Tag: Breathing

Aless Extraordinaire

My last full Aneros session was on Feb 25 in anticipation of a sigmoidoscopy procedure scheduled for March 4th. I’ve been riding on the Aless wagon ever since. This hiatus gave me a chance to try new ways of achieving prostate pleasures including the use of reverse Kegels and other methods.

Last night, my Aless session involved rubbing my perineum vigorously while diddling my nipples coupled with deep diaphragm breathing. Towards the end, I fully engaged my penis for an extended period of edging and then reverted back to my perineum/nipple play. I was very surprised as to how pleasurable the entire experience was.

After doing this for a few hours, I retired to bed (at midnight). As I lay in bed beside me very sound asleep wife, I was enjoying the tingling of my prostate area. Not asleep yet but drifting, suddenly, a massive wave of pleasure engulfed my entire body. This was undoubtedly an orgasm but not an earth-shattering one. It was more like calm seas but it lasted several minutes. The feeling then subsided only to return several minutes later but with even less intensity.

This had happened several times before but I was never sure if they were in my dreams or reality. Last night, however, confirmed that they are real and very pleasurable. So parts of my body could be asleep while others are busy at work!

Life is truly wonderful.

Super 0 the next level

So I’ve been meaning to make a post about this advanced technique for quite a while, because its seriously just so good I had to share. I’ve started mucking around with prostate masturbation maybe 12 months ago, and read up as much as I could in the search for the magical Super O. I started with the Aneros Helix Syn Trident, and have added so much along the way and haven’t looked back since. I also have an Aneros Progasm, and I honestly couldn’t tell you which I prefer, they’re both different but equally amazing. This post is to share the precise steps and techniques I use to achieve the most ridiculous mind blowing Super O’s to date. There is what I consider to be an absolute game changer below, I hope others try it and let me know if it works as well for you. Please note my technique also includes the use of marijuana which may not be legal in your state or country so please disregard if that is the case. This list of items used is at the bottom for quick reference.
I start by clearing my schedule, turning off my phone, and making sure I wont be interrupted for at least two hours, and preferably more. This is a marathon not a race!
You must take a dump beforehand, and then douche until properly clean. Don’t skip this step! I like to wait at least half an hour afterwards before attempting anything further with my ass, to ensure my sphincter is relaxed again.
During which time I get set up, which I’ll admit is extensive, but so worth it. I’ll put a towel on the bed to ensure it stays clean. Room temperature must be pleasant. I play white noise (or pink noise, its better) on loop through a speaker, it helps with concentration.
I get the toys I plan to use out, along with the suitable lube/s. For the Helix Syn Trident I use an oil based lube as you cant use silicone lube and it lasts far longer than water based. For any non-silicone toy I use silicone lube, it’s the best and no reapplication. I put maybe 5ml into a lube syringe.
Other items I get ready are porn on the bedroom tv, and, the game changer: a little handheld EMS (Electrical Muscle Stimulation) machine with two adhesive pads. I discovered this when I was using it for a sore shoulder, and I put two and two together when I thought “hang on, if the key to prostate orgasms and specifically Super O’s is to reach a point where your PC muscles are contracting involuntarily, and the EMS makes muscles contract involuntarily, then surely I could incorporate this into the process?” I saw there were other anal e-stim toys out there, but I wanted to be able to use e-stim with an Aneros toy and PC muscle contraction.
Ok so on with the process…
I like to smoke a bit of weed (read earlier legal disclaimer) but I don’t smoke regularly so doesn’t take much to get a good buzz on. The reason for this is weed is brilliant for concentrating on certain physical sensations and blocking out distractions and preventing your mind wandering. So yeah, I have a few tokes, turn on the pink noise, chuck the porn on and jump into bed.
