I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have two questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them. My wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Is this unusual? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to get to uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my other question. I have tried the do nothing method, but I always end up shaking, and I cannot control it. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!
After an erotic night of off and on nipple diddling, my pump was primed for a session with my traditional Aneros MGX, perhaps my most favorite Aneros model, along with my traditional Aneros Helix and Program ICE right up there in satisfaction and sexual pleasure! First, I rode MGX for about fifteen minutes in the 7 o’clock hour near sunrise. However, I had a hankering to have an additional ride with MGX several hours later at 11:30 a.m. after arriving back from our neighborhood 7 Eleven with a delicious large cup of their mocha. My second session lasted a good twenty minutes. This time I concentrated on anal contractions and Kegels done in a leisurely, relaxed fashion. The Aneros Directions for Use recommends this approach. My prostate right now is exultant from this workout. It is purring in my Aless right now.
However, now I reflect on my intimate nipple and prostate connection. Most of my life I did not realize that my nipples are a treasure trove of eroticism until the Aneros came into my life at age 62 when I began working with the Aneros. My nipples really came alive in the weeks and months after my breakthroughs in mid September 2016 when I experienced my first Super-O’s and MMO’s. In early January 2017, I suffered a hip injury which required that I live in a rehab facility about six weeks. Lack of privacy there denied me of autoeroticism and my Aneros sessions. It was there as I recuperated that I could experience sexual pleasure through diddling my nipples. When I finally returned home in mid March 2017, I now had the privacy to resume my Aneros sessions and nightly nipple diddling in bed.
I literally got here in the strangest of ways. It started with a stop at a sex shop to purchase a pocket pussy. I decided to buy one of those $25 special wands on the side because I’ve put little objects in my butt while beating off before. Got home, used it while spanking, whatever. I felt like it wasn’t enough or there had to be more. Jumped online but didn’t do my homework so you know I then made my 2nd mistake (of sorts) and bought my first prostate massager. I’ll spare the details but it has a few pretty neat features and is a bit big. After purchasing this thing online I actually started doing my homework. Started looking at how some are aimed at beginners and others are aimed at more experienced only to discover my incoming toy is a bit large. Up until now, my experiences haven’t been anything more than my finger, maybe a sharpie, or that new wand so I knew I needed something a bit more friendly to start out.
This is where Aneros comes into my life. Reading several “best of” articles, I see the Helix time and time again and it’s being touted as a good product, and good for newbies such as myself. I ran back to the sex shop with the helix on my phone for verification, they were sold out, but their sister store had some Aneros products, but just not the Helix. I was committed. All that reading about butt play with amazing orgasms beyond what I had known, the drive into the city, and now this… So I bought the DeVice and once again did it without looking at dimensions.
I suppose I started out with the wrong mindset just as many do… I thought prostate massage was as easy as rubbing one out.
Boy was I wrong.
I’ve been at it for about a month and I’ve already spent more than intended on various toys. I suppose my thought pattern was along the lines of making it easier. One could even say cheating…
I bought a dildo. Nothing special, just 5 insert able inches of artificial veiny goodness. I thought if I could coax an orgasm I might have a better idea of what to look for. Whether I was unable or unwilling to fuck myself hard enough is hard to tell. Out of a handful of uses, once I was pounding away until I just couldn’t, I pulled it out, and the sensations of all those veins coming out caused body wide tingles and I just had to sit there a minute as I felt a wave of peace pass over my body. Otherwise, I generally feel like the dildo just gapes me for another toy.
The toy it prepared me for most would be the first massager I purchased. A vibrating massager that also has a thumping motion. I originally ordered this online without taking the time to consider the most important thing… Circumference. That’s what led me to Aneros. I felt a need to open up a bit to better utilize the vibrator. Once, this vibrating massager had me on the cusp of something amazing. I was in thump mode and had the smallest amount of precum. Literally just enough to fill my cock to the tip… But I lost it. Didn’t go over the edge or anything. Maybe I focused too much?
I am 57 years old, married and a long time user of Aneros devices and other prostate devices. My marriage is sexless, has been that way for many years, and I’m quite happy that way.
My Aneros journey began in 2001 when I ordered a device through High Island Health, a sister company of Aneros. As I understand it, HIH caters to the health side, Aneros to the sensual side.
I ordered the device from HIH after having issues due to lack of sexual outlet (my wife and I had decided to go sexless a few months before), leading to prostate congestion and a medical visit for the later. My new doctor put me on Flomax for 2 weeks and also suggested I take a look at the HIH website as there was beginning to be some anecdotal evidence in the medical community that the devices could be helpful.
Back in 2019 my doctor decided to put me on Avodart – initially a trial, but with the intent it would be permanent if things went well. She had done a routine DRE and felt I was now old enough, and my prostate large enough, to warrant some significant medical intervention. She also put me on Flomax for 3 months. Later I tried Rapaflo, and back to Flomax.
