Narrative
My practice of self-imposed male chastity grew out of the parallel practice of semen retention. And my interest in semen retention developed as a result of wanting more out of my Aneros sessions. But what is it about male chastity that is so intriguing, so stimulating? Here is my point of view…..
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In my case, I wanted to put an end to my habit of male masturbation. It’s really that simple. My foray into the world of cock cages and then “chastity cups” enabled me to “block” access to my cock so that I could not masturbate nor ejaculate at will anymore. Of course, this is not a 24/7 arrangement for me (like it is for men in chastity with keyholders). But it is of a long-enough duration that I can be mentally “teased” with orgasm denial just long enough to make it pleasurably unbearable for me. After 5 days, 10 days or 12 days (like I just experienced) of orgasm denial, I am climbing the walls in anticipation of an ejaculation. Denying a male his orgasm (ergo, his ejaculation) is a powerful thing, one not to be taken too lightly. The subsequent arousal caused by denying masturbation is intense and may not be tolerated well by all men.
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Why did I “progress” from a male cock cage (I have the CB-6000S which I don’t wear now) to a “chastity cup” (essentially a jockstrap with a hard cup)? Simple! The cup prevents me from masturbating but it also denies me the pleasure of SEEING my package! I can’t see or touch my cock (erect or otherwise). I can’t see or touch my sensitive scrotum, which I use in bringing myself to orgasm and ejaculation. I can’t see or touch my perineum which stimulates my prostate and makes the ejaculation that much better. Therefore, the cup denies me all the sexual pleasures that I crave. Of course, I can end it and just remove the cup. But if I have the desire and fortitude to continue to play the “chastity game”, the benefits are multitude!
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For me, playing the “chastity game” induces a certain mindset towards sex and especially ejaculation. The self-imposed denial of orgasm (hence, ejaculation) creates an internal conflict in my mind regarding sexual release. It doesn’t become an automatic thing, available whenever and wherever I desire. It says “NO!” when I am anticipating and craving a masturbation session. It says “NO!” when I have a very powerful night-time erection and want to end that prolonged, agonizing pleasure. It says “NO!” when I just want to have a leisurely edging or surfing session without an anticipation of an ejaculation. It says “NO!” “NOT NOW!” “NO WAY!” And to add insult to injury, I can’t even SEE my package! Get the point? Touche’.
PS I should mention that just like when a ” keyholder” allows her locked-up man a release and some pleasure, I sometimes do the same with my “chastity cups”. I allow myself to remove the cup and put-on something more accessible like silky boxers which allow me to see my bulge and actually fondle my package through a veil. But just like a keyholder that teases then returns her male back to chastity, I generally do not “allow” much pleasure to develop. And I will rarely be “allowed” an ejaculation (similarly, it is up to the keyholder’s discretion). I am teased “just-enough” to keep me aroused and somewhat satisfied but obviously wanting more! Ah, the mysteries of male chastity!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/male-chastity-i-want-to-touch-myself-but-i-cant-even-see-myself/