Hello!
I’ll bet you’re wondering: I know the answer! Do you? I thought about this too…..The answer is not an ejaculation! Surprised? Let me explain……
The Truth
What came next for me was an Aneros session. I selected the HIH 950 for my prostate’s health. This massager does its job without being overbearing. There is just enough stimulation of my prostate to help me relax into erotic bliss. During this 30-minute session, I tried to relax as completely as possible. But it isn’t easy, for every so often, I would get a ‘jolt’ of pleasure that caused me to tense-up my anal sphincter around the massager. Usually, when this happens, I can feel my erection starting to build-up as well. I know I am experiencing some prostate orgasms when this happens.
Male Chastity Interaction
For this session, I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” and also a condom on my erect cock. I like the stimulation the condom provides against it due to the added silicone lube. Oh, what a feeling! At one point, I removed the cup and squirmed-around on the bed, causing even more prostate pleasure! But I was careful not to stimulate it too much: no ejaculation for me at this time!
What next?
Of course, for me (now in Day 10 of SR) it is not an ejaculation! I am enjoying the “High-T” feeling I get when I surpass Day 7. This build-up is for real and is supported by hard data. An ejaculation now would only deflate that feeling and so, barring any ‘blue-balls’ discomfort (to which I subscribe) I will continue this “journey” as long as I am able to enjoy it! These “daily” Aneros sessions for me are mostly therapeutic since they help with my BPH symptoms. I look forward to them and now consider them to be part of my daily “ritual”—-like going to the bathroom or brushing my teeth! No, masturbation and ejaculation are not part of my routine now. I feel quite fine and “normal” without them, thank you!
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I find that following a nice Aneros therapeutic massage session, I am frequently flaccid (almost like in a refractory period). How long does this last? Not sure–could be minutes or hours. I find that, as much as I want to re-stimulate my cock and achieve another erection, it is best to let nature take it’s course—-I don’t go looking for another erection! I just let the next erection come-a-lookin’ for me! Guaranteed, it will find me! But I have to be patient!
PS I am now refraining from watching all porn: I find (and read) that it can be counter-productive to my Aneros journey. It may also help me along the path to achieving another wet dream! It isn’t easy, but I believe it helps to boost my ‘erotic imagination’.
PS Yes, there was a fantasy associated with this massage. It was my ‘tried-and-true’ urologist’s “prep” where I was instructed to completely relax my anus during this 30-minute session. And I was told that I may ejaculate from the stimulation! It wasn’t easy! But I made it to the end without cumming!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/after-the-erection-and-arousal-what-comes-next/