Its important to do this next, as any lube will stop them from sticking – I put one EMS pad in the top of my butt crack, and the other one behind my balls on the perineum. These locations will make the EMS stimulate and contract the PC muscles.
I don’t know if its because I’m straight, but as soon as anything goes into my ass I have no chance of getting a hard on, so I have to make sure I’m hard beforehand as your prostate is mostly engorged and open to stimulation when you’re aroused.
I lie on my side with my top leg towards my chest, then lube up my ass and the lube syringe, insert it and push the lube at around the depth of my prostate. If it feels good you know you’re on the right track!
I lube up a finger and slide it in, then a second, keeping the pace and stretching slow because I’ve found staying relaxed is key. Then I lube either the Helix Syn Trident or the Progasm – the Trident if I want subtle and gentle tapping, or Progasm if I want more intense pressure and pushing on the prostate. I’d say I’ve had more intense Super O’s with the Trident, to the point of nearly passing out. Actually I’ve had nearly as good with the Progasm, so I couldn’t choose just one. I slide the toy in slowly, enjoying it. If my sphincter contracts during insertion I know I’ve gone too fast. It helps to tilt the Progasm forward for easy insertion.
I then lie on my stomach, it works best for me but I’ve also had amazing Super O’s on my side. Still no luck on my back, I think gravity makes the toy fall away from my prostate. I relax for a while, tuning out to my breathing and the pink noise for a bit.
Then I start to change my focus to whats happening in and around my ass, the perineum tabs, and the toy resting against my prostate. Its an exercise in subtlety, concentration, and patience. The slightest movement of my PC muscles are what I want at this stage, slowly contracting and releasing every maybe 10 seconds. Because of the weed I’m very focused on the prostate touch. At this stage I like to contract lightly and very smoothly, then as I’m allowing it to relax just as smoothly, hold it just before its fully relaxed, like at a level 1 instead of letting it go to zero. I do this on repeat for a while, and each time it feels even better then I stop the contraction and relax before starting the contraction again because it builds the amazing feeling more each time. I’ve found this is the best and most consistent way of getting the involuntary contractions to start.
At this stage I turn on the EMS to its lowest setting. I’ve tried all the settings and the one I have found by the far the best, is one that smoothly and quickly pulses for 10 seconds then stops for 5 seconds. On the lowest setting it is barely noticeable, but its there.
After a minute I increase it to level 2, and its now sending electro buzzes through my PC muscles. But its enough that I can still mostly control my own muscle contractions, with some involuntary contractions starting to happen alongside the on-off electro stimulation. Its borderline taking over though, and each manual contraction is starting to get taken over by involuntary contraction to the point where its hard to stop them if you really try. Patience!
As it gets more difficult I am starting to shake involuntarily too. I turn it up to level 3, and now I’m at the point where I try to prevent involuntary contractions each time the machine stims for 10 seconds, but by halfway my PC muscles are contracting by themselves and I cant stop it. I try to prevent it but its impossible. Now my body shakes are more frequent too. My prostate is aching and I can so clearly feel the toy and its bumps sliding over my prostate.
Level 4 on the machine is where it all happens for me. The EMS machine causes completely involuntary contractions which squeezes the toy into my prostate strongly, for 10 seconds, and for the 5 seconds its stopped my PC muscles stay contracted entirely on their own until the machine runs for the next 10 seconds. At this point I’m starting a mind and body melting Super O, and I’m a shaking and moaning mess, with non-stop contractions and that beautiful feeling you get in your lower stomach right before you cum, sometimes spreading throughout your entire body. The difference is this can go on for several minutes, relentlessly keeping you at that point of internal orgasm and not letting up. The longest I have kept going for was around 25 minutes and could go no further, I eventually came so hard I nearly passed out and was a zombie for the rest of the day.
Anyway let me know if you do try this and what you think. I hope it works for you as well as it does for me. Read more »

