Having endured DE (Delayed Ejaculation) for a while now, with less than stellar results as far as ejaculation is concerned, I decided to see if I can “swing the pendulum” towards the PE (Premature Ejaculation) side. There seems to be a consensus that these erectile dysfunctions mostly have a psychological cause and I believe they are right. So I embarked on this “experiment” last night.
While laying with my wife watching TV, I began to stroke her hand, ever so slightly. At the same time, I began to feel an arousal in my cock. Before I knew it, I was fully aroused and getting a Viagra-like erection. I slowly grabbed her hand and had her place it over my cock. She obliges and, for the next 10 minutes or so, begins to stroke and squeeze it to the point that I am loudly moaning. I am not ready to go-off, however and, since it is close to bedtime and I do not have the confidence yet for penetration followed by a quick ejaculation, I decided to call it a night.
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This morning, I begin a surfing session for about 2 hours and, all the while, my erection is strong. I have a safety towel in place and due to continuation of this “experiment” I decided to see if I could induce an ejaculation. Well, I was sufficiently aroused but didn’t feel like I was anywhere near the PONR. What happened next kind-of blew me away! I decided to perform a STRONG kegel while I was continuing to stroke the underside of my cock. I was also rhythmically squeezing it in beat to the soft erotic music. And the next thing I know is that I feel the PONR getting closer and closer…..and closer! I actually could delay or accelerate my impending ejaculation just by squeezing or relaxing my PC muscle! Needless to say, I quickly tensed-up to the limit, passed the PONR and felt the imminent explosion of an ejaculation! Following it, I just lie there, enjoying a post-coital pleasure. I feel that I have made progress in my original goal. I know it will take time, but I seem to be one step closer to a “quicker” ejaculation! I decided to ejaculate and within a minute or two, I did! Can this technique be applied to penetrative intercourse? Intriguing…..
PS I thought about discontinuing my practice of semen retention, but decided to keep it up. I think ejaculation control (EC) is the “new kid on the block” and I am eager to meet him!!
PS Here is a great track on YouTube which was part of this surfing session: “Sexy Love: Lounge Music ~ Chillout music ~Lounge music ~ Downtempo.”
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/an-experiment-can-i-induce-pe/