It’s no secret that I like male chastity. I am again sleeping in a “chastity cup” and I find it very stimulating. But why is that?….
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Male chastity is but one aspect of sexual submission in males (also know as malesub), It generally means that the male is not homosexual or even bisexual. I’ll admit that I am neither. It just represents a sexual style that is designed for maximum arousal through sexual submission. Sexual submission for me involve several aspects, as I can identify them:
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**I’m not allowed to masturbate**
This is the essence of male chastity. I “play” that I am not allowed to masturbate as long as I am wearing a chastity “cup” and this is quite true. Even if I’m not wearing it, I must remain true to my pledge. It can be very sexually arousing, particularly as I approach (or pass) Day 7 of semen retention. Wearing a cup is a physical barrier (like a cock cage) that almost eliminates any possibility of masturbating to ejaculation.
**If I am allowed to ejaculate, it usually will be a ruined orgasm**
The past few ejaculations for me have been ruined. I like the feeling of almost complete arousal to the point of orgasm, then stopping. I relieve the pressure in my system (and tendency for blue-balls) at the same time. Yes, it is not very satisfying, but hey, in submission, it is extremely stimulating. There is always the possibility of a “regular” ejaculation. Need I elaborate further?
**I don’t expect penetration in sex**
This is a side-effect of my wife’s condition that make penetrative intercourse painful for her. So I relish other sexual “games”. Sometimes, if I am extremely horny, I will initiate sexual activity. Other times, I will “suggest” it and hope that my wife takes the hint!
**I don’t initiate a prostate massage session**
Now, this one is harder. By this, I mean that it is not up to “me” to decide to perform an Aneros session. It does mean that I am leaving that decision up to my body (and the feeling in my prostate). By giving up this control, I am again letting someone (or something) else decide when it is time for me to arouse and empty my prostate. Yes, it can take some time and can be unpredictable, but in the end it results in mind-blowing sessions, even with the diminutive massagers I own (the HIH 950 and the SGX). When my arousal is reaching its peak (usually by Day 10 of semen retention), my prostate will tell me in no uncertain terms that it wants some play-time of its own. I will feel it and sometimes I will go 12-24 hours before giving-in to the session.
Sometimes, I give-up my body’s “control” of a prostate-massage session through the introduction of a sexual fantasy: either through a medical professional or (lately) through a lover who knows the proper techniques for this type of massage. Either way, this makes for a more-arousing session!
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I’m sure there are other aspects of male sexual submission that I have not yet identified. If so, it will be so stimulating when they are “discovered!”
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/a-sexually-submissive-male-giving-up-control/