Well, the string has ended at 9! Here’s how it happened……
My wife was definitely in the mood last night. We settled into bed and began to watch some favorite programs. All was well for a while. Then, without my prodding, I noticed she had re-positioned herself next to me. She had laid her pillow across my chest and just settled-in. Before I knew it, she had my package cupped and began to lightly stroke my scrotum through my boxers. OMG! I am starting to moan already and she has just started! (Realize it has been 8 days since we did anything). She ignores the moans and just continues on her way. We continue to watch and she continues to pleasure me. At some point, she involves my nipples into the action. By this time, I have a raging erection that would not quit! I must have been ‘up’ for at least 30 minutes or more (I wasn’t timing it).
When she “finished” with me, she asked me if I am going to finish-myself-off? I said that I have been avoiding ejaculations and that feels good to me (I didn’t explain SR). She seemed a little puzzled. So, we cuddled for a bit more. I could have gone another round but she needed her rest. So we said good-night and I settled-in for what I thought was going to be another day into SR (Day 9).
A few hours later and it is early morning. I awaken with a nice hard erection and now a very noticeable ache in my lower groin. I have felt this before and am also starting to get a twinge of the “blues”. I know for me that there is only one way out and that is through ejaculation. But I didn’t really want it, not now. So I settled into my sofa and with headphones on, began to listen to some soothing erotic lounge music. Well, my groin continued to ache and I just knew that this “ride” was going to be over soon. So after 9 glorious, erotically-filled days, I came VERY EASILY. Now, something happened here that I have not experienced before. I know this may sound unbelievable, but I think I could “smell” my impending ejaculation! I don’t know if there is a link to my male pheromones or what, but I distinctly got the scent and it was unmistakable. I wondered if this is what women perceive in a guy who is practicing SR? If it is, it is very powerful.
Obviously, following the ejaculation, my pelvic congestion began to subside as I knew it would, and quickly. I probably could have lasted beyond Day 9 but events last night had pushed me just a little too far “over the cliff” to the point that I could not regain my balance. But this is not the end of the SR world! It happens all the time. I wish I could have lasted longer. As they say, if at first you don’t succeed….you climb right back on the horse and begin to ride again. And that is exactly what I am going to do!……Day 1……