It’s Been Awhile

Well hello strangers!

It’s been awhile since my last blog post, too long.

Life seems to gotten hectic again, all the way through December and January work took off again but recently things seem to have settled down a bit, affording me some free time for me and my Aneros’s.

In December i had a few sessions but they were frustratingly flat with little or no sensations or joy, I put this down to the stresses of the season plus work commitments. I’ve had dud sessions before and have learned to walk away and take timeout, this is exactly what I did, no Aneros play for a month. I still dabbled in my alternate deviant pleasures, sounding and elctro-play, sometimes even a combination of the two. I even invested in some VR goggles, oh my! Now thats what I call an investment.

I know some of you are keen to hear about my journey into sounding and I promise I’ll blog about that later this week.

In the past two weeks I’ve had two really good sessions with my Aneros family, for the sake of simplicity I’m going to amalgamate them into one post.

Both sessions started two or three days in advance with a build up of sexual tension, watching porn, reading erotica and listening to racy podcasts.On the day of a session I’ll always make sure my body and mind are clean and free of distractions, I’ll set aside at least four hours to really get into the zone, the fours hours aren’t necessarily all with the device inserted but the total length of time from having a hot bath or shower to having a short post-session snooze. Read more »

Transitioning to the new Microsoft Edge browser!

Hi guys,

This past weekend I finally transitioned to Microsoft Edge as my new preferred browser. Actually the transition occurred on Saturday. It is a state-of-art browser and I am amazed by its capabilities the more I use it.

Also we are entering perhaps the coldest weeks of 2021 here in Washington DC. It is too cold to have an Aneros session, but maybe tomorrow morning just before sunrise.

In a few minutes I return to bed. It is quiet here. There is a dog who lives in an apartment across the courtyard from mine who tends at times to yap and howl its head off at times. That happened for several hours this afternoon. Fortunate its owner returned home by sunset.

Most nights in bed it is a nearly every night ritual with nipple diddling, Kegels, and relaxed breathing to elicit from my body Super-O’s and MMO’s. It can be done having orgasms by demand. Just relax and enjoy your God given body!

I thank guys like @ggringo, @goldenboy, @turnrow, and now @poseidon who lives several miles away from me, as well men from way earlier years who have inspired me. Take care!

What a home Cumming!

I got home late last night form a business trip, whilst away I was hoping for some nice relaxed sessions with my growing family of Aneros’s.

Unfortunately things didn’t go to plan because my work colleagues were placed on the same floor of the hotel. I tried a few sessions but couldn’t get to a Super-O, I had lots of lovely sensations and the sessions were enjoyable, in the end I resorted to my second favourite pass time, sounding!

What happened during this trip made me realise the importance to me of having absolutely no distractions, or for that matter anyone else within earshot. It also dawned on me how vocal I am during my sessions, this is something I wasn’t fully aware of.

I got up this morning and drove my wife to work fully intending to work at home today, my prostate had different ideas! Ok so I can’t really blame my inability to work on my prostate, maybe I did brows a bit of porn and get myself worked up!

Sitting at my desk I could feel a buzz and a warm glow coming from my base of my cock, this was far more concentrated (and difficult to ignore) and intense than normal. It would have been rude not to oblige and bung a Aneros up my ass! Read more »

Deeper and Deeper

I’ve had a few sessions this week, all being fine but nothing to write home about, p-waves, mini-o’s and so on.

I though for todays session I’d mix things up a little. I’ve not used the Helix syn trident for awhile so after the usual douche and lube I started there, fifteen to twenty minuets in and I’m not getting anything, zilch. I swap out the Helix for the Progasm and lie back and adjust to weird sensations that comes with the bigger size of the Progasm. After half an hour I tentatively try some contractions of my sphincter and P.C muscles, I can feel the direct pressure on my prostate and get a positive reaction, this comes in the form of a warm glowing buzz, again after awhile nothing seems to be happening, so I’m thinking maybe this session will be a dud? After all it happens.

I try one of my favourites the Eupho syn trident, following on from the Progasm this ultra slim device glides in without a problem. I apply light contractions which results in a familiar feeling deep within my core, a sensation that’s hard to describe, its like a dull ache from deep down inside my pelvis.
As I regulate and concentrate on my breathing I find my self inadvertently contracting my sphincter by pulling the contraction forward into my body and rolling it over to my PC muscle in one continuous rolling movement, like its on its own elliptical trajectory, the warm ticking sensation its creating is just delicious, I keep rolling with it until I feel my first Super-O of the day washing over me, time becomes irrelevant, minuets seem like hours as I fall deep world of orgasmic bliss. With a finely tuned subtle contraction I’ve learned that its possible to hold the afterglow of a Super-O and reignite it by very gently reapplying pressure, this I did and one Super-O merged into another. Read more »

Ups and Downs

I’ve recently been away on assignment working up to 16 hours per day, feeling mentally and physically tired, even so I’ve still found time for a few sessions with my ever growing collection of Aneros’s.
Unsurprisingly most of the sessions were duds, not a lot to report, hardy even a p-wave. The combination of exhaustion, being in unfamiliar hotels and rushing totally and utterly killed any sensation, what this reiterated to me was the need for a quiet space, somewhere without disturbance, and with time to relax and enjoy the moment.

On returning home I set-to tidying up loose ends, to conclude the assignment, to clear my desk, physically and metaphorically. After doing this I browsed some porn and settled in for a session with the MGX Syn Trident, a douche, shower and total peace and solitude, no distractions whatsoever.

