Cock Head Massage

Esteemed old friend Turnrow and another fellow forum member have both asked me to talk about sulcus (cock head cleft) massage as a Super O enhancement and facilitator” as well as the practices I apply in stimulating my sulcus during a session. Specifically Turnrow asked me to respond to his request and elaborate in a blog entry. I have known Turnrow for many years as a reader on my WordPress blog and as an esteemed member of the “brotherhood of the prostate” here. So here you go Turnrow.

If I delve into my sexual practices immediately and provide background later, I am sure you will be afflicted with a certain stiffness that will hinder your ability to read serious content and understand my thought process (LOL). So ……… I will discuss the thinking stuff first. Then once you have background, I will get into the cock hardening stuff.

When I joined the forums many years ago and started on my path to achieve the holy grail of Super O, I followed the sage advice of respected elders of this community. These respected elders were hitting them out of the ball park so speak, so I dutifully did everything they suggested. Tantamount in their advice was the rule that prostate orgasm needed to be separated from penis oriented orgasm. The basis of the advice was that if one focuses on ones stimulated cock, it would be a distraction from sensation in the prostate and anal canal. In addition the advice also was rooted in the potential danger that stimulation of one’s cock would trigger ejaculation and “let the air out of the balloon” of your Super O.

My Second Tryst Part 4

My anal orgasms were fluttering and melting away in pleasant gentle pulsing spasms as I trembled in quiet arousal. As they faded, I remained on my back on the rumpled bed savoring the sweet anguish of orgasmic after glow. The Tempo was still inside me pressing gently on my prostate; it was passively provoking my prostate sending lingering sexy chills up my spine. He had lain down next to me, his skin was warm on mine. I put my arm around him and drew him to me; as I did I looked down at his penis which was fully erect.

Mine was laying on my belly semi erect pointing due north as was his. The experience of looking at two erect cocks laying side by side was unusual for me to say the least. He had one of the most beautiful cocks I had ever been given the chance to gaze at; it was mesmerizing. I love cocks. I love cock heads, I love how an erect penis looks and feels and I love to watch them ejaculate. Most of all though I love to suck and taunt cock heads with my tongue as the tip of my tongue parts the delicate slit at the tip, toying with it. I love to trace the rigid crown that defines a well sculpted corona with my tongue until it swells and erupts his ejaculate.

My Second Tryst Part 3

Part 3
In my first hookup with a man two years earlier we were both nervous. At that time I was not really at ease with my morphing sexuality. However, two years had passed between my first tryst and this one. During that time, I grew to be more comfortable with who I was becoming sexually. I was getting more at ease with my changing desires and my anal orgasmic response; as I relaxed into my rewired “new sexuality”, a desire for male intimacy infiltrated my psyche. The desire to kiss a male sex partner became an expression of my libido and a must do in my menu of sex acts with any man and this one that evening in particular. Kissing had always been a cornerstone in my foreplay with women and that night it would be no different.

The key that opened the door to this new world that night was that I had cast aside my shame, and given into my limbic desire. My own admission to myself was feeding my libido. Revealing it openly and unabashedly to an attractive and very desirable male sex partner was feeding his libido in equal measure; his cock was stone hard. It was profoundly arousing. The excitement and lack of shame I felt kissing a hot naked man in foreplay was flying in the face of the social taboo that had governed me in my past; that excitement was forging my cock to iron. Kissing him on the lips was a big deal; however kissing him in bed in foreplay was beyond a big deal. All of this was having a profound impact on me.

My Second Tryst

Part 2
With my eyes closed I grasped the head of my erect cock; it felt hot and smooth in my hand. Anticipation of sucking his penis had forged mine to iron hardness. I love sucking cocks and swallowing rich creamy semen. Placing my middle finger in the sulcus underneath my cock head I began to gently massage it. I did not rub hard enough to encourage ejaculation but rather just firm enough to edge myself and keep it rigid. The deep cleft that sculpts my crown was slippery from my profuse precum. Aneros practice has increased my precum flow manifold. I was pleased I was already hard for him, I wanted it to be erect, or at least firm when he saw it in person the first time. I am relatively large erect. I like showing my size to male and female partners when I am aroused; I like to flaunt my sexuality as I am an exhibitionist at heart. My fingertip began to make little circles in my cleft as I slowly swung my pelvis back and forth. I imagined I was dancing in an erotic performance for spectators; as I saidf I am a closeted exhibitionist. Looking in the mirror over the desk I opened my eyes to admire the lewd dance I was doing and the sexy image I made. I imagined that he was watching the lewd show of my sexuality. The thought of him in particular watching me made my cock ache with need. Ever since rewiring, mental imagery has played a huge role in my prostate orgasm sessions and my arousal.

