Long time listener, first time caller

So I’ve been a user for a long time, with mixed results. When I first started out, I hadn’t learned that brute force contractions did not lead one to the path of the SO or anything even near that. Instead, I’d basically wear my MGX or Helix and masturbate furiously while my ass enjoyed a little tickle. I then gave up, took a hot lover with a huge cock and let him work his magic on me instead. I hadn’t yet figured out that Aneros was a great complement to a sex life, not a replacement.

Fast forward to now. I’m older, hopefully wiser but still struggle with my journey. For a while it was HFWO because I was jerking around too much in ecstasy, then it was not being able to relax, then focusing too much, etc. Most recently I’ve taken up smoking pot and it’s had the best results yet with my Maximus as a guide. I’ve learned that a little pot, plus some focus on just riding the wave has really helped me reach a good place where I have some amazing waves of pleasure, dry Os, etc. Eupho has also been a good tool. I’ve learned to love my body, my ass, etc.

I guess what I’m getting at here is that it just takes a lot of patience and kindness to one’s self. As cliched as it sounds, it really is about the journey, not the destination.

“Changing Up The Session!”

I was ready for this morning’s session. Here’s how it happened….

I retired for the night only wearing my PJs. Yes, I know I am in Day 8 of SR but I really do feel like I could go farther. I awoke about 2 AM with a rather stiff erection. Rather than just grab and put-on a cup, I decided to “wait-it-out”. I just remained still in bed, probably for at least 30 minutes. After that, I rolled-over on my stomach and started to wonder: “Is this how a wet dream would occur?” I began to think about the possibility of having another erection while I was asleep and that may precipitate a wet dream? Intriguing possibility! But In the end, I decided to put-on my XO cup and just try to get back to sleep.

I awoke again, this time about 5 AM and just knew that I needed a session with the MGX Classic. I had not ridden it in a while and was anticipating the pleasure it could provide. So I lubed-up with SSG and got the stem in quite deeply; The MGX has the possibility of stimulating a HFWO and so, being in Day 8, I would not mind too much if I ended this session with an ejaculation. Since there is more ‘room’ in back of the Mueller cup (between the leg straps), I switched cups before the start of the session.

A-Less Awakening

Recently I have been having for me good sessions with both of my models. waves of pleasure with what i am now guessing where mini o’s if i had to label. The problem was when things really felt good i would let go and have a hfwo. after a couple sessions like this I was able to control the ejaculation but had to stop and re start. was still able to get back the mini o’s but was definitly still approaching ejaculation orgasm so i would control them. I felt I was making some progress because the sessions and mini o’s felt good and I was able to hold back on ejaculation but was a little dissapointed that the ejaculation response was still running the show. i decided to try some quick a-less sessions recently due to lack of time for prep clean up and privacy issues. Surprisingly they where great, was able to achieve the same results as with the Aneros. Decided to let go on the first time because it was feeling so good and once again hfwo. tried a few more times and was able to have nice short sessions and control the ejaculation but never really let go. Then today happened, Decided to sneak in a a-less session my arousal was high and wanted to give it a go. Things felt different this time I was building to what before was what I am calling a mini o but it went to the next level with no urge to ejaculate. The feelings in my penis where incredible and it was as plump and hard as it could be I would look down and could not believe what was happening. I had no focus on my penis it was just feeling amazing and was as hard as a rock, with every little contraction I thought the head was going to pop off and no urge to ejaculate. at the same time I had a tremendous warm feeling in my whole groin, and pelvic area. I was having orgasmic contractions but not ejaculatory contractions. i was soaking it in and waiting for it to end in a ejaculation, but it just kept going on penis bulging testicles tingling and hanging loose, legs trembling a little now and then, an occasional spastic jerk from the lower abdomen area. I would snap out of it and look around to see what was going on and want more so I just relaxed and it started over again and again. It never really stopped but i could make it more intense by just riding with it. Never even had the urge to ejaculate but i thought for sure I was going to. It finally subsided I think because my body needed a break and I just layed there thinking wow what just happened. Definitly a place I have never been before and look forward to getting back to again soon.
Its hard to stop thinking about it I feel a whole new sensual energy coursing through my body and if I just think about it can almost bring it back. Wow another chapter but a really good one.

