My ongoing practice of semen retention (I am into Day 8) and my wife’s low libido seem to have taken me into the realm of total abstinence, male chastity and cock cages. Let me explain.
For the past week or so, I have been practicing my morning “sessions” without ever touching my genitals. I find this stimulating. What I do is put-on a jock cup (either my youth size Bike or regular Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon) with a tight pair of Speedos and lie down, either with or without music. Believe it or not, this “do-nothing” approach not only reinforces the practice of SR but has taken me to a higher fantasy, one of which I experienced last night.
My wife is not too receptive to my advances lately, in part because she has a sore back and is going through rehab for it. So I am patient and giving her the benefit. We are in bed for the night and I notice right away that she may be in the mood for something. But with my SR soon to be in double-digits, I was not really trying for anything. Somehow, I found myself within a fantasy. I have been in a cock cage for a week (8 days actually) and she has the key. So she unlocks my cage and I am experiencing an almost immediate erection which she notices as well. She cuddles up next to me and, starting with my pecs and nipples, proceeds very slowly downward until she is handling ever-so-gently my manly attire. OMG! She is proceeding with this hand-job so skillfully and so deftly that I am loudly moaning, squirming and shaking. But she pays no attention to my resistance. So she continues with her task as if she never heard me! I can’t take more than about 10 or 15 minutes of this before I told her that I need to go off. I remember saying “No!” during some of the moans. I said I couldn’t take any more. Actually, if she were more physically receptive, I would easily have been able to penetrate her then and complete within a minute or two (so much for my DE). But I went-off into a waiting towel and she assisted with a scrotal stimulation. Unlike with my regular DE, I ejaculated within a minute. I must have spasmed on the bed for at least a minute or two. Following a powerful ejaculation, I felt very relieved, satisfied and closer to her than ever.
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This morning, I awoke not too early and again decided to go back into chastity, this time with my Shock Doctor cup which I am wearing as I am typing.
PS I am contemplating getting a “real” cock cage, perhaps a CB-6000S. I need to take a few critical measurements to see how I measure-up. Could I go through with this? I think so. One thing I found with the Bike cup is that when I am experiencing an erection while wearing it, the erection is stopped in its tracks and it is not painful at all. The cock cages work the same way. The cage should be quite small so the erecting penis has no room to expand. The erection is arrested but the resulting pressure feels good.
PS I have found that by not edging, I don’t seem to have the tendency for “blue balls” even after 8 days of non-ejaculation. I believe I could have gone much longer. I have read also that guys that practice male chastity for a long time need some periodic release of prostate fluid (“milking”) through prostate stimulation.
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/cock-cage-fantasy-or-reality/