I need help

Found this Reddit forum through a few google searches as I’ve been frantically reading many sites/forms to find a solution to my problem.

26M. It all started when I took a 5mg THC/CBD edible alone at home one night. I have an overactive bladder to begin with and have constant urinary frequency – which probably puts strain on my prostate to be begin with. A few hours into the edible, I watched porn and masturbated as usual. I then lied down on my couch and tried to relax. All of a sudden I felt a tingling sensation in my genital region and was aroused so decided to watch more porn. I was then thrown into an orgasmic spell without even touching my genitals – which after reading a lot of these posts I’ve come to find out it was a mindgasm/coregasm type of experience. It happened back to back as some of you have explained for at least 20 minutes. Probably the most intense pleasurable feeling I’ve ever experienced. I could’ve kept going forever it seemed like, but I got scared because I didn’t know what was happening. I’ve never heard of these types of orgasms before – the first thing I could think of was “oh no, I’m having spontaneous orgasms and these are never going to go away”. So I was in a very frantic state and tried to ease my mind. I took ibuprofen and Tylenol to try to ease my tingling and overly sensitive genitals. I could’ve kept the experience going but I was fighting it and wanted it to end.

Aneros only?

Hey all, 28M. I’ve been into prostate play for a while with some success, however, I’m still working on finally getting a HFDO. Aneros has been my toys of choice. I have a bunch of them.

In the past, I was always watching porn and wasn’t ever able to finish a session unless I ejaculated. I finally figured out how to have a HFWO by getting onto all 4s and humping a pillow but I realized that it wasn’t where I wanted to be.

I decided to quit porn, it’s been about a month. Overall I feel better. Less brain fog for sure. However I haven’t stopped jerking off. Which I’m thinking might be part of the problem that’s holding me back.

My question is has anyone been able to make progress by giving up jerking off completely and just using Aneros? I’d love to hear some feedback and hopefully learn something that can help me have better sessions.

A very detailed description of what it feels like and how I got there

Hello folks,

I’ve been using Aneros for about 6 years, but it wasn’t until two years ago that I finally got the hang of it.

WHAT IT FEELS LIKE:

The amount of pleasure it gives is insane. It’s completely outside the realm of normal experiences. It’s hard to quantify. It feels like it’s always increasing. It’s like my brain has a “current pleasure” and a “change in pleasure” readout, and both of them are maxed out.

If I try to remember how good it was, it’s like it doesn’t fit in memory. It’s like I have to take my past self’s word for it. And then, the next time I do it, I’m like, “Holy shit, that’s right! I had forgotten how good this was! Holy crap, this is amazing!”

When it first starts, it feels like a very weak inkling of an orgasm-like sensation. It has those deeply-satisfying, spine-tingling, heart-fluttering qualities, but not nearly as intense. Maybe on par with a good back massage. But then… it gets better… and better… and better… and it just doesn’t stop getting better. Ever. It doesn’t make sense. It feels like an illusion, like the motion aftereffect, or the [Shepard Tone](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzNzgsAE4F0). Soon you lose track. It’s like watching one of those [scale of the universe](https://youtu.be/17jymDn0W6U?t=103) videos. You can maintain your bearings for a little while, but pretty soon, you’ve zoomed out so many times that you’ve lost all frame of reference. The pleasure might be 10x better than an orgasm, or 100x, who knows, it’s hard to say.

Just had my first P wave !!

As the title say, I just had my first P wave. It will be long sorry…

Before today, I didn’t know what it was exactly and I read some post who said: “when you feel it, you know that IT IS”

I fought i had many pleasure with the aneros but got damn I never felt something like that.

To achieve it I did what I read on this comunity: Concentrate on what you feel (without headphones and porn it works better for me) i just ignored my d*ck at all and only focus on the prostate or “the spot” that the aneros was massaging. It was good and the goodness gets higher sometimes and lower other times.

BUT this time I didn’t give up when the sensation got lower. I just focused on my prostate and then, suddenly I began to feel something spread into my legs. Like they were being contracted but I just didn’t move at all. I was breathing more and more heavy. And this “contraction” left a bit then come back from my feet and just BOOM spread to my whole body. It was blissfull. I was just having an amazing orgasm. My d*ck was still soft tho.

Newbie’s first P-orgasm

I am not going to go into detail about the experience other than it is this out body warm humming that swallows your body and i had to cut it short because it was getting late. But I have a couple insights for anyone just beginning and getting a little jealous of these super O posts(I know i am).
1.Do nothing is better than over doing it with PC contractions
2. porn is distracting during a session. Watch/read erotica/porn before and try to take some mental snapshots for later.
3. Focus on breathing! and just simply notice pleasurable feeling.

Also i think that if you can string session together without getting sore helps because “dud” session is no longer a dud but are awakening up session and then you doing kegels during the down time period.

also also something i haven’t read so far about or maybe i missed it in the aneros forums but holy cannoli my abs are sore from all the spasming. I had to cut it short because of the later hour, but i was laying in my bead and i was still having spasms an hour later.

