Background: I did not sleep in a “chastity cup”. But I awoke about 2 AM with a mild erection and felt the need to put one on. After about 2 hours, I awoke again and decided to take it off. When I did, and went to lie-down, I had fallen into a nice, erotic fantasy…..I am lying in bed with my lover and she has lovingly moved her hand towards my scrotum and very gingerly begins to stroke the side. Then she moves around to the other side. She keeps this up and I feel myself falling deeper into this erotic, stimulating fantasy…….This went on for perhaps 30-40 minutes, during which time I was both erect and flaccid (sort-of like an Aneros session). I was completely mesmerized by this fantasy and didn’t know what was going to happen next. Would I ejaculate? I had no idea……But I just savored the feeling for as long as it lasted. Then, I began to think about the experience and how it may relate to my Aneros sessions……
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This “fantasy” had many elements of a good Aneros session. Let me try to explain some of them….
First, there was the element of timing. I really didn’t know how long this fantasy “session” was going to last. It didn’t matter, since I was enjoying every deliciously erotic minute of it! I didn’t know what I was going to experience next. When I moved to a new position, she moved right along with me. This is true when performing a “do-nothing” session. The element of “sexual surprise” works very well in the Aneros sessions. Just let-go and let it happen. What’s the rush? The orgasm is not the direct goal; experiencing the pleasures along the way is.
I let myself be led down the path of greater and greater sexual stimulation, to the point where I didn’t know if I would ejaculate from this “fantasy”. A lot like an Aneros session where an HFWO (or even a Super-O) is possible.
At one point during the fantasy, I began to quiver and shake. Again, a lot like a good Aneros session where the involuntary muscular movements occur. A great feeling when it happens!
I’m sure there were other comparisons between this fantasy and an Aneros session. And the comparisons were very strong in my reasoning. I’ll try to keep all of this in mind in my next session. After all, it is said often that an Aneros massager is more of an arousal “amplifier”. All I have to do is be “tuned-in” and feel what my aroused prostate is trying to convey to me. (Like my lover’s hands on my scrotum, the Aneros massager’s “finger” is on my prostate.) If I keep the Aneros session in a proper perspective, there should not be a disappointment, if I allow myself to be “aroused”. It may happen or it may NOT happen in a session. That’s okay….What’s the rush? There will always be another opportunity.
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/a-fantasy-led-me-to-aneros-insight/