The beast awakened and unleashed

I went to bed last night at 9:30, as I needed to get up at 4:30. Having had an amazing 2.5 hour Aless session from 4am yesterday morning, followed by a 2 hour session with the Helix, culminating in a Super T, my prostate was humming all day.

Lying in bed, it only took 15 minutes of aless, just focusing on tiny motions pulling in my TA muscles, before I was swooning in whole body warmth, with what I assume were Dry-Os. From quarter past midnight, I was drifting between sleep and awake, feeling the contractions of my abdomen, PC and anal muscles taking me through the most seductive of pleasures. Although I did not experience any orgasm after the early ones, I got plenty of involuntaries, where the Helix was sucked in so deep, it felt like it wanted to come out the other side.

I tried to focus on the energy ball suggested by @SOwithoutAneros, which had the effect of helping me relax my muscles rather than tensing up.

After getting back from the gym this morning at 7am, the Helix went straight in and I spent the next 90 minutes, feeling a myriad of sensations. I definitely felt the small pulsing of blood in the anal muscle and the resultant tiny movements across my prostate.

“Sexual Regularity”

Introduction
Having slept in my Mueller Flex Shield cup overnight and now in a new Day 3 of SR, I awoke at about 1 AM. I wanted to retreat down to the comfort of my sofa and I selected a nice, soothing track for Solfeggio 639 Hz meditation: “It enables creation of harmonious community and harmonious interpersonal relationships”.

Almost as soon as I starting listening and meditating, I began to make an important connection. Let me explain…..

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{Note: this connection may seem somewhat bizarre and absurd at first, but please hear me out!..}

I have bouts of constipation from time to time and thus was the case a couple days ago. Having been irregular for a couple of days, I knew that I needed some help. I needed to take a laxative. I waited up until bedtime without success, then made the decision to take it. I did and then retired for the night. After about 4 hours, I felt it starting to work and was relieved that 10 hours later, when I awoke, I was “regular” again!

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Now, what does this have to do with the meditation, you may ask? Well, it occurred to me that our sexual selves operate, in fact, with regularity. Let me give some examples….

Our NPTs which almost all of us men experience at night, occur with great regularity. If they did not, something would be wrong with our sexual “plumbing”. I anticipate these and sometimes am prepared by wearing a “chastity cup” to negate the stimulating effects of the ensuing erections.

Shaking in the Calm

I was thinking after my T.O. on Friday morning that I might be out of commission for a while. SO I thought I would use the downtime to do lots of reading and research. As an added bonus, A neighbour who I had done some work for, gave me some cash so I was able to buy some more tools for my toolbox. I had been torn between a Trident Maximus and a Trident MGX. I had thought about the Trident Eupho, but my reading had shown it to be for more advanced users. With this added cash in hand, I decided to do some shopping. I found a site, Global Sex Toys, selling the Maximus, MGX and Eupho for 70 bucks minus a whopping 25% first time customer discount. This should be lots of fun; I won’t know which one to try first!
By Friday night, I was feeling randy again, even though I’d had a T.O. in the morning. I stuck with the Helix and shortly after I started, I was enjoying the usual dancing routine. I had been reading Rumel’s post in the archives (Instructions-Older Version). I realized that to really start reaching new levels, I had to try and simmer down the shaking and improve my breathing. I grasped that reducing or eliminating the shaking would allow me a better chance to feel whatever came from the prostate and other areas. The Helix is so much more subtle that I felt that gentler shaking would be easier. So when the shaking starting, I eased the contraction slightly and let my head loll back a little. Per Rumel’s advice, I started stretching my legs back, very, very slowly, so as to not break the wave of feelings.
With the shaking reduced to a bare discernible vibration deep in my lower core, I focused on the feelings from my prostate (a kind of humming), the gentle tapping on my perineum from the p-tab, and the movement of my sphincter muscles as they helped the Helix pop in and out. With the realization of those feelings, came the waves, heavy and warm with promise and pleasure. My head stayed back and my legs stayed straight, my feet pointing straight down. My upper body began very slowly to move downward and then sideways, in a writhing motion. Swinging forward then back, off to one side and then another. I didn’t get spots this time, but it felt like the room was streaming with bright light beyond my closed eyes. Depending on how I held the contraction, I could reduce or increase the inner vibrations. For a very long time, I did nothing but writhe very very slowly on the spot. I heard nothing and saw nothing but the bright light sensation. When I came back, I hazarded a quick glance at the clock and saw that 5 minutes had passed by.
With a light contraction, I started back in and had the same experience, over and over for a prolonged duration each time. When I finally came back to earth after the fifth time, I took a break. My heart rate hadn’t really gone up, I never, to my knowledge, achieved an erection. But I was warm and glowing with a very light sheen of sweat on my body. I saw that an hour had gone by now, and I took a break. When I came back to bed, I was able to recreate the experience on my other side as well as on my stomach. And when I removed the Helix, I was able to get almost to that same point, but by now, I was more than good with my trip.
And I was only awakened twice after I drifted off for a couple of really good Dry-O’s.
The journey continues and I welcome all the steps, big or small!

