Why write this? I have found lately that being in semen retention longer than 7 days can bring-on extreme horniness. How each guy deals with it is a very individual thing. Here are some of my coping skills (in no particular order):
1 Masturbate or jerk-off. This always cures what ails me, especially if I have a nasty case of “blue-balls”. I can just rub-one-off or get more sophisticated with a sleeve, an anal plug or binaural beats. I keep a calendar of ejaculation history so if it hasn’t been that long, I won’t bother.
2 Just ignore it, stud! This works usually at night when wearing a “chastity cup”. It feels so good but can go on for a while (sometimes 45 minutes or longer). That horny feeling sometimes is too much to bear! Thank goodness I am wearing a cup!
3 Fantasize – – What I do here is pretend that I am being “prepared” for a medical procedure (usually on the prostate). I need to wear a sexually-stimulating device (a supporter/cup) for a given period of time and I am powerless to do anything during that period. Usually works for me and keeps my mind focused on something else while enduring a powerful, stimulating erection.
4 Get active! Works well for me. I do something else like physical activity such as swimming, cutting grass, etc. This will almost always help to quell an active erection. But I wear a jockstrap in the pool and that fact sometimes can be another turn-on! Whoah!
5 Have an Aneros session. My my! Is there any better way to feel than to stimulate your prostate while horny? Isn’t that the very definition of horniness? Sometimes this may result in a HFWO!
6 What doesn’t work? Removing a “chastity cup” to look or play with my package (if I’m not going to masturbate). Invariably, when in such a horny state, the play invariably will lead to direct stimulation of the glans/head of the penis and that usually results in an ejaculation that I can’t stop.
7 What is the best way? I like wearing jockstraps with cups and for me, this is the best way to remain in “chastity” by not allowing myself any access.
8 The horniness is (thankfully) cyclical; building-up with increasing days of semen retention (SR). Like climbing the “arousal mountain” preceding ejaculation. There seems to be a point, however (except for blue-balls) where my mind has made itself up to want to go-off. Once I have reached that tipping-point, there is little more that can be done to extend it. I will ejaculate one way or another since my mind has already accepted it. You guys that are into male chastity know what I am talking about here. This is why it is so difficult to say: I want to go 30 days without ejaculating and then following-through with it! Horniness gets in the way!
Conclusion: Male horniness is a wonderful thing! Yes, it can be a real “pain” but a sexy, sensual pain! I highly recommend it!
PS Due to an imminent case of blue-balls, I took advantage of a “handy” coping skill #1!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/ways-of-coping-with-horniness/