Year Nine Milestones, Plateaus and Pinacles

The MMO journey I have been on started in 2005. Along the way there have been so many milestones and experiences, they would be impossible to remember if it were not for the fact that I recorded them in an on line journal I began in 2011. Each milestone or event has been a building block that created a foundation for the sexual rapture I routinely experience now. The building and learning process was precipitous those first few years. Because I was learning and experiencing so much there were literally hundreds of sensations, techniques and changes in my sexual response in the first 9 years. Some of these I have shared here in this forum, but I am sure that if I were to try to relate them all it would be impossible.

However, year nine was special. I reached a plateau or a pinnacle in my 9th year in 2013. It was a watershed year that solidified MMO and anal pleasure in my sex life. There were several skills – achievements that I will relate here in this entry; there were also some major event – milestones that deserve detailed descriptions. I will focus this entry on the skills and achievements and the next several entries on the numerous remarkable sexual events of 2013.

“And The Train Keeps Rolling Along!….”

Currently in Day 8 of semen retention. I believe it has been about 2 weeks since I had a session. They say that “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. In my case, Aneros absence makes for a ******* good session! Let me explain…..

Semen Retention and Aneros
I’m not quite sure why but so far in Day 8 I have no “blue-balls”. Could my absence from prostate stimulation during that time have made the difference? I don’t know but I’ll take it and stay-on the train! How far can I go? Time (and feelings) will tell.

Aneros Sessions
I had two back-to-back sessions in Day 7 and Day 8. Day 7 was with Eupho Classic and was outstanding! Lots of movement, lots of O’s, lots of precum and a HFWO feeling on top of everything! The only downside was that it was too short a session (perhaps 30 minutes). This session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a 9+!

I decided to “chase” this session in Day 8 with another one, this time with the Helix Trident. The anticipation was, I suppose, just too great and this session was rather lackluster. Sure, the Helix nudged my prostate but I just didn’t feel anything more than a little shiver. Not even a drop of precum. This 30-minute session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a generous 2. Oh well, better luck next time!

“Day 9 and Rolling!”

[Thanks to @darkbond for the inspiration and positive success!]

I reached Day 6 of SR and began to think: will I need to ejaculate soon due to blue-balls? I read a post from @darkbond recently giving a “Cool Draw” breathing technique for control of blue balls. I was a little skeptical at first, but decided to give it a try.

Well, three days later I am now at Day 9 with absolutely no hint of blue-balls! I have been performing the “Cool Draw” technique every day and it seems to be keeping the blue-balls at bay! I hope that it will continue to work.


Here is some additional information I got from Reddit on this subject:

“A Technique for Aiding Unwanted Erections, Blue Balls and Wet Dreams”

“I have mentioned this before, I hope some find this useful.

Upon pressure in testicles (blue balls) or unwanted erections, perform technique right away. For wet dream prevention, perform everyday before bed.

Sit down and sit up straight, spine straight, do not lie down. Suck in your gut as hard as you can while simultaneously breathing out. Suck in abs, exhale, do this forcefully. Let go and inhale, relax abdomen and then repeat, suck in abdomen and exhale forcefully. Hold the hollow position of sucking in the gut and hold the breath exhaled for as long as you can in between cycles. Visualize energy going from below the waist, to up higher in the spine.