Mentorship

In 2013 I was extremely active on line, perhaps too active. Work was really stressful and I used this forum and two others as a means to let off steam with sexual chat and sharing information and experiences with like minded people of both sexes. I also mentored some men just starting with aneros. Here in the Aneros Forum many of the chats I was having in PM were with guys who were just getting on board and were looking for coaching and personal help. That’s how I met my number 2. He was a 29 year old post army college student in his senior year at Bowling Green University. He was single and heterosexual, but had a very open attitude towards sexual relations. Looking back on it after having spent time with him I would say now that he was bicurious.

He introduced himself to me in the chat room in a PM. There was something about him that came through even in instant messages. He was a really nice guy. He had just started Aneros a year earlier and was making outstanding progress; he was having super o’s, but was having trouble with focus. His mind kept drifting off in the throes of ecstatic orgasms. As his thoughts drifted his O’s withered. We chatted about that problem ending in our first chat with me offering a variety of ideas how to manage it. That first chat was followed by many others. Over the course of the six months that followed we began to interact in another IM tool out of the forums here.

“Skating Through Day 10!”

Introduction
I can’t believe I’m here at Day 10! It really has not been a problem. I thought I would have to stop yesterday due to impending blue-balls. But that feeling was fleeting. So I find myself here probably only a couple of days from a wet dream!

New Night-Time Routine
I decided for the better part of this week to nix wearing a “chastity cup” to bed every night. Instead, I just opted for my pajamas and nothing more. Of course, I sometimes get awakened by a night-time erection, but my take on this is somewhat different this week. Instead of just grabbing a cup and putting it on, I have been firmly “grasping” my erect member, and not stimulating any part of it, just firmly holding on to it. Eventually, the erection starts to subside and I can loosen my grip. It seems to be working. I think it is the over-stimulation (even while wearing a cup) that could be causing the blue-balls.

Morning Listening Session
Just this morning, I went to lie-down with headphones and listen to some relaxing, soothing tracks. But before I did, I wanted to remove any temptation. So I quickly reached for my XO chastity cup and put it on. And as I started listening, I hardly knew I had it on. The music stopped and I fell asleep for a few hours….

Gentle Sensations Progressing

Hey r/aneros!

Tl;dr: relaxing into the sensations and letting go has resulted in my first gentle orgasmic sensations; thanks in no small part to the guidance I’ve received from all your fine posts.

I’m a long-time reader, first-time poster; here because I’m starting to experience orgasmic sensations (I but not fully sure what they were). I’ve decided to try and create a habit of writing (both here and offline) about my experiences as I think it will help me build more awareness and tune in to what’s happening in my body. I’m excited to share my progress with you and also say thanks for everything you guys have posted that’s helped me along so far.

I bought my first aneros (Helix Syn) in late 2017, and I’ve been using it on and off since; but more regularly for the last 6 months. I’ve had my fair share (more than my fair share imho) of frustration along the way, but I’ve been experiencing more and more consistent sensations and progress recently.

When I first started my sessions consistently (save for the odd dud session) progressed in intensity BUT; all that intensity was in my body’s reaction; not in sensation or arousal. It was as if my body was progressing in its journey faster than my mind was. I had sessions that involved loud moaning; spasms, tingling, muscle-clenching and even strong full-body shaking, with little or no localized pleasure. It felt erotic, but not pleasurable.

