Long Journey

I started this adventure in 2008 Did not go well for me first five years and threw 2 devices away, However i kept getting called back. I think it is official that the last three years have been worth the wait. The last 6 months have been my most rewarding. I now have the time and the patience to relax and enjoy and have learned so many things along the way good and bad. My typical session now is 45 mins to a hour, i can have up to 3 pleasurable events during that time. mini o’s, o’s, maybe super o’s not sure how to label but i have learned it does not matter it all feels good. i can end every session with a very pleasurable HFWO if i want to and usually do about every two weeks. I have not had to touch my cock to come in months but i did the other day just for old times sake. Still felt good by the way. I am also now having great success with a-less sessions wich are great if you have limited time or privacy issues. Today i was feeling the urge but had to leave in about 30 mins. i had to get changed to go out so i decided to lay on the bed naked and give it a try. the room was warm but the ac was on and the ceiling fan was blowing just right stimulating my skin and genital area. I have developed good nipple stimulation techniques and with in minutes the pleasure was building. today was a little different though i was having very quick but strong uncontrollable contractions or twitches like a orgasmic contraction but only one at a time and spaced out every ten seconds or so. My cock got very hard but I did not feel like i was going to cum. The spasms kept happening short and quick hard to explain. I new I was short on time so I think that was in the back of my mind. had to stop but I have to say was probably one of the most unusual and enjoyable sessions to date. No tsure if I was on to something that could have been even more amazing if I had had the time to continue, but I guess that is what will get me back the next time. This is definitly a mind set and once you can realize that and enjoy whats happening it all seems easy. so glad I had the desire to keep at it for so long, I think the best is yet to Cum.

Separating orgasm from ejaculation

Recently I’ve been focusing more on the do nothing and meditate approach. I’m had moderate success, involuntarily contractions and twitch when lightly tending my PC muscles. During this I’m aroused, relaxed and soft. Eventually I’m out of time and/or bored and I lightly touch my dick till it’s half erect (I know, I know, don’t do it, but hey I just put 90 minutes in, I need some release). Then working my PC I can eventually orgasm and it’s usually accompanied by a HFWO. Recently I’ve been noticing that orgasm and ejaculation seem to be be slightly seperate. The most recent thins was pronounced, I felt orgasm and spasms hit for 2-3 seconds and then felt the wave of ejaculation come (pun intended). I think I read about how being multi orgasmic can arise from separating the two events, any tips on further separating them or what’s going on?

Is this progress to the Super-O?

So I inserted my Aneros, and I followed these instructions here for the first time:

https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/9641-the-truth-behind-how-to-rewire

15-20 mins in I started dripping pre-cum. Then my dick got rock solid and it moved back and forth with the Aneros. I have been down this path before. Where I get too excited I think, or too fast according to the thread above and I have a HFWO (Hands Free Wet Orgasm).

I slowed down and went through the steps again, dick got more flaccid. Then I started to experience something I haven’t before yet. My whole body started to shake uncontrollably, I could feel warmth in my abdomen area and I think my prostate was pulsing. This lasted for a while but I didn’t get past this point. Then it happened again shorty after.

I had to wrap up the session cause I had other things to attend to, so I took out the Aneros and just masturbated my load out. I didn’t want my brain to associate that with my prostate so I took out the Aneros. Not sure if I should of ended in masturbation or not.

Is this progress?

HFWO Question

HFWO (Hands Free Wet Orgasm) for those that don’t know the acronym.

I have the MGX Trident model. I’ve felt some p-waves here and there, but it always ends in a HFWO with a rock hard dick. I don’t touch my dick at all when I have a solo session, and the end result always seems to be this.

My question is will a different aneros model do me any good as in different results super-o, etc?

I think I want to try the new Helix Syn Trident, but afraid of the same results.

“It’s All For Prostate Health!”

[This blog was inspired by @Lth0ms0n, thanks!]

