“Who Are We? Just Play The Game!”

[This blog was inspired by an Aneros member]

Introduction
While listening to some erotic chillout this morning, I began to dwell on this topic. And the more I thought about it, it made perfect sense to me. So I’d like to share it…..

We as men share a unique role in this world. We are the sex who (for lack of better words) penetrates, thrusts and ejaculates. It really it that simple! But along the way, we have developed many other ways, other ‘tools’ if you will, to cultivate and ‘grow’ our manhood, our ‘maleness’, our sexuality. Among these are ways well-known to Aneros members such as myself. I am referring to the practices of semen retention (SR), NoFap ® and Aneros prostate massage. Of course, there are others and one which I endorse and promote is the use of ‘chastity cups’.

Now what do all of these have in common? It really is quite simple, IMO. All of these activities are designed to enhance our sexual pleasure, not only for ourselves but in the general scheme of things, our male ‘vision’ of the world. (Our female counterparts share their own ‘vision’ that is (thank goodness!) completely different from our own). Together, we can make a new world (literally).

How To Play The Game
As I continued to meditate, it became clear to me that all of these sexual activities are entirely and always under our direct control. Here are some examples….

Have been using the classic for years. Think I’d benefit from a different model. What do you reccomend?

Hey! So! I’ve been using the classic model on and off for maybe two or three years now! I’ve definitely learned a lot of my body. Not sure how the community would define it, but I’ve goteen as far as the feeling that I need to pee and shaking a lot. You might say I’m rewired to an extent.

Anyways, I’ve always had some complaints with my classic, and wondered if the design might be somewhat preventing me from getting my best O. I like size/stretch, and on top of that, my prostate is very small, so I find large ridges are the only thing that actually hit my p-spot. I know I’m going for subtle, but the classic is I think probbaly alittle too subtle to bring me over the edge.

Secondly, the perineum tab becomes an annoyance over time, usually pushing too hard against me or rubbing me until my skin becomes a little raw. I tend to put a folded square of TP between it and me before I play, but this only really stops the rubbing issue. It’s still pushing too hard, and in general is a distraction, and seems ineffective.

Lastly, I suppoe I’m curious about adding vibration! So yeah, anyone have any toy suggestions, Aneros or otherwise?

Thank you LSD!

Hi! I want to share my story with the Aneros.

I bought the Aneros Helix around two years ago and have used it intermittently since. In the first few weeks I had it, I used it a few times a week, but never actually got much from it. I did have some pleasurable experiences, but I think I never really put in enough time and effort to get further. I think I’ve used it around once per 1-2 months as of late.

The best sessions were after smoking weed, where I definitely got some p-waves at times and felt reasonably good. It finally clicked for me a few days ago after taking a pretty high dose of LSD.

I was a few hours into the LSD-session and decided to have an Aneros session to see how that would be on LSD, and let me tell you I’m so glad I did. It finally clicked for me. I had some really intense pleasure and my body was shaking all over. I lost sense of time (that might’ve been the LSD though) and enjoyed the ride for probably at least two hours. I decided to see how adding a small amount of weed would it, but I wasn’t able to get as much pleasure as I was having on LSD alone, so I stopped a while later.

Musings and Tempo

Over the last 5 weeks away, I’ve been travelling overseas and, during that time, along the Aneros road, learning about my different friends, Helix, Maximus and MGX. Eupho got to hold the fort at home.

It’s been a mind blowing road so far and although I dabled with Tantra, some 30 years ago, I would have liked to have discovered the Aneros ‘training wheels’, which have rewired me in an amazing way.

Seeing my wife for the first time in 5 weeks, our sex was pretty magical. I reaquainted myself with the Eupho while she was out in the morning and I found new pleasures within minutes, which set me up with that familiar buzz all day long. I had bought my wife a new Lelo wand, so in the afternoon we got to try that out. Apart from the fun that generated, I also found that my orgasms were more intense and I was able to last longer before ejaculation. In addition, I had a beautiful dry-O with my wife lightly tonguing my frenulum. What was most apparent was that the ability to relax into the sensations made the feelings far more intense and I could understand that the mental connection with my wife is a major factor in feeling. Before, it was always more physical.

“Some Reflections On NoFap”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Introduction
I kind of backed-into this “NoFap*” thing by wanting to extend my semen retention run (SR) and eliminate the dreaded “blue-balls”. I also wanted to experience another wet dream. It all seems to be working. Let me explain…..

Semen Retention
I am currently at Day 11 of SR and not feeling any blue balls. Yes, I should have had them by now and that usually meant that I would have a strong need to ejaculate. I am getting close to that time (Day 12) when I experienced my last wet dream and I am looking forward to another one any day now.

NoFap Technique (So-called Hard Mode or “Monkmode” (No PMO, no sex, no stimulating media at all. That generally means cutting out all social media, most tv, movies, video games, whatever else might convey sexualized or suggestive material)).