So I’ve been meaning to make a post about this advanced technique for quite a while, because its seriously just so good I had to share. I’ve started mucking around with prostate masturbation maybe 12 months ago, and read up as much as I could in the search for the magical Super O. I started with the Aneros Helix Syn Trident, and have added so much along the way and haven’t looked back since. I also have an Aneros Progasm, and I honestly couldn’t tell you which I prefer, they’re both different but equally amazing. This post is to share the precise steps and techniques I use to achieve the most ridiculous mind blowing Super O’s to date. There is what I consider to be an absolute game changer below, I hope others try it and let me know if it works as well for you. Please note my technique also includes the use of marijuana which may not be legal in your state or country so please disregard if that is the case. This list of items used is at the bottom for quick reference.
I start by clearing my schedule, turning off my phone, and making sure I wont be interrupted for at least two hours, and preferably more. This is a marathon not a race!
You must take a dump beforehand, and then douche until properly clean. Don’t skip this step! I like to wait at least half an hour afterwards before attempting anything further with my ass, to ensure my sphincter is relaxed again.
During which time I get set up, which I’ll admit is extensive, but so worth it. I’ll put a towel on the bed to ensure it stays clean. Room temperature must be pleasant. I play white noise (or pink noise, its better) on loop through a speaker, it helps with concentration.
I get the toys I plan to use out, along with the suitable lube/s. For the Helix Syn Trident I use an oil based lube as you cant use silicone lube and it lasts far longer than water based. For any non-silicone toy I use silicone lube, it’s the best and no reapplication. I put maybe 5ml into a lube syringe.
Other items I get ready are porn on the bedroom tv, and, the game changer: a little handheld EMS (Electrical Muscle Stimulation) machine with two adhesive pads. I discovered this when I was using it for a sore shoulder, and I put two and two together when I thought “hang on, if the key to prostate orgasms and specifically Super O’s is to reach a point where your PC muscles are contracting involuntarily, and the EMS makes muscles contract involuntarily, then surely I could incorporate this into the process?” I saw there were other anal e-stim toys out there, but I wanted to be able to use e-stim with an Aneros toy and PC muscle contraction.
Ok so on with the process…
I like to smoke a bit of weed (read earlier legal disclaimer) but I don’t smoke regularly so doesn’t take much to get a good buzz on. The reason for this is weed is brilliant for concentrating on certain physical sensations and blocking out distractions and preventing your mind wandering. So yeah, I have a few tokes, turn on the pink noise, chuck the porn on and jump into bed.
Its important to do this next, as any lube will stop them from sticking – I put one EMS pad in the top of my butt crack, and the other one behind my balls on the perineum. These locations will make the EMS stimulate and contract the PC muscles.
I don’t know if its because I’m straight, but as soon as anything goes into my ass I have no chance of getting a hard on, so I have to make sure I’m hard beforehand as your prostate is mostly engorged and open to stimulation when you’re aroused.
I lie on my side with my top leg towards my chest, then lube up my ass and the lube syringe, insert it and push the lube at around the depth of my prostate. If it feels good you know you’re on the right track!
I lube up a finger and slide it in, then a second, keeping the pace and stretching slow because I’ve found staying relaxed is key. Then I lube either the Helix Syn Trident or the Progasm – the Trident if I want subtle and gentle tapping, or Progasm if I want more intense pressure and pushing on the prostate. I’d say I’ve had more intense Super O’s with the Trident, to the point of nearly passing out. Actually I’ve had nearly as good with the Progasm, so I couldn’t choose just one. I slide the toy in slowly, enjoying it. If my sphincter contracts during insertion I know I’ve gone too fast. It helps to tilt the Progasm forward for easy insertion.
I then lie on my stomach, it works best for me but I’ve also had amazing Super O’s on my side. Still no luck on my back, I think gravity makes the toy fall away from my prostate. I relax for a while, tuning out to my breathing and the pink noise for a bit.
Then I start to change my focus to whats happening in and around my ass, the perineum tabs, and the toy resting against my prostate. Its an exercise in subtlety, concentration, and patience. The slightest movement of my PC muscles are what I want at this stage, slowly contracting and releasing every maybe 10 seconds. Because of the weed I’m very focused on the prostate touch. At this stage I like to contract lightly and very smoothly, then as I’m allowing it to relax just as smoothly, hold it just before its fully relaxed, like at a level 1 instead of letting it go to zero. I do this on repeat for a while, and each time it feels even better then I stop the contraction and relax before starting the contraction again because it builds the amazing feeling more each time. I’ve found this is the best and most consistent way of getting the involuntary contractions to start.
At this stage I turn on the EMS to its lowest setting. I’ve tried all the settings and the one I have found by the far the best, is one that smoothly and quickly pulses for 10 seconds then stops for 5 seconds. On the lowest setting it is barely noticeable, but its there.