Introduction
I had read an interesting question on the Forum from @Lth0ms0n this morning, having to do with involuntaries. What are they? And that got me interested and intrigued. So the next thing I know, I am prepping for a ‘therapeutic’ session with the HIH 950. Here are the details……

Session
I am currently in Day 9 of SR with no hint of blue balls (yet). I am also into Day 49 of NoFap ®. I’ve only had an occasional ejaculation, about every 10 days to control my blue balls. Other than that, no masturbation for me, period. And no porn, ever again. But I still need to keep my prostate healthy. So this morning, I got ready for a nice session with the 950. I was already wearing my Mueller cup to prevent an unintentional ejaculation; it worked. I lubed-up with SSG not only the massager but my opening as well (it made a big difference!)

I started-out on my side. Before too long, while just relaxing and performing the ‘do-nothing’ technique, I began to feel a ‘twitch’ deep-down in my prostate. No, it did not feel like a fatigued-muscle spasm since I had just started the session. But it was something I just could not control. Around the same time, I remember, I had this erection develop as well as an uncontrollable whole-body ‘shudder’, almost like a jolt of electricity running all through me. Let’s not mince words here; these actions were ENTIRELY out of my control! And that IMHO is the essence of involuntaries—-by definition*, you do NOT CONTROL them! Just as you are ‘forced’ to excrete waste by involuntary muscular contractions in your colon, you are likewise ‘forced’ to experience the nuanced ‘pleasures’ of a prostate massage.

Long time listener, first time caller

So I’ve been a user for a long time, with mixed results. When I first started out, I hadn’t learned that brute force contractions did not lead one to the path of the SO or anything even near that. Instead, I’d basically wear my MGX or Helix and masturbate furiously while my ass enjoyed a little tickle. I then gave up, took a hot lover with a huge cock and let him work his magic on me instead. I hadn’t yet figured out that Aneros was a great complement to a sex life, not a replacement.

Fast forward to now. I’m older, hopefully wiser but still struggle with my journey. For a while it was HFWO because I was jerking around too much in ecstasy, then it was not being able to relax, then focusing too much, etc. Most recently I’ve taken up smoking pot and it’s had the best results yet with my Maximus as a guide. I’ve learned that a little pot, plus some focus on just riding the wave has really helped me reach a good place where I have some amazing waves of pleasure, dry Os, etc. Eupho has also been a good tool. I’ve learned to love my body, my ass, etc.

I guess what I’m getting at here is that it just takes a lot of patience and kindness to one’s self. As cliched as it sounds, it really is about the journey, not the destination.

“Changing Up The Session!”

Introduction
I was ready for this morning’s session. Here’s how it happened….

Pre-Session
I retired for the night only wearing my PJs. Yes, I know I am in Day 8 of SR but I really do feel like I could go farther. I awoke about 2 AM with a rather stiff erection. Rather than just grab and put-on a cup, I decided to “wait-it-out”. I just remained still in bed, probably for at least 30 minutes. After that, I rolled-over on my stomach and started to wonder: “Is this how a wet dream would occur?” I began to think about the possibility of having another erection while I was asleep and that may precipitate a wet dream? Intriguing possibility! But In the end, I decided to put-on my XO cup and just try to get back to sleep.

Session
I awoke again, this time about 5 AM and just knew that I needed a session with the MGX Classic. I had not ridden it in a while and was anticipating the pleasure it could provide. So I lubed-up with SSG and got the stem in quite deeply; The MGX has the possibility of stimulating a HFWO and so, being in Day 8, I would not mind too much if I ended this session with an ejaculation. Since there is more ‘room’ in back of the Mueller cup (between the leg straps), I switched cups before the start of the session.

