Trouble with Insertion

I recently got the Helix Syn, and in the first two sessions trying to use it, I can’t seem to insert it all the way. I’m able to insert it maybe half an inch or so, but I then meet some resistance. I’ve tried to massage it around to relax the muscles and have tried some deep breathing, but this doesn’t seem to help. When I try to gently force it, it just doesn’t feel right; I don’t feel pain, but I get the feeling that I would if I continued. I guess I feel a “dull pressure.” Since this is my first time with anal play, should I just expect the next few sessions to involve lots of teasing with no insertion?

Also, when I apply water-based lube to the Helix Syn, some stays, but some seems to “evaporate” right off. When I try to absolutely drench the thing, this still seems to happen. Is this normal, or is this the problem?

Any and all advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/5d5xl9/trouble_with_insertion/

7 comments

  1. I have a Helix Classic and I’ve never had a problem with insertion. IMO, insertion is a matter of relaxation. I dig everyone’s bum is different, but the Helix (Classic or Syn) is not that large. I wish I could help you with you lube issues, but I don’t have any silicone toys.

    Perhaps you should place the tip of the Helix Syn at the entrance of your bum, r-e-l-a-x, and you have insertion. You should not have to force anything. If it doesn’t feel right, anal play may not be for you. Maybe you should check out a Helix Classic. That could possibly solve your lube issues. What do you mean by lots of teasing? Best of luck on your journey.

  2. I never had much success with watery lubes. KY Jelly worked well for me, but I currently use Good Clean Love. It’s very similar to KY Jelly, but it’s 95% organic

  3. Try picking up a lube launcher. They lube you inside instead of trying to just lube the aneros.

  5. How are you inserting it? I have found the best way to get it in up to the hilt with zero resistance (beyond the initial pop of the anus) is to be on my side with one leg (usually the one opposite the side I’m resting on – on my right side? Left leg) bent and pulled up so my knee is to my chest (or as best as it can be…not in the best shape). After the head pops in, the rest glides in pretty easily. Then I can put my leg back down, and roll onto my back.

    I have tried inserting it standing up, sitting on the edge of a chair, and in doggy style position, and none of those work well for me at all. The way I just mentioned works hands down the best, and gets it into the best position.

  6. Cover your Helix in a thin layer of Vaseline first. Then, finger yourself a little first with the regular lube you have. This will kind of prelubricate everything. Then, apply a little more lube over the Vaseline already on the Helix and stick ‘er on in. Works like a charm. Go wash your hands and enjoy the rest.

    Never needed a lube launcher using this method or a frozen chunk of coconut oil. Have fun!

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