I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have two questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them. My wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Is this unusual? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to get to uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my other question. I have tried the do nothing method, but I always end up shaking, and I cannot control it. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!
I literally got here in the strangest of ways. It started with a stop at a sex shop to purchase a pocket pussy. I decided to buy one of those $25 special wands on the side because I’ve put little objects in my butt while beating off before. Got home, used it while spanking, whatever. I felt like it wasn’t enough or there had to be more. Jumped online but didn’t do my homework so you know I then made my 2nd mistake (of sorts) and bought my first prostate massager. I’ll spare the details but it has a few pretty neat features and is a bit big. After purchasing this thing online I actually started doing my homework. Started looking at how some are aimed at beginners and others are aimed at more experienced only to discover my incoming toy is a bit large. Up until now, my experiences haven’t been anything more than my finger, maybe a sharpie, or that new wand so I knew I needed something a bit more friendly to start out.
This is where Aneros comes into my life. Reading several “best of” articles, I see the Helix time and time again and it’s being touted as a good product, and good for newbies such as myself. I ran back to the sex shop with the helix on my phone for verification, they were sold out, but their sister store had some Aneros products, but just not the Helix. I was committed. All that reading about butt play with amazing orgasms beyond what I had known, the drive into the city, and now this… So I bought the DeVice and once again did it without looking at dimensions.
Yesterday I got the new 20th anniversary edition Progasm in black ice. I read that it had been modified to trident specifications. I compared it to my old one. They looked the same to me, but I knew the changes were probably too subtle to notice. I relaxed my mind. I lubed up myself and the progasm. I inserted it and took several minutes to breathe and relax. I have found that the “do nothing” method seems to work best for me. After I started playing with my nipples, I could feel my sphincter and anal cavity tingling and contracting. I could just barely feel the progasm moving and twitching. Then the movements became more pronounced. I could feel it moving and my insides tingling. It wasn’t anything mind blowing just yet, but it was a pleasant prelude for what was to come.
The fireworks really started on the third orgasm. I started playing with my nipples. I could feel the muscles contracting. As the progasm got pulled in further and further, I felt this rising sensation in my body that’s so difficult to describe. Then I could feel the head of the progasm really massaging my prostate, and it was heavenly. My whole body felt it. The muscled contractions became stronger and more rapid. It almost felt too good. My body felt so warm and light. I almost felt like my body would start floating. I had a few more orgasms similar to that, but each one was different.
So I’ve been meaning to make a post about this advanced technique for quite a while, because its seriously just so good I had to share. I’ve started mucking around with prostate masturbation maybe 12 months ago, and read up as much as I could in the search for the magical Super O. I started with the Aneros Helix Syn Trident, and have added so much along the way and haven’t looked back since. I also have an Aneros Progasm, and I honestly couldn’t tell you which I prefer, they’re both different but equally amazing. This post is to share the precise steps and techniques I use to achieve the most ridiculous mind blowing Super O’s to date. There is what I consider to be an absolute game changer below, I hope others try it and let me know if it works as well for you. Please note my technique also includes the use of marijuana which may not be legal in your state or country so please disregard if that is the case. This list of items used is at the bottom for quick reference.
I start by clearing my schedule, turning off my phone, and making sure I wont be interrupted for at least two hours, and preferably more. This is a marathon not a race!
You must take a dump beforehand, and then douche until properly clean. Don’t skip this step! I like to wait at least half an hour afterwards before attempting anything further with my ass, to ensure my sphincter is relaxed again.
During which time I get set up, which I’ll admit is extensive, but so worth it. I’ll put a towel on the bed to ensure it stays clean. Room temperature must be pleasant. I play white noise (or pink noise, its better) on loop through a speaker, it helps with concentration.
I get the toys I plan to use out, along with the suitable lube/s. For the Helix Syn Trident I use an oil based lube as you cant use silicone lube and it lasts far longer than water based. For any non-silicone toy I use silicone lube, it’s the best and no reapplication. I put maybe 5ml into a lube syringe.
Other items I get ready are porn on the bedroom tv, and, the game changer: a little handheld EMS (Electrical Muscle Stimulation) machine with two adhesive pads. I discovered this when I was using it for a sore shoulder, and I put two and two together when I thought “hang on, if the key to prostate orgasms and specifically Super O’s is to reach a point where your PC muscles are contracting involuntarily, and the EMS makes muscles contract involuntarily, then surely I could incorporate this into the process?” I saw there were other anal e-stim toys out there, but I wanted to be able to use e-stim with an Aneros toy and PC muscle contraction.
Ok so on with the process…
I like to smoke a bit of weed (read earlier legal disclaimer) but I don’t smoke regularly so doesn’t take much to get a good buzz on. The reason for this is weed is brilliant for concentrating on certain physical sensations and blocking out distractions and preventing your mind wandering. So yeah, I have a few tokes, turn on the pink noise, chuck the porn on and jump into bed.