An amazing 4 days

I’ve had my MGX Syn Trident since early August and have been having 1 or two sessions per week for a little over an hour just exploring and trying some of the tips I’ve read online. I couldn’t get any prostate Os but I liked keeping the Aneros in while doing my regular masturbation. Those sessions felt really nice but I knew I was missing something.

I thought I was getting the rewiring going even with the traditional masturbation with an Aneros inside but this past Friday, I decided to really focus and make a concerted effort to try a session free of penis touching. I took two gummies and as I was pre-gaming with some porn, I could feel this warm tightness in my pelvic area that I’ve never felt before. Them all of a sudden this wave of pleasure came over me and everything stopped. My breathing halted. My body couldn’t move. I focused solely on what I was feeling and BOOM there was this explosion of pleasure that came over me. I had felt an orgasm before but this was different. I could feel it emanating from my pelvic region but I could also feel it all over my body. I thought I ejaculated in my pants but I was totally dry. I knew it wasn’t a Super-O but it was definitely my first P-wave. If this is what a P-wave feels like, I can’t wait for a Super-O.

Feel like I’m at a bit of an impasse with this thing

So I’ve had a Helix Syn V for about a year now, I’ve not really used it consistently the whole time, but when I did I used it for a few sessions, had some mild tingles but then left it.

Recently however, I bought a magic wand rechargeable and have basically swapped to having all of my penile orgasms with it. Basically, I now hold the wand to the glans and flex my pelvic floor to cum. It’s definitely an improvement, I find myself having better orgasms with it and often find myself orgasming with or without porn (I sometimes cum whilst browsing for a video), which I think is a general improvement in comparison to how I used to be, spending half an hour browsing all kinds of porn until I found something I either liked or was close enough for me to cum to.

I recently found the Helix and thought “aw yeah let’s give it a go”.

There’s a noticeable difference in the strength of the sensations now I’ve sorta ‘reprogrammed’ to the idea of vibrations and contractions being linked to orgasms and not friction and movement. I find myself more able to have p waves and if I focus on the feeling I can often get to the point of precum leakage, I’ve even had a few dry orgasms with it but haven’t really felt anything I’d consider mind blowing or life altering, but I can feel the potential.

I am getting there…

It‘s been some wild 2 -3 weeks and today is probably the most intense and craziest day so far…

I‘m a single 49 y/o straight male who is used to watching porn and wanking off, almost on a daily basis.

It even went so far that I‘ve developed a temporary ED, simply because of numbing my natural senses and overloading my mind and body with way too many stimuli.

My porn kinks got stronger and more bizarre and I literally spent more time searching for the hottest flics than enjoying my wanks.

Last month I‘ve made a decision to get rid of all the old blocking and harmful behavior and to kind of „restart“ myself in several ways.

I‘ve always been open to anal play, prostate play and other stuff but all the dildos that I have bought over the years just did not do it for me and probably only have supported my fantasy as I wanted to get pegged by my gf – if I had one lol.

Well, somehow I stumbled across this subreddit and found „Mindgasm“ which definitely was a huge eye-opener. Right from the beginning I could „roll“ my PC muscles and leaked a lot. On the third day, I had the first longer P-waves – still veeeery low level of course.

Then I read about the Aneros and ordered Progasm, Progasm Jr. and the Helix Syn because I‘ve been horny as hell and wanted way too much, way too fast. A huuuuuge mistake!

First Time Ever Using Anything Like This

I’m 54. I’ve never been into putting anything in my ass. It’s always been an exit only hole. However, over the last several months I’ve had the urge to try something different. The Helix Syn Trident arrived from Amazon today.

I used coconut oil as lube. I turned on some porn, got horny, lubed up everything, stood up in front of the sofa, bent over and inserted the toy. I was very surprised at how easy it went in! I’ve never been into putting things up my ass but this thing just went in with no problems at all!! Holy cow!! I did some reading on the forums while I was waiting for this to show up and knew not to expect very much this first time. I sat (Kind of laid back) back down on the sofa and continued watching porn. I didn’t even feel it in my ass. That also surprised me. Here I was sitting on the sofa with a toy in my ass and I didn’t even feel it! How is that possible? I started doing some kegels and could sort of feel it then. It felt ok I guess. Nothing to write home about or mind blowing (Not that I would write home about it anyway). I kept watching porn and eventually got off using my hand. I know, that’s not what’s supposed to happen here when you use the Helix Syn Trident. But damn, I was horny and needed release. The whole thing lasted probably 20 to 30 minutes.

Second HFDO changed me.

A week ago I had my second ever HFDO. It was mostly in my body and was borderline impossible to explain. I just felt electrical surges coursing through my body. Toes to head and back. My ass and prostate were involved but not nearly as much as I expected. Either way I can’t wait to try again. Since then I have had some unexpected side effects.

I’m way hornier. I can’t stop touching my wife, looking at porn, thinking about sex/turn ons.

My penis is definitely less pleasurable. I have a very hard time coming through traditional masturbation. Sex is still amazing and I still love stroking it and watching porn but something’s just different.

My prostate start’s pulsing a lot easier, especially when seated. I can’t wait for my next session.

Any explanations, advice or suggestions are all welcome.