I’m a 30 year old gay man and I used an ameros for the 1st time. I just tried anal sex one time, but it went horrible because at that time I didn’t know about how to clean my ass right, so I never tried again. Today I used my aneros Progasm, which is recommended for intermediate users, however it wasn’t a problem for me to insert it and leave it in my ass. I was horny, I watched some porn and then inserted my progasm. I did some contractions so it stimulates my prostate, but it wasn’t as pleasant as I expected. So I worked it manually and I know I was hitting the right spot because my penis was getting really wet. I played with the prograsm for more than an hour, but however I didn’t reach the called “super o”, so then I just masturbated as usual. Any suggestions on how to use it? Thanks in advance.
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Have a read of this sub, many have spent a year or more in search of the holy grail of prostate orgasm, it isn’t going to happen on your first try, there’s a journey ahead.
Imma copy and paste one of my older comments:
Ok, so let me say this: The idea that a guy can put an Aneros in and suddenly feel like God himself is sending waves of angel fingers to caress your prostate into a mind blowing orgasm where you see colors in the infrared spectrum is utterly horseshit. If you had an amazing experience the first time in, you are EXTREMELY lucky and a rare, not normal case.
My first time with my Progasm was after years of anal play already under me belt. Felt “meh” being in there, I edged like crazy, felt small glimmers of pleasure but nothing great. Came buckets, but I had been edging all weekend at the time. The point is that it wasn’t great. It was just… Meh.
But I stuck with it. It’s a rewiring process, not a rewiring switch that just clicks. I can put on Progasm in now and, if the mood is right, I instantly feel p-waves and spasm involuntarily. That’s after months of use, and I consider myself lucky its only taken that long.
You have to relearn what an orgasm is, and you have to relearn how to get there. That’s not done in one session. Or two. Or twenty. It’s highly a mental game. But when you get there, it’s pleasure in its purest form. And it’s made every other sexual act more pleasurable through the learning process.
First: stop trying to make things happen. That’s the fastest way to make things not happen. I never urposely clench or flex. I lay on my side (started on my back, side is way better) and relax. I try to imagine my butt hole relaxing, my pelvic floor relaxing, like I’m trying to piss without pushing. Just relax.
Secondly, if you get pleasure, don’t chase it. Enjoy it. Don’t try harder to get more of it. Just enjoy it as it dances to and away from you. It’s like feeding a squirrel by hand. If he nibbles the first nut in the line to your hand, you don’t bull rush it whipping nuts at it. You wait patiently, enjoying every little step closer it takes. It’ll retreat. It’ll come back closer. And you will build an understanding. Guys traditionally think that harder and faster is better. Stop thinking like a guy and think like a woman: consistency. Steady rhythm. These will win the day. Not pushing speeds or timing.
Finally breathe. Breathe steady. Slowly. From the stomach, not the chest. Breathe even, breathe deeply. Through the mouth, ideally. And either look at nothing, or close your eyes and focus on the feelings you are having, not what you expect to have. Not what you want to have. If you are experiencing a small amount of pleasure, thank it for its company and sit with it for a while. Don’t bemoan how it’s not enough for you. Don’t expect the next move, just enjoy the current moment.
And don’t read guides or ‘how to’s. They full your head up with rules and techniques. Just three things: breathe. Relax. Enjoy.
I genuinely hope this helps. The Aneros is the most powerful sexual experience in terms of raw pleasure I have ever felt. It’s been an immense sexual awakening for me. The biggest sexual influence for me in my life, and I say that with zero exaggeration. I firmly believe men of all walks can benefit from this type of pleasure and self awakening (at the risk of sounding too spiritual). I hope you succeed.