Its important to do this next, as any lube will stop them from sticking – I put one EMS pad in the top of my butt crack, and the other one behind my balls on the perineum. These locations will make the EMS stimulate and contract the PC muscles.
I don’t know if its because I’m straight, but as soon as anything goes into my ass I have no chance of getting a hard on, so I have to make sure I’m hard beforehand as your prostate is mostly engorged and open to stimulation when you’re aroused.
I lie on my side with my top leg towards my chest, then lube up my ass and the lube syringe, insert it and push the lube at around the depth of my prostate. If it feels good you know you’re on the right track!
I lube up a finger and slide it in, then a second, keeping the pace and stretching slow because I’ve found staying relaxed is key. Then I lube either the Helix Syn Trident or the Progasm – the Trident if I want subtle and gentle tapping, or Progasm if I want more intense pressure and pushing on the prostate. I’d say I’ve had more intense Super O’s with the Trident, to the point of nearly passing out. Actually I’ve had nearly as good with the Progasm, so I couldn’t choose just one. I slide the toy in slowly, enjoying it. If my sphincter contracts during insertion I know I’ve gone too fast. It helps to tilt the Progasm forward for easy insertion.
I then lie on my stomach, it works best for me but I’ve also had amazing Super O’s on my side. Still no luck on my back, I think gravity makes the toy fall away from my prostate. I relax for a while, tuning out to my breathing and the pink noise for a bit.
Then I start to change my focus to whats happening in and around my ass, the perineum tabs, and the toy resting against my prostate. Its an exercise in subtlety, concentration, and patience. The slightest movement of my PC muscles are what I want at this stage, slowly contracting and releasing every maybe 10 seconds. Because of the weed I’m very focused on the prostate touch. At this stage I like to contract lightly and very smoothly, then as I’m allowing it to relax just as smoothly, hold it just before its fully relaxed, like at a level 1 instead of letting it go to zero. I do this on repeat for a while, and each time it feels even better then I stop the contraction and relax before starting the contraction again because it builds the amazing feeling more each time. I’ve found this is the best and most consistent way of getting the involuntary contractions to start.
At this stage I turn on the EMS to its lowest setting. I’ve tried all the settings and the one I have found by the far the best, is one that smoothly and quickly pulses for 10 seconds then stops for 5 seconds. On the lowest setting it is barely noticeable, but its there.
After a minute I increase it to level 2, and its now sending electro buzzes through my PC muscles. But its enough that I can still mostly control my own muscle contractions, with some involuntary contractions starting to happen alongside the on-off electro stimulation. Its borderline taking over though, and each manual contraction is starting to get taken over by involuntary contraction to the point where its hard to stop them if you really try. Patience!
As it gets more difficult I am starting to shake involuntarily too. I turn it up to level 3, and now I’m at the point where I try to prevent involuntary contractions each time the machine stims for 10 seconds, but by halfway my PC muscles are contracting by themselves and I cant stop it. I try to prevent it but its impossible. Now my body shakes are more frequent too. My prostate is aching and I can so clearly feel the toy and its bumps sliding over my prostate.
Level 4 on the machine is where it all happens for me. The EMS machine causes completely involuntary contractions which squeezes the toy into my prostate strongly, for 10 seconds, and for the 5 seconds its stopped my PC muscles stay contracted entirely on their own until the machine runs for the next 10 seconds. At this point I’m starting a mind and body melting Super O, and I’m a shaking and moaning mess, with non-stop contractions and that beautiful feeling you get in your lower stomach right before you cum, sometimes spreading throughout your entire body. The difference is this can go on for several minutes, relentlessly keeping you at that point of internal orgasm and not letting up. The longest I have kept going for was around 25 minutes and could go no further, I eventually came so hard I nearly passed out and was a zombie for the rest of the day.
Anyway let me know if you do try this and what you think. I hope it works for you as well as it does for me.
Well hello strangers!
It’s been awhile since my last blog post, too long.
Life seems to gotten hectic again, all the way through December and January work took off again but recently things seem to have settled down a bit, affording me some free time for me and my Aneros’s.
In December i had a few sessions but they were frustratingly flat with little or no sensations or joy, I put this down to the stresses of the season plus work commitments. I’ve had dud sessions before and have learned to walk away and take timeout, this is exactly what I did, no Aneros play for a month. I still dabbled in my alternate deviant pleasures, sounding and elctro-play, sometimes even a combination of the two. I even invested in some VR goggles, oh my! Now thats what I call an investment.
I know some of you are keen to hear about my journey into sounding and I promise I’ll blog about that later this week.
In the past two weeks I’ve had two really good sessions with my Aneros family, for the sake of simplicity I’m going to amalgamate them into one post.
Both sessions started two or three days in advance with a build up of sexual tension, watching porn, reading erotica and listening to racy podcasts.On the day of a session I’ll always make sure my body and mind are clean and free of distractions, I’ll set aside at least four hours to really get into the zone, the fours hours aren’t necessarily all with the device inserted but the total length of time from having a hot bath or shower to having a short post-session snooze.
