I’ve always been curious about back door play, though never in a homosexual way. I’m not sure how I accidentally discovered the back door but I liked it. I had an ex gf who would be willing to run around it, even went for the prostate a time or two. Felt soooo good.
My wife has no interest now, and has no idea about my toy. Every time I bring it up she says she wouldn’t be comfortable with that play.
The first time I tried this I was kind of disappointed. I enjoyed the full feeling but never felt like it hit the prostate just right. Today during a session I rolled over on my side. Oh wow.
So here’s the thing, I’ve tried contractions, and hip movements but ultimately the best thing I’ve found is to reach behind my back, grab the finger ring and give it some flicks, forcing the toy to rock in that come hither motion.
Oh wow… as soon as the nub passes over my prostate. I get all flush and hot. I get a urinating type sensation at the tip of my cock and I watch clear precum leak out. The longer I keep going the the more intense the sensation but my body never relaxes and releases. Today I had two towels around my waist and told myself, no matter what don’t try and stop in fear of pissing on the towels… still, nothing but an incredible build up and then plateau.
After 30 min or so of these waves I usually throw in the towel, and rub one out, and when I do finally cum, which doesn’t take long it’s the most intense cum dump ever. My balls literally feel drained.
I only get around to this type of play once maybe twice a month. I hopefully will one day get my wife to join in with either the toy or a gloved hand.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/6q7sdg/this_shouldnt_feel_so_good/
First, this is neither Homo or Hetero, it’s pure pleasure and fully enjoying our bodies.
Took a lonnnng time for my wife to become comfortable with my liking my ass played with. She’s still not too comfortable with my toys. Just keep being open and honest. I got her to play with my ass one day in shower, a place where she knows I’d be clean and she loved my reaction which led to more….
For you sessions sounds like you need your mind to relax and release, not your body. You’re seeking intense pleasure like direct p-stim or cock stim and not relaxing into the warm embrace and just letting the feelings flow.