After a minute I increase it to level 2, and its now sending electro buzzes through my PC muscles. But its enough that I can still mostly control my own muscle contractions, with some involuntary contractions starting to happen alongside the on-off electro stimulation. Its borderline taking over though, and each manual contraction is starting to get taken over by involuntary contraction to the point where its hard to stop them if you really try. Patience!
As it gets more difficult I am starting to shake involuntarily too. I turn it up to level 3, and now I’m at the point where I try to prevent involuntary contractions each time the machine stims for 10 seconds, but by halfway my PC muscles are contracting by themselves and I cant stop it. I try to prevent it but its impossible. Now my body shakes are more frequent too. My prostate is aching and I can so clearly feel the toy and its bumps sliding over my prostate.
Level 4 on the machine is where it all happens for me. The EMS machine causes completely involuntary contractions which squeezes the toy into my prostate strongly, for 10 seconds, and for the 5 seconds its stopped my PC muscles stay contracted entirely on their own until the machine runs for the next 10 seconds. At this point I’m starting a mind and body melting Super O, and I’m a shaking and moaning mess, with non-stop contractions and that beautiful feeling you get in your lower stomach right before you cum, sometimes spreading throughout your entire body. The difference is this can go on for several minutes, relentlessly keeping you at that point of internal orgasm and not letting up. The longest I have kept going for was around 25 minutes and could go no further, I eventually came so hard I nearly passed out and was a zombie for the rest of the day.
Anyway let me know if you do try this and what you think. I hope it works for you as well as it does for me.
Im really wanting to pick up another Aneros to play with. I have a original helix, and a trident helix., a eupho syn, and a progasm. I get really good pleasure and sensations from all. I reach for the helix trident the most. Im leaning towards and MGX trident in the syn. Never used one and would like to try it. Should I get it or the eupho trident syn? Id love to get a Vice 2. Not sure if its worth the price tag.
Earlier this morning in the 7 o’clock hour, I had a very powerful session with my trusty traditional Aneros Maximus. It lasted about 20 minutes. I have been working with the Aneros, as many of you know, since early June 2012. After several years of a regimen of Aneros sessions which occurred three/four times a week, I finally achieved major breakthroughs in mid September 2012 with Super-O’s and MMO’s. Since then, I can have all sorts of orgasms on demand most nights in bed mostly through diddling my nipples. Nights in bed are when I can shut out daily cares and blast of daily news. The darkness and quiets enable to relax and thus participate in my erotic activities.
The Maximus is between smaller models such as Helix and MGX and large, heavy duty models as the Progasm. I am intrigued in the more modern Trident series and how the Trident Maximus performs. I wonder of guys using the Trident series achieve Super-O’s and MMO’s more quickly in terms of months and years.
I’ve noticed over time that my prostate has changed in the kinds of stimulation it responds to. For a while it responded very well to my Eupho Syn Trident. Then it seemed to prefer the MGX Syn Trident. Every once in a while it liked my Helix Syn Trident.
I noticed a pattern. It started with liking gentle subtle stimulation like with the Eupho. Over time it seems to respond to more direct stimulation. I’ve had my Progasm for a while, but it’s never really done much for me. My guess is that while my body is liking more direct stimulation, the Progasm is so large that it can’t move around much. I thought that getting the Progasm Junior would give me the best of both: fullness and mobility.
I ordered the Progasm Junior when it was on sale. It came in the mail yesterday, and I was anxious to try it. I started the session with my MGX, and it was nice. I soon found out that it was a warm up for the main event. So I inserted the Progasm Junior. It was awkward at first. I wasn’t sure what to do with it at first. It’s very different from my other ones. I find the the “do nothing” method works well for me. I insert my toys, start playing with my nipples, and let my body take over. It seemed like my body didn’t know what to do with it at first. Finally, I could feel the warmth and tingling in my prostate. I could feel this sensation all over my body that I don’t think I’ve ever felt. It was waves of pleasure. I could feel the tip milking my prostate, and it was heavenly. I actually thought it would make me ejaculate. It felt like my prostate was expanding and contracting. I focused intently on the sensations and it magnified them. I really enjoyed feeling it all coming on. It felt like it was going deeper and deeper. My dick got so hard. It was an amazing experience. I’m thinking about trying again tonight.
I haven’t blogged much lately but I’m compelled to do so tonight.
It was 5 years ago today that I inserted my first prostate massager; my Helix Syn (Classic of course). Within the same year, I added my Progasm Ice and a few more since.
My journey has been nothing short of spectacular! It has completely changed my life and I’m a better man and husband for it. Prostate play has given me alternate avenues to deal with my sexless marriage without compromising my vows.
Although I’ve not joined the Elite Super-O Club yet, every single Aneros, Aless, edging and ruined sessions I experience are exactly that, a GREAT experience.
I’ve learned so much about myself and men sexuality since that day. I’m thankful to Aneros and to all my friends whom have helped and inspired me. I can’t name them all but guys like @bigglansdc, @goldenboy and @sowithoutaneros stand out as they played major roles in my progress. I’m grateful to them all.
I look forward to the next 5 years and beyond.