Made a great progress last night – I believe there are 2 important factors to this

I bought aneros eupho couple of months ago and played around. Had some pleasurable feeling but nothing major. Last night I had what I believe a clear pathway to a super O, so I thought I’d share what I learned and what worked well. There are 2 factors which helped me.

First – lately I realized I could separate muscle groups while doing kegel exercises. There are 2 major groups – muscles near the anus and muscles surounding base of the penis. That’s the one I started focusing on. I learned to only activate that part of muscles. It feels like pulling muscles down (direction from penis base to anus) while activating anus muscles feels like you pull in. I lay on my back, pillow under the butt and legs bent and feet close to the butt.

Second – I didn’t ejaculate for 5 days. I always felt my progress was stalled because I was always ejaculating and was not horny enough. I think going longer without ejaculation helps to feel sexual energy and easier to recognize good sensations.

So last night I wasn’t particularly horny but I thought I’d still do a session. I laid on my back and started doing exercise I mentioned above. Very quickly I felt gradual pleasure in prostate region and it became very good after a while. Made me breathe more actively. Then it subsided a bit and for the first time involuntaries started which felt like beginnings of orgasm. The whole session was the best I ever had and I think I am very close to a super O.

My first big anal orgasm, helped by my Progasm Ice, but still having trouble using the toy by itself to get an orgasm

So I just had what I perceived to be an unbelievably huge anal orgasm. I’ve been an Aneros user for over a year now, and I know this is probably sacrilegious but mainly just using my Helix Syn as a buttplug. I adore my Helix Syn but it never quite did the trick in terms of hitting my p-spot, but it feels great to have in and I love using it when having sex with my girlfriend.

Since investing in a Helix Syn I’ve become more accustomed to anal play in general, using vibrating butt plugs of various sizes and even some dildos. So far as anal play goes the furthest to a prostate/anal orgasm I’ve found has been using a silicone dildo (around 6 inches long and 4.5 around). I’ve found by basically coating it in good lube and pushing it in and out works a treat, great internal sensations and I can hit my prostate well. I’ve had what I thought was close to an anal orgasm using this fairly standard method before but nothing mind blowing, until this evening.

“After All, It’s Just For Prostate Therapy!”

Background
I am only at Day 2 of SR but at Day 80 of NoFap ® PMO. Last night, before retiring for bed, I had a strong urge to “sleep” in one of my ‘chastity cups’. So I selected my XO ProCup and nestled-in; so relaxing and comforting! During the night, as I expected, I felt the distinct pressure of the NPT erections against the cup. But I remained in chastity and slept comfortably through the night.

Earlier this morning, I awoke and upon visiting the lavatory, I had a symptom or two of BPH: start & stop stream and a somewhat weak stream. I think I ‘visited’ about three times quickly in succession. I checked and it had been 5 days since my last ‘therapeutic’ prostate massage session, so I knew it was time.

Session
I selected my HelixTrident for this session and lubed-up with SSG. I went to lie-down on my side and just relax. I knew the Helix was contacting my prostate right from the start and I began to experience some involuntary contractions. I did a couple of strong anal/PC contractions and could definitely feel its effect. At one point, my entire body reacted with a strong, explosive contraction. I honestly didn’t feel any erections building, but I knew that this ‘therapy’ was going to be effective.

Just felt my first P wave yesterday

So I Aneros got delivered yesterday, I got too excited and used it ASAP, And I got my first P wave but it lasted only for 2 seconds, after that I got nothing, and I tried a second session today and I didn’t get any. My dick is twitching involuntary when I contract sometimes, and I continue and It will intensify, is that good?. Give me tips (I’m Asian sorry for my bad Engurlish)

Was I close?

Never had a super o but I think I just got close, Im very new to this or 4 or 5 sessions. I was using my aneros trident and about 10 min in I started involuntary shaking, about 10 min after I realized I wasn’t controling the massager anymore. Then I physically felt my heart pound and my face and chest felt really warm… Then I immediately came out of it and couldn’t get that feeling again. Kind of discouraged I think I was overthinking it in the moment but I’m not sure,

advice would be very appreciated

“Sometimes A Guy Just Gets Horny!”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Background
So I wake up around 3 AM with a steel-hard erection. I know it will take about 40-45 minutes to subside before I can even think about getting back to sleep. In the meantime, I try my best to keep my hands to myself. But just a little touch on my frenulum through my short PJ bottoms sends a ‘horny shock’ throughout my body and makes me wish I could have a wet dream or at least a somewhat involuntary ejaculation. But alas, neither is happening.

The combination of semen retention (SR) (Day 8) and NoFap PMO (Day 64) means that I have really scaled-back my ejaculation frequency. I now have them only to control my blue-balls; there is no prolonged pleasure. An edging session is out of the question!

