Musings and Tempo

Over the last 5 weeks away, I’ve been travelling overseas and, during that time, along the Aneros road, learning about my different friends, Helix, Maximus and MGX. Eupho got to hold the fort at home.

It’s been a mind blowing road so far and although I dabled with Tantra, some 30 years ago, I would have liked to have discovered the Aneros ‘training wheels’, which have rewired me in an amazing way.

Seeing my wife for the first time in 5 weeks, our sex was pretty magical. I reaquainted myself with the Eupho while she was out in the morning and I found new pleasures within minutes, which set me up with that familiar buzz all day long. I had bought my wife a new Lelo wand, so in the afternoon we got to try that out. Apart from the fun that generated, I also found that my orgasms were more intense and I was able to last longer before ejaculation. In addition, I had a beautiful dry-O with my wife lightly tonguing my frenulum. What was most apparent was that the ability to relax into the sensations made the feelings far more intense and I could understand that the mental connection with my wife is a major factor in feeling. Before, it was always more physical.

latest encounter with Miss Helix

So I got my new cock ring in. That 1/8″ in diameter made all the difference. It is still small enough to keep my cock chubbed up some, my balls pushed up and out for a wonderful presentation but large enough to keep from getting cock locked when fully engorged and still helps to maintain that throbbing sensation. A side benefit I found is when I stack them the new one pushes out the smaller one enough to also keep from getting cock locked. I adore the way it feels. They are so comfortable that I forget I’m wearing them till I see, read or think of something that excites me and my cock comes to life with a wonderful tingle as the rings tug on the skin of my perineum when my cock grows. I can see myself wearing these all the time but most likely won’t wear stacked as the pleasurable sensation can be distracting and I must pay attention at my new job.

Incredible A-less session today

I just had an a-less session I never imagined was possible.

Woke up this morning to breakfast. Put on some nipple suckers I bought and had them on for thirty minutes or so.
I REALLY like these things. They make my nipples SO sensitive. There’s some pain involved using them but it’s
a good pain! Finally, it was time to get ready to head off for work.

My nipples were unusually sensitive and I was playing with them on the drive to work. Actually had three or four
nipple orgasms on the way in. Long, wide, empty highway so there wasn’t a lot of danger.

After I got off this afternoon I was playing with my nipples again on the drive home and had the same. Few really
intense O’s.

Got home and decided to take a nap. Woke up and resumed playing with my nipples while still on my back in bed. Didn’t
take long for things to start really rocking and rolling. I’d had great pleasure in my groin before while doing this but nothing
ever like today. This pleasure sensation started at my prostate and spread down my perineum to my asshole, up my butt
cheeks, down the inside of my thighs, even had some penile twitching. It finally started building in my lower abdomen
before the O would hit.

“Changing Up The Session!”

I was ready for this morning’s session. Here’s how it happened….

I retired for the night only wearing my PJs. Yes, I know I am in Day 8 of SR but I really do feel like I could go farther. I awoke about 2 AM with a rather stiff erection. Rather than just grab and put-on a cup, I decided to “wait-it-out”. I just remained still in bed, probably for at least 30 minutes. After that, I rolled-over on my stomach and started to wonder: “Is this how a wet dream would occur?” I began to think about the possibility of having another erection while I was asleep and that may precipitate a wet dream? Intriguing possibility! But In the end, I decided to put-on my XO cup and just try to get back to sleep.

I awoke again, this time about 5 AM and just knew that I needed a session with the MGX Classic. I had not ridden it in a while and was anticipating the pleasure it could provide. So I lubed-up with SSG and got the stem in quite deeply; The MGX has the possibility of stimulating a HFWO and so, being in Day 8, I would not mind too much if I ended this session with an ejaculation. Since there is more ‘room’ in back of the Mueller cup (between the leg straps), I switched cups before the start of the session.

My experience so far…

So, I jumped on the prostate bandwagon a few months ago and started with the Helix Syn. Had a few good sessions with it but wasn’t getting anywhere close to what I was reading about. Turns out…I was too impatient.

I ordered the Helix Trident Syn last week and I have had a few sessions with it. I like it SO much better than the Syn. That extra strength in the P-tab really helps.

The other night I was having a session and I had my first hands-free ejaculation. Not a Super-O or even a dry orgasm, but hands-free nonetheless. That was a pretty big step. I had the Trident in and I had used extra lube. I was lying on my back with my knees bent and my feet flat on the bed. I had my dick tucked between my legs and my legs were squeezed closed. This goes against the “relax and it will come to you” but it felt so good.

I also had quite a few large muscle shakes. The feelings grew and grew and then I came. It was pretty intense but not my ultimate goal. Still, I had managed to do something I’d never done before so that was a good session.

Today, I put on my chastity cage and sat around doing some work. I started feeling horny and just paid attention to my prostate. I have found that I can get some great feelings without the Aneros if I concentrate enough so I tried doing that.

A Cockring Out Of Energy

Last afternoon I lay on my couch and replaced my envision of touching my sweet spot right above my penis‘ root and my perineum by forming a half of a cockring using my forefinger and my middlefinger. Inspired by the actual movies about action heroes and all their magic skills and energies I instead imagined a ring of energy emitting a mixture of green and blue light at the position of and formed like a typical cockring. At my sweet spots I attached some transmitters for contact and energy transport. Then I let the energy flow and the vibes take over. It immediately became one of my most intense Aless sessions including some achingly forceful thrustings of my throbbing rock-hard member, some extreme squirming and writhing by letting go every of a lot of surprisingly crazy involuntaries accompanied by vocalizations that could have been used for the next Jurassic Parc episode.