There are a couple of things which I am doing differently in NoFap that I haven’t done before. They include the PMO* rules:
• No porn. This is a critical component of NoFap PMO*. Absolutely no viewing, “teasing”, “sneaking” or even thinking about porn is allowed at any time.
• No masturbation (including edging) at any time. This one is harder than it looks. It includes NO TOUCHING (except for normal hygiene). For me, this also includes any form of touching my cock/balls/package through my jeans. While showering, it includes no playing-around with the slippery soap “down-there”. Anything that can cause me to precum may induce blue-balls and trigger masturbation and ejaculation and so it should be avoided.
• No orgasm (except for a wet dream). This is a TO (usually caused by masturbation).

I don’t know where to turn, can someone please tell me what is going on with me?

I have never used the aneros, in fact, I only found out about this community while searching the web for explanations of what I’m dealing with.

I think I am dealing with what you call the butt buzz, and possibly awakened or rewired prostate. I did not seek this feeling out and I want it to go away.

This began after I was diagnosed with chronic prostatitis/CPPS. I had a cystoscopy done, which is where a camera scope is inserted into the urethra and bladder in order to look for structural abnormalities. This was the first and only time anything has been in my dick.

A week later I masturbated. I came extremely quickly, and the orgasm was actually too intense. There was no refractory period, I could keep doing it over and over. I was left with a buzzing sensation in and around my genitals, almost like I was gonna cum, the feeling radiated up and down my legs. I thought it was PGAD or RLS, and I was freaked out. I took gabapentin 2 days later and it went away.

The feeling re emerged months later when i went on an ssri. Had to discontinue it after 3 days because of it, and it subsided.

Looked into prostate massage, became curious about the prostate orgasm. Last week masturbated with my finger in my ass and had an explosive orgasm, which felt like the ones I had after my cystoscopy. It was too intense and i dont like it.

Rumel’s Ruminations – Part II

This Blog is in multiple Sections : Part II (this one) is my periodic blog of experiences (most recent at the top), Part I is just copies of some of my earliest Forum entries (oldest at the bottom)

3/21/10 – There have been a couple of inquiries/comments in the past about my personal avatar, so I thought I’d put into writing what it is.
While the Aneros WIKI states “Super-O’s come in all shapes and sizes. Some are small, some are large, some are single, some are multiple, some are centered in one area while others are in another. Some are particularly intense, while others are more subdued.” I liked a post by ‘BF Mayfield’ wherein he said “Super-O’s come in many colors and flavors.”

When I first joined the Forum, avatars were not an available option for members. It was many months after I had experienced my first Super-O that avatars became available. I believe it was ‘hlaser99’ who posted the first animated avatar shortly after they were possible here. I then started thinking about what mine should be. For a short time I was using an animated graphic of the Super O Society logo which I created as my avatar but I decided against that as I wanted that particular graphic to represent much more than my identity.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I try to send to new Forum members (updated March 3, 2019)
“Hi Guys,:)

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday.
Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video, formerly available on the Aneros website, interesting and informative as well.

Finally, I encourage you to listen to the podcast#9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

From Aneros and an ‘Optimal’ mind state?
Hi guys,
I was recently asked by a member [quote]…about how to get into the right state of mind to encourage a prostate orgasm to happen…[/quote]That’s a good question which deserves some thoughtful responses from our members. First off, let’s dispense with the word “right” and it’s implied antonym “wrong”, the semantics of which imply too much moral judgment attached to their use. I prefer to use the term “optimal” in lieu of “right”. Second, we need to identify what constitutes this “optimal” state of mind. I think I have a pretty good idea about this but it is just my opinion. Third, we need to identify those practices which will help us get into that “optimal” state of mind. Some of this was alluded to in the thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/7967-identifying-facilitators-to-progress”]Identifying Facilitators to Progress[/URL][/U] so this post could be considered an addendum to that thread. This also ties into [USER=”7188″]rook[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/5228-whole-body-whole-mind-the-mental-side”]Whole Body/Whole Mind – the mental side[/URL][/U] & [USER=”7244″]SteelColdiron[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/6775-aneros-the-essential-mind-state”]Aneros: The Essential Mind State[/URL][/U]

Riding the Rail

I have had a blog on and off for 14 years. My blogs have been both here and in other forums and on Word Press. Between all 4 blogs I had 10,000 subscribers and 800 pages (single space) of 600 + entries. That 14 year written log was a weekly diary of my sex life, what I was thinking, doing and feeling during that entire time. It also inspired a complete erotic novel and 2 others that are in the works.

That written record has been incredibly useful to me now as a tool to read and reflect on where I have been, what experiences I had and what I learned. All of the times, dates and details I have written here in this latest blog came from that written record. The timeline nature of this blog and the perspective that I am offering in these entries is a summary of lessons learned. In the context of all the entries I came to realization that my 9th year was a turning point in my journey.