Im 16 Years old,straight and a virgin. Im interested in trying prostate massage, so i thought about buying a prostate massenger from aneros. I heard about a men who became addicted to the aneros because of the resulting orgasms. He couldnt even masturbate “normally” with his penis because he didnt get any pleasure from it. The thing im concerned about is that the same thing could happen to me. Since im a virgin i never experienced sex and i dont wanna “destroy” my first time, just because prostate massaging can be so pleasurable. Am i just making my mind up or is this a real thing? If so, how to encounter this?
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chances of you getting ‘addicted’ are extremely extremely slim, I’ve had my aneros for just over a year and a half now and if anything it’s given me more frustration than pleasure as it’s very very hard to master and I masturbate regularly in between aneros sessions all the time as well.
I’ve had an aneros for nearly 2 years now. I guess I was one of the lucky one who got it working for me fairly early on. I can go weeks without use so no in my opinion not addictive. It’s never harmed my sex life nor given my problems when masturbating. If anything it has enhanced it. Don’t forget Aneros is not about penile orgasm but the whole body experience. If you would like more advice PM me.
The aneros strengthens the pelvic floor muscles and enhances awareness of the prostate. Stronger butt muscles means harder erections, stronger orgasms and better ejaculatory control. Prostate awareness also makes your orgasms stronger.
Maybe not the best example, but just because I have sex once doesn’t mean it ruins masturbation for me because it feels better, the same way that this doesn’t ruin sex for me just because prostate stimulation is better (in some ways).
It definitely won’t destroy your first time! If anything, it’ll massively improve it: you’ll be able to relax your muscles and mind, enjoy foreplay more because you know its value, and you’ll be able to shift your focus between your prostate and glans to last longer.
This is a chance to become aware of your body in a way that will change your life for the better forever. Did you see all the posts from people in their 50s and 60s who said their biggest regret is not discovering it earlier? Your awareness and curiosity will reward you greatly.
Also, if you have the means I’d recommend the excellent book “Guide to Getting It On”. The book isn’t about sexual tips as much as it is a foundation for a healthy happy sex life. It will answer all your scientific and social questions, give you a good base for communication and teach you some key ideas for when you have a partner.
Knowledge is power, especially about secretive subjects like sex. Given the chance, educate yourself and you’ll be ahead of 95% of people of all ages.
It’s only going to be what you want it to be.
I’ve never had any issues personally. Been sexually active for about a decade. Been using my Aneros for like 8 years. It definitely enhances things. Especially when we’re having sex.
I’ve never had anal sex with a man (and I don’t intend to) but with an Aneros rubbing you the right way inside and your girlfriend rubbing you the right way outside, it’s the best feeling I’ve ever had.