But then I starting thinking about this some more……

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Do We Guys Have To Get Horny?
I suppose some guys would say “NO!” But upon closer inspection, these things come to mind. First, all ‘normal’ males MUST HAVE night-time erections (called NPTs). These will come whether the guy wants them or not. They are designed to keep a male’s penis healthy. With the regular ‘up-and-down’ of each erection (perhaps 5-7 each night), the penis is invigorated with new blood and thus is always ready for its primary mission: ejaculation.

Can we lose the magic?

I’ve started the journey there is about 3 months. The beginning was very encouraging, I started to have super pleasant feelings after 3 sessions.

I got to the point where I had amazing, super sweet, very long (like 3 to 5 min) orgasms every sessions. I don’t know if it’s what you guys refer as a super O but anyway I was very happy with it. I tried things like thrusting and touching very slowly my cock and I got some of the best penile orgasms of my life (like crying intense).

The things is all sensations started to fade away at a point where each sessions were less intense than the one before. I’ve read forums and all and learned that thrusting, touching my cock and watching porn could be detrimental. So I stop all of this and tried techniques like the relaxing a lot and “do nothing”, I tried to lower my expectations and enjoying the present moment. It is most of the time kind of enjoyable, I have involuntary contractions and trembling very quickly, but nothing comparable to what I had before and I feel quite frustrated.

Did anybody go through a similar situation? If so, how did you get the magic back?

“It’s All For Prostate Health!”

[This blog was inspired by @Lth0ms0n, thanks!]

Introduction
I had read an interesting question on the Forum from @Lth0ms0n this morning, having to do with involuntaries. What are they? And that got me interested and intrigued. So the next thing I know, I am prepping for a ‘therapeutic’ session with the HIH 950. Here are the details……

Session
I am currently in Day 9 of SR with no hint of blue balls (yet). I am also into Day 49 of NoFap ®. I’ve only had an occasional ejaculation, about every 10 days to control my blue balls. Other than that, no masturbation for me, period. And no porn, ever again. But I still need to keep my prostate healthy. So this morning, I got ready for a nice session with the 950. I was already wearing my Mueller cup to prevent an unintentional ejaculation; it worked. I lubed-up with SSG not only the massager but my opening as well (it made a big difference!)

I started-out on my side. Before too long, while just relaxing and performing the ‘do-nothing’ technique, I began to feel a ‘twitch’ deep-down in my prostate. No, it did not feel like a fatigued-muscle spasm since I had just started the session. But it was something I just could not control. Around the same time, I remember, I had this erection develop as well as an uncontrollable whole-body ‘shudder’, almost like a jolt of electricity running all through me. Let’s not mince words here; these actions were ENTIRELY out of my control! And that IMHO is the essence of involuntaries—-by definition*, you do NOT CONTROL them! Just as you are ‘forced’ to excrete waste by involuntary muscular contractions in your colon, you are likewise ‘forced’ to experience the nuanced ‘pleasures’ of a prostate massage.

“The Amazing Little 950!”

Introduction/Background
My recent “MO” streak ended at Day 8 of SR (“P” continues at Day 41). Sure enough, I felt the blue-balls coming on and since I would be active the next day, I decided to end the streak with a therapeutic ejaculation. This one was a little different. Let me explain. I started with a completely limp dick; then gradually began to stroke. All the while, I began light massage on my perineum and my balls. Eventually, when I was erect, I discontinued stroking near the frenulum and only concentrated on the bottom of the shaft. Well, it was an amazing feeling and I was able to “delay” the ejaculation but not indefinitely. Even with stroking near the base, only a “light” touch on the frenulum caused an immediate ejaculation. I could only imagine how this effect is also manifested during sexual intercourse. That “touch” on the frenulum would be enough to positively stimulate an ejaculation. Farewell DE (Delayed Ejaculation)!

Overnight Erections/Aneros Session
Even with an ejaculation yesterday, my night-time erections last night were (surprisingly) just as strong as ever! In fact, they were so strong and plentiful that I needed to put-on my “anti-MO” Mueller cup to discourage me from ejaculation again!

Not a TO but I came

I have been working on my aneros for about 5 months. With family and kids I usually get 1, maybe 2 sessions a week in. I’ve been making progress. Definitely have an “awakening”. I can feel every inch of the aneros. I can control it pretty good. I have decent control of anal and pc muscles and can get a good pleasurable push pull together. I’ve had mini pleasure waves that leave me panting but they aren’t very long. However all in all I feel every session is getting better and better. I feel good about my progress.

However. Something happened yesterday and I’m confused about it.

I did NOT touch my penis.

I repeat, I did not touch my penis ever during my session. I was doing some PV and anal contractions. Laying on my back. Knees up. Holding. Feeling a nice Rub on my prostate. And very quickly it got more and more intense. I went from limp to rock hard in .00002 seconds. I started involuntary shaking. Then bucking. Breathing heavy. Omg. It was amazing. I had that feeling of before you cum for a good 90seconds. My body was flopping around like a fish. Then all of the sudden it hit a peak and full squirts of cum came out. It left me gasping and exhausted in bed. But. Mentally I was done.