First time was… kinda disappointing

So before I decided to buy an aneros, I decided to read up on it first. I read all about getting in the right mood, flexing different muscles (PC and anus muscles, forgive my I forgot the technical term for the latter one)

In the end I decided to buy a Helix Syn Trident and got to town with it. Admittedly I was really stoked to try it out so I couldn’t really get into the mindset of “try to focus on what you’re feeling” and instead focused mainly on the “what am I supposed to be feeling” and “why don’t I feel that”. When I plopped it in it felt nice, and I could feel it brushing against my prostate. But after a while, say like 20 seconds, I didn’t feel anything, it just sat there in my bum.
I tried to flex the right muscles, but still only got the pressure against my prostate sensation for a few half seconds at the time with quite a bit of time in between them. Also I had the idea that I had to flex those muscles really hard.

Sooo I think I’m still doing something wrong (apart from the right mindset) and I have no idea what…
Any veterans with some advice for a beginner in prostate play?

P.S. Don’t get me wrong the orgasm at the end while jacking off felt amazing

Trying again

I haven’t had much luck in the past, I usually lie there for 30min to an hour and nothing happens and i think i’m doing it right cause i can flex my PC muscle and stuff but i guess I’ve never had much luck finding my prostate even with my fingers.

Going to try again and would you say it s better to not have jerked off for a few days and be horny or does it not matter?

I got the Super O four times tonight

So, I’ve been messing around with my aneros for years. I remember laying in my bunk in my freshman dorm, with my toy inside of me as my roommate toss and turned in his sleep. But I got nothing!! I tried over and over and over again for the past 9 years. I pick up the toy when I was feeling adventurous, only to put it back in the drawer for a couple more months. About a year ago I finally gave up.

Until recently, I stumbled upon this subreddit and decided to give it another go. I bought a Program towards the middle of May. That night after work I was so excited I unboxed it and suck it directly in. I think the excitement got me to my first p wave. I am beginning to twitch, and breath heavy. My whole body headed up and I was filled with a how! Then I started moaning (and voice recording – kind of want to post), and the convulsions became involuntary. IT HAD FINALLY HAPPENED!! I just had my first Super O.

I’ve had a few p waves but no Super O’s until tonight. But I started to learn how to control my PC muscles and that was the game changer.

I stuck in my Helix. I instantly started to feel contact. But this time I wasn’t touching my dick. My mind started to wander, but I brought it back to the my sense of touch. My prostate sensations were almost unbearable, it actually felt like it was stinging. But I was determined so I let my my wander to the old spank bank.

Helix too small?

So I took the plunge on a aneros and picked up the Helix Trident a couple of weeks ago. I have to admit I really did enjoy it the first couple of times, no orgasm but definitely mass amount of p-waves.

I learned my PC and anal muscles needed some exercising so I have spent my time with it focusing on kegals and building up the muscles around the area.

I had issues with it slipping out when I would get right on the edge but focusing on keep my anal sphincter tight has helped. My problem is focusing on that muscle ruins the experience, yet it seems to pop out when I get ‘close’ in the positions that feel the best if I’m not squeezing to hold it in. The position that feel best for me are mainly doggy and on my back legs straight up or bent with a pillow under the small of my back.

I also noticed that the aneros doesn’t seem to “fill” me. I can feel lots of space between the toy and my prostate. I do play with larger toys from time to time so I’m wondering if maybe I’m just to “stretched” for the Helix?

Anyone else figure out they just needed the XL model and that solved their issues? Will the bigger ones stay in more firmly or do I need to just keep at it and eventually it will become like autopilot?

Erection problem

Whenever I use aneros I get a lot of erections, they happen when I start feeling p-waves. They wouldn’t bother me but it seems like erection near pc muscles doesn’t fully allow me to control them and I am unable to increase the pleasure. I think the p-tab might also be constricted by firming up of penis base.
Anyone have/had this problem and know if that’s normal or is there something I can do about it?

