Found it, then lost it! Has this ever happened to you?

Last month, I arrived at my first prostate orgasms ever, after a month or two of really working at it. It was amazing, 10 in a row and all dry. The day after I didn’t have to even try to find the spot, my body just knew what to do. I was even having dry orgasms during sex, it was incredible!

Since that time though it’s like I lost it. Had mild success here and there but I’ve had to fight it. Now I went on vacation for Christmas and returned to find that I couldn’t find the spot at all! I don’t seem to be responding like I did, not feeling p-waves and I’m trying to retrace my steps. Earlier on I could even feel p-waves just during the day while a-less, and I’m currently struggling to feel anything at all.

Could I just be out of practice, that I forgot the common signals? I know it wasn’t a fluke, and I know I’m capable now, but I’m admittedly a little frustrated. I have noticed that I haven’t felt my arousal connect properly, and I have to wonder if that’s part of the equation. But how to become physically horny, and not just mentally horny? I’m not sure. I can get excited from penile stimulation obviously, but it’s difficult at the moment to get excited just by thought.

Wisdom and feedback are welcome. Help me reach that peak again!

Difference between super o and dry orgasms?

So I’ve reached a point I can have things that seem like orgasms through my dick, and it feels pretty nice but somewhat underwhelming compared to what everyone hyped it up to be. My penis goes kinda numb and I get a decent amount of pleasure. I think this is the dry orgasm? I can have multiple in each session. Anyways, I can now do it without the aneros after some practice, but is the super o different?

Something just clicked

I was planning on making a post today about this problem I’ve had just about all year. During Aneros sessions I could vaguely feel the toy touching my prostate, but not that beautiful butt buzz I used to always get. Curiously, I could feel many of the secondary effects of the Aneros, but not the direct contact with the prostate that I love so much. I have been able to have occasional full bodied orgasms of varying intensity, but my prostate was never tingling, it was always more of a dull feeling that, while I could identify it, wasn’t as overwhelmingly pleasurable as I have experienced in the past.

Last night I had an amazing session. I had a difricult time relaxing at first, but once I did my butt started to tingle and buzz. I felt my anal canal *deeply* relax. I reached many dry orgasms and had one or two wonderful full bodied orgasms where I could feel warm pleasure radiating out from my prostate all across my body. I felt very contented and complete. It’s like I’ve been missing something for a long time and now I’m finally whole again.

It’s crazy how things can all of a sudden “click”! My butt has been buzzing all day which hasn’t happened in a really long time.

In what point (milestones in the text) you are on your journey with Aneros?

And what model(s) you have? And how much time you’ve been on this journey?

I have the Helix Trident and the Progasm and I’ve been on this journey for around a year. I would say I’m at the point of Definite pleasure produced by contracting, but not always.

First insertion
No P-tab discomfort when relaxed
No internal discomfort when relaxed
No P-tab discomfort when contracted
No internal discomfort when contracted
Generally comfortable when inserted and relaxed
Observation of slight good feelings
Slight sense of leaking
Slight sense of needing to urinate (contact with prostate)
Identifiable contact with prostate
Doing a set of contractions comfortably
Holding light sphincter contractions
Integrating deep breathing
Definite leaking produced by contracting
Definite pleasure produced by contracting
Definite feeling of contact on prostate
Identification of “sweet spot”
Pleasure at “sweet spot”
No longer believing that “…this model doesn’t fit me…”
Arousal amplification by vocalization, breathing, manual stim of secondary erogenous zones or held contractions.
Observation of slight involuntary contractions
General pleasure throughout session
P-wave
Successive P-waves
Rock hard erection
Twitching
Pleasure at voluntary pelvic thrusting
Integrating pelvic thrusting and contracting
Large muscle quaking (no pleasure)
Continuous internal pleasure
Definite sense of ongoing subtle involuntary contraction
Sense of pleasure caused by blood pulse internally
Significant large muscle quaking with pleasure
Real excitement at thought of next session
Sustained pleasure during sessions
Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions
Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions
Ability to leak outside of sessions
Sense that the Aneros is satisfying a special prostate “itch”
Very significant pleasure during sessions
Moaning during sessions
Sense of arousal moving toward something
Surprise attack of very serious pleasure
Involuntary clamping, without sense of climax
Involuntary clamping with hint of climax
Involuntary clamping with definite feeling of light orgasm (Mini-O)
Ability to maneuver the Aneros to control placement of pleasure internally
Intensely pleasurable involuntary clamping that is clearly a Dry-O
Chain reaction Dry-Os (O-zone)
Disbelief that this can actually be for real
Very deep orgasm distinctly centered in rectum: anal orgasm
Extremely intense prostate orgasm
Dry orgasm without Aneros (chair orgasm)
Aneros moving distinctly on its own, creating unexpected pleasure
Aneros moving in long strokes (auto-f***), creating intense pleasure
Unexpected extremely strong orgasm that knocks the reality out of you: Super-O
Continuous Super-Os directed at different parts of the body
Full body Super-O
Multiple, sequential full body Super-Os
Ability to have Super-Os on demand

Help with multiple dry o

So lately I’ve been getting dry O’s pretty frequently. Normally I have one, then a few minutes go by and I have another. A few nights ago i had 3 consecutive dry O’s that were separated by only a few seconds after the last one ended but couldn’t keep it going. Any tips or advice to chain them together? I’ve heard of people having 30+ in an hour but I’m lucky to get 4 or 5.

Hands free wet orgasm

Hey all,

Any advice on how to stop having wet orgasms? I have been using the aneros for little over a year now. I do not touch my dick at all during sessions. And I can even receive pleasure without the toy inserted.

Wet orgasms are still pleasurable, but I was hoping to figure out the key to dry orgasms? Any advice would be much appreciated! I typically just do the “do nothing method.” Anyone else have this problem?

Thanks,

It really does pay to try different things.

As the title suggests, I cannot stress that changing things up no matter how little may give you great results. Example: For my last couple Aneros-less sessions, instead of teasing both my nipples, since my right arms been hurting, I teased just my left one.

I cannot tell you what a positive difference this has made! I may have been overstimulated with both, as before I was rudely interrupted with a work phone call (always silence your phone haha) I had 3 dry orgasms that all felt great.

So yeah TL;DR: Experiment with different things no matter how little the change.

introduction, my journey so far –

Greetings aneros community. I’ve been wanting to tell ‘someone’ about the revolution I’m experiencing. I’m a mid 60’s hetero dude who’s been enjoying the most amazing adventure for the past few months.

I’m PO/MMO experienced & enjoy great muscle control so I’m now getting MMO’s and SO’s most every session. I’ve reached point that I was looking for an ‘advanced’ forum. This looks like the closest way available to communicate with like minded/experienced aneros users.

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for a couple of years, starting with a nexus revo. I was able to enjoy a few sessions in which I reached a few dry orgasms (lots of prostatic fluid but no semen) after many hours of experimenting. Constantly reaching for ‘more’, I’ve experimented with _numerous_ devices for prostate massage. I always thought the aneros stuff I read was overblown & just couldn’t really be true, until ~2 months ago. Out of sheer curiosity, I bought a helix classic — *WOW*.

Due to my experience, the helix introduced me to serious MMOs with numerous dry orgasms the FIRST session. I officially fell deeply in lust with her (the helix), expressing my love for her during the afterglow of that session while she was still teasing… I learned “hmmm – this stuff is real!”. This began the revolution in my life. The eupho is just another step in my journey and latest addition to my now rapidly growing collection.