My Second Tryst

Part1
I obtained my Tempo by winning it here on the Forum. HIH was holding a contest some ten or twelve years ago. The challenge was to write what Aneros meant to you and how it changed you; the prize was a new Aneros Syn, which had just been introduced. I was urged by several guys in the Forum that read my blog to submit my personal story. I wrote my story and submitted it. To my surprise I won. When I was notified, I asked the company if I might get a Tempo instead of the Syn. Tempo had been out for a while and I wanted one; I had not gotten around to buying one yet. They agreed.

A few weeks later my Tempo arrived in the mail. Later that week I tried it. It was an instant success. It was vastly more effective and responsive than my Eupho which was my favorite Aneros device until then. From that first insertion my Tempo was my go to Aneros; now it’s all I use.
At that same time I did the contest I was communicating with a fellow Aneros user about meeting for a shared session and more. He was my second hook up with a bicurious married guy for sex. My first foray into M-M sex was quick and unceremonious. We were both too nervous to really explore the mental and full physical dimensions of our desires. this time it would be different. Also this time we would use Aneros together.

Back In The Saddle

So gentlemen and a few ladies, tomorrow I return with my blog. I have not really done an entry for years, but this is where I began blogging before I got into WordPress. I am going to stay here with this new version. The first entry tomorrow will be about my second tryst with a man several years into my Aneros journey. I will be admitting some things in it that I have never revealed before. Stay tuned.

My New Helix Syn Trident

I just received my new Helix Syn Trident and Progasm Ice to replace my first two original massagers.
Last night was the night to try the HST and I wanted to share the experience but first, it’s important to describe the packaging and the unit itself. It had been a few years since I last opened up an Aneros massager box and it’s easy to forget about the efforts the company has invested in presenting their products. The attractive package will impress anyone fortunate enough to receive it as a purchase or a gift. It is extremely well made, very colorful and the flap magnet separates it from the average packaged box. Several years ago, I used to store my first 2 units in their original boxes but eventually, with several more toys added to my collection, I keep them all in a hardwood box so the original packaging were chucked.

Pulling out the HST from it’s formed nest, the feel is quite a bit different from it’s HS Classic version; it feel more velvety and maybe a little less fragile compared to the original. When compared side by side, the new one is slightly smaller and shorter. The angle from it’s axis also seems a tad less pronounced. My overall impression while looking at it in my hand was, feels nice but how can a noticeably smaller and less aggressive unit possibly yield better results than the previous company’s flagship version? Intrigued, I was anxious to try it.

My Journey and Questions

I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have three questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position on my knees with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them because my wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Question: Is this unusual and do you get addicted? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to have uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my next question. I have tried the do-nothing method, but I always end up with involuntary shaking. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it as it makes the Aneros massage my prostate which feels really good. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Sometimes I enjoy grabbing the Aneros and using it to manually massage my prostate harder than just letting it float. It feels good, but occasionally my prostate feels a little sore for a day thereafter. So, my last question is, can I harm my prostate by using more force to massage it? I don’t want to damage it. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!

Stubby3

I was having orgasms before I knew what they were, when I was in grade school like second or third grade they would have me climbing rope’s and poles in gym class. I could make myself feel good in the pelvic area by pulling myself up. Sometimes I would have to lower myself down some if I didn’t come before I got to the top.
Did this ever happen to anyone else? And also I don’t know if it was a prostate o or the wet kind of course I would not have been producing at that time.

My Journey

I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have two questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them. My wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Is this unusual? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to get to uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my other question. I have tried the do nothing method, but I always end up shaking, and I cannot control it. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!