Trident maximus feels great but no O yet

Just got my trident maximus after a year of using a Helix syn. tried the maximus the last 2 nights and the size is easy to handle. The moment it is in the pleasure waves start hard and fast, this must be from the larger size. however after 2+ hours each night no Dry or super O’s, it keeps me on the edge and feels amazing the entire time, i can feel the dry o building but i just can’t get there. this may be from the limited mobilty the larger size is causing? i am now temped to order a eupho for comparision. the helix syn on most attempts devlivers some amazing dry orgasms, so i know i’m wired for it. The hard plastic and agresive angle of the P tab of the maximus does cause discomfort after a while but the full feeling is great. i’ll keep trying to see if it can deliver.

The Menagerie Grows and Declines as I Discover Who My Best Friends Are

I was doing a lot of work in New York City in my 8th year. The City offered a variety of stores to purchase sex toys in. The variety of implements I saw in various shops extended from politically acceptable marital aids to somewhat shockingly kinky devices to execute acts that both shocked me yet still caused me to get an erection.

A favorite store I frequented was “The Pleasure Chest”. It became a favorite for a multitude of reasons but the two most significant were they had a large variety of quality products, and minimal cheap breakable imports. The other was the sales people. They were edgy young women who were extremely comfortable talking about the products, and they were equally comfortable talking about my penis and anus and the the nature and charaxcter of the way they might respond to the devices. They also seemed to have used them enough or witness their use enough to describe to me how to use them; this included shaping their fingers of one hand in a circle and then using a finger of another hand to represent a toy or a finger being inserted into the digital representation of my anus. I always walked out of that store with an erection and wet underpants.

Over the course of my 8th and 9th year of Anerosing my toolkit grew to 16 devices. They filled a backpack that I took with me when I traveled. In the mix was six Aneros, five N Joys, two Lelos, a stainless steel Chinese stimulator the size of a pencil with a “marble ” sized head and two dildoes (one glass and another hardened latex).

The Menagerie Grows and Declines as I Discover Who My Best Friends Are

I was doing a lot of work in New York City in my 8th year. The City offered a variety of stores to purchase sex toys in. The variety of implements I saw in various shops extended from politically acceptable marital aids to somewhat shockingly kinky devices to execute acts that both shocked me yet still caused me to get an erection.

A favorite store I frequented was “The Pleasure Chest”. It became a favorite for a multitude of reasons but the two most significant were they had a large variety of quality products, and minimal cheap breakable imports. The other was the sales people. They were edgy young women who were extremely comfortable talking about the products, and they were equally comfortable talking about my penis and anus and the the nature and charaxcter of the way they might respond to the devices. They also seemed to have used them enough or witness their use enough to describe to me how to use them; this included shaping their fingers of one hand in a circle and then using a finger of another hand to represent a toy or a finger being inserted into the digital representation of my anus. I always walked out of that store with an erection and wet underpants.

Over the course of my 8th and 9th year of Anerosing my toolkit grew to 16 devices. They filled a backpack that I took with me when I traveled. In the mix was six Aneros, five N Joys, two Lelos, a stainless steel Chinese stimulator the size of a pencil with a “marble ” sized head and two dildoes (one glass and another hardened latex).

“And The Train Keeps Rolling Along!….”

Introduction
Currently in Day 8 of semen retention. I believe it has been about 2 weeks since I had a session. They say that “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. In my case, Aneros absence makes for a ******* good session! Let me explain…..

Semen Retention and Aneros
I’m not quite sure why but so far in Day 8 I have no “blue-balls”. Could my absence from prostate stimulation during that time have made the difference? I don’t know but I’ll take it and stay-on the train! How far can I go? Time (and feelings) will tell.

Aneros Sessions
I had two back-to-back sessions in Day 7 and Day 8. Day 7 was with Eupho Classic and was outstanding! Lots of movement, lots of O’s, lots of precum and a HFWO feeling on top of everything! The only downside was that it was too short a session (perhaps 30 minutes). This session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a 9+!

I decided to “chase” this session in Day 8 with another one, this time with the Helix Trident. The anticipation was, I suppose, just too great and this session was rather lackluster. Sure, the Helix nudged my prostate but I just didn’t feel anything more than a little shiver. Not even a drop of precum. This 30-minute session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a generous 2. Oh well, better luck next time!