Separating orgasm from ejaculation

Recently I’ve been focusing more on the do nothing and meditate approach. I’m had moderate success, involuntarily contractions and twitch when lightly tending my PC muscles. During this I’m aroused, relaxed and soft. Eventually I’m out of time and/or bored and I lightly touch my dick till it’s half erect (I know, I know, don’t do it, but hey I just put 90 minutes in, I need some release). Then working my PC I can eventually orgasm and it’s usually accompanied by a HFWO. Recently I’ve been noticing that orgasm and ejaculation seem to be be slightly seperate. The most recent thins was pronounced, I felt orgasm and spasms hit for 2-3 seconds and then felt the wave of ejaculation come (pun intended). I think I read about how being multi orgasmic can arise from separating the two events, any tips on further separating them or what’s going on?

Feel the exquisite pleasure (The intimate nipple diddling Kegeling experience) Plus athletic cups

[This blog is directed to @goldenboy and other interested guys]

Hi guys,

It is an early Sunday morning here in DC. The weather is warm and muggy outdoors a couple hours before dawn. My AC is running on low. I am seated at my PC typing this blog entry. I am buck naked wearing my favorite BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no.85 men’s medium.

An hour ago I woke up from a curious dream feeling refreshed. I went to bed just after 9:30 p.m. Saturday night, my usual hour after a day of intellectual activities. I needed my rest. I wore nothing but a pair of Jockey pouch briefs.

After I woke up earlier this morning in the 3 o’clock hour and processed my curious dream, I touched myself sexually. Sexual touch for me, a 70 yo man is several light flicks across my nipples. This sexual touch is at the heart of my nipple diddling activities. Nipple diddling is an outgrowth of my Super-O and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016. Like I said now when I touch my nipples sexually, I am off to the races in sexual awareness and activities.

Can anyone explain my experience please?

I’ve been using eupho for a couple of months now. Didn’t have any major breakthrough, just enjoyed the sensations.
Yesterday I had a session and wanted to enhance the experience so I puffed some 420.
It didn’t really do anything significant, so I decided to jerk off slowly. When orgasm came I clenched my pc muscles automatically but couldn’t release them. I felt strong pressure on my prostate (it felt like electricity was hitting it constantly). I had a strongest orgasm I ever had. It probably lasted twice as long and I also lost control of myself I moaned loudly and moved a lot.
It seems it was something close to what I read about super orgasms, except it was with ejaculation.

“After All, It’s Just For Prostate Therapy!”

Background
I am only at Day 2 of SR but at Day 80 of NoFap ® PMO. Last night, before retiring for bed, I had a strong urge to “sleep” in one of my ‘chastity cups’. So I selected my XO ProCup and nestled-in; so relaxing and comforting! During the night, as I expected, I felt the distinct pressure of the NPT erections against the cup. But I remained in chastity and slept comfortably through the night.

Earlier this morning, I awoke and upon visiting the lavatory, I had a symptom or two of BPH: start & stop stream and a somewhat weak stream. I think I ‘visited’ about three times quickly in succession. I checked and it had been 5 days since my last ‘therapeutic’ prostate massage session, so I knew it was time.

Session
I selected my HelixTrident for this session and lubed-up with SSG. I went to lie-down on my side and just relax. I knew the Helix was contacting my prostate right from the start and I began to experience some involuntary contractions. I did a couple of strong anal/PC contractions and could definitely feel its effect. At one point, my entire body reacted with a strong, explosive contraction. I honestly didn’t feel any erections building, but I knew that this ‘therapy’ was going to be effective.

“No Aneros? … No Problem!”

Introduction
Yes, I’m referring to Aless. That concept whereby a guy gets all the pleasure of a prostate massage, but without the massager! How is this possible? Let me explain…..

Technique
There is really not much to learn here. All that is required (IMO) is a willingness to activate and stimulate the prostate by some simple anal/PC contractions (also known as kegels). It takes just a little bit of practice but once learned, the technique is almost automatic. The intervals of those contractions can be far apart or closely spaced. The idea here is to begin to feel it just a little in the prostate. The rest will be accomplished by your body’s own response. The important thing (I find) is not to stop too quickly! When I start to feel that unmistakable “flutter down-under” I know I am on the right path!

Since I wear ‘chastity cups’ regularly, I find that while wearing one is the perfect opportunity to practice my kegels. Especially while sitting down at a computer, It doesn’t take any preparation and I can start and stop at any time.

One thing that can be a little problematic is when I start to do some contractions in a public place. I have to be careful that I don’t get my prostate stimulated too much. Otherwise, I may react with a slight moan due to a euphoric, orgasmic feeling! But usually, I have enough self-control to the point that only I know what is going-on down there!