Since I have been having extreme arousal the past few days while in chastity and extended SR (now in Day 13), my thoughts turned to the arousal feeling itself. I like it, but sometimes too much of a good thing is not good! So I decided to turn my attention away from the arousal and just let things chill for a while. It seemed to work this morning……or so I thought! Let me explain.
I was just chilling on the sofa, listening to some relaxing tracks. I had completely put arousal our of my mind*. I was very flaccid inside my chastity cup and it remained flaccid for a good long while. I had been lucid dreaming and this one I remember vividly. It was incredibly detailed! And the next thing I remember was suddenly awakening and I caught myself thrusting into the couch! (No exaggeration here, I swear!) I had an enormous erection and an arousal feeling to match! Well, so much for putting arousal out of memory. I forgot that the night-time erections will come to us guys like clockwork. Sometimes you remember them and other times you don’t. Still other times, you awaken only at the tail-end of an erection. This time, I awoke in the middle of one and I believe I may have been only seconds away from a wet dream! I guess arousal will find me wherever I am hiding!
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* I was thinking to myself: you are in chastity for a long time; you might as well make the best of it. There is no need for constant arousal.
And that seemed to work to calm-down the extreme arousal feeling.
PS Just remember two things. I thought to myself last night before I went to bed that I want to have a wet dream. And instead of wearing my chastity cup, I wore my Speedo briefs with a safety towel.
PS I have found that the best way to cope with a night-time erection arousal (while awake) is basically to do nothing (like an Aneros session). That way, I have found that I will not initiate blue-balls. Nor will I have any opportunity to edge/ejaculate, something I don’t want to do until I am good and ready! These arousals can be pretty intense; some guys may not be used to them and it will be very difficult to hold-back taking action. Note that these erections can last upwards of 30-45 minutes, so patience is in order!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/a-new-mindset-on-arousal/