A-Less Awakening

Recently I have been having for me good sessions with both of my models. waves of pleasure with what i am now guessing where mini o’s if i had to label. The problem was when things really felt good i would let go and have a hfwo. after a couple sessions like this I was able to control the ejaculation but had to stop and re start. was still able to get back the mini o’s but was definitly still approaching ejaculation orgasm so i would control them. I felt I was making some progress because the sessions and mini o’s felt good and I was able to hold back on ejaculation but was a little dissapointed that the ejaculation response was still running the show. i decided to try some quick a-less sessions recently due to lack of time for prep clean up and privacy issues. Surprisingly they where great, was able to achieve the same results as with the Aneros. Decided to let go on the first time because it was feeling so good and once again hfwo. tried a few more times and was able to have nice short sessions and control the ejaculation but never really let go. Then today happened, Decided to sneak in a a-less session my arousal was high and wanted to give it a go. Things felt different this time I was building to what before was what I am calling a mini o but it went to the next level with no urge to ejaculate. The feelings in my penis where incredible and it was as plump and hard as it could be I would look down and could not believe what was happening. I had no focus on my penis it was just feeling amazing and was as hard as a rock, with every little contraction I thought the head was going to pop off and no urge to ejaculate. at the same time I had a tremendous warm feeling in my whole groin, and pelvic area. I was having orgasmic contractions but not ejaculatory contractions. i was soaking it in and waiting for it to end in a ejaculation, but it just kept going on penis bulging testicles tingling and hanging loose, legs trembling a little now and then, an occasional spastic jerk from the lower abdomen area. I would snap out of it and look around to see what was going on and want more so I just relaxed and it started over again and again. It never really stopped but i could make it more intense by just riding with it. Never even had the urge to ejaculate but i thought for sure I was going to. It finally subsided I think because my body needed a break and I just layed there thinking wow what just happened. Definitly a place I have never been before and look forward to getting back to again soon.
Its hard to stop thinking about it I feel a whole new sensual energy coursing through my body and if I just think about it can almost bring it back. Wow another chapter but a really good one.

Year Nine Milestones, Plateaus and Pinacles

The MMO journey I have been on started in 2005. Along the way there have been so many milestones and experiences, they would be impossible to remember if it were not for the fact that I recorded them in an on line journal I began in 2011. Each milestone or event has been a building block that created a foundation for the sexual rapture I routinely experience now. The building and learning process was precipitous those first few years. Because I was learning and experiencing so much there were literally hundreds of sensations, techniques and changes in my sexual response in the first 9 years. Some of these I have shared here in this forum, but I am sure that if I were to try to relate them all it would be impossible.

However, year nine was special. I reached a plateau or a pinnacle in my 9th year in 2013. It was a watershed year that solidified MMO and anal pleasure in my sex life. There were several skills – achievements that I will relate here in this entry; there were also some major event – milestones that deserve detailed descriptions. I will focus this entry on the skills and achievements and the next several entries on the numerous remarkable sexual events of 2013.

“And The Train Keeps Rolling Along!….”

Introduction
Currently in Day 8 of semen retention. I believe it has been about 2 weeks since I had a session. They say that “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. In my case, Aneros absence makes for a ******* good session! Let me explain…..

Semen Retention and Aneros
I’m not quite sure why but so far in Day 8 I have no “blue-balls”. Could my absence from prostate stimulation during that time have made the difference? I don’t know but I’ll take it and stay-on the train! How far can I go? Time (and feelings) will tell.

Aneros Sessions
I had two back-to-back sessions in Day 7 and Day 8. Day 7 was with Eupho Classic and was outstanding! Lots of movement, lots of O’s, lots of precum and a HFWO feeling on top of everything! The only downside was that it was too short a session (perhaps 30 minutes). This session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a 9+!

I decided to “chase” this session in Day 8 with another one, this time with the Helix Trident. The anticipation was, I suppose, just too great and this session was rather lackluster. Sure, the Helix nudged my prostate but I just didn’t feel anything more than a little shiver. Not even a drop of precum. This 30-minute session (on a scale of 1 to 10) was probably a generous 2. Oh well, better luck next time!