So I’ve been reading this Reddit for a while. Finding it reignited my interest in my aneros (which is a classic). I purchased it about 6 years ago, but never used it much.
I started again using it right around Christmas last year and have used it about every couple weeks. The first 3 times I’ve used it, i didn’t experienced much. I would hold a mild contraction to initiate the desired involuntary spasms, which would feel great, but that would subside very quickly. The second time I used it I layed on my left side (right leg folded up) and just layed there holding a small contraction. After about 20 min or so several small waves pulsed through my abdomen and my hips had a gentle shake. The 3rd time was kind of a dud and not much happened other than getting some involuntary contractions.
Today was a pretty productive session. I started on my left side and had some pretty pleasurable sensations with a gentle hold. After about 30 min I turned to my back with a pillow under my hips. And just held a mild contraction (on a scale of 1-10, probably a 5) for a few min then let it go and return, etc. after about 20 min I felt a warm sensation build in my lower abdomen. My hips started a gentle shake. After a couple min of this I could feel a very pleasurable sensation where the aneros was hitting (I assume my prostate). I concentrated on this area and kept telling myself to relax. Then all of the suddden the involuntaries hit hard and contracted could feel the aneros hitting my prostate hard. I had no control. It felt incredible. This went on for a couple min then subsided. This repeated itself again. I probably had 3 experiences like this in an hour period. I know this wasn’t a superO, but definitely my most productive session.
In reading this Reddit there are multiple posts expressing frustration. Many of the responses talk about patience. This is exactly true. Mindset is everything. When you feel some small amount of pleasure, isolate that spot in your mind and concentrate on it.
I hope this helps and I’d also be interested in anyone else’s feedback to compare with their experiences.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/5uuf3r/small_steps/
Nice! Keep doing what you’re doing. Your post does a good job explaining how to go from manual contractions and static holding to start. Generating involuntaries in the beginning, shifting into more of a letting it come to you “do nothing” approach later on.
Once you successfully start crossing into the holy grail of getting more and more aroused, letting the aneros do its thing as the toy gets a mind of its own, you will just start hanging on for dear life as the pleasure washes over you. It’s hard to explain how one goes from being an active participant to switching into going along for the ride, so thank you for sharing!