Long time listener, first time caller

So I’ve been a user for a long time, with mixed results. When I first started out, I hadn’t learned that brute force contractions did not lead one to the path of the SO or anything even near that. Instead, I’d basically wear my MGX or Helix and masturbate furiously while my ass enjoyed a little tickle. I then gave up, took a hot lover with a huge cock and let him work his magic on me instead. I hadn’t yet figured out that Aneros was a great complement to a sex life, not a replacement.

Fast forward to now. I’m older, hopefully wiser but still struggle with my journey. For a while it was HFWO because I was jerking around too much in ecstasy, then it was not being able to relax, then focusing too much, etc. Most recently I’ve taken up smoking pot and it’s had the best results yet with my Maximus as a guide. I’ve learned that a little pot, plus some focus on just riding the wave has really helped me reach a good place where I have some amazing waves of pleasure, dry Os, etc. Eupho has also been a good tool. I’ve learned to love my body, my ass, etc.

I guess what I’m getting at here is that it just takes a lot of patience and kindness to one’s self. As cliched as it sounds, it really is about the journey, not the destination.

Musings and Tempo

Over the last 5 weeks away, I’ve been travelling overseas and, during that time, along the Aneros road, learning about my different friends, Helix, Maximus and MGX. Eupho got to hold the fort at home.

It’s been a mind blowing road so far and although I dabled with Tantra, some 30 years ago, I would have liked to have discovered the Aneros ‘training wheels’, which have rewired me in an amazing way.

Seeing my wife for the first time in 5 weeks, our sex was pretty magical. I reaquainted myself with the Eupho while she was out in the morning and I found new pleasures within minutes, which set me up with that familiar buzz all day long. I had bought my wife a new Lelo wand, so in the afternoon we got to try that out. Apart from the fun that generated, I also found that my orgasms were more intense and I was able to last longer before ejaculation. In addition, I had a beautiful dry-O with my wife lightly tonguing my frenulum. What was most apparent was that the ability to relax into the sensations made the feelings far more intense and I could understand that the mental connection with my wife is a major factor in feeling. Before, it was always more physical.

Local store only carries 3 models, which one to choose for a beginner?

I’m planning to buy from a local store but according to their website ([https://www.goodvibes.com/s/](https://www.goodvibes.com/s/)) they only carry:

Eupho Syn

Eupho Trident

Maximus Trident

I originally wanted a Helix Syn and I’ll still see if they have one in store. If these three are my only options, which would you recommend? I’ve heard mixed things about the Eupho line being harder than the Helix for beginners (but the Helix might not be an option for me).

Thanks for the input!

Unable to get Involuntary contractions with toy?

I got my Aneros Classic back in August, and have tried the Peridise as well as Trident Maximus since then, and with any of the three toys, I have tried Relaxing and doing nothing, Light constant contractions, medium constant contractions, and heavy constant contractions, as well as contracting for a few minutes then relaxing, but using any of these, I get no involuntary contractions.

Recently I have been getting something that I think might be similar to them however, but they never occur when a toy is in, they occur when I am trying to go to sleep, and are like a twitching/vibrating of the anus.

Is there anything I can try to get these contractions to happen with a toy?

Arrival of the Trident Eupho and Maximus

As the postman was kind enough to deliver the new Eupho and Maximus, it would have been rude of me not to try them immediately. I didn’t have much time, but wanted to get a feel for how each behaved.

I opted for the Eupho first. Much slimmer than the Helix and a slightly different angle. I popped it in and lay down on the sofa and just started reading some news. Well wow!!! After about a minute, I suddenly felt some involuntary spasms, jerking my hips off the sofa.

It seemed that this little device was like inserting a pencil into a pencil sharpener, it fit right in the spot and touched the absolute core of where it was intended to go. The sensations were so very focused right in the centre of my prostate. Just lying still, it felt like the tip of the Eupho was making 1mm circles round the centre of my being at 100mph.

Due to my morning ministrations, I wasn’t expecting much, but the timer for my lunch in the oven went off, so I set up a couple of dining room chairs and sat with one leg on each chair and my backside hanging in the gap. That was pretty amazing, as the Eupho has more travel in and out than the Helix, so I felt it much more in my anus that the Helix and when it spasmed, I felt like I was being piston fucked and this went on through involuntary contractions for about 5 minutes. I had to go out, so brought myself to ejaculation a short while later

The beast awakened and unleashed

I went to bed last night at 9:30, as I needed to get up at 4:30. Having had an amazing 2.5 hour Aless session from 4am yesterday morning, followed by a 2 hour session with the Helix, culminating in a Super T, my prostate was humming all day.

Lying in bed, it only took 15 minutes of aless, just focusing on tiny motions pulling in my TA muscles, before I was swooning in whole body warmth, with what I assume were Dry-Os. From quarter past midnight, I was drifting between sleep and awake, feeling the contractions of my abdomen, PC and anal muscles taking me through the most seductive of pleasures. Although I did not experience any orgasm after the early ones, I got plenty of involuntaries, where the Helix was sucked in so deep, it felt like it wanted to come out the other side.

I tried to focus on the energy ball suggested by @SOwithoutAneros, which had the effect of helping me relax my muscles rather than tensing up.

After getting back from the gym this morning at 7am, the Helix went straight in and I spent the next 90 minutes, feeling a myriad of sensations. I definitely felt the small pulsing of blood in the anal muscle and the resultant tiny movements across my prostate.

