Having been in the male chastity “lifestyle” for a while now (it started with semen retention and the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge), I find that the transition to male chastity is a very natural development. “Forced” male chastity is probably a myth. Many guys practice a form of male chastity that is based on the “honor system”. That means that when alone and not within cock restraint (such as with a chastity cage), he will not “cheat” and allow himself to cum.
There is a certain amount of self-restraint necessary to maintain the chaste lifestyle. When practiced correctly, this self-restraint can be very arousing to say the least! In my case, since my wife is aware of my new “lifestyle” she is well-aware that I need to orgasm and ejaculate periodically. She seems to know my limit of denial. She knows I can take a lot but like every other male, I will need to cum from time to time. She knows that if she does not allow me to cum with her, I may be headed for coming during a wet dream.
This “honor system” seems to work for me. I selectively place myself in physical male chastity such as by wearing a full chastity “cup” or a cock cage. Sometimes, I will allow myself to experience some cock tease pleasure, such as “edgemeplease.com” where I will produce a lot of precum but I know that I can go no farther than that. I will not cheat and come. Prostate “milking” is another pleasure that I need from time-to-time and it takes a great deal of restraint not to orgasm and ejaculate. But that is all part of the lifestyle too.
Of course, the longer I go without coming in the “honor system” the more difficult it becomes. Particularly after 7 days of abstinence, where my testosterone level peaks and I can feel it all throughout my body. Lately, my usual required “interval” is about 10 to 14 days. My wife can sense when I am getting close to my limit by my actions in bed and by my extreme erections.
I love being in chastity for it allows me to express my sexuality towards only one person, my wife, and no one else (especially not me!) I have told my wife several times that I do not masturbate any more and I need her to fulfill my sexual needs. She understands and is compliant to an extent. When she allows me to cum, I insist that she initiates. Sometimes, this results in a ruined orgasm. She does refuse me fairly often, but that is all part of the chastity lifestyle. If I can come any time I want with her, that is no better than me masturbating alone any time I want. This “denial of service” is what makes the chaste lifestyle so f*****g arousing! It is what makes this lifestyle so intriguing and enjoyable and I would not trade it now for anything!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/the-male-chastity-lifestyle-putting-it-all-into-perspective/