What a joy!

So many thanks to @darkOrb for his initiating post.


“Cup or No Cup? It’s Your Choice!”

Slept in my PJs overnight without a cup. Yes, only in Day 3 now of SR. Several times, I was awakened following an NPT. Towards morning, however, I developed a very strong, no-turning-back urge to start ‘petting’ my scrotum and cock. Using my fingernails, I lightly and gently started stroking the soft, semi-crinkly skin on my scrotum, sometimes reaching under towards my perineum and sometimes reaching up towards the underside of my cock. And know what? I couldn’t stop! The feeling was sublime and although I didn’t want to ‘edge’ myself to an ejaculation, I somehow felt that if I continued doing this, I would. So what to do?

The Solution
I had to make a choice. Either continue with the scrotal stim and get close to the PONR and ejaculate, or stop. What did I do? I stopped! Knowing that the solution was at-hand, I reached for my Mueller ‘chastity cup’ and put-it-on. And immediately, I began stroking the curvy, sexy cup of plastic! I could not feel any of the previous sensations, but that didn’t mean that I didn’t feel anything. Let me explain….

The Trade-Off
Wearing a cup, then, obviously takes-away the temptation to masturbate completely. But in the process, it introduces a new sensation: stimulation from the cup. Since the cup provides some pressure all-around the groin and the male package, it has a unique, sexy feeling. And because the cup wraps-under the perineum, some pressure is put on that part of the male anatomy as well (including the prostate). This combination is (for guys that have never tried it) uniquely and specifically male-enhanced. It is somewhat strange and ironic that the absence of stimulation (from masturbation) can cause stimulation (from the cup). But not enough to elicit an ejaculation. That is the advantage (IMO) of wearing a cup! Touche’.

“It Just Feels Better With A Cup!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his continuing support of wearing cups in bed and during Aneros sessions]

Went to sleep wearing only PJs and didn’t even think about the NPTs that would be coming during the night. Sure enough, I awoke about 3 AM with an arousing erection and firm balls. I am currently in Day 8 of semen retention and I have felt that “boost” in T-level for sure! I am not ready to ejaculate yet. What to do?

I quickly decided to put-on my Mueller cup because of the way it feels. And once I did, that ‘comfortable’ feeling just got me thinking…

Forget Chastity
What I realized is that, throwing-out all I know about male chastity, putting-on that cup just felt better! Need more synonyms? How about improved, exceptional, superior, desirable, more useful? Take everything I have written about male chastity and just put-it-aside for now. Concentrate on the comfort and the relief that the cup provides. It just ‘feels better’!

Once back in bed and feeling more comfort from the cup, I began to think about other ways that guys feel ‘better’ while wearing their cups. And a few examples quickly came to mind….
• Baseball players wear their cups for sure to protect their ‘equipment’ from errant balls and field-play. No fan would question their choice of protection; the ‘bulge’ in their pants attests to their commitment.
• Some male police officers wear bulletproof cups (groin guards for females) particularly for SWAT teams. I don’t think anyone would deny a police officer’s choice to wear a bulletproof vest, so why not groin protection while on duty?
• Male and female wrestlers and kick-boxers routinely wear groin guards to protect their vital organs during matches. Fans would expect no less.
• Can you imagine an ice-hockey player not wearing a cup? I can’t either.

“An Easy Choice For Chastity”

I write often about male chastity. In particular, the use of an athletic jockstrap with a hard cup, what I like to refer to as a “chastity cup”. It is such a part of my daily “routine” that most nights, I either wear one throughout the night or only part of the night.

Why Chastity?
Wearing these cups assists me in many ways. For starters, they absolutely prevent masturbation with a resultant ejaculation! That is a major benefit with an arousing erection, especially since I have trouble keeping my hands to myself! By keeping my “zone” off-limits, I can’t pleasure myself.

I have tried a “cock cage” for a while; I have a genuine CB-6000S and wear it from time to time. But when compared to the cup, there is much more preparation for use and maintenance required. Aside from the possibility of having a “keyholder” (which I did not do), there is not much more that I can recommend the cage over the cup. Yes, it is probably easier to “hide” a cage out in public (which I’ve done) because wearing a cup can definitely cause a “bulge” which may be noticeable. Also, the cages (whether plastic or metal) are significantly more expensive than a cup.

Another advantage of wearing a “cup” is daily management. Putting-on a cup is as easy as putting on a pair of underwear. Hygiene is simple too: for me, usually a weekly washing is all that is required. With about six cups in rotation, they all stay quite fresh and clean throughout the week.

“Keeping It Out Of Reach!”

Yes, only in Day 3 of SR now but still experiencing wildly arousing erections during the night! Last night, I went to bed without wearing a cup; but in the middle of the night, I woke-up rock-hard and honestly felt like I needed to ejaculate! Not wanting this, I quickly decided to put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup which is quite confining and secure. I went back to bed. After a while, I began to experience that nice, gentle stimulation on my perineum and before long I developed a full-blown erection which seemed to get me closer to the PONR. I enjoyed that feeling for perhaps 15 or 20 minutes, then it began to subside.

Listening Session
After a while, I decided to retreat to my sofa and listen to some audio tracks. The one I selected was a gentle binaural for prostate issues; this was about an hour long and I listened to the entire track. It did seem to gently ‘massage’ my prostate with the sound and I could almost feel another erection starting to develop. But the stimulation was probably not that intense and so I did not experience another erection.