Why write about this? I know (and you probably do too) that the “common wisdom” solution for “blue-balls” is just to masturbate and ejaculate. I do it all the time. But I want to relate a recent experience I had….A little humorous, perhaps, but not at the time…..
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I had only been in semen retention (SR) about 5 days. I had been doing regular (daily) Aneros sessions since I started this run. Around Day 5, however, I began to develop the usual “blue-balls” ache deep in my groin. I have felt it many times before, but usually by Day 10 or so. Since I was only in Day 5, I really felt no need to ejaculate. But this time, it felt different. I thought I had a problem with my prostate, or my bladder or my colon. I noticed too that my balls were starting to ache (especially my left one). Definitely not a good sign.
I swim almost every day and wear a jockstrap to keep my package in check through my suit. Before I started, I more or less decided that when I returned home, I was going to masturbate, ejaculate and “solve” this current bout of “blue-balls”. No big deal! But, hold-on, that is not the way it happened! Let me explain…..
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When I got into the shower and took off my suit and my jockstrap, I was impressed to see that I had developed a full-blown erection! It was almost as if my cock was begging me for a release, right there, right then….and so I obliged. I quickly “lubed-up” down there with some soap and began to tightly grasp mostly the glans of my cock and began a nice, vigorous stroking. And it wasn’t too long (maybe a minute or two) when I felt that I would cum. But instead of a “regular” ejaculation with some cum, this ejaculation was VERY powerful. I mean it! I felt the contractions way deep into my groin, in my prostate and in my balls. I almost lost my balance in the shower, that’s how powerful this ejaculation was! I didn’t notice an especially large amount of cum. But I did notice that I felt IMMEDIATELY BETTER! I felt a calming feeling in my groin that I have not felt in a long time (at least 3 days). It was almost as if my body was ‘rewarding’ me for this ejaculation by giving me this great feeling. (I can only draw a comparison to vaginal sex…..I felt an incredible release from this ejaculation, much like I used to do in my prime. This ejaculation felt “right” and “complete” and “sexually satisfying” for me. I wanted nothing more from it.)
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Lesson learned: I need to listen to my body and not watch the calendar. Even though I was only in Day 5 of SR, my body was telling me a different story. I am again on the SR path and starting my climb up the arousal mountain once again…..I am relating my experience to other guys who may also experience the intense ache of the “blue-balls” and are looking for a great way to relieve it.
PS I learned that even with regular Aneros sessions to relieve some internal pressure, that may not be enough! In the short-term, the prostate massage feels good and right, but when viewed from the position of male chastity and infrequent ejaculations, sometimes, a more “extreme” solution is necessary!
PS I noticed that I really didn’t have any “refraction feeling” from this ejaculation. I still felt very sexually “alive” even after this powerful ejaculation. My night-time erections continue unabated.
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/my-recent-blue-balls-experience/