Can’t not ejaculate.

I’ve been using prostate massagers for about 6 months now usually once or twice a week and also been using dildos and other insertables for many years. When using a prostate massager I squeeze and hold my pc muscles and eventually get involuntary contractions and focus on my anus and prostate and the feelings coming from them. All of that is great and feels good but I eventually just get a penile ejaculatory orgasm that isn’t much different from a traditional one. Am I doing something wrong? Or is this a phase and if I keep going should I be able to over come this?

My first HFWO with Aneros

So. I am almost a year into being able to achieve a super-O. It has been a year of pure bliss and wonder. This weekend I was able to achieve something I had not before and it was pure ecstasy!

Model: Helix Syn Trident

I took a 10mg THC pill and I repacked my PAX3 with Ghost OG. I was also on day 15 of no ejaculation. Mainly due to being in the hospital and having friends over the previous week. So I was horny as hell.

The previous night I had a really good session with the Eupho Syn Trident. 3 hours of constant pleasure. Typically I just lay flat in my sessions. When I want to kick things up a notch I would throw my legs over the back of the couch. In this position the Aneros freely moves.

The minute I did it this time I felt like the Helix Syn Trident was in constant contact with my prostate and it felt so good. My PC muscles got into a involuntary feedback loop that lasted for mins and it did not let up. The pleasure continued to build and build and build. About an hour into the session the pleasure was so intense and my cock was rock hard. I relinquished myself to the pleasure and thats when it happened. The absolute best orgasm I ever had in my life. I was literally feeling the typical orgasm for about two mins before it became too much and my dick exploded into my underwear.

Finally, some kind of a breakthrough

I’ve been on the journey since 2016. No super O, no wet orgasms. Just a lot of nice feelings and precum.

Last night I started with my Helix Syn for about twenty minutes and then switched to the progasm. I tried a new position. With my ass hanging off the side of the bed and feet on the floor.

I did this kind of rolling movement between my spinchter muscles and pc muscles. And suddenly I could feel my heart start racing and I could swear I thought my head was going to explode. A constant good feeling gripped the whole of my body. It only stopped when I couldn’t take any more.

I tried repeating this after I had rested for about a minute but I was to tired in the muscles to reach the same rhythm.

So, Super-O?

I don’t know. It sure felt good, but not as good as a conventional orgasm. It was more of an intense, great feeling. Didn’t really peak at anytime.

Tomorrow I will be ordering the Maximus Trident to add to my collection. I’d made that decision before the session last night, but considered aborting that since the Progasm did such a good job.

Breakthrough / anal orgasm

Have had the progasm for not too long. First aneros toy. Have used it 3 or 4 times. Had a break though while just totally relaxing, laying on my back.

I rotated my hips / grinding my butt into the bed. This rotation angled the progasm p tab into my perenium pretty hard. The grinding rubbed the tab back and forth / side to side, and it felt great! This feeling kept growing, to the point where it was sort of out of body / my mind freaking out cause nothing like this has ever happened to me. Kept at it for an hour or so. Really satisfying in a new way.

At no point did I touch my penis / I was not clenching down on my pc muscles. These two things were the main difference between this session and other anal sessions. Im fairly experienced using dildos / other toys. This felt like a very different experience / feeling all together.

Excited to try again / I hope this helps anyone who is having trouble actually feeling something good beyond “yeah im aware of this thing in my butt”.

First time was… kinda disappointing

So before I decided to buy an aneros, I decided to read up on it first. I read all about getting in the right mood, flexing different muscles (PC and anus muscles, forgive my I forgot the technical term for the latter one)

In the end I decided to buy a Helix Syn Trident and got to town with it. Admittedly I was really stoked to try it out so I couldn’t really get into the mindset of “try to focus on what you’re feeling” and instead focused mainly on the “what am I supposed to be feeling” and “why don’t I feel that”. When I plopped it in it felt nice, and I could feel it brushing against my prostate. But after a while, say like 20 seconds, I didn’t feel anything, it just sat there in my bum.
I tried to flex the right muscles, but still only got the pressure against my prostate sensation for a few half seconds at the time with quite a bit of time in between them. Also I had the idea that I had to flex those muscles really hard.

