Tag: HFWO

Aneros only?

Hey all, 28M. I’ve been into prostate play for a while with some success, however, I’m still working on finally getting a HFDO. Aneros has been my toys of choice. I have a bunch of them.

In the past, I was always watching porn and wasn’t ever able to finish a session unless I ejaculated. I finally figured out how to have a HFWO by getting onto all 4s and humping a pillow but I realized that it wasn’t where I wanted to be.

I decided to quit porn, it’s been about a month. Overall I feel better. Less brain fog for sure. However I haven’t stopped jerking off. Which I’m thinking might be part of the problem that’s holding me back.

My question is has anyone been able to make progress by giving up jerking off completely and just using Aneros? I’d love to hear some feedback and hopefully learn something that can help me have better sessions.

Always HFWO, no Pgasm?

Every session I have ends in orgasmic release, but I’m not sure it’s a prostate orgasm? I focus, relax, and with build up comes a HFWO. My helix syn trident always hits that little button enough for me to get a wet orgasm. I don’t believe I’ve ever had a dry orgasm, without ejaculation. It feels wonderful but I wouldn’t say it’s “rolling pleasure” or constant orgasms like some have offered in this sub. Any recommendations or am I thinking about the prostate orgasm wrong?

Question about progress

28M here been using Aneros for years now. Feel like I’m making some progress but not sure if it’s going in the right direction.

I usually start off on my back with legs relaxed until I feel pleasure building which is usually accompanied by getting really hard. Then I turn over and end up on all fours and do hip rocking with contractions.

It feels amazing and I’m able to have a HFWO but I only want a HFDO. I have tried stopping right before the HFWO hits and it feels great the first few times but then all sensations go away.

What should I be doing differently?

Finally achieved P-Waves

I decided to do an impromptu session tonight and although my preparations were hasty, it’s my most successful one so far.

I had tried the “do nothing” method a few times before and it really didn’t do anything apart from a few nice sensations sometimes.

I gave it another try, this time laying on my front instead of my back in exactly the same posture I use to sleep and closed my eyes.

After about 15 minutes of getting used to the feeling and just breathing normally I started getting tingles in the area near my prostate. These would last for maybe 30 seconds before going away and coming back.

However, after another 10 minutes the tingles came back and enveloped my whole body and it was honestly one of the best feelings ever, as if I had melted into nothing. This feeling continued for about a minute or so before going away.

For the rest of the session I had other similar feelings but none that enveloped my whole body so I decided to end it by manually having a HFWO, which I rarely achieve usually but came very easily this time.

I have never felt this drained yet satisfied after a session , I probably won’t have horny thoughts for the next few days.

Sorry for bad english, it’s not my first language.

I am getting there…

It‘s been some wild 2 -3 weeks and today is probably the most intense and craziest day so far…

I‘m a single 49 y/o straight male who is used to watching porn and wanking off, almost on a daily basis.

It even went so far that I‘ve developed a temporary ED, simply because of numbing my natural senses and overloading my mind and body with way too many stimuli.

My porn kinks got stronger and more bizarre and I literally spent more time searching for the hottest flics than enjoying my wanks.

Last month I‘ve made a decision to get rid of all the old blocking and harmful behavior and to kind of „restart“ myself in several ways.

I‘ve always been open to anal play, prostate play and other stuff but all the dildos that I have bought over the years just did not do it for me and probably only have supported my fantasy as I wanted to get pegged by my gf – if I had one lol.

Well, somehow I stumbled across this subreddit and found „Mindgasm“ which definitely was a huge eye-opener. Right from the beginning I could „roll“ my PC muscles and leaked a lot. On the third day, I had the first longer P-waves – still veeeery low level of course.

Then I read about the Aneros and ordered Progasm, Progasm Jr. and the Helix Syn because I‘ve been horny as hell and wanted way too much, way too fast. A huuuuuge mistake! Read more »

HFWO to HFDO?

Hi mates! I’ve been trying to reach the super O or HFDOs with the Aneros, however I am only able to reach wet orgasms with refractory periods, how can I change this? Am I doing something wrong?

Thank you all!

First HFDO!

Following on from previous posts about pwaves always ending in HFWO, I experienced my first definite HFDO! Thanks to all of your helpful advice received.

My main point would be that it occurred in a session 2 days after ejaculating through sex. I only usually use my aneros if I’ve not cum for about a week and feel particularly horny. So I’m the urge to squirt cum wasn’t there, and neither was any expectation of orgasm. I had some free time to myself so thought I’d have a play. I was relaxed and quite early on started experiencing pleasurable pwaves. I wasn’t thinking about cumming, just going with the flow. Then (I think) my 4th pwave didn’t subside as usual, it just kept building and building. I was literally losing my mind with the pleasure, lost the sense of where I was, what I was doing and was shaking, writhing around, grabbing bedsheets and growling! And then just a release, lying still and panting heavily wondering what has just happened. I then realised I hadn’t been thinking about my dick at all and felt no need to cum by ejaculation. After a minute or so I started another pwave, less intense this time and I ended the session.

I’ve had a couple of pleasurable sessions since, no HFDO or urge to HFWO, just pwaves which – as someone posted before, to me feel like the start of a HFDO but without the duration or intensity. I need to keep in mind not to chase and go with the flow and hopefully more HFDOs will follow 😃

Using an aneros for multiple wet orgasms, what did I stumble on?

I have been playing around with multiple aneros models for a couple of years now. I have enjoyable sessions and can get involuntaries but never had a hfdo or hfwo or supero. I try my best to not stimulate my penis but eventually I lose arousal if I don’t. Most of the time I end up finishing off with masturbating when it’s time to wrap things up.

Earlier this week I decided to see what would happen if I jerked off with an aneros inserted to the point of edging then letting my hands go then focusing on moving the aneros with my pelvic muscles and enjoying the sensations. I ended up squirting/leaking cum which felt like a mild traditional wet orgasm, however I quickly realized I didn’t lose arousal or sensitivity and my penis was still hard. I decided to try it again and within a minute I could do it again, then I did it a third time within another minute. Each subsequent time I leaked less but it still felt amazing. After that I decided to see what happened if I didn’t stop jerking off when I got towards the edge and had I had an explosive traditional orgasm and at that point the refactory period kicked in and I ended the session. Read more »

Rewiring? Is this possible?

Ok, so I’m one of the extremely lucky ones in that I received P-waves on my second ever session. Think my first super-o was on the 4th session. And now, only 3 short months, I seem to be able to get at least one super with each session.

The only downside, it has been harder to achieve conventional climax via either piv or masturbation.

Until this week. I have only had hfdo. But this week I had my first hfwo.. and it was glorious.

Now, as crazy as it sounds, I seem to be able to take a fork in the road once I start an aneros session and actually steer it toward either hfdo or hfwo.

I also seem to be able to squeeze the prostate without aneros during piv and have a much easier time achieving piv wet orgasm that feels almost as strong as hfwo with aneros.

I can now also stimulate penis during regular aneros play – and can have hfdo while stimulating (but not as strong, and it never leads to stacked or super os…

Anyone else able to control like this?

HFDO became HFWO…How do I get the HFDO back ?

A few years ago after about a dozen sessions I had my first HFDO and it was absolutely incredible. My subsequent sessions slowly became more HFWO and I’m now ejaculating during every session. Now, its quite possible that in my desire to cum sooner, I have created a different mind set and lost that mind wiring connection I had with my prostate. How do I get back to those incredible HFDO again ?