Brand new user milestone ?

I am brand new to the world of anal play as a whole but have been curious and researching it over the last few years. About 2 weeks ago I decided to finally purchase a Helix Trident and have had 5 or 6 sessions. I am having a good experience so far, and just wanted to compare the path my progress is taking to the average, and maybe get some tips or method critiques. I had been practicing mindfulness meditation and targeting specific muscle groups to relax already so a lot of the principles were familiar to me. It’s taken some getting used to having something up there but I feel like im adjusting well. I feel that “need to pee” and do nothing for a while as I relax my muscles entirely and breathe steadily and deeply. I can envision it sitting there and feel the pressure it provides. In today’s session I decided to slowly, with as little force as possible, flex to a certain point

And today’s session, for the first time, yielded involuntary contractions! It was an interesting feeling but pleasurable, they were rapid and steady instead of “bursty” like i was expecting from what I had read, and if I flexed to a specific strength and held it like that I could keep it going. It was exciting, I have read that that is a sign of progress! Should I be striving for that and to keep it going for as long as possible, or just stay mindful and let it do its thing, relax after a little while, then do it again etc?

Vibrator vs non-vibrator for first toy

I’m about to buy my first prostate toy and have narrowed it down to either the Helix Syn Trident or the Helix Syn V. I like the idea of a smaller toy. I tried a p-spot toy once before and it hurt quite a bit.

I’ve used my finger in to massage my prostate before and pressure felt good so I think the non-vibrating would be ok. But I also like the feel of a vibrator right on my butthole while I masturbate sometimes.

I’ve read a lot that vibrations on the prostate don’t do much for many people so I’m not sure it’s worth the extra money that I’ll not enjoy.

Has anyone been through this and can share some thoughts?

Where to go from here?

Hi everyone, I’ve been using Aneros Helix Syn and MGX syn for a couple of months, I usually get what I’m guessing would be p-waves in the first 30 mins, something like a warm full body fuzzy feeling, like “ooh this feels nice, lets stay here for a while” with involuntaries coming afterwards.

Two questions though, I’m not physically feeling the prostate contact with either toy, is this normal or would a size change help?

Secondly would be, involuntaries themselves aren’t that pleasurable, feeling like muscle contractions that seem more like a distraction from the wave’s feelings. After a while they peter out and that’s pretty much the end of the session.

Any suggestions on how to proceed?

Cried during last night’s session

Aneros Helix.

The session before last night’s, my moans became yells for the first time. Last night, the pleasure was just at such a high, constant boiling point that I kept switching between crying, laughing and moaning. Seconds before another orgasm hit, my face would either contort downwards into a cry or contort upwards into the biggest smiles I’ve ever given… then I would transition into an O face, back to tears/smiling, back to a stronger orgasm, repeat.

My thoughts were simply “I’m so happy!”.

All of this was way beyond anything I could control. I’m in near disbelief. I can no longer imagine what the next level of intensity is. It’s just beyond my comprehension now. Oh my god.

Any models that accommodate sitting down? No experience with prostate massagers/plugs.

I’ve been lurking in this sub for a while and want to finally get around to buying an aneros prostate massager. I’ve been recently looking into the MGX and Helix trident but they don’t look all that comfortable during the seated position.

I also read around in the sub that people actually clip the forks that remain outside your body, so I’d rather buy the right toy from the get go.

I have three questions:

1. Are there any aneros massagers that can be used whilst sitting down (i.e. on a desk chair)

2. What position do you usually use for your Aneros trident massagers? Do you lay down on your belly, or..?

3. I’m a 5ft 5in male so quite short. Do I need a smaller device or are the toys a one-size-fits-all solution?

PVC or Silicone?

Hello everyone,

I am about to take the plunge and will buy my very first prostate massager! I’ve decided to go with the Trident Helix. The other 3 options were appealing but the helix’s main selling point is its mobility, which after lurking around this sub seems to be important to achieving prostate orgasms. I thought about buying the Maximus as feeling fuller is rather enjoyable to me, but at the cost of mobility I think either the Eupho or Helix are better, hence my choice for the Helix.

One last question remains however: Silicone or PVC? Silicone is both cheaper and softer, but has that silicone smell and doesn’t increase mobility. On the other hand, PVC is more expensive and harder but is easier to move around your prostate.

Which do you prefer?

I bought my first aneros today!!

I went to a sex shop right after work. Went inside and got.
Can’t remember when was the last time I was at a sex shop.
Ha! Ha! I was really nervous.

There were to cashier one male and a female. I kept on praying that a male cashier would help me.. I bought the aneros HELIX SYN TRIDENT.

Now i need to find the time and day my GF is not at home.
Right now my mind is running at 1000 miles per hour can’t wait to use it see what everyone is talking about.

Any suggestions on a fist timer.

Thanks

Did you cut the back branch of your aneros ?

Hi !

I’ve been on my path since few years ago and recently i took the decision to cut the back of my aneros (The branch going to the back, not the one in front going for the perineum)

I’ve seen a difference with my helix and damn, the 2 sessions i made since then made me progress a lot.

Now i was wondering if i should also cut the same part on my Eupho or not, i do feel like it might block it from truly reaching my prostate (i got a big ass) and think i can buy a new one if it’s not working, but i always got the doubt ..

Does anyone else tried, saw a difference, or regret ?

Thank you !

Helix Syn V Questions

I am a 23 yo and have an Aneros helix Syn V. It’s really comfortable but I feel like I’m not close to a super o. I feel that the first 20-30 minutes of my session are the best as I definitely feel pleasure but after that the feelings subside and I eventually end my sessions since I lose interest. I was looking for suggestions as many people can have a session for a few hours and really want to reach the super o.

If you are stuck maybe take a break for a couple of weeks

After not having a lot of progress over the last half year or so I was getting a bit tired of my Aneros collection. It got to the point where I prepared myself a couple of times but as soon as I layed down I decided that sleeping was the better option.

I used a Lovense Edge sometimes which was nice but not much to write home about. Other times I jerked it normally, maybe with some perineum massage. I didn’t totally stop prostate play but I certainly did it way less frequently.

Well, after like a month of doing this the urge to try a massager again got me. My first session with the Eupho was decent but nothing new.

A couple days later though my prostate started to tingle during the day. I was looking forward to trying again. I used the Helix that night and it was the first session where I could continuously feel the Aneros rubbing my prostate. As normal I finished by stimulating my penis but this was easily one of my best sessions.

I think taking a break helped me to get rid of old patterns. Generally I was much more relaxed than previously and didn’t buck my hips up and down when things got going. Also I wasn’t contracting as strongly as before. I would contract only lightly and wait a couple of seconds to feel the pressure from the helix. Then I fully released and started again.