asleep in the middle of my sessions, which is not exactly conducive to making progress.

Second, if I instead concentrate heavily on maintaining arousal and focusing on sensations, I become mentally exhausted rather quickly.

Many users report that they require 2-3 hour sessions to make progress, especially at the beginning of the journey. I can barely last an hour without either falling asleep, becoming bored, or becoming mentally exhausted and distracted.

Any tips on how to overcome this challenge would be greatly appreciated. Thanks !

A-Less, Hands Free Super O. Out of the blue.

Ok so I think my “super o” experience documented on here wasn’t *actually* a super o because oh my god what I’ve just experienced is most DEFINITELY a super o.

So this is really out of the blue because to be honest I haven’t even ridden since then and I’m really just chocking this up to being young and perpetually horny. I had what I thought was my first (and last) super o just over a year ago. But I now believe it to be the most intense prostate waves ever documented and while I still vividly recall every sensation to be just as intense as I documented, I no longer believe the experience to fall under “super o” category.

I’ve just woken up from the most extreme experience. I was having a sexy dream, felt myself edge wanking in the dream, cock was rock hard and rubbing against my mattress, (I was lying on my tummy), and all of a sudden, “fuck I’ve gone past it”, prepared myself mentally for the massive mess I’m about to need to clean up, and again just like the last experience just this BANG right in the pit of my stomach, a muscle deep in there contracting so violently, so intense I SWEAR you could hear it. And there it was, glorious orgasm, just like any other wank orgasm. The perfect build up, the “release”, and the throbbing. I genuinely didn’t notice that anything was “wrong” until a few seconds later, it genuinely just felt like a wank, or a wet dream orgasm. Not a thing different.

Aneros Super o’s with or without a cage.

Do people find it easier with a cage on or off?

Does the sight of your erect penis become a distraction or a turn or.

Or does being locked up help you concentrate on what you’re feeling or does it hinder you as your cant get hard?

I ask because I’m slowly working to getting handsfree orgasms with an aneros. Currently just small sensation with bit of a build up. But I currently do that while locked up and wanted to see if people find it easier being locked up or free.

Fuck Water Lubricant Review

Every one of us that plays with our prostate needs lube. Lube can be a slippery subject literally and figuratively. What matters for lube is that is slippery, stays where it’s meant to be and is safe. This is where Fuck Water comes in. It’s a water based hybrid, meaning it contains a small concentration of silicone. Meaning it’s safe of silicone toys. The disclaimer by the manufacturer says it’s safe just be sure to test it on a small area to be sure. My wife and I have used this on silicone toys and not had any issues.
I really have to give my wife credit as she bought this stuff. But we both like it and were impressed by it.
Here is what we like. It’s not a full blown gel lube but it definitely has more consistency than a lot of lubes so it stays put on where you need it. This stuff is seriously slippery, and it only takes a little. Especially when using the aneros toys. It doesn’t dry out or get sticky. It comes in a variety of sizes as well.
We have used this lube for quite a bit of bedroom activity. Vaginal sex, no irritation or discomfort for either one of us. We did anal the other night, and the same thing. I will say it made anal more comfortable for her and took only a small amount. We have used It on toys solo and together. But here what impresses me about it. We used it for pegging, meaning I was receiving a fake dick in the ass. It’s so slippery it made it a breeze for insertion and thrusting. Almost no friction build up left me comfortable while doing so. This stuff is to good not to try.