“Exploring The Two “Male Chastities”

Bacground: I am awakened in the middle of the night, wearing my XO “chastity cup”. I am currently in Day 9 of semen retention and feeling extremely horny. My cock is throbbing rhythmically and I honestly feel that I am on my way towards a wet dream or an auto-ejaculation. I feel my prostate throbbing with every pulse. Now, normally, I would “decide” on an Aneros session right there, right then. But following a brief respite listening to some nice tracks this morning, I headed back to bed. And it suddenly dawned on me…..

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Aren’t there actually TWO male “chastities”? A strange concept you may ask. Not really. Let me explain…..

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The “first chastity”—-“normal” or “regular” male chastity—- is well-known; I have been practicing it for a while now. I usually wear a “chastity cup” to bed and that prevents me from masturbating and ejaculating. It works very well and is very sexually stimulating. Of course, this is all self-imposed—-I can stop the play and masturbate/ejaculate whenever I want. But it is mind-blowing to continue playing. There are all sorts of pleasures to be had—wet dreams, for one. Spontaneous erections and arousals that rock me to my sexual core. Sometimes it is too much to bear.

But there is another “chastity”, a “second chastity” if you will—I’ll call it prostate chastity (or Aneros chastity)—that takes male chastity to a new level. Now normally, when I practice “regular” male chastity and feel the need for an Aneros session, I give-in immediately and have a session. I may experience p-waves, dry-o’s and perhaps a super-o! But what if I “withhold” the Aneros session from myself? What if I deny myself the pleasure of the Aneros session? This is the essence of “Aneros Chastity”.

I realize that for men in regular chastity like myself, an occasional ejaculatory “release” is necessary for prostate health. Even a “keyholder” would normally allow for periodic “teasing” and orgasmic release. I am not suggesting that all sexual pleasure is withheld indefinitely from the male. That would be wrong and unbearably frustrating for him. Yes, he will eventually have to have a wet dream. That will relieve him of excess semen and will also exercise his prostate. But there is another way.

The Aneros sessions can be “controlled” just as if there was a defined schedule for orgasmic release of semen. In essence, the Aneros sessions would be self-controlled (by me) and dictated not by how I am feeling but more within a set “schedule”. I would have a periodic “therapeutic session” of Aneros prostate massage, usually without an ejaculation. Would this “Aneros chastity” ramp-up the pleasurable feelings during a session? Undoubtedly so.

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I have been having too frequent Aneros sessions (for prostate health) lately—I haven’t counted them but I’ll bet there have been at least 5 or 6 in the past week. Is this too many? I think so, not because they don’t feel good, but because I am now too accustomed to them. Perhaps that is why some sessions lately are “duds”. They are just too frequent. I need to pull-back and withhold some of them.

How am I to accomplish this? Well, I use my calendar now to “count” my SR days and it works out very well. When I ejaculate (as I must sometimes, even through a wet dream) I mark an “E” on my calendar for a regular ejaculation (“WD” for a wet dream) and move-on again from Day 1 (but not for a wet dream). So I can mark my calendar with an “A” (for Aneros session) in the same way.

Will this work? Yes it can, but only if I adhere to the schedule. The only thing that needs to be decided is the frequency of sessions. HIH recommends sessions 2-3 times a week for 30-45 minutes each. So I suppose that 3 times a week would be a good starting point. That would put me immediately into “Aneros chastity”. Let’s say M-W-F with the weekends off. Today is Tuesday, so I can’t have a session until tomorrow night! S**t! Can I hold-off until then? I think I can but I know I must! Will I be able to hold-on with the two “chastities”? Will it be harder to hold-onto my semen? Will my prostate be throbbing more with Aless? I hope the answers are Yes, Yes and Yes!

Will my Aneros sessions be “better”? Ah, that is the essence of the two male “chastities”!

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