I lubed up my ass and smeared Vaseline on the MGX, inserted it and concentrated on my breathing, in through the mouth for seven seconds, hold for seven and slowly release the exhaled breath. in no time sensations started to build, a delicious dull ache in my groin, gentle shaking and quivering of my legs and a tightening of my abs. Occasionally a p-wave would send shivers from my head to my toes, I started contacting my pc muscles whilst simultaneously attempting to push out the Aneros with my rectal muscles, it didn’t take long for my muscles to fatigue and start to quiver, by now I could feel the gentle pressure applied by the massager on my prostate and it was was buzzing. Read more »

Reset and we’re back in business.

I have recently started working again after four blissful months of very little to do except concentrating on my aeros sessions but concern was mounting, after some epic sessions of late my previous three or four sessions had been pretty much duds, enjoyable but nowhere near the intensity I had grown accustomed to, I resigned myself it was a symptom of fatigue.

The situation was beginning to worry me, was this it? Had I peaked? Would I ever experience a super-o again? This is when i decided to take a step back, to take stock and reset. I re-read my blogs which helped me understand what had worked for me just weeks before and the techniques I’d applied to take me to these highest of highs.

I made sure the doors were locked, phones switched off and the room temperature was comfortable, I prepared my MGX Syn Trident with a thin coating of Vaseline, laid out my lube, a towel and logged on to Pornhub. I then had a douche, a long hot shower and a stretch, I could feel a tingling sensation in my prostate like a very dull buzzing, time to get started. After drying off I lay on the bed and browsed some porn (SecretCrush4K is my current go-to) after twenty minuets I lubed up and inserted my MGX. Then breathing exercises and relaxation, letting my mind wonder, to past sexual exploits and encounters. what really fires me up is an memory I have of my ex and her beautiful dripping wet pussy, its hovering just inches above my mouth just willing me to lap up its juices, so vivid are these thoughts I can taste it! Read more »

Buckwheat Aneros Journey First Attempt

Some history and context: I first heard about Aneros about a year ago. I was very intrigued but did not purchase a product at that time. About a week ago, I came across it again and decided to order the MGX Sun Trident. While I was waiting for my order to arrive I found the blog and wiki pages and spent a couple of hours every day reading and learning about the product. The volume of educational resources is very impressive. My product arrived a few days ago, but I waited until last night to try it out because I wanted to make sure I had the time and space I would need.

I started with a warm shower. Then lied down on a towel on my bed and inserted the Trident. Insertion was easy and not at all uncomfortable. It seemed to slide in place very easily. I was lying on my back with my knees bent. For the first 30 minutes I tried the “do nothing” method and just tried to breath deep and relax. Nothing happened. At that point I started contracting my sphincter as slowly as possible, then held, and released as long as possible. This action brought the device to life and I could feel it move inside me as well as change pressure outside my body. This action made me more erect and the feeling was very pleasurable. But did not lead to any type of orgasm. After a while I stopped doing this and went back to the do nothing method. Read more »

Third Attempt – Hands Free Orgasm

My second attempt was a total a dud. Insertion was easy (again) but then nothing. I realized that all my reading has left me confused. Some say the secret is all about total relaxation, or meditative breathing, or a sense of calmness so you can listen to your body. Other’s stress the importance of arousal. Those two are polar opposites for me. The one thing they do have in common perhaps is focus. I can imagine “focus” coming from a meditative state, and I can imagine “focus” coming from a state of arousal as well. This has become my new target mindset.

Third attempt was two nights later (last night). I decided that since the do-nothing-stillness was not working for me I should focus on the arousal bit. I put a cock ring on 30 minutes prior and looked at some porn. Once I felt turned on, I inserted the Helix. Immediately I could feel it moving around and so I just went with it. I found if I “tried to relax and let it happen” I started loosing interest. So keeping the idea of focus in mind, I focused on what felt good and what seemed to be working… which in my case was actively squeezing and releasing my ass, keeping the Helix in motion. It was almost as if I were chasing it. And as I increased the movement, it increased my arousal, and as my arousal increased I picked up both the intensity and pace — working harder and harder. This went on for about 30 minutes and then I could feel myself getting close to orgasm. My cock was rock hard, and the cock ring made it even harder. I kept squeezing and releasing my ass and then it happened. I had a normal penile orgasm and I came all over my stomach and chest. It was the first hands-free orgasm of my life. It felt great (as all my orgasms normally do) but I somehow felt that it wasn’t was I was expecting. I didn’t feel any different than I normally would during/after orgasm. And the orgasm lasted about the same amount of time as a normal one would have. Read more »