Breakthrough and realization

I had my best session to date this morning and it just happened to be A-less. My wife left for work and I was getting ready to take a shower, I got undressed and decided to just lay down on the bed for a little bit and see if I could just relax and make myself feel good. I laid on my back knees up cocked flopped forward and down and just relaxed for a couple minutes, It felt good to just not think about anything and relax, i started some nipple stimulation and was suprised at the response my body gave me. I started to feel warm sensations in my groin and my prostate twitched a couple times very gently. My cock started to get hard on its own like i was 16 again. I continued to play with my nipples and relax into the feelings, I was moaning and breathing heavy, heart was racing and occasionally a quick sudden spasm would go through my body. This went on for several minutes and the feelings where getting more and more pleasurable. I was making noises and moaning and moving around still breathing heavy. I started thinking something is happening here I never make noises like this and shake with pleasure this much even during traditional orgasm. This went on for at least 5 minutes and then calmed down. I just laid there for a minute to see what would happen, everything just wound down. i did not want to try and start over again so I got up to get my shower. My heart was still pumping faster then normal I felt flushed and relaxed but not drained. I believe i was orgasming like I have never before and did not realize what was happening. It had to be some form of orgasm I was involuntarily making noises and moving around cock was three quarters hard and felt great with no stimulation. recently I have been having hfwo’s with my Aneros in at the end of sessions. i think i was getting clost to dry o’s but the switch would go off to more traditional ejaculation response. Not this time however, not even the slightest feeling of build up to ejaculation just mild pleasure throughout with an occasional heavy contraction or spasm. I realized all these other times I have been expecting some type of Orgasm that resembled a traditional orgasm and have been dissapointed when It did not happen. I would then tense up gyrate around and force myself to have a hfwo. Not this time however and no aneros involved. Not sure what it was but it felt very good. Had great plans of trying again later with the Aneros to see if I could duplicate the experiance. Well that did not work, got interupted by the phone, then my dog and could not get anything going. I hope that was not my one and only something O. i am just going to keep moving forward on this journey it has been starting to get very interesting and pleasurable lately.

An Interesting “Virtual” Edging Session

Yesterday, I had a few hours to myself in the house. I was only at Day 4 of SR so the possibility of an ejaculation was remote. Nevertheless, I decided to try my hand at ‘edgemeplease.com’. I selected a “long” session with a ‘cum choice’ to be selected by the program. I started the program…..

“Virtual” Session
I started watching the screens. Green for edge, Red for stop! So simple! I watched and watched…..But I did not touch!


Yes, this was a long edging session, perhaps 25 minutes total. What I noticed while watching was most unusual. I began to feel a “stirring” deep down in my groin with every “Green” screen! It was almost as if I were actually edging my cock! There seemed to be an internal “switch” in my brain that released a ‘nearer-to-cum’ attitude with every “Green” screen. Similarly, every “Red” screen seemed to stop the virtual stroking. And when the end of the session came, the screen changed to a bright Green “Cum” screen! Oh, how I wish this were reality!

Implication to Aneros
After this “virtual” session was over, it seemed that I was quite “prostate-horny”. I had about another hour alone. So I decided on a “real” Aneros session, this time with the Eupho Classic.

“HFO, HFWO, and now HFSS?”

I know what HFO is (Hands-Free Orgasm). I know what HFWO is (Hands-Free Wet Orgasm). But what is HFSS? Let me explain……

I will call HFSS Hands-Free Sexual Stimulation. I say this because this is what I thought of while wearing my XO “chastity cup” early this morning. I am stimulated by the hard groin cup in such a way that it provides a nice, all-around pressure on my groin and especially my perineum. And the best part of all is that it is entirely……hands-free!

Why is it important?
While in male chastity (such as wearing a cock cage) the guy cannot touch his cock by design. And while wearing a chastity cup, he cannot touch his cock or anything else for that matter. Such is the nature and design of the cup. But devices such as cock cages and chastity cups (and even jockstraps) induce sexual stimulation just by wearing them. Thus it is that when I wear a chastity cup, and achieve an erection within it (through a NPT night-time erection or otherwise) that I become more sexually aroused just by wearing it. My hands never come close to my cock, but yet, I am being greatly aroused sexually. Fascinating! It is like lying in bed with a lover and being actively aroused by a pair of loving hands that are not your own. So sweet, so gentle, so sexy! Like an edging or masturbation session but without an ejaculation!

“There When I Need It The Most”

What is “it”? And where was “it” when it was needed? Of course, I am referring to my “chastity cup” which I wore to bed last night. It was my Mueller Flex Cup, one of my favorites. I am now in Day 6 of semen retention and feeling the effects of increased testosterone. One thing about wearing a cup to bed is the interaction of my erections within the cup: the top of the cup rubs nicely against my erect penis and especially the frenulum; this action almost keeps the erection going for much longer than normal, when, without stimulation, the erection would begin to subside. With stimulation from the cup, an erection can last 30 minutes or longer. And because when I wear a cup all night, I can have an almost constant “stream” of stimulating erections (NPTs that all normal males must experience) when I am aware of them.

Of course, all these erections make me very horny. In fact, without the protection of the cup, by Day 6, I would be so horny that I would need to ejaculate. Since I usually develop blue-balls any day after Day 6, the pressure is mounting for me to ejaculate!