First time results…. a bit meh

So, I used my newly arrived Helix Syn Trident for the first time (put a condom on, used plenty of waterbased lube and laid down, waited some minutes and started lightly contracting the muscles.
First prob: aside from a rather good control of the kegel-muscles I somewhat can’t do those rectal contractions alone as it seems. So, it still kinda worked, I layed down, legs and knees in a 90° angle up with the feet flat on the bed. I felt like my dick was oozing precum though it was flaccid and laying in a different position than it felt, so I guess that’s a good thing? Them a trembling like I’m cold started, though it was 24°C in the room. I kept the contraction of the muscles at about 3/4 as I did read and it felt like that my penis swelled somehow, but it was still flaccid.

Sadly, I just moved the feet around while I was shaking slightly and I lost the feeling kinda directly. I tried it again, this time flat on the bed, it was way more difficult. Then I added a pillow under my ass and tried both, flat lying and with the legs angled up…. but nothing really worked. Could it that the Trident is a bit too short for me? I noticed it’s arms are not “snug”, only the tips are touching the skin slightly, so the toy is ~1cm out. Is that normal? If I press it all the way in I feel some kind of pressure. Not sure if that would be better? I tried holding it inside though it neither worked, surprise.

Soreness from Helix

I’ve been using the regular helix for about the past 9 months or so. I’ve had about two or three sessions with really good success. About a month ago I had the best session yet and I’ve been chasing the feeling ever since. There was about a 10 day period where I’d try a session in bed before falling asleep. I typically use silicone lube.

During that 10 day stretch I noticed some soreness/slight tingliness/stingy sensation near my sphincter area. I assumed it was from over using so I took a break for a week.

Next session I got the same sensation. It almost feels like it’s a struggle for the aneros to glide up and down my rectum despite always using plenty of lube. The sensation goes away when I take the aneros out.

At this point it’s almost distracting and I feel like takes away from my concentration.

I’m wondering if a) i need to try a different model, and b) if my rectum is just absorbing the lube too fast? I typically reapply lube at least once in the middle of the session. Also I’m wondering if I’m contracting TOO hard.

Erections ruining big O

There are people who try out aneros and don’t feel anything and there are others who easily get big Os on the first try. I would guess most people fall in between these two extreme examples. I think I’m someone who doesn’t have any difficulty on feeling pleasure.
A little background about me… I bought an aneros helix some years ago, like, 7 years ago. I tried it and right from the first time, I felt a lot of pleasure from it. To be honest, the pleasure starts right when I let got the aneros and it touchs my prostate when it accomates by itself.
I have a lot of P waves, a lot of what I think people call mini Os. I can control my sphincter and my kegel muscles easily. If I want, I can successively contract those muscles, which lead to a normal but very pleasurable orgasm with ejaculation. I can even get an orgasm without having the aneros inserted and without using my hands, only contracting those muscles (it takes me some minutes to do it).
But the truth is that I never had a big O.
If i didn’t feel anything while using the aneros, I would think “well, I must be doing something wrong”. But I feel a lot of stuff, so, that’s not the case. I even think that maybe there were times when I was really close of getting one but never got it.
So, I stopped using aneros for no particular reason.
Some days ago, out of nowhere, I remembered to go get my aneros. Again, I started having pleasure almost instantly after the insertion. I had a great session. So great that I did it again some days after the first one.
And for the first time, I think I started having a big O. But as the pleasure intensified, only after some seconds I got an erection and it led to an amazing orgasm with ejaculation, but it ended that starting big O.
When I think about it, during a session, each time I have pleasure, I get an erection. I am a person who gets an erection quite easily. But on those videos with people having a big O, they don’t seem to be having an erection and they maintain the focus on their prostate.

Did I reach it?

Last night I thought fuck it, I haven’t had any progress with this in like a year, I’ll try it again. I smoked a bit of weed and stuck the aneros helix syn in, stuck an hour long porn video on and just had a go. 5 minutes in and all of a sudden my body started to twitch and I got strong tingly sensations all through my body, it felt so odd but really amazing. It last for a good 30 seconds to a minute. Was this a super-o or close?

I so want to just have another go already and try reach it again. What’s the time you’d recommend between each session? I did jerk to finish off last night which I’m not sure affects anything.

Multimode Super O

Try this:

Lube up a Helix and send it in. Lie down and relax. Widen your ass hole. Let the Helix roam free.

Cue up this audio track and poke in your earbuds


Bring this video full screen


Diddle your nipples.

If this doesn’t bring you to bliss, you are trying to hard.

I feel not much at all. Is it time to switch toys?

So due to personal reasons I have to throw away my helix syn trident and replace it with something else.

Right now I apparently feel basically nothing on my prostate, and my sessions are absolutely dull. I just lay there waiting to feel something and over the course of an hour I feel maybe one or two pleasurable sensations and the rest of it is just basically me lying with a small thing in my butt that doesn’t feel particularly good or bad.

I have the excuse to switch up my toys, but I don’t know if it’s a matter of just trying a new toy out or just riding the waves.

Yes, I do kegels, no I don’t smoke weed.

What have people done in my situation?

Finally hit a super O

And sweet Jesus, it has not stopped for the past hour and a half easy. I got bored waiting on a game with some friends, said to hell with it and figured I would try some passive practice—they finally come online and I can still keep going, no fuss no muss. They all each had their own thing to do. *Not that I’ve been complaining.*

See, here’s the thing about me—when it comes to using an Aneros, my goal has more or less entirely been trying to get as much precum going as possible. Not sure why, but there it is. For me, it’s about seeing it—knowing how much there is—and so I got creative. *Found an old condom, slapped that thing on.*

Cue an hour and a half later with a filled condom about the size of a large walnut, I’d say? Something finally snapped and the tiny bit of clear exploded into a ball of milky off-white because, well, *y’know.*

But here’s the thing: I haven’t even done anything beyond sit and just let something in me pulsate against the Aneros (a Helix Syn, I think mine is?) and my body’s just gone off the rails. I’m building up my towns as the Vampire Counts in Total War: Warhammer and every twenty minutes or so my dong just goes off like a faucet. To quote Joey Diaz: *it’s tremendous.*

Question: Just bought my first aneros.

Like the title says, I bought the helix syn today (or whatever the red and black one is called) and should be getting it in the mail eventually. I had experimented with prostate play before but could never get *anything* to happen at all. Now that I’ve finally bought it, what are some things you guys think I should know for a beginner? I’m ready to dive into this head first now that I’ll have a proper toy that can do stuff. Should I be watching porn? Should I listen to some erotic audio while watching porn? How long should I hold off on masturbating before using the toy? Should I edge before using it, if so for how long? I just want to be sure I don’t mess up my first experience with it or anything as I will only get the chance to use it very rarely.