[Definition of virile–“having the nature, properties, or qualities of an adult male; specifically: capable of functioning as a male in copulation” ] [Definition of copulation–“engaging in sexual intercourse where the penis is inserted into the vagina”]
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Background
Currently in Day 13 of SR with no blue-balls. Getting quite horny and having random erections throughout the day. No wet dream yet. I would welcome an ejaculation but feel there is no great need to have one just yet. But the mental pressure for it is getting fairly intense. How long can I go?
Session
Continuing “squeezing” my prostate to release fluid, I selected my MGX early this morning for a nice session. It released a lot of prostate fluid into the cup of my SD jock. During the 20-minute session, I thought about how good it would feel to ejaculate, perhaps through a HFWO. But afterwards, I decided to take-off the SD jock and just wear a pair of silky boxers. I went to lie-down and relax some more. My cock was flaccid, but I started fondling my very sensitive package, especially the scrotum. This turned into something of a fantasy, as I am in bed with my lover and she is very gently caressing my package all-over, not with the intent of making me ejaculate, but rather to give me an orgasmic sensation in my groin. This she did perfectly! At the end, however, I was not erect.
After about 20 minutes of stimulation, I felt it was time to “protect my virility”; so I put-on my Safe-T-Gard jock (with Cage Cup). I felt a little too close to coming near the PONR and ejaculating. I am now prevented from “firing the gun” until a more appropriate time, perhaps with my wife later-on today. Thank goodness for the “chastity cup”! It has the “willpower” that I lack!
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PS Entry into longer-duration semen retention (SR), in my opinion, takes me to a place and especially to a mental state that I seldom explore. What is the thought process during this time? Again, for me it is like a dam holding back a great lake of powerful water. The water (fluid) is being released a little at a time, through prostate stimulation. And as much as an ejaculation would feel great, it is not that I don’t want one, but rather I would rather postpone that intense pleasure. And that pleasure is best reserved for the proper time, the proper place, for copulation. A stimulating thought! Touche’.
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/protecting-my-virility/