I have found it makes the experience so much more erotic. As someone that considers themselves somewhat straight (I guess), the idea of anal play wasn’t super appealing outside of the fact that prostate orgasms seemed appealing. By imagining being a woman and taking that submissive role and being filled, it is so much more arousing…
Problem is, I am wondering how common this is and if it’s becoming an issue. I introduced panties to make it more arousing and while I did some soul searching and don’t think I have any transgender tendencies, this is an interesting road I am traveling.
Anyone else experiment with gender play and Aneros?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/5uazea/does_anyone_else_imagine_being_a_girl_while_using/
I do sometimes. But I feel like it only makes sense. It puts you in the right frame of mind. They compare the prostate orgasm to a female orgasm.
I mean to each his own. But the Aneros has never made me feel feminine or want to imagine being a woman. Orgasms have nothing to do with gender, IMO. Orgasms are orgasms.
I like to think this as well, and I’m straight as an arrow. As contradictory as it may sound; the thought of having sex with a guy (receiving and giving) grosses me out, while imagining being a woman turns me on.
It’s totally normal. I love the thrill of experiencing a kind of pleasure that men are not ‘supposed’ to experience.
Yes, I do sometimes. Absolutely normal and natural. I’d say continue to pull that string and playing with it because it’s tied to some aspect of yourself that will benefit you personally to learn about.
Prostate massage for me led to different kinds of anal play, and more openness to sexual kink in general. I recently saw a list of lgbtq etc… orientations and there were a lot more than I thought! One was “heteroflexible”, which is mostly straight, but open to gay play as well. Sort of between bi and straight, never knew (maybe that’s me). Your post reminds me that sexual orientation is a continuum, and we all fall somewhere on it. And it’s not a 2-dimensional gay-straight continuum; branches shoot off in all directions and tie into many different aspects of our being. Learn it and live it! Have fun and above all – love yourself!
> By imagining being a woman and taking that submissive role and being filled, it is so much more arousing…
Oh god that’s what I’ve been doing all this time. I always imagine that I’m a submissive lesbian and when I reached the state where I’m in euphoria, I’ll ask permission to cum and then beg my imaginary mistress to stop..but of course “she’s” not stopping and I’ll just cum and cum and cum.. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
I’ve had a similar experience, though not specifically tied to the aneros or any other toy. The important development for me was to recognize that my *fantasies,* sexual and otherwise, are separate from who I want to be in the real world.
I get off wearing panties, a dress, sex costumes, a bra, or any combination of those things. I occasinoally get off while pretending to suck men off, and it can sometimes be arousing to either pretend I’m a woman or pretend I’m bisexual. But that doesn’t mean that I actually *am* any of those things. If you were trans, it’s my understanding that you’d feel wrong being in a man’s body, and it doesn’t sound like you are.