I was thinking about all the sexual things I do, except for actual (p.i.v.)* sex. Do they all have something in common? Yes they do—-almost all of them involve some sort of “dance” around——an ejaculation!
Thinking about it, all the Aneros sessions, all the prostate play, all the pseudo male chastity play really has one goal in mind: ejaculation! Ah, but it is in “dance” that it all becomes worthwhile, almost like an art form! The idea is: how far can I go without ejaculating? How much stimulation can I endure before I have to blow the load?
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How far can I go? Here, I am referring to the practice of semen retention. For those guys that have never tried it, I would recommend it. It is a way of boosting your overall sexual response to any form of stimulation. Even by itself, just the practice of withholding semen will boost your testosterone level by almost 50%! You are sure to feel the results; I sure do! But one caveat—blue balls! I can get them, and usually do, after about 7 days of SR. For me, this “dance” ends and another one starts.
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How much stimulation can I endure? Here, there are two things in play. First, how far can an Aneros prostate massage take me towards a HFWO? I have never experience one but that doesn’t mean that I never will. After all, it is very “fun” trying! Second, any kind of “bate” session can turn into something much more than the obvious. There are all kinds of articles that can be incorporated, jockstraps and cock cages for example. The web-based ‘edgemeplease.com’ is another way. Lubes, condoms, anal toys, the list is endless. Don’t forget the fantasy world. These sexual fantasies will take me to the PONR and beyond. The point is: how close to ejaculating can I actually come without “finishing it off”?
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The “best” part of the dance (or race) is this—–when one ends, another is sure to follow! Thank goodness for that! No “one-and-done” for me!
* Thanks @somebody for the tip!
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Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/is-this-a-dance-is-this-a-race/