Shaking in the Calm

I was thinking after my T.O. on Friday morning that I might be out of commission for a while. SO I thought I would use the downtime to do lots of reading and research. As an added bonus, A neighbour who I had done some work for, gave me some cash so I was able to buy some more tools for my toolbox. I had been torn between a Trident Maximus and a Trident MGX. I had thought about the Trident Eupho, but my reading had shown it to be for more advanced users. With this added cash in hand, I decided to do some shopping. I found a site, Global Sex Toys, selling the Maximus, MGX and Eupho for 70 bucks minus a whopping 25% first time customer discount. This should be lots of fun; I won’t know which one to try first!
By Friday night, I was feeling randy again, even though I’d had a T.O. in the morning. I stuck with the Helix and shortly after I started, I was enjoying the usual dancing routine. I had been reading Rumel’s post in the archives (Instructions-Older Version). I realized that to really start reaching new levels, I had to try and simmer down the shaking and improve my breathing. I grasped that reducing or eliminating the shaking would allow me a better chance to feel whatever came from the prostate and other areas. The Helix is so much more subtle that I felt that gentler shaking would be easier. So when the shaking starting, I eased the contraction slightly and let my head loll back a little. Per Rumel’s advice, I started stretching my legs back, very, very slowly, so as to not break the wave of feelings.
With the shaking reduced to a bare discernible vibration deep in my lower core, I focused on the feelings from my prostate (a kind of humming), the gentle tapping on my perineum from the p-tab, and the movement of my sphincter muscles as they helped the Helix pop in and out. With the realization of those feelings, came the waves, heavy and warm with promise and pleasure. My head stayed back and my legs stayed straight, my feet pointing straight down. My upper body began very slowly to move downward and then sideways, in a writhing motion. Swinging forward then back, off to one side and then another. I didn’t get spots this time, but it felt like the room was streaming with bright light beyond my closed eyes. Depending on how I held the contraction, I could reduce or increase the inner vibrations. For a very long time, I did nothing but writhe very very slowly on the spot. I heard nothing and saw nothing but the bright light sensation. When I came back, I hazarded a quick glance at the clock and saw that 5 minutes had passed by.
With a light contraction, I started back in and had the same experience, over and over for a prolonged duration each time. When I finally came back to earth after the fifth time, I took a break. My heart rate hadn’t really gone up, I never, to my knowledge, achieved an erection. But I was warm and glowing with a very light sheen of sweat on my body. I saw that an hour had gone by now, and I took a break. When I came back to bed, I was able to recreate the experience on my other side as well as on my stomach. And when I removed the Helix, I was able to get almost to that same point, but by now, I was more than good with my trip.
And I was only awakened twice after I drifted off for a couple of really good Dry-O’s.
The journey continues and I welcome all the steps, big or small!

Dressing up my cock in cellophane (Day 5) : Super hot Aneros session II, Wednesday February 6

Hi guys,

I just love dressing up my cock in cellophane for the sheer adventure of it. So does my penis and my scrotum. Today I dressed up my cock in cellophane and stuff my package along with my ball sack into my Jockey H pouch briefs pretty much the whole day until early nightfall when I dressed up afresh in cellophane and stuffed in my BIKE CUP jocks before donning sweats for my night in bed tonight.

This morning just before sunrise I had another hot Aneros session again with my trusty MGX, Progasm Junior, Maximus, and Progasm Black Ice which lasted for an hour. My dressed up cock and my BIKE CUP jock launched me into a very fine session. However I pay close attention to the massage action of my four Aneros models that the massage action does not get out of hand.

I came from my Aneros session invigorated, enjoying thoroughly my Aless today along with my nipple diddling and Kegels. Take care.

Dressing up my cock in cellophane (Day 3) : Super hot Aneros session, Monday February 4

Hi guys,

Yesterday afternoon Sunday near sunset, I changed from my casual clothing into sweats which I wear to bed most winter nights. I also dressed up my cock using a good eight cellophane “sleeves” for a nice snug feeling in my cup jock pouch. Then I went to bed where I did a fair amount of nipple diddling and Kegeling all night long. I slept like a baby though and then woke up fairly refreshed from an Aneros session which I had for an hour around sunrise.

I used successively the following models: MGX, Progasm Junior, Maximus, and Progasm Black ICE. The session was a very hot session, in fact stellar.

What impressed me about this morning’s session was that I did hardly nothing, but rather lay back and just let each Aneros model plow my anal canal and massage my prostate rather forcefully. It left me with a rather lively Aless during which each model was working away. It is now 4:30 p.m. in the late afternoon approaching sunset as I type this. I enjoy engaging my active Aless by intermittent Kegels which produce lots of pleasure.

Later on tonight before I go to bed, I am hankering to dress my cock up with cellophane before stuffing my cock and balls in my BIKE jock and cup. Take care!

Update at 9 p.m. Just dressed up my cock in cellophane and placed my enshrouded manhood in my jock cup pouch in my sweats. Feels real good too! Approaching my bedtime. Feels nice and cozy down there! 🙂

Dressing up my cock up in cellophane ; Aneros session for Saturday February 2

Hi guys,

A couple days ago I made major discovery in how to improve upon my Aneros sessions, Aless, and also my engagement with the Kegels and diddling my nipples. Dress up my cock in cellophane.

Let me explain. For the last couple years or so, I would purchase muffins from the grocery that would come in cellophane containers. I began collecting these containers to the point that I have two bags of the them now. They come in handy for containing cum soaked napkins for disposal after my now infrequent bate sessions.

A couple days ago I discovered another use for them. I dress my cock in one, then another, then another one or two of them. They fit my cock perfectly. My cock in this configuration looks like a penis dressed in a condom ready for sexual intercourse. My dressed cock certainly looks erotic. Then I stuff my cock in the up position in my favorite jock and cup. This has enhanced much more the absolute sweetness and power of my diddling and Kegeling sessions whether at night in bed or in the daytime.

I haven’t worn my cock using condoms yet. But I may soon. You could dress up your dick in this fashion using also an ordinary jockstrap or a pouch brief. I think non-lubricated condoms will do fine.