Im really wanting to pick up another Aneros to play with. I have a original helix, and a trident helix., a eupho syn, and a progasm. I get really good pleasure and sensations from all. I reach for the helix trident the most. Im leaning towards and MGX trident in the syn. Never used one and would like to try it. Should I get it or the eupho trident syn? Id love to get a Vice 2. Not sure if its worth the price tag.
Earlier this morning in the 7 o’clock hour, I had a very powerful session with my trusty traditional Aneros Maximus. It lasted about 20 minutes. I have been working with the Aneros, as many of you know, since early June 2012. After several years of a regimen of Aneros sessions which occurred three/four times a week, I finally achieved major breakthroughs in mid September 2012 with Super-O’s and MMO’s. Since then, I can have all sorts of orgasms on demand most nights in bed mostly through diddling my nipples. Nights in bed are when I can shut out daily cares and blast of daily news. The darkness and quiets enable to relax and thus participate in my erotic activities.
The Maximus is between smaller models such as Helix and MGX and large, heavy duty models as the Progasm. I am intrigued in the more modern Trident series and how the Trident Maximus performs. I wonder of guys using the Trident series achieve Super-O’s and MMO’s more quickly in terms of months and years.
I’m on a health and fitness programme just now which means healthy eating and lots of exercise. I drove my good lady to work this morning then had a hour long spinning and weights session, I watch porn whilst on the bike, it helps me pass the time and I find the act of getting breathless, hot and sweaty a bit of a turn on. Post session I had a long shower, shaved my cock and balls and generally took my time warming down, I couldn’t resist having a bit of sexy fun with the shower head so I positioned the flow so it tickled and bounced off my asshole and balls, I then turned around and blasted the head of my dick with the strongest and moist intense flow, it was almost too much to take but by God it felt fantastic!
I douched after my shower and made myself comfortable on the bed, I lubed up and inserted the Eupho, then just relaxed. To Begin with there wasn’t much happening, and tbh I thought the session was going to be a dud, after all that does happen. Half an hour later and I’m starting to feel the most gentle of whisper from my prostate, a very feint buzz, this was a sign to persist and plough on, next of all my legs started to shake, followed by my butt, my prostate was now starting to buzz.
Recently I’ve started working out more in our home gym, I’m on a major fitness and weight loss program and so far so good.
I find that working out whilst watching porn helps me, it takes my focus away from the exercises and focuses my mind on the hot girls!
Post workout I find myself all hot and sweaty and surprisingly aroused, maybe its the natural rush of endorphins? As I warm down and take a shower mind wonders towards quality time with an aneros.
Yesterday I did just this followed by a session with my MGX Syn Trident. Pleasurable sensations were there almost instantly, the device hit the sweet-spot with an instant buzz. The session went really well. I had a big Supe -O within the first twenty minuets followed by a long fallow period, not a problem as I was happy to bask in the afterglow of the Super-O, I then started holding the device with my sphincter and PC muscle to the point where it was fluttering and dancing, this caused the MGX to bounce around like crazy, the result was Super-O number two, then after another drop-off a third. Its awhile since I’ve had the fluttering sensation but I loved it, going to try that again next week.
Happy riding guys.
Sessions of late have been good but nothing mind blowing, super-o’s have been achieved (and appreciated) and I’ve been left feeling satisfied, but nothing as amazing as the sessions I had in November of last year.
On the other hand yesterdays session was something very different.
After a particularly strenuous workout/weights session I decided to have a session with my trusty eupho syn trident, I went through my usual routine of douching, showering and setting the scene, everything was done in a relaxed and controlled manner, taking time not to rush things and keep calm and relaxed.
I lay on my back on the bed and inserted the device, then did nothing, I just lay there and chilled-out, I watched some soft-core porn to help my mind drift away from everyday thoughts. After about twenty minutes I could feel the device gently nuzzling my prostate, the most subtle and lightest of sensation, a gentle tickling. I know from experience that this is the start of good things to come. I rode the sensations whilst gently and gingerly contracting my PC muscles, the tickling developed into a buzz and began to radiate throughout my pelvis, my thighs and butt began to quiver and shake. It’s at this stage that I start to pull the device deeper into me by contracting my sphincter, not too hard, just enough to put a small amount of pressure from the eupho directly onto my prostate, this is when the magic happened. Up until this point I’d not touched my nipples, as I started to strum them with my finger nails I could feel the build up to my first super-o. My body from tip to toe became rigid and I let out a massive yawn, then the shakes and quivers began, I was transported into the mysterious world of the prostate orgasm, vivid visions of lingerie clad girls flashed before my eyes, swirling whirlpools of colours and the most glorious warm feeling overwhelmed me. All the time this is happening I’m gently holding the device in the sweet spot, using my sphincter to control its precise position. I’ve absolutely no idea how long the orgasm lasted but eventually it faded away, I lay there in the afterglow just floating in my thoughts, feeling totally at one with the world.