I got myself a Progasm. It’s my first Aneros product. I’ve used it for about a week. I’m having a few issues.
I only experience sensation on my prostate when I really clench my butt cheeks, sphincter and K-muscles. Even then, the sensation isn’t so intense. Rather mild. When I relax the sphincter, I no longer feel the Progasm. I’ve tried a lot of different positions. Lying down flat, with knees up, on my chest, on the side, sitting upright. Nothing really enhances the feeling.
I went for the Prograsm first because I’m an experienced bottom, and the times when I’ve had amazing anal sex were when the guy was pretty big. Before getting an Aneros, I had purchased a small stubby silicone prostate massager that did nothing for me.
Anyway, I’m wondering if maybe the angle’s not right for me on the Progasm, or if it’s too small. For the record, the guys who’ve topped me always compliment me on how tight my hole is. I’m 5’11, 165 lbs, muscular fit body, mid 30s.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/87yohf/progasm_not_big_enough/
If you’re hoping to work up to dry orgasms and all that, the size isn’t so important. The Progasm is almost surely big enough for that use. It’s pretty likely that you’ll feel prostate contact as you get more physically and mentally aroused.
As an experienced bottom you have a headstart on most Aneros users when it comes to prep, relaxation and all of that. Still, it’ll probably serve you best to drop your expectations connected to either ejaculatory orgasms or past anal experiences. Try to relax and focus on each tiny sensation, enjoying it completely. Don’t hope for more or try to push to the next level. Before you know it, you might find that your feelings are changing!
I’d try the trident Maximus. From what you describe, I think that would really do the trick for you.