Introduction
Yes, a most unusual meditation. But it developed quite naturally. Here are the details…
I awoke early morning with a stiff erection and decided to put-on my Mueller “chastity cup”. I went back to sleep but awoke again, this time near the PONR which felt so good. I really felt close to an ejaculation. That feeling lasted perhaps 15 to 20 minutes. Then the erection subsided and I decided to listen to some soothing, erotic tracks. As I began to listen, I seemed to fall into a most unusual meditation…
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Meditation
As I seem to have a fetish for jockstraps and now, hard cup jocks, it seemed only natural that this would become a topic of meditation. I began to dwell on the concept of jockstraps as underwear. And it dawned on me that, yes, both of these mundane objects are really nothing more than underwear!
A jockstrap is nothing more than a flexible “pouch” of elastic material that is designed to support the male genitals. It resembles male underwear in the way it is designed (give-or-take a few elements) and the way it is worn. But it is in the wearing of it that it becomes an object of sexual stimulation. A lot of guys (myself included) probably can’t help but get an erection while wearing one. And that tight, stimulating “support” only intensifies the feeling.
Now, turning attention to a hard-cup jockstrap, the same rationale can be applied. Looking at it as a regular jockstrap with the addition of a hard plastic cup to protect the male genitals during rough physical activities such as baseball, it can be seen that this garment too is nothing more than male underwear. But in wearing it, it seems to stimulate the genitals in a way that becomes quite sexual for some men (including me). I for one seem to get very turned-on through wearing one and that is why I probably would call this a fetish. Is it normal? Probably not, but there are a lot of non-human objects that serve the same purpose for both men and women.
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“Unmasking” the Fetish
Now the interesting thing about this meditation was that it didn’t have to become sexual, only if I allowed it to be. So while listening to tracks and wearing my hard cup jockstrap, I thought of it only as wearing some underwear and the sexual stimulation seemed to wane. It was as if I turned-off a “switch” in my brain to disconnect the object of fetishism from my sexual response. And it worked!
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Connection with Aneros
Turning to Aneros, I began to meditate on the connection between prostate stimulation, health effects and sexual release. And what I discovered was that the prostate stimulation, of itself, is quite therapeutic in that it energizes and nudges the prostate to wake-up and release some of its fluid. It also has been proven to relieve the symptoms of BPH. But in the process, this can also become quite a sexually-arousing experience and I would bet that most Aneros aficionados (including myself) see the Aneros “tools” in this light. But in order to achieve the prostate orgasms (including the Super-Os) that we crave, we need to ‘connect’ in our brains what we are feeling in our prostates and our sexual pleasure. It isn’t hard to do, is it? Prostate stimulation, of itself, is not designed to be sexual. But as the original High Island Health (HIH) massagers proved, there is a sexual element to them. And that is basically how Aneros was born!
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Conclusion
I learned to “disconnect” my fetishes from reality: in this case male jockstraps and those with hard cups. They are, in reality, nothing more than underwear, protection for the male genitals. But for some men (myself included) these objects elicit powerful sexual responses, to the point of orgasm and ejaculation. Sexual fetishes are quite common among both men and women and may become problematic.
“A sexual fetish may be regarded as a non-pathological aid to sexual excitement, or as a mental disorder if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life.”
So keep the sexual fetish in its proper place and it can be a great fantasy “tool” in your sexual repertoire. Touche’!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/underwear-unmasked-a-sexual-fetish-meditation/