Sooo I think I’m still doing something wrong (apart from the right mindset) and I have no idea what…
Any veterans with some advice for a beginner in prostate play?

P.S. Don’t get me wrong the orgasm at the end while jacking off felt amazing

Trying again

I haven’t had much luck in the past, I usually lie there for 30min to an hour and nothing happens and i think i’m doing it right cause i can flex my PC muscle and stuff but i guess I’ve never had much luck finding my prostate even with my fingers.

Going to try again and would you say it s better to not have jerked off for a few days and be horny or does it not matter?

I got the Super O four times tonight

So, I’ve been messing around with my aneros for years. I remember laying in my bunk in my freshman dorm, with my toy inside of me as my roommate toss and turned in his sleep. But I got nothing!! I tried over and over and over again for the past 9 years. I pick up the toy when I was feeling adventurous, only to put it back in the drawer for a couple more months. About a year ago I finally gave up.

Until recently, I stumbled upon this subreddit and decided to give it another go. I bought a Program towards the middle of May. That night after work I was so excited I unboxed it and suck it directly in. I think the excitement got me to my first p wave. I am beginning to twitch, and breath heavy. My whole body headed up and I was filled with a how! Then I started moaning (and voice recording – kind of want to post), and the convulsions became involuntary. IT HAD FINALLY HAPPENED!! I just had my first Super O.

I’ve had a few p waves but no Super O’s until tonight. But I started to learn how to control my PC muscles and that was the game changer.

I stuck in my Helix. I instantly started to feel contact. But this time I wasn’t touching my dick. My mind started to wander, but I brought it back to the my sense of touch. My prostate sensations were almost unbearable, it actually felt like it was stinging. But I was determined so I let my my wander to the old spank bank.

Helix too small?

So I took the plunge on a aneros and picked up the Helix Trident a couple of weeks ago. I have to admit I really did enjoy it the first couple of times, no orgasm but definitely mass amount of p-waves.

I learned my PC and anal muscles needed some exercising so I have spent my time with it focusing on kegals and building up the muscles around the area.

I had issues with it slipping out when I would get right on the edge but focusing on keep my anal sphincter tight has helped. My problem is focusing on that muscle ruins the experience, yet it seems to pop out when I get ‘close’ in the positions that feel the best if I’m not squeezing to hold it in. The position that feel best for me are mainly doggy and on my back legs straight up or bent with a pillow under the small of my back.

I also noticed that the aneros doesn’t seem to “fill” me. I can feel lots of space between the toy and my prostate. I do play with larger toys from time to time so I’m wondering if maybe I’m just to “stretched” for the Helix?

Anyone else figure out they just needed the XL model and that solved their issues? Will the bigger ones stay in more firmly or do I need to just keep at it and eventually it will become like autopilot?

Erection problem

Whenever I use aneros I get a lot of erections, they happen when I start feeling p-waves. They wouldn’t bother me but it seems like erection near pc muscles doesn’t fully allow me to control them and I am unable to increase the pleasure. I think the p-tab might also be constricted by firming up of penis base.
Anyone have/had this problem and know if that’s normal or is there something I can do about it?

Separating orgasm from ejaculation

Recently I’ve been focusing more on the do nothing and meditate approach. I’m had moderate success, involuntarily contractions and twitch when lightly tending my PC muscles. During this I’m aroused, relaxed and soft. Eventually I’m out of time and/or bored and I lightly touch my dick till it’s half erect (I know, I know, don’t do it, but hey I just put 90 minutes in, I need some release). Then working my PC I can eventually orgasm and it’s usually accompanied by a HFWO. Recently I’ve been noticing that orgasm and ejaculation seem to be be slightly seperate. The most recent thins was pronounced, I felt orgasm and spasms hit for 2-3 seconds and then felt the wave of ejaculation come (pun intended). I think I read about how being multi orgasmic can arise from separating the two events